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ModestGal:
Share your reasons for not liking Canada

As for me, I love love Canada, its my dream home,my heaven. But many Nigerians living here do not like Canada and are usually complaining. In this post, I will highlight the reasons some Nigerians dislike living in Canada

1. Extroversion: Some people hate Canada because they are extroverts, quite understandable. There is less noises, people mind their businesses, you can't easily make friends with the opposite sex, (awon set,, bestie of life). Everyone is busy in Canada and thus extroverts do not really like it in here (They want people they will be wasting time together,lol). Extroverts derive their energy from being out meanwhile introverts derive their energy from being indoor, more like refilling a gas,one refills indoor, the other refills outdoor with friends. Alot of Nigerians are extroverts and thus, doesn't like their inability to go out and have fun in Canada

2. Canada is very cold and dark: Winter is very cold and lots of people don't like the cold weather. It also goes dark by 5:00PM which makes going out a little difficult . The coldness could lead to frostbites, a condition that can get the arm or legs forever destroyed

3. Mothers with kids: Another set of people that may not like living in Canada are mothers.

I drop my cap for mums with 2,3,4 children. It is a big job to raise children in this country. Cooking, cleaning, and going to work is not easy. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to drop your children with neighbors, have other children come play with your children and the children get occupied but here, none of that is possible.

There's no cousin, mother in law, they can spend the holiday with. You can't leave theem at home for 1sec, you can't tell a neighbor to hold their hands to school, you do all your work by yourself. I know you will think, "eehn what is there" Something is there sir/ma, during winter, you dress up for them, especially if they are below 5years old. This dressing up for them can take significant amounts of time,upto 30min per child, they will have to wear 10cloths because of the cold weather, bath them, wear socks for them etc and you will do thesame for yourself as well. This takes holy amount of time

Another reason is that most Nigerian mothers had 10maids in Nigeria..... That was a joke, but sincerely speaking,most Nigerians in Canada were doing well in Nigeria and thus, could afford maids, what I term slavery. And the maids work round the clock, but here in Canada, if you want maids, you will not only pay minimum wage but you also cannot belittle or talk to them anyhow. This makes their lazy asses to be frustrated. There is one aunty, I am praying her process should become successful,she has 3maids in Nigeria,she does absolutely nothing,but still complains she's stressed,lol. I can't wait for her to land in Canada, the suffer,she go suffer ehn.

3. Racism (Pronounced and Subtle): Racism makes some hates it here, structural barriers etc. 90% of racism in Canada is subtle, quiet, smiling which could seriously impact the of the victims
4. Bus system: The bus system is very slow, especially when you don't live in Toronto. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to pick up a bus and start moving, but here, you will have to wait in the cold weather to board a bus. This could delay your trip for upto 1hour. If you mistakenly miss a bus, then your journey is delayed for more hours.

5. Men: This is the part I love the most . In Nigeria, iphones, Cars, Jobs are what men use to entice females due to high unemployment rate in the country,many of our girls would fall for these things and agree to date them or sleep with them. But here in Canada, everyone has access to all these things, this is where equity comes in, a man has no advantage over a female, thus, females get jobs as much as men, and guess what, they can afford everything a man can afford.

Your "iphones" everyone has it, your "cars", everyone can afford one, your "designer wears", it is right in the store opposite their house, your beautiful "homes", every house is beautiful, you live in "Lekki, Banana island, Ikoyi" everywhere is developed and anyone can live anywhere, you are "well educated", school is free in Canada and you will even be paid while in school, tell me why the girls would stoop low to date you? Everyone is classy and can wear good cloths. This frustrates Nigerian men alot because they do not have access to their sexual escapedes with innocent girls anymore and might become depressed due to that

Nigerian men are sexually spoiled,and are preys to innocent girls with either bad education, parenting, religious doctrines that preaches favours, grace and thus when they meet predators, their subconscious would think, ooh, this is the grace and favor I have been praying for. In here, sleep with a girl who is not fully consensual and end your life in jail.

You can't practice all the rubbish you practice in Nigeria with girls here, sleeping with university students for grades, sleeping with under 18, or molesting females in your street, deceiving girls to sleep with them, luring a girl with money, all she has to do is report you.

In addition, many husbands in Nigeria cheats and not only go away with it but the society will still blame the innocent wife for her husband cheating, words like, you don't cook well for him, you don't give him enough sex bla bla bla but here, cheat and your wife would leave or start a divorce which could take a hit on men's mental health

You can't impregnate a lady and have them abort it, or abandon them, so many Nigerian males have a child somewhere that they will never take care of, but here, like it or leave it, you will pay for 18 good years.

ednut1:
Op na Muslim feminist which is even a contradiction lol. You ignored the part of females. Doing minimum wage jobs but wanting 3 holidays a year with loan or looking for men to sponsor them, the female also don't get toasted like they did in Nigeria making them feel invincible and depressed. You would think women hated the attention they got in Nigeria like some made is believe . You still have many Nigerian ladies who want you to pay uber to come visit you and you go order food too. You also have many females that want you to take loan to wed them or empty your savings. There are also females who dont want to cook or do chores during dating and marriage. Men usually cope by going for white babes and Caribbean babes . At least if you no see better relationship you dey collect steady sex. But how do women cope Turn to youtubers hahahaha

siofra:
I'd rather be a YouTuber in Canada than be doing house chores for one useless, struggling Nigerian man because I'm his girlfriend

Rubbish

womenareapezz:
listen to this frustrated female gorilla at your own risk?

During my stay in Canada reverse is the case on the men aspect

Rather is the women that's way lonely and suicidal on this case!

Don't listen to women opinion on traveling and geo location experience

ModestGal:
Share your reasons for not liking Canada

As for me, I love love Canada, its my dream home,my heaven. But many Nigerians living here do not like Canada and are usually complaining. In this post, I will highlight the reasons some Nigerians dislike living in Canada

1. Extroversion: Some people hate Canada because they are extroverts, quite understandable. There is less noises, people mind their businesses, you can't easily make friends with the opposite sex, (awon set,, bestie of life). Everyone is busy in Canada and thus extroverts do not really like it in here (They want people they will be wasting time together,lol). Extroverts derive their energy from being out meanwhile introverts derive their energy from being indoor, more like refilling a gas,one refills indoor, the other refills outdoor with friends. Alot of Nigerians are extroverts and thus, doesn't like their inability to go out and have fun in Canada

2. Canada is very cold and dark: Winter is very cold and lots of people don't like the cold weather. It also goes dark by 5:00PM which makes going out a little difficult . The coldness could lead to frostbites, a condition that can get the arm or legs forever destroyed

3. Mothers with kids: Another set of people that may not like living in Canada are mothers.

I drop my cap for mums with 2,3,4 children. It is a big job to raise children in this country. Cooking, cleaning, and going to work is not easy. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to drop your children with neighbors, have other children come play with your children and the children get occupied but here, none of that is possible.

There's no cousin, mother in law, they can spend the holiday with. You can't leave theem at home for 1sec, you can't tell a neighbor to hold their hands to school, you do all your work by yourself. I know you will think, "eehn what is there" Something is there sir/ma, during winter, you dress up for them, especially if they are below 5years old. This dressing up for them can take significant amounts of time,upto 30min per child, they will have to wear 10cloths because of the cold weather, bath them, wear socks for them etc and you will do thesame for yourself as well. This takes holy amount of time

Another reason is that most Nigerian mothers had 10maids in Nigeria..... That was a joke, but sincerely speaking,most Nigerians in Canada were doing well in Nigeria and thus, could afford maids, what I term slavery. And the maids work round the clock, but here in Canada, if you want maids, you will not only pay minimum wage but you also cannot belittle or talk to them anyhow. This makes their lazy asses to be frustrated. There is one aunty, I am praying her process should become successful,she has 3maids in Nigeria,she does absolutely nothing,but still complains she's stressed,lol. I can't wait for her to land in Canada, the suffer,she go suffer ehn.

3. Racism (Pronounced and Subtle): Racism makes some hates it here, structural barriers etc. 90% of racism in Canada is subtle, quiet, smiling which could seriously impact the of the victims
4. Bus system: The bus system is very slow, especially when you don't live in Toronto. In Nigeria, it is easy for you to pick up a bus and start moving, but here, you will have to wait in the cold weather to board a bus. This could delay your trip for upto 1hour. If you mistakenly miss a bus, then your journey is delayed for more hours.

5. Men: This is the part I love the most . In Nigeria, iphones, Cars, Jobs are what men use to entice females due to high unemployment rate in the country,many of our girls would fall for these things and agree to date them or sleep with them. But here in Canada, everyone has access to all these things, this is where equity comes in, a man has no advantage over a female, thus, females get jobs as much as men, and guess what, they can afford everything a man can afford.

Your "iphones" everyone has it, your "cars", everyone can afford one, your "designer wears", it is right in the store opposite their house, your beautiful "homes", every house is beautiful, you live in "Lekki, Banana island, Ikoyi" everywhere is developed and anyone can live anywhere, you are "well educated", school is free in Canada and you will even be paid while in school, tell me why the girls would stoop low to date you? Everyone is classy and can wear good cloths. This frustrates Nigerian men alot because they do not have access to their sexual escapedes with innocent girls anymore and might become depressed due to that

Nigerian men are sexually spoiled,and are preys to innocent girls with either bad education, parenting, religious doctrines that preaches favours, grace and thus when they meet predators, their subconscious would think, ooh, this is the grace and favor I have been praying for. In here, sleep with a girl who is not fully consensual and end your life in jail.

You can't practice all the rubbish you practice in Nigeria with girls here, sleeping with university students for grades, sleeping with under 18, or molesting females in your street, deceiving girls to sleep with them, luring a girl with money, all she has to do is report you.

In addition, many husbands in Nigeria cheats and not only go away with it but the society will still blame the innocent wife for her husband cheating, words like, you don't cook well for him, you don't give him enough sex bla bla bla but here, cheat and your wife would leave or start a divorce which could take a hit on men's mental health

You can't impregnate a lady and have them abort it, or abandon them, so many Nigerian males have a child somewhere that they will never take care of, but here, like it or leave it, you will pay for 18 good years.

Onolulu:
This girl is bored and lonely in Canada. Nigerian girls once they get to Canada feel they've made it. Since now they're in the world rule by women in disguise of men. They can now work and earn, so Men can no longer control what they feel and how they act.

But mind you, what this girl write here is mere rubbish. Women have it the worse in Canada as no man is giving them attention. Men can still go to Nigeria and get married. But women can not do this because they're not wired to help a man. You'll see them opening vlog here and there cuz of boredom. But this one's here telling us how men are having it worse.

Aside from sex and babies, what do you think men want from women? Attention?? Lol

2aces:
If not for the multiple tax system and very evident racism, it's way better and easier to settle in the UK compared to Canada and the US.

ednut1:
this is the honest truth. The average Nigerian women does not want to split bills (my friends and i have been taxed for things like 300 dols hair, uber money, food money, vacation money , help with rent etc) which we usually laugh off lol. When white babes and jamo wey no dey tax dey hahahaha. Not all of them sha. But a good number of them. I know one with customers care job of maybe 35k a year but has gone on 3 holidays this year. Awon alakoba

Raalsalghul:
Modestgal, do you have a problem with Nigerian men cos half of your writeup was spent disparaging them?

ModestGal:
An average Nigerian man with 3 body counts should be in jail, because two of his body counts is through raping a non consensual innocent girl

ednut1:
Op na Muslim feminist which is even a contradiction lol.

hodari:
Avoid the Jamo and Somali chicks in Jane&Finch, Dixon,etc

Gerrard59:
You are likely to meet an average Nigerian man in Canada. The top 10% of Nigerian men are far and in between. If you have such a mentality and mindset, to find man go hard you. You might think you would try other African men, but remember, you na black Muslim lady and Somalis for instance, don't even see themselves as blacks.

Na Wasiu or Rasheed in Okene fit be your last option.

ModestGal:
Leave him,ego see shege

See let me tell u the main reason you opened this thread.
1 . You're not getting attention from men again unlike when you were in Nigeria .
2 . No simp is paying for your come over money or money for hair , or money for dates .or money for sub or urgent 2k .
3 . Youre the last a white man will ever come to for marrige or relationship . they probably see u as sex tool.
4 . You be muslim again haaha worst of it lol no man for u
5 . you can't bill a dude anyhow the way u bill naija men here .
6 . lastly na konji go kill u for Canada lol vibrator na ur best bet. no offense babe merry Christmas ..

Niftkid:
See let me tell u the main reason you opened this thread.
1 . You're not getting attention from men again unlike when you're in Nigeria .
2 . No simp is paying for your come over money or money for hair , or money for dates .or money for sub or urgent 2k .
3 . Youre the last a white man will ever come to for marrige or relationship . they probably see u as sex tool.
4 . You be muslim again haaha worst of it lol no man for u
5 . you can't bill a dude anyhow the way u bill naija men here .
6 . lastly na konji go kill u for Canada lol vibrator na ur best bet. no offense babe merry Christmas ..

ModestGal:
"Unlike when you were in Nigeria" not, you're. At least use correct tenses, and stop creating different accounts, millions of phone numbers, it won't help you