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Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by shyna501: 3:06pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
So, as you reported your subordinate to us now, what do you want us to do. Definitely you've not been nice to him/her. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 3:08pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion:for me, whenever I experienced wicked people like that, I activate violence mode immediately, that's why I can't work under anybody. My last employer called police for me, I broke one of her hand before police arrive, when I return from cell after 3days, I went back to the office to pack my remaining stuff, my guy ran away thinking I came for another attack. No peace anywhere. Violence is encouraged in this wicked society. But now I have more than 30people working for me and I pay salary. You can never differentiate who is the director between me and my workers because of good working relationship 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by CaptainZubi: 3:08pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Minjim:Avoid getting in a fight with a lady at work or anywhere. The wey they will start shouting on top of their voice na you go dey beg her to stop sef. Many of them are mannerless and petty. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by We4all: 3:09pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Kentuforchrist: Are you proud of yourself? |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Diligent1(f): 3:09pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
pocohantas:My sister, I know you will be an Igbo woman |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Diligent1(f): 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
pocohantas:My sister, I know you will be an Igbo woman, but I like you sha |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by feedthenation(m): 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
---Mine was having a strong heated discussion with the head of another business function who thinks she knows it all---the consequence was that i missed out on the end of year bonus and pay rise---because she has influence in high places--- |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by judedwriter(m): 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
If you were self employed, you wouldn't be going through all these embarrassments... Anyways, an organization without order is like a child playing with a loaded pistol. She should be called to order. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by DSC7: 3:10pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Revolution2022: Na same place una dey work? |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ceede2: 3:11pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion:You are not the HR!! If you ever mind business that insult could have passed by, leave HR work for him/her besides, if she's wrong will the blame come to you. Except is a joint work which I thought it. I too know they put person for trouble sometimes. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Rhozabeth(m): 3:12pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion:Some women have this thing about lying that u asked them out and they declined, thats why you are harassing them! That is why u have to be tactical in dealing with this and make sure your hands are clean! With all that in place you have a case. Don't hesitate to write rhe report. I have been a victim of such character, so i know what am saying. Note also that if she gets away with it, she will do it again, that is how those kimd of women behave. As an HR practioner, I know how these things play out, if u don't have sufficient prove, guy u might be nailed for what u know nothing about, so be sensible in dealing with the issue. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by appliedscience(m): 3:15pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
I think I am guilty of shouting at my subordinate was their wrongs , especially when I have corrected the same error over n over.... Each time I raise my voice, I later on try to help them erase my initial shout from their mind ,usualy with a joke: 1. So they know it nothing personal. Just work! 2. re-iterate the need to take caution and to know the likely consequence of their action or inaction. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:15pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
..... One of my machine operator doesn't understand anything unless I shouted at him. In fact na him make me dey get hbp but I can't sack him because he knows his job but a drunk. Lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Teymanhenry(f): 3:15pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion: Been facing this at work recently. This very lady is having a crush on me. I always pretended I didnt get her motive. When she realised I have a fiancee, boom all the beefing, shouting and attitude started... Just looking at her sha, month end I collect salary 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ajayiopy: 3:16pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion: IF YOU HAVE GOOD HEART,YOU CAN CALL HIM AND FIND OUT WHY SUCH BEHAVIOR . WHATEVER,THE OUTCOME SOUND HIM WARNING THAT YOU WILL ALLOW THIS PAST BUT THE REPEAT WILL LAND ON HR DESK |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by rollandben(m): 3:18pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Probably you shouted at him/her at the wrong time |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Rhozabeth(m): 3:18pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
ceede2:Even if the blame does not come to you for her wrong doing, would you watch and let one person rubbish the work of an entire team? Where i work, we have a slogan that says "if u see it, own it" because if u choose to be unconcerned, that error/wrongdoing might come back to hunt either you, the team and by extension company! Not all matters need to get to HR before they are thrashed out! 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by madgoat(m): 3:19pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
pocohantas: Signs of your bad home training It must manifest even in the shadows. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by gigabyte13: 3:19pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
You didn't tell us the part you were shouting at her in the name of correction. If you had corrected her gently, she no go shout. Na so una go dey harass una surbodinate in the name of correction. I have been there before, so l understood why , you were shouted on. Una need am atimes to show say, nobody be anybody slave for place of work NA WERTIN WE GO CHOP ALL OF US DEY LOOK FOR, INCLUDING YOU D SO CALL BOSS. AFTERALL ONLY YOU NO GO FIT DO THE WHOLE WORK EVEN WITH ALL UR POSITION AND EXPERTISE |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by phemmyfour: 3:21pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion:Most times when you shout, you will not know that you are shouting. You can have a one-one chat with her. Not everyone loves to be shout at. Shouting people down bruise their self esteem and they usually fight back by shouting in return 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ceede2: 3:21pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
ceede2:......abeg say na me write this jargons? Bad mood. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by blackpanda: 3:23pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Many of u can never work in public sector where we take shit on a daily. Anger and frustration can easily plague u if u don't take care. Shouting onbyour boss is a deathtrap 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Kentuforchrist(m): 3:23pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
We4all: I hate intimidation Becos am keeping quiet that doesn’t mean u should take me for a fool |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by chiderakele: 3:23pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
its annoying. but i think its more than what you stated. i want to hear from the lady |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Ybaby: 3:24pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion: She is genenration X and she will soon be claiming mental health. Plot for her to be sacked..... she is very silly. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ceede2: 3:26pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Rhozabeth:...bro if it's team work is a different idea she won't have that energy to talk back at you, I have learned to mind my business even at work it has save me a lot of stress. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by NigeriaEngineer(m): 3:33pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion:i love your sincerity. We learn daily |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ransomed: 3:34pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
The generation of Eve are unpredictable. Correct them openly, you are shouting, correct them one on one , you are harassing them sexually. Next time, let your pen sign the correction and copy HR. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Rhozabeth(m): 3:37pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
ceede2:I get you but i guess you are talking from the point of view of a coworker, if u are a supervisor (direct or indirect), would you do that? However, as a coworker there is a way to correct an erring colleague that would not result to argument or quarrel. But my advice as an HR practioner, when u see someone doing the wrong thing whether they are a member of you team or not, pls speak up! Your speaking up may safe lives! You also said something about saving u stress, not speaking up may save u stress but speaking up may save ur life! 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Ofadaman(m): 3:40pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Sharp babe, she first embarrass you in front of the other staff then went ahead to report first to HR. They say when a child is dancing in front of the market square there's a masquarede drumming somewhere. Understand that when people exaggerate their response ,it's likely comes from pro longed provocations and other informal arrangement. So here are my questions; 1) how did you correct her, did u raise your voice or insult her. 2) what is the age difference between you both 3) who is older at the organization 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Tunjibalogun: 3:43pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
pocohantas:Sounds more like inferiority complex IMHO |
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