Pells1:

Are you married?
Asking for a friend

No and am not ready

Kingcalls:
Out of the 14 about 12 or 13 were filed by the women.... this is the reason y I don't blame the talibans.... men build society, women destroy it

Those that seek self gratification oftentimes destroys collect effort.

TheChameleon:


Marry a yamlegger at your own peril.

You speak facts.

baralatie:

Well
The anti marriage crusaders will not want that!

You are funny.We don't live by people's principles, remember! Marraige is beautiful. It's just that getting it work is lot of hardwork still many are getting it right. Our prayers are with everyone that are hurting. It isn't an easy situation especially if children are involved and if you are in a society that condemns rather than help like ours.. There is healing for everyone in the end.

obembet:


No and am not ready

Can I wait until you are ready

sleek214:
Congratulations to them. They're now free. Basket mouth(Frank) should settle down with Mimi of flatmate. Their relationship on flatmate has lasted more than basket mouth marriage in real life.

Hmm word

Na them saying...I no send..

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

Your bias shines through.

"All the women are married or divorced. Are the men are still in the relationships?

MNDY:


Pass a word of advice to your gender to not be trying to control a man in marriage - major causative factor. And character too. The man is the head and he leads the home.

If he is found wanting in character, a proper peaceful approach should be applied to talk things out.

The men in the list were faultless, I am certain cheating, sleeping around was a major causative factor and it's mostly the men.

deyplay:
"For I Hate Divorce," says the Lord: Malachi 2:16 ... You mean this bible verse back you up?

Please, read further into the New Testament... There you will find that divorce is not frowned upon if both parties can no longer kick it.

Don't be like pulpit hirelings who begin and end their piety in Malachi.

Triangles1:
That's why you need to take your time to select your partner, make sure is the best for you and don't just rush enter relationship because of pressure from family and community.

My dear it doesn’t matter how carefully you choose your partner, just pray for grace. Coz I’ve seen people who have been through thick and thin for several years but still got separated. But whatever the case I’ll never encourage people who pour insults on their partners after separation because it’s completely unnecessary no matter what!

sleek214:
Congratulations to them. They're now free. Basket mouth(Frank) should settle down with Mimi of flatmate. Their relationship on flatmate has lasted more than basket mouth marriage in real life.

exactly

sleek214:
Congratulations to them. They're now free. Basket mouth(Frank) should settle down with Mimi of flatmate. Their relationship on flatmate has lasted more than basket mouth marriage in real life.

You need brain check.

faithfull18:

The men in the list were faultless, I am certain cheating, sleeping around was a major causative factor and it's mostly the men.

All this "men cheat more" stories are bullsh**t. It is woman that opens legs to allow sex happen. They cheat more than men. Women are the gatekeepers of s*x.

If cheating is the cause according to you, don't be surprised their wives may have been doing their own too. Unlike women, men just don't know how to cover their tracks well.

In all of this, no matter the problem, using negotiations and diplomacy to find ways to tackle the problem while staying together is the ideal thing to do instead of ending the union altogether.

Angelfrost:


Please, read further into the New Testament... There you will find that divorce is not frowned upon if both parties can no longer kick it.

Don't be like pulpit hirelings who begin and end their piety in Malachi.

really since the God of Malachi is not the same God that Jesus was quoting in Matt 19:6-8. Bible commentator!

deyplay:
really since the God of Malachi is not the same God that Jesus was quoting in Matt 19:6-8. Bible commentator!

Bible student, most stringent laws of the Old Testament were modified in the era of grace:

Tithes
Offerings
Circumcision
Harvests
Etc...!

I can give you references, but why bother when you can actually study and learn for yourself.

Let me help you a bit with the following:

1 Corinthians 7:10-20. Please, study and grow sir.

Who knows, with adequate knowledge, you may become less judgemental and tolerant of people's choices. Peace!

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

Loud it!

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

What a load of crap.

Is divorce evidence of civilisation?

Was divorce not mentioned in the Bible,were those ppl in the Bible civilised when compared to ppl of this time.

Most of you just wasted money acquiring education.
Total waste.

Weldon all of you. We that married and the wives refused to take up residence with us in Nigeria no, what advice for us? I left her there and am dating one new to move on. Children have children as well. No s po special principles.

But why is it that our parents marriage worked but the same cannot be said of this current dispensation.
I hate divorce with passion. I can bet some of the cause of these divorces are workable but one of the other party isn’t ready to fix anything. It’s painful esp that of Basket mouth & Isie.

Angelfrost:


Actually, there is clear evidence that those past marriages of our fathers were not all happy or rosy.

They didn't divorce not because they were satisfied or prepared to stick it out... They stayed because they were being compelled by a harsh culture to keep up appearances.

Marriage is not for everyone! Know this and know peace!

Let's not keep deceiving ourselves hiding under ancient cultures.

.........if ur personal life not rossy, did u discard it because of that? I biliv u find way(s) to amend it
The more u think u can behave the way u like as a "married man or woman", without looking at emotion of ur partner, the more marriages will continue to crash, for those who ready to reach compromise they would succumb whatever storm that may arise and enjoy it.



Yul edoche that deliberately go and carry one woman to cause problem in his rossy marriage, I biliv people like u will still blame "marriage is not for everyone"
..... medical doctor that gave sleeping pill for wife and did all sorts of nasty things for his wife sister, will still claim marriage is not for everyone

.....wife that wants to dominate husband , will still claim marriage is not for everyone....

AZControversial:


There was a time when the word alone 'DIVORCE' was a taboo not to mention the act.

The bad thing about imitating Western culture wholly rather than selectively.

It's not even a culture per say in the western.

It's anomaly even to western ppl.

NWO

Ok

Normal, normal.
As marriages keep crashing everyday, people keep getting married every week.
The idea of marriage is flawed and unfortunately, divorce will continue to happen.

Marriage in the real sense of it is a prison and nobody likes to be in a prison. For those who are christians and say marriage is ordained by God, why did Jesus not get married?

Marriage was created by men and will be sustained by both parties in it, unfortunately the disadvantages of marriage far outweighs the advantages don't let anyone decieve you. It's only when you enter it yourself that you'll have a personal experience.

Fiscus105:

.........if ur personal life not rossy, did u discard it because of that? I biliv u find way(s) to amend it
The more u think u can behave the way u like as a "married man or woman", without looking at emotion of ur partner, the more marriages will continue to crash, for those who ready to reach compromise they would succumb whatever storm Thay may arise and enjoy it.

Your words ring true, and I abide by them personally.

However, it's a free world... There is no compulsion for any man or woman to apply this simple life principle.

That's why we will keep having divorce rates skyrocket while some other homes built on sound principles continue to thrive... Different strokes these days.

Times have drastically and remarkably changed, so have emotional stability and principles of most people...!

Do what works for you, and don't harshly judge another for failing the same test.

My case is rested here! Compliments of this season!

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

you nailed it all

deyplay:
really since the God of Malachi is not the same God that Jesus was quoting in Matt 19:6-8. Bible commentator!

Deyplay, Jesus that didn't get married knew what he was doing.

obembet:


Op, you are the next

You wan make Dem swear for you this Christmas, abi you think say divorce na better thing?

Angelfrost:


Your words ring true, and I abide by them personally.

However, it's a free world... There is no compulsion for any man or woman to apply this simple life principle.

That's why we will keep having divorce rates skyrocket while some other homes built on sound principles continue to thrive... Different strokes these days.

Times have drastically and remarkably changed, so have emotional stability and principles of most people...!

Do what works for you, and don't harshly judge another for failing the same test.

My case is rested here! Compliments of this season!

My friend, anybody who didn't read and latter expell need to be harshly blamed and not institution

Anybody who becomes armed Robber and was caught will be blame and not harsh economy

Anybody who is cultist and caught will be harshly blamed. Why? They didn't do things according to rule of the society.

The same way, when u re to marry, you are going for a game that have rules, if two of u stick to the rules , you will enjoy the marriage, afterall, before they join you together they ring the bell that for better and for worse, .....if we think because of modernisation we only want for better alone, surely, marriage will collapse.







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Saint obi?
How sure is this report?

When humans refused to follow the principles set by the originator of marriage which is laid down in the bible what do they expect?

Shebi humans feel say God is outdated? Dem never see anything!

Zonefree:
Again, any rich man going into marriage with a Nigerian girl is being unwise.

Marriage with a Nigerian girl is for the downtrodden.

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Please answer me this, Does this apply to when your Dad married your mum or your sister's husband.

If so, probably your Dad was broke ,and so where your sisters husband?

dontrulee:


Deyplay, Jesus that didn't get married knew what he was doing.

Don't drag Jesus into your wraped/nonsense mentality!

Was jesus sent to earth for fleshly purpose or his he a mighty spirit being?
Do angels get married? Is marriage meant for heavenly bodies?

Do not sin against the holy spirit!