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Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Mikeiron78(m): 5:31pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
The time would come when the cat would turn around and attack after being chased for a while by the dog. That's what happened here. No need to sugarcoat it. Respect is reciprocal. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by holadfikky(m): 5:33pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by digitite: 5:46pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
It's normal human reaction to express anger ? Must she plot and kill you before you understand that your attitude irks her because she is your "subordinate" ? |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:08pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:Hahaha u dey vex o... This man u are very radical I am trying to imagine the scenario when someone walks into your business and demands to see the boss. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Lifestone(m): 6:12pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Yankee101:Open correction sometimes helps correct others. I also believe you can't be bigger than your job. There are cases you can't look away from as the supervisor. Some infect others with bad manners that needs to be dealt with asap. It's only when it become your management style that it becomes an issue |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by khalids: 6:12pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
RuddyFusion: Yes...And he was sacked that same week 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:15pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:U better continue to monitor & supervise him, don't relent o... Believe u me these people are like babies, that's why u are their manager/father figure in workplace, as the shepherd they need to hear your voice always. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by lomprico(m): 6:29pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
I shouted at my boss 1month after I got employed. The man own too much abeg. Sometimes is good to let your superiors know you ain't a slave, stupid or a pushover. By the way my boss respects me more now after that incidence. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by greypencils: 6:31pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
I do the shouting. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by cooooooks(m): 6:37pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
What do you mean by "seems". My friend relax. Now, if you have ever made a pass at her, your shouting at her could be perceived as harassment over her refusal of your advances. Never shout at your staff. That is my opinion and experience. In my own times, I always use rationality. Emotion always comes after rationality. Including when positive. RuddyFusion: 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 6:52pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:
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Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by IJEYdiamond(f): 6:57pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Indians come to mind... |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by CrateofBeer: 7:27pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
If you have disrespected her, you should apologize to her and every other surbordinate you might have shouted at too. Surbordinate is no slave o, they're just under your leadership. I don't have much tolerance for disrespect. My MD, as in oga patapata spoke to me in a way felt it's disrespectful, i called him for a meeting right the next morning btw two of us and i made it clear he should consider I'm an adult anytime he want to vent or correct me and so he should have addressed me better on the issue yesterday. We settled it and that's how I got respect i deserve always. I don't even care if he sack me at that point, I'm intolerant of disrespect. I will let you know no matter who you're, but in a mature and respectful way. Might not be immediately but i won't let it fly to avoid often reoccurrence. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Squidbabe: 7:34pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Someone close to me once said " the way and manner you correct someone's mistake can also be a mistake" . Learn to correct in love. And never correct in public for another ear to hear. Its embarrassing. But I want to ask , when the lady does things right do you also tell her in the presence of other staff that she did well. Don't let your voice only Be heard when one makes mistake. When the person who praises me when I do good complains when I do bad, I take it better than the person I hear his voice only when I make mistake. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by CedarHoldings: 8:48pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Why did you leave the job? pocohantas: |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by RussellRutherfo: 8:59pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: Look for Handkerchief and clean your mouth first. Your lie kilometer long past Lie Muhammad own. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Cloud007: 9:05pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
You might have shouted earlier without you realizing that your voice was high. For her to have shouted back....there is something going on than met the eye. So be very careful of office politics. So this is how it's done. All your official engagement with subordinates should change henceforth from verbal to written. Let it be black and white. If they messed up again...give them query. Anytime they go offline...hit them. Then copy your superior or HR after the third breach. And make sure you build all policy violation on a single mail so that at once your superiors or HR can see build up of All infractions overtime. This will speak for you when you want to appraise. Any one that have issues with your appraisal on them you can easily forward the exhibit to them for verdict. They won't try it again. Pele. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Lovelydaisies: 9:40pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
I shouted at my superior. I had had up to the neck with her. She deducted some amount from my salary. I went to the office to vent my anger but I don't have a strong voice when I'm baring my mind and I tend to cry. I still bared my mind anyway. Mtchew 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by NoToPile: 9:54pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
blackpanda: Real death trap |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Yankee101: 10:31pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Lifestone: Well he has corrected her in public and she’s responded in kind and reported him to HR quickly Don’t be surprised he might end up getting reprimanded instead of her Nobody is your child, just your coworkers |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by anzaku47(m): 10:55pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Hahaha When I was a supervisor in one Agro allied company in the south one of my subordinate shouted at me like a small boy. Omoo I no fit cry that day my mouth became bitter. After everything I just served him query letter. The used 3 days to beg me. |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:25am On Aug 27, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:... Thanks bro |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Askmewhy(m): 7:45am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Revolution2022: You dey there, how you take know |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by ifinger: 9:18am On Aug 27, 2022 |
If a female subordinate shout at a male oga 2 things are involved either they are fkn or they are datn |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Johel(m): 9:43am On Aug 27, 2022 |
RuddyFusion: It's always good to mind your business while at work tho, do the job and go home, na over Sabi dey make some people folo some people talk anyhow. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Shouted At By A Subordinate At Work Before? by Teymanhenry(f): 8:27am On Aug 28, 2022 |
Tunjibalogun:Some women are like that, they want to have everything.. A reason why when you break up a relationship with a girl, she'll do everything possible to beef you or even tarnish your image. E.g Johnny Depp aka Captain Jack Sparrow |
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