Kobojunkie:
Is there some way to at least ensure he remits support back to his family at home even after he has left for Canada though?
If she can at least get something like that working, that will be better than having the man completely abandon them with nothing.

Pickmycall:
What did you do to him that makes him want to leave you for Canada?If you are a good wife he will tell you his secret.
Most women like playing a victim card.

Pickmycall:
What did you do to him that makes him want to leave you for Canada?If you are a good wife he will tell you his secret.
Most women like playing a victim card.

Magnoliaa:


This one you're just in cruise mode laidis. Is awa latest Boyfriend doing something special? Money, segz, dates...? Which one?

Hmmmmmmm

Persephone1:
Hmmmmmmm

Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this??

Shokoloko:


Even if his wages are garnished so that his employer is forced to keep a portion for child support, the Canadian government will NEVER pay garnished wages into an off-shore account. And the wife must have a social insurance number to open a Canadian bank account.
In summary, there is no way.

Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this??

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....you are already screwed, he won't care unless he remotely care about the upkeep of his keeps.

1. You could copy his UCI and his passport number to write to Canada immigration siting that dude is deserting you and the kids without any care to fork up his move. You could do this once he lands too to forkup his settling. This is nasty as he would have to fight tooth and nail to stay in the country and maintain credibility....just keep stalking him and writing to all the interfaces: employers, immigration, etc.

Downside of this, he already doesn't want you so this will further strengthen his dislike of you. He won't even have means to care for the kids...work will be hard, settling down will be hard. Canada is not like US, your documentation follows you everywhere. He may even hate the kids. And he may go after your life too cos you'd be literally going after his...

2. You could mellow now and work out something with him that will be good for the kids. Guy no longer wants you...no need to salvage what is gone. Rather, get him into wanting to do right by his kids.

If I were you, I would do number two. Calm down and have a discussion on how to address the matters you have in common.

Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this??

Baztardmods:
Hello Guys,

Please am writing to inquire if anyone knows the process to follow a selfish & disloyal spouse (hubby) who wants to immigrate to Canada without carrying the 3 kids and wife along.. what can the wife do in this situation to at least fight for her kids rights and make sure he provides for them before leaving and even after he leaves, the wife doesn’t want to suffer alone for the kids upkeep.. is there any option for her to fight this??

Jovialjune1:



Something is wrong with me.

Rozross:
This is why I’m still afraid to start dating, I don’t want to end up with a mistake of a man, the dangerous part is that these men will so disguise and pretend till you fall into their trap. Imagine a man trying to run from his wife and kids to Canada , very heartbreaking. Madam please try everything possible to stop him from running and make sure you involve the authorities and his family, he must be responsible by force.

Baztardmods:

This is not the case, the two families have discussed severally, he just doesn't want to change or include them in applications and am sure he already applied just need what to do and fight for the kids

Baztardmods:

It was all good and fun all these years until he changed and now wants to japa alone

Wittyglam:
I’m worried for the wife. The man has already kill the wife trust towards him and now leaving to another world. My dear, is either you both get a lawyer and sign a contract or you report him. Nobody should be left to carry another person’s responsibility.

Baztardmods:

There is no hate in the post, he cheats, very selfish and wants to run leaving the kids alone for the wife upkeep

eyinjuege:
Why do you think he wants to abandon the family by travelling alone?
He's not the first to migrate without his family and majority still remember home and send upkeep, work towards their family joining them.
Migrating is very expensive and doing it as a family of 5 is x5 of the expenses.
Perhaps he is only able to source funds for himself at the moment
Unless he's told you that he won't look back and cater for his kids when he travels, you should calm down.
If he has parents, leave the children with them when he travels if you can't afford to look after them.
At least they will sort out their feeding and accommodation. You can also have the chance to work and drop some upkeep for the kids too.

Helpout12345:
It's difficult for a man to abandon a wife that has been good to him in Nigeria to travel to Canada. And I don't believe he will abandon the children. He will come for them later after he settled down in Canada.

Another thought is that the man might want to travel alone first, settle down and come back for the wife and children when he has found his feet in Canada. But the wife might be thinking he just wants to abandon them.

Wittyglam:
I’m worried for the wife. The man has already kill the wife trust towards him and now leaving to another world. My dear, is either you both get a lawyer and sign a contract or you report him. Nobody should be left to carry another person’s responsibility.

jamznato:



God bless you.
I see even your wife u love is just fake love this day. Imagine all these mentality nobody is sering the positive side. She is there concerned her own using children as excuse trying to cash out when food never done. No man will abadan his kids most especially wen the woman is good to him. Get sense madam. Everybody cannot go at once because of fund. I seen many times where husband left, he start sending money for school and upkeep when things is ok. Thats good wife praying for him to succeed. Then she and her kids later came over. It is easier like that in most cases. But if money berekete everyone can go at house as Personal Resident. The country is hard he is securing a better future for the family, don't stop him. You will regret it if you try it. Encourage him and pray for him. Women have also gone ahead then import their husband and kids. Stay away from bad friends engineering you to destroy your family. When ur sons and daughter now have matured sense they will not forgive you for this opportunity dad had to better their life but was aborted by you. This of which will lead to children self struggling to make it in life in this hard economy or country without clear future. When a player pass football age and nothing is achieve much, strength disappear, if him no hang him boot, him boot go hang am by force then water go pass garri for everyone. You can talk with him. Kids also should talk daddy remember us, help us when you get there and settle down. With prayer everybody go chop breakfast
Thank me later