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| Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by Kiddo01(op): 11:46am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Blessed Sunday to my NL family, hope you are all having a nice time. Now to my topic. I have dated this girl for about two years now, and from the beginning I made it clear to her that I'm not just dating her but I have plans that we both end up marrying which she agreed. She's respectful and I think she is the kind of woman I need, the problem I have is that each time I talk about my religious beliefs, she picks offence, telling me she can't come to my church, and she is serious about it, last time we had a heated argument, she told me I should change my church to any other one that will come and I told her no, that I can not change my church just to please her. I really love her and wish to spend my life with her, but I can not marry and be attending different church with my wife and at the same time can't change my church just to please her. This issue is giving me serious concerns |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by Ahmed0336(m): 11:54am On Nov 13, 2022 |
What were her reasons for wanting you to change church?  |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by Pierocash(m): 11:56am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Kiddo01:Quit the relationship. It won't work. You may think it is a little issue,if you ignore it and proceed with the marriage, this issue will break your Union. It shows you both don't share the same belief,quit. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by Kiddo01(op): 11:59am On Nov 13, 2022 |
Ahmed0336:That she doesn't like my belief system |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by mokset123: 12:28pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Since you aren't willing to shift ground and she insists that you choose any other church which to me is an open invitation where both of you can discourse alternatives and choose a new church, not like she is saying if it is not my church forget it? Well if you can't then quit |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by Ofemmanu1: 12:28pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Which Church you dey attend? Mention the name pls. .. Maybe its one of those Ojuju church. |
| Re: Please Help, My Fiance Said She Can't Come To My Church, What Do I Do? by samwash(m): 12:29pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Kiddo01:Abeg which church una dey go? I want check something. Las Las two una nor go end up going to this una present church in the next 20- 30 yrs time from now. So why will denomination threaten your peaceful relationship now. |
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