dyydxx:
Stockholm syndrome is over a reasonable length of time. This relatoxship never pass 1 month.Bella in this case can't take the shame of a break up in that house, after all the things she has said about the girls and she also is desperately wanting the fake life Mr ikoyi sold to her to be true. She has to pretend with this charade while in that house. There is no chance this relatoxship survives 1 second outside the house. Both of them are already tired, and na just who go strike first to exit the relatoxship remain and that should happen outside the house.

You wish.

Nhazeru:



I haven't seen this type before...

Sheggz, this minute will be acting so nice, the next minute he acts like devil. Yesterday morning he woke up, made breakfast for Bella acted so loving, the next minute he changed it for her. What in the name of Yoruba demon is this??

Na split personality disorder dem they call am.
Dr Jerkyl and Hyde.

PatientVulture:


The soft life thing is a wrong notion as Safarigirl noted .Bella is royalty . Yes you have a point . Society has never been fair to victims , but should that be a reason to die slowly ? At a point you just have to Bleep the world and do you for your own sanity

You people need to stop saying that royalty nonesense. Bella’s family is not wealthy. Period!

If they were wealthy, her sister will not be trying to tie down a nobody in terms of class with pregnancy. She is clearly doing it for Flavour’s money.

If they were wealthy, her brother won’t be in Nollywood chasing chicken change the men are paid.

If you listen to Bella, you will see she’s not exposed. She’s an Mgbeke. Real royalty with wealth would have been sent abroad to some correct schools.

Maybe their old man been get money when he was alive. Who knows. But guy in Naija, Royalty does not equal class and wealth at all…

GeneralBuhari:


You wish.

Are you willing to bet this relatoxship survives outside the house?
Put your money where your mouth is

Nawa... almost 7 pages of sheggs and bella... i don't know where i can run to escape them now. I turn on tv they are there.. i switch to nairaland and I'm getting mental pictures.
Ironic part is he'll still be there for at least 2 more weeks.
I'd rather watch big brother south Africa at this point. Lemme go stream it

Kelvinnchucks:
Nawa... almost 7 pages of sheggs and bella... i don't know where i can run to escape them now. I turn on tv they are there.. i switch to nairaland and I'm getting mental pictures.
Ironic part is he'll still be there for at least 2 more weeks.
I'd rather watch big brother south Africa at this point. Lemme go stream it

Twitter sef na the same thing, Mrs ikoyi dey trend and all for the wrong reasons. The outrageousness of the relatoxship is hard to ignore as you watch it live. You won't even wish the torment on your enemy, not less watch it happen real time to a sweet girl

dyydxx:
Are you willing to bet this relatoxship survives outside the house?
Put your money where your mouth is

Why should I bet on a SIMP like Sheggz?

Besides, Bella is my sister so I wouldn't want her to continue in such a relationship at all.

But as far as this big brother season 7 is concerned, Sheggz the SIMP and Bella will never get tired of each other.

GeneralBuhari:


Why should I bet on a SIMP like Sheggz?

Besides, Bella is my sister so I wouldn't want her to continue in such a relationship at all.

But as far as this big brother season 7 is concerned, Sheggz the SIMP and Bella will never get tired of each other.

But it's obvious they already both tired of each other. Did you watch the toilet scene yesterday? Sheggs already said he would go back to his 3 yr relationship outside, bella saying her mumu don do, that she is tired. They are both tired, the relatoxship is stress. But they will keep pretending everything is fine while in that house, they both can't bear the mockery that a break up will cause in the house. In a way, they fit each other and na who go first serve breakfast for outside remain now

Kelvinnchucks:
Nawa... almost 7 pages of sheggs and bella... i don't know where i can run to escape them now. I turn on tv they are there.. i switch to nairaland and I'm getting mental pictures.
Ironic part is he'll still be there for at least 2 more weeks.
I'd rather watch big brother south Africa at this point. Lemme go stream it

Remove those two and this season is dead. They are the only dramatic content this season have. And production is milking it by steadily giving them screen time. They want us to talk about them. I don't think any housemate gets as much screen time as them.

Nhazeru:


Remove those two and this season will be dead. They are they only dramatic content this season has. And production is milking it by steadily giving them screen time. They want us to talk about them. I don't think any housemate gets as much screen time as them.

People really think the production would pull out either of them or confront whatever the hell they are doing. Save for physical assault nobody sends you, besides they are adults and nobody forced anyone to couple up.

Their toxicity is content, let it continue.

dyydxx:


Twitter sef na the same thing, Mrs ikoyi dey trend and all for the wrong reasons. The outrageousness of the relatoxship is hard to ignore as you watch it live. You won't even wish the torment on your enemy, not less watch it happen real time to a sweet girl

Abeg.. Yes the relationship is cringeworthy but people are starting to use it to create a narrative just to trend, especially women, talmbout toxic relationship yadi yadi ya. What he's doing isn't half what people in real toxic relationships go through, not even a quarter.

When Cee c was doing hers (although not like this) nobody called her narcissistic. I feel bad for him tho.. he might not get any endorsements deals after leaving as it stands.

Nhazeru:


Remove those two and this season will be dead. They are they only dramatic content this season has. And production is milking it by steadily giving them screen time. They want us to talk about them. I don't think any housemate gets as much screen time as them.

Weirdly i have to agree... but if we are being honest watching them is really irritating.. imagine listening to conversations like " how many times in a year would you cook for me, how many times would we have sex"... lmao.
I feel it's really weird cos he's clingy and men aren't known to be clingy.. what i don't know now is if it's all for the camera.

Nhazeru:


Remove those two and this season will be dead. They are they only dramatic content this season has. And production is milking it by steadily giving them screen time. They want us to talk about them. I don't think any housemate gets as much screen time as them.

Plus they can see the cameras always focused on them. Why won’t they try their best to be playing their BS script for highlights?

safarigirl:
You're polyamorous, but you dey vex say your babe dey dance with other guys

You think say na only you like enjoyment?

You, you'll be using style to drop reasons to drag Hermes on this site to aid your own favourite. Which is the problem exactly, his polyamorous status or his minor complains of his babe dancing with so and so guys. In the real world and in reality people let out uneasiness of their respective spouses frolicking with others. Beauty did worse to Groovy. Sheggz has Bella on chains.

As for his status, you think equality gender is sameness ? If Allysyn wants to be polyamorous, she should declare it. The hypocrisy is, if women held the power to commitment they'd do worse things than men but they don't yet do the most salacious inequalities. So you think being Polyamorous is enjoyment ? Why not declare you're one with your full chest.
You brought an unnecessary and a very familiar issue between a guy and his babe on here knowing people will throw stones. Do with my post whatever understanding your mind can make of it.

Have you noticed that brian and chomzy are always paired in drink tasks and the always win is it not weird
1. Aquafina
2. Guinness
3. Pepsi
but lets not forget she won supa commando too and close up with brian again

Amya:


Nah. You don't get it. The situation with Bella and Sheggs it's not even similar to your analogy. This has nothing to do with soft life as you post seems to suggest

No , hers is not about soft life . I'm saying you know you should leave ,but something keeps drawing you back and that thing is not worth your mental health .mine was money , hers can be whatever ,but it's still not worth staying

carammel:
I will never understand when people drink alcohol and get drunk.
Why do you even take it and end up misbehaving? There’s no joy in that.

Easy to get drunk oh .. Sometimes, its a gradual thing and you can make a choice to stop when your body begins to feel uncomfortable but there are times where the effect comes crashing without warning per se.

Getting drunk does not automatically lead to people misbehaving. You simply lose the ability to control your muscles whilst the alcohol is in your system. And you will know that you have reached that point. You will know your control is now zilch..

But some people refuse to do the right thing when they are drunk. Instead of shutting down, they want to still continue to function and this is when they begin to misbehave. Imagine wanting to walk when your legs are not cooperating? Wanting to drive when your judgement and reflexes are impaired?

Chaos14temp:
Have you noticed that brian and chomzy are always paired in drink tasks and the always win is it not weird
1. Aquafina
2. Guinness
3. Pepsi
but lets not forget she won supa commando too and close up with brian again

am i the only one who noticed this
cc:geezeem

dyydxx:


If dem dey put every housemates up every week how many evictions until he reach the guy? I Don reach my limit to dey watch that guy. The toxicity is off the charts, and he is spreading the bad energy everywhere. Mental evaluation suppose dey before dem allow person attend this show

Like I say, your wait go long small. He is only irritating the viewers but not the housemates. When biggy puts all of them up like this, fans will be more concerned with saving their own favorites than gang voting to kick anyone off

e fit reach 2-3 weeks... Na from Monday we go know how far

Bottom six in no particular order :
Chi chi
Chomzy
Ally
Gidi
Diana
Elo



Today , I must get my flowers .


Authentic and hundred percent accurate .

ThunderSwitch:
Sorry to Bump in ooo but this is a lie!!!

U must have [b]been drunk to even know ur limi[/b]t!!

The percentages were extremely close .

No winner yet ...but these are the potential winners : Phyna , Bella , Bryann , Hermes , Adekunle.

Amya:


There's a reason words like Stockholm syndrome and trauma bond exist. It's clear you haven't been in an abusive or super toxic relationship before.

Sometimes spend time discussing your shrine apprentice small... a polyamorous guy that wants faithfulness .

No be juju be that?

Imagine being angry that Allison danced with other housemates...

Talk of eating your cake and having it

Nonsense and faithfulness

Geezeem:


Sometimes spend time discussing your shrine apprentice small... a polyamorous guy that wants faithfulness .

No be juju be that?

Imagine being angry that Allison danced with other housemates...

Talk of eating your cake and having it

Nonsense and faithfulness

Giddem

Geezeem:


Sometimes spend time discussing your shrine apprentice small... a polyamorous guy that wants faithfulness .

No be juju be that?

Imagine being angry that Allison danced with other housemates...

Talk of eating your cake and having it

Nonsense and faithfulness

I remember early on in the season when he was trying to explain the emotions that come with being in a polyamourous relationship…. He said they experience jealousy as well. And it can be a challenge to manage the emotions…

But last night, i was surprised at the jealousy just because she danced with others. But maybe she was particularly free with Deji who she had the hots for before …

Threebear:
The percentages were extremely close .

No winner yet ...but these are the potential winners : Phyna , Bella , Bryann , Hermes , Adekunle.

Abeg let's stop long story. Winner is between Phyna and Bryann, with Phyna having a slight edge.

You, dafty, yearning for my attention. You have to first ask yourself, does he have a polyamorous commitment with Allysyn ? You can be in a complicated polyamory outside the house but have an exclusive thing with someone in the house.

They're two different scenarios and moving forward is the knowledge of measure of commitment you want with that person you pick. From all we know, their in-house relationship is with no polyamory complications ,why not see it as a boy and his girl having familiar squabble of 'you danced with him ,you danced with her' talks, because that is what it is. You driving it further to get more critical view is sinister.

I'm not your friend. If you can't understand,then quit. Don't flood my mentions with incoherence and illogicality. It's insult I'll prefer because that is what you'd deserve.

It will not be a sweet fõreplay when you keep grassing up my moniker to your moderators after dangling the Lion's balls.

dyydxx:


The guy's toxicity is off the charts. Zudd come and carry you ship abeg, over to you

Sheggz: when we have disagreements and u behave like dat, I'm worried about ur family, they will think I don't love u

Bella: I know u love me. I'm worried about ur family too, they won't love me, they will think I am stressing you

S: I'm sorry
B: I'm sorry

Shella will always disappoint you people

The problem with Sheggz and Bella is that they love each other too much.

https://twitter.com/i/status/1566213964454940673

badinfluence:

Abeg let's stop long story. Winner is between Phyna and Bryann, with Phyna having a slight edge.

How can someone who didn't top have a slight edge ?

E b something

Nhazeru:



I haven't seen this type before...

Sheggz, this minute will be acting so nice, the next minute he acts like devil. Yesterday morning he woke up, made breakfast for Bella acted so loving, the next minute he changed it for her. What in the name of Yoruba demon is this??

After coming here to say I no longer Stan him, I watched how lovey dovey he was to Bella and the next minute I started questioning my decision. I told myself I acted in a hurry,maybe I should give him a chance he will change

Stanning Sheggz is mentally draining. If you aren't strong mentally you can't Stan him

I've come to terms with it... today I know another circle of abuse and make up awaits us

I will never be able to write him off as a human being...I just want the ship to end like yesterday. But I don't see this ending in the house... they are both sexually attracted to each other... and that enclosure heightens emotions like hell

Just adjust yourself to taking things as you see them unfold. Detach emotionally

Have fun while they are on your screen, soon they will only be stories told season after season

They have made their marks... put themselves on the sands of BBN time

They have given bloggers and we here lots of contents to talk about, they have moved the thread and kept this place from been boring

They have given us themselves.... their strengths and weaknesses to shred on the daily. They might be hiding their fights from their fellow housemates, but they are bare before us

This is reality

This is a reality show. I expect nothing less than their true selves

Many are watching and learning

Many are using them as mirrors to view their own relationships and marriages

At the end, some might be saved... just because they watched those two and saw their own relationships in its true lights

This will serve a purpose.... a good purpose at the end.

People are not born narcissist... if this guy is one. I still doubt this title. I've another theory about why sheggz is like this. But for the purposes of this argument, if he is one, Sheggz wasn't born a narcissist... a lot of times, this tendency started from childhood traumatic events

I don't know how he was raised, I don't know if he has spoken about his family...siblings outside their Worldly possessions and privileges... but he deserves a small pity. He didn't damage himself

I see him as someone who is used to having his way... lots of attention and would do anything to have it

I see him as someone who has lived under the shadow of other's powers and control and thought that's how to live

Aside this, If you know about attachment theory, I question his attachment style

There is a link there to what is playing out now

But I won't excuse this

It's ugly.

But hey!.....People supported Ceecee that year and she got to second position, she was the toxic partner

Some people writing epistles here were in that team... so don't sweat it teamie... do you.

Peace!

Zudd:

Sheggz: when we have disagreements and u behave like dat, I'm worried about ur family, they will think I don't love u

Bella: I know u love me. I'm worried about ur family too, they won't love me, they will think I am stressing you

S: I'm sorry
B: I'm sorry

Shella will always disappoint you people

The problem with Sheggz and Bella is that they love each other too much.

https://twitter.com/i/status/1566213964454940673

You're seeing two gamers and you're saying they love each other.