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Jesus is not against divorce Jesus is for everything. Divorce or non divorce. It's all about peace. If it's not working respectfully separate and not habour hate. Yes we get it wrong most times.
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However the Jesus way is that which teaches perseverance and long suffering. If you say you love someone, or you have love within ..that doctrine should be put to the test. And no other thing put that doctrine to such test than marriage. Your claim of forgiveness, truth,hope,faith, kindness, perseverance, strength mental and otherwise. Are put to the test in marriage. If you fail it. Then sorry you don't have that which you claim to have. Certainly not in the measure you claim.

Note:. you did not fail Christ. You failed to live up to ur own claims. That not Christ that's you. Christ is fine. He loves and has already forgiven you. We just men and it's our natural place to fall short.

bonnyhope:
Yes!

Application of knowledge always a challenge especially to the blacks

Thank God I am not totally black

I laugh in chinese~chang yi cho,chang yi cho. So if you are half chinese & half black, i guess that makes you BLACKINESE. SMH for the life of some of my partially-black brothers. Wetin come be my own inside sef, me wey no be totally white.

xpressionx:
Do no marry because others are getting married.
Do not married because of your libido.
Marry someone who is your friend,who you find fulfilment in gisting with,if love becomes shaky,that friendship can sustain it till it finds it stand.

But most of you said NO.

Na big nyash,big bress
Deep pocket and long prick una dey find.

Why divorce to go bokwu?

this one na learner....
Even if you marry your best friend, una fit still turn enemy overnight. People change and marriage is not an exception. Those wey choose to stay do so out of their own will.

Adakintroy:
Jesus is not against divorce Jesus is for everything. Divorce or non divorce. It's all about peace. If it's not working respectfully separate and not habour hate. Yes we get it wrong most times.
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However the Jesus way is that which teaches perseverance and long suffering. If you say you love someone, or you have love within ..that doctrine should be put to the test. And no other thing put that doctrine to such test than marriage. Your claim of forgiveness, truth,hope,faith, kindness, perseverance, strength mental and otherwise. Are put to the test in marriage. If you fail it. Then sorry you don't have that which you claim to have. Certainly not in the measure you claim.

Note:. you did not fail Christ. You failed to live up to ur own claims. That not Christ that's you. Christ is fine. He loves and has already forgiven you. We just men and it's our natural place to fall short.

very objective and full of facts. More wisdom

He's talking nonsense!!!

Quote me anywhere.

That's what I preach yesterday:

People now SLIM FIT God's word to meet their selfish Ambitions.

Maybe he's eyeing one sister now.

That's why Jesus is always Crying anytime He appears because the Generals He called has started behaving like the First Bird Noah Released from the Ark. Which refused to return to Noah again because the dead bodies (food) it saw.

xpressionx:
Do no marry because others are getting married.
Do not married because of your libido.
Marry someone who is your friend,who you find fulfilment in gisting with,if love becomes shaky,that friendship can sustain it till it finds it stand.

But most of you said NO.

Na big nyash,big bress
Deep pocket and long prick una dey find.

Why divorce to go bokwu?

Brilliant.. Wisdom... Please loud this.

pongwa:
very objective and full of facts. More wisdom

Thanks.

chaddy16:
You don't need a pastor to tell you what is right or wrong. We all know the right thing to do. Leave all these fake men of God. We are in the end times. Carry your Bible, read and understand the preachings.


God is love

Exactly bro

Agricaddict:
Christians and confusion

Its those that study their pastor instead of the Bible that are confused

xpressionx:
Do no marry because others are getting married.
Do not married because of your libido.
Marry someone who is your friend,who you find fulfilment in gisting with,if love becomes shaky,that friendship can sustain it till it finds it stand.

But most of you said NO.

Na big nyash,big bress
Deep pocket and long prick una dey find.

Why divorce to go bokwu?

Even friendship doesn't last forever. What is friendship if blood brothers doesn't see eye to eye.

No universal formula when it comes to marriage. I can give you list of friends turned couples that are no longer together

Matthew 5: 32 . But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.


This passage is clear. Anyone who is divorced MUST REMAIN UNMARRIED, only confusion is what happens with the man. Is it permissible for him to remarry, since its the wife's adultery that made him seek a divorce.

https://www.fellowshipar.com/about/our-beliefs/position-papers/divorce-and-remarriage/#:~:text=Jesus%20gives%20permission%20for%20someone,raises%20the%20issue%20of%20remarriage.

xpressionx:
Do no marry because others are getting married.
Do not married because of your libido.
Marry someone who is your friend,who you find fulfilment in gisting with,if love becomes shaky,that friendship can sustain it till it finds it stand.

But most of you said NO.

Na big nyash,big bress
Deep pocket and long prick una dey find.

Why divorce to go bokwu?

This is a moot point. Very debatable. even hypocritical.

Why?

Because if you believe that people should consider marrying only those who they are friends with, it shifts the attraction criteria (that would have been for marriage alone) down to friendships.

I.e. By being friends (opposite sex) only with those among whom I would derive my wife, I will befriend mostly those I find attractive enough for marriage.

So the friendship is essentially a mirage within which my marriage intentions lie beneath.

baggioni:

The Bible Standard vs The world standard
Brethren, choose wisely

You are blessed bro!�

Sonoyom:
So many perspective.

Nothing like 'so many perspectives '.
Is what the Pastor saying a biblical perspective,let him quote Jesus Christ faithfully on this!
Most of the On Line Pastors just want to be relevant by bending the Biblical Principles!

It's clearly written that it's a sin

Luke 16:18 "Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery"

Others: 1 Corinthians 7:10,11,39;

xpressionx:
Do no marry because others are getting married.
Do not married because of your libido.
Marry someone who is your friend,who you find fulfilment in gisting with,if love becomes shaky,that friendship can sustain it till it finds it stand.

But most of you said NO.

Na big nyash,big bress
Deep pocket and long prick una dey find.

Why divorce no go bokwu?

ADDENDUM:

WHAT I MEAN MARRY YOUR FRIEND NOT TONTOBAND BOBRISKY KIND OF FRIEND.

I MEAN WHEN YOU SEE WHO YOU LIKE MAKE SURE HE OR SHE IS SOMEONE WHO YOU VIBE ON SAME INTELLECTUAL AND HUMOUR FREQUENCY.

After this motivation you will still create a topic saying this is not the woman I married. Abeg leave talk for preacher

GistFullGround:
https://www.fellowshipar.com/about/our-beliefs/position-papers/divorce-and-remarriage/#:~:text=Jesus%20gives%20permission%20for%20someone,raises%20the%20issue%20of%20remarriage.

Jesus said a man should not put away his wife except it's because of fornication. Jesus did not give permission to remarry.
Even saying 'anyone that marries her that is put away is commiting adultery'

For even clearer stance, Read
1 Corinthians 7:10-11,39; Mark 10:11-12, Luke 16:18

Let these SCRIPTURES ABOVE sink into your skull cerebrum

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He is not right on this. Jesus said the only ground you can divorce your wife is based on sexual unfaithfulness.
But on cases of violence and threat to life, I feel it is also appropriate to divorce and remarry.
It all depends on how the holy Spirit leads. But the bottom line is that it is not advisable to put a spouse away just for common issues that can be resolved.

Mayeldah:
He is not right on this. Jesus said the only ground you can divorce your wife is based on sexual unfaithfulness.
But on cases of violence and threat to life, I feel it is also appropriate to divorce and remarry.
It all depends on how the holy Spirit leads. But the bottom line is that it is not advisable to put a spouse away just for common issues that can be resolved.

Read what I wrote above, marriage is for better, for worse.
You cannot remarry until the man or woman.. is dead 1corinthians 7:10-11,39

justdream:
Matthew 5: 32 . But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.


This passage is clear. Anyone who is divorced MUST REMAIN UNMARRIED, only confusion is what happens with the man. Is it permissible for him to remarry, since its the wife's adultery that made him seek a divorce.

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Brethren, the Word of God is not subject to human opinions. It is a Command that you keep and be blessed or disobey and suffer the consequences.

Bluntemperor:
Nothing like 'so many perspectives '.
Is what the Pastor saying a biblical perspective,let him quote Jesus Christ faithfully on this!
Most of the On Line Pastors just want to be relevant by bending the Biblical Principles!

I don't think you understand English Language.

My brother, just to Correct you, Jesus said a person can only separate from his/her spouse on the basis of adultery, such a person would remain single and not marry again.. There is a difference between Seperation and Divorce. Jesus never supported divorce in the Bible. As a matter of fact, God hate’s divorce…

Who ever separates should never get married. It is boldly written in the Bible

LagBlogger:
Jesus was clear about what he meant.

Divorced people can only remarry based on marital unfaithfulness which is not adultery or on the death of your spouse.

Pastorprenuers and prophetprenuers, una Sabi lie up and down. You dey find way tokill the Padi man nack him wife bah. Dear is God ohh

EVEN GOD SAID HE WILL GIVE YOU PASTOR ACCORDING TO HIS HEART..(Jeremiah 3:15). GOD KNOWS YOU NEED PASTOR, BUT ANTI-CHRIST AND STINKING SERPENTS LIKE YOU WILL COME ONLINE AND BE GIVING DEMONIC ADVICE; JUST TO TURN PEOPLE AWAY FROM THE FAITH. BUT NO TRUE CHILD OF GOD EVER FALLS FOR ALL THESE TRASH FROM YOU AND YOUR LIKES. IF YOU DON'T COME OUT OF DARKNESS AND WICKEDNESS THE WRATH OF GOD WILL CONSUME YOU.

chaddy16:
You don't need a pastor to tell you what is right or wrong. We all know the right thing to do. Leave all these fake men of God. We are in the end times. Carry your Bible, read and understand the preachings.


God is love

chingydaboss:
My brother, just to Correct you, Jesus said a person can only separate from his/her spouse on the basis of adultery, such a person would remain single and not marry again.. There is a difference between Seperation and Divorce. Jesus never supported divorce in the Bible. As a matter of fact, God hate’s divorce…

Who ever separates should never get married. It is boldly written in the Bible

Actually he said on the basis of marital unfaithfulness which when loosely interpreted means infidelity.

Adultery is a form of infidelity bit not sufficient for divorce.

LagBlogger:
Jesus was clear about what he meant.

Divorced people can only remarry based on marital unfaithfulness which is not adultery or on the death of your spouse.

What is marital unfaithfulness that is not adultery? And how do you reconcile yourself with this:

“Any man who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery; and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery."
Luke 16:18

This is false teaching. You can't explain the bible with your grammar because it wasn't written with our current English language. You need to always read it in its context.

The Greek word for 'put away' is apoluo. And it means to "set free, to relieve, to dismiss, to release, to depart, to let go, to let loose, to send away and specifically to divorce. Jesus was clear on what putting away means and it means divorce and not 'separation'.

Jesus also said 'Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to (put away) your wives'. So to put away is to divorce and whosoever marries after this is adultery. No more, no less.

LagBlogger:
Jesus was clear about what he meant.

Divorced people can only remarry based on marital unfaithfulness which is not adultery or on the death of your spouse.

That was what he said.
He went further to explain that if one cannot forgive that, he can issue a divorce properly before any of the parties can get another partner again.

If the above is not done, any party involved and a another person coming to marry them are all wrong biblically