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satandeterrible:
No offence, but you're really a big fool.

No offense, you that is not a fool go and fight your brother kill am because of money, so you will be wise.

No hustle make your own money.

luwiizy:
Your father made a mistake by not writing out a will....

I don't know why men above 50 or 60 thinks this way...
Humans cannot be trusted blood or not....
It's just the fact of Life.

Me na first SON for My p.man, him Don late long time ago...my conciense no go let me sleep if I try this kind thing.

my father didn't write a will, he settled my bro and I separately so that he will be sure of peace in his grave. The hate that first born is breading, he won't be able to contain it when it is full-blown.

Where are you from? Is that the custom from your tribe.

Nsonaso:
This shows that you guys including your mom are only interested in the wealth your late father left behind and yet people will blame polygamy for causing disintegration in the family while the actual cause of family disintegration is the wealth (how to share it).

Before you know it, some will start nurturing the thought to poison the elder brother. Tell me is it because of the love he has for the brother or the love for the wealth?

You see why the bible say money is the root of evil?

If you poison him and he eventually die and the properties shared you buy that luxury cars, and 1 month later they post a beautiful lady has just been killed by a suspected yahoo boy, her body parts are missing. You will start typing God punish yahoo boys. Please what's the difference from you who poisoned his own blood to inherit family wealth?

So people tell me is this a polygamous family? But mom is already going neck to neck with her beloveth son.

Is it the second wife that caused it? Or the third wife or the 4th.

Now for people saying the mom should hold the property, when the son has already come of age? Haba

If I remember Ote$ na him hold his family money the run family business, mom still alive and some will say mom is old, but can you point a time where the mom is in charge of the family wealth?

Now to the op. From what you wrote that he still pays your fee, that means he provides you guys need, and not you guys want. And you guys doesn't see it as anything moreover na una papa money no be him money.

If he has shared it the way you guys wanted, I bet those properties you mentioned would have been sold off and the money will be squandered.

Call your brothers and your mom.
You guys should bring the case back from curt and also apologize to your elder brother, tell him you're sorry to fight him over some inheritance that it's out of ignorance. That he can keep them with no conditions. That you all value your family relationship over some money left behind by late dad.

And then you guys should forget about the so called family wealth and focus. I am not sure Tony Elumelu of UBA has any family inheritance but I am sure you know where he is today.

The family wealth has been your distraction since. You need to let it go and focus.

You’re an idio.t and do not deserve to be among the human species…what did I just read?

2paid2Bmad:
You’re an idio.t and do not deserve to be among the human species…what did I just read?

You that is not an idiot go kill your brother because of money.
And be among human species

...

No, the court did not

Mindlog:
Did the court not freeze the account(s) and income accruing from your late father's estate pending the ruling of the court?

Your response is one sided
Since you have taken sides welldone
If you say he should swallow everything our father left behind all by himself ok
I stated initially, that before the matter came up in court he wasn't treating us properly but since you decided to pick sides it will not let you see the truth and speak it
Thanks

Nsonaso:
This shows that you guys including your mom are only interested in the wealth your late father left behind and yet people will blame polygamy for causing disintegration in the family while the actual cause of family disintegration is the wealth (how to share it).

Before you know it, some will start nurturing the thought to poison the elder brother. Tell me is it because of the love he has for the brother or the love for the wealth?

You see why the bible say money is the root of evil?

If you poison him and he eventually die and the properties shared you buy that luxury cars, and 1 month later they post a beautiful lady has just been killed by a suspected yahoo boy, her body parts are missing. You will start typing God punish yahoo boys. Please what's the difference from you who poisoned his own blood to inherit family wealth?

So people tell me is this a polygamous family? But mom is already going neck to neck with her beloveth son.

Is it the second wife that caused it? Or the third wife or the 4th.

Now for people saying the mom should hold the property, when the son has already come of age? Haba

If I remember Ote$ na him hold his family money the run family business, mom still alive and some will say mom is old, but can you point a time where the mom is in charge of the family wealth?

Now to the op. From what you wrote that he still pays your fee, that means he provides you guys need, and not you guys want. And you guys doesn't see it as anything moreover na una papa money no be him money.

If he has shared it the way you guys wanted, I bet those properties you mentioned would have been sold off and the money will be squandered.

Call your brothers and your mom.
You guys should bring the case back from curt and also apologize to your elder brother, tell him you're sorry to fight him over some inheritance that it's out of ignorance. That he can keep them with no conditions. That you all value your family relationship over some money left behind by late dad.

And then you guys should forget about the so called family wealth and focus. I am not sure Tony Elumelu of UBA has any family inheritance but I am sure you know where he is today.

The family wealth has been your distraction since. You need to let it go and focus.

For the people quoting me:
Note, only LAZY people soley depend and wait for already made wealth to inherit to squander and they can kill their siblings for it.

But hard working people doesn't give a f**k about family inheritance, they hustle their way and make their own money

Also
The image you left in your write up
Is a totally different from my write up
Our father died without a will
If your picture was the case we would have fulfilled our father’s wishes
I am very certain you are similar to our elder brother
That's if it is not you replying the post
To justify your evil selfish deeds
instead of writing

Nsonaso:
This shows that you guys including your mom are only interested in the wealth your late father left behind and yet people will blame polygamy for causing disintegration in the family while the actual cause of family disintegration is the wealth (how to share it).

Before you know it, some will start nurturing the thought to poison the elder brother. Tell me is it because of the love he has for the brother or the love for the wealth?

You see why the bible say money is the root of evil?

If you poison him and he eventually die and the properties shared you buy that luxury cars, and 1 month later they post a beautiful lady has just been killed by a suspected yahoo boy, her body parts are missing. You will start typing God punish yahoo boys. Please what's the difference from you who poisoned his own blood to inherit family wealth?

So people tell me is this a polygamous family? But mom is already going neck to neck with her beloveth son.

Is it the second wife that caused it? Or the third wife or the 4th.

Now for people saying the mom should hold the property, when the son has already come of age? Haba

If I remember Ote$ na him hold his family money the run family business, mom still alive and some will say mom is old, but can you point a time where the mom is in charge of the family wealth?

Now to the op. From what you wrote that he still pays your fee, that means he provides you guys need, and not you guys want. And you guys doesn't see it as anything moreover na una papa money no be him money.

If he has shared it the way you guys wanted, I bet those properties you mentioned would have been sold off and the money will be squandered.

Call your brothers and your mom.
You guys should bring the case back from curt and also apologize to your elder brother, tell him you're sorry to fight him over some inheritance that it's out of ignorance. That he can keep them with no conditions. That you all value your family relationship over some money left behind by late dad.

And then you guys should forget about the so called family wealth and focus. I am not sure Tony Elumelu of UBA has any family inheritance but I am sure you know where he is today.

The family wealth has been your distraction since. You need to let it go and focus.

For the people quoting me:
Note, only LAZY people soley depend and wait for already made wealth to inherit to squander and they can kill their siblings for it.

But hard working people doesn't give a f**k about family inheritance, they hustle their way and make their own money

We have asked him to, he refused

Samantha123:
Since he doesn't want to share with you the money your father left behind, he should at least hire you guys to work in his businesses when you graduate because those businesses are family businesses as they were built with your father's money.

If he still doesn't want to do it, do some digging on him and look for any of his flaws that he has committed that could damage his reputation, use it to blackmail him to hire you.

But if you don't want to do that, then just let him be, karma will locate him soon.

We tried to make things right
When the elders called him he ignored them
and started using them to play mouse and rat

gigabyte13:
Hmmmmmmmm before una keeee unasef,
Make una first go local by
Reporting him to una family head,
Then una village or community head,
Make una first escalate the matter in community ways first.....
I get one brother and uncle like that too, same story like yours, when we open up the matter to the families both immediate and extended dem quickly adjust.

Dem no like matter like that to reach village or community head, because dem get fake image to protect.

She didn't want to initially,
She pleaded with him and he ridiculed her

wellmax:
For your mum to take her son to court tells a lot about the family. Sorry it's too late to right things. Make una go heg una brother

This is what he wants
To inherit solely
Then paint and image that his wealth came from hard work
Whereas he cheated his siblings and mom
Prior to daddy’s death he was struggling just like the rest of us

some nairalanders have commented that
momsi and the other five of us are lazy and stuff like that
So how will they describe our elder brother who wants to solely inherit everything
An angel?

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Na this kind thing dey make person off person street light, your brother is lucky though cuz some families will not even take him to court, if them ask am once or twice for the levels and he no gree remit na him be say him time for earth don dey tik tok.

*Some people go say leave am to God

*Some go say karma will locate him

*Some go say see out the case in court

I really do not know which one is faster because in cases like this if you no act out of context una go wait tire be that, and y'all be left with no option that to forget about everything and start a new and difficult life while he keeps cruising around town and enjoy the families wealth he never worked for which was meant to be for the family.

If you get mind do the needful but if you no get keep going to court and praying to God or better still forget about everything and start that new and difficult I told you about.

Which ever you choose may it favour you

cassie0000:
No, the court did not

It ought to, as I have relatives involved in similar case. The court froze everything, it was the first son that requested for out of court settlement because he became broke as he had no other means of livelihood. The sharing formula was agreed upon and documented before the case was withdrawn.

The way I understand it, your mum should be your father's immediate next-of-kin upon death

oluwaseyi0:
Are you from the Igbo tribe?
Not trying to be tribalistic but if it's true

Igbo seems to have a terrible inheritance culture, ladies get absolutely nothing and the first born can lay claim to everything

Talking from a friend experience who happens to be the first born and unjust beneficiary

NA TRUTH YOU TALK

cassie0000:
Also
The image you left in your write up
Is a totally different from my write up
Our father died without a will
If your picture was the case we would have fulfilled our father’s wishes
I am very certain you are similar to our elder brother
That's if it is not you replying the post
To justify your evil selfish deeds
instead of writing

Sorry miss the picture wasn't for you, is for the people quoting me.

I am not selfish, I am just someone who sees family first over every other thing. And anything that will cause disintegration in the family I will allow you to have it.


And like I said early you people doesn't care about your family unity, you only care about the money.

And your late father never wished for his family to disintegrate because of the wealth he left behind, so if you really want to respect your father's wish like you said, call your family today, tell them the money doesn't worth your family unity.

Or you can take the advice of the people telling you to poison your brother and in 5 years time after you kill him, you will realize that it's worthless.

cassie0000:
This is what he wants
To inherit solely
Then paint and image that his wealth came from hard work
Whereas he cheated his siblings and mom
Prior to daddy’s death he was struggling just like the rest of us

some nairalanders have commented that
momsi and the other five of us are lazy and stuff like that
So how will they describe our elder brother who wants to solely inherit everything
An angel?

Wotoporiously Speaking

I understand everything

Obviously he's got the money to outclass y'all in court, maybe that's why the case has been lingering in court for a while now.

If you get mind do the needful but if you no get leave am to God, that's just how the game goes. THEY ARE MANY WAYS TO MAKE A CHEAT USELESS EVEN WITH HIS MONEY, SPIRITUALLY, TRADITIONALLY, STREET WISE AND OTHERWISE. If blood get mind do blood this kind thing na him be say you sef gaz lock up run am street.

Life is full of shit

cassie0000:
Your response is one sided
Since you have taken sides welldone
If you say he should swallow everything our father left behind all by himself ok
I stated initially, that before the matter came up in court he wasn't treating us properly but since you decided to pick sides it will not let you see the truth and speak it
Thanks

No miss, I know is not fair but is not the reason all of you should gang up and fight him and cause your family to disintegrate.

Your story I've seen the same story so many times.
But your family unity should come first.

Tell yourself what if the wealth is not there, people survive and make their own.

I know a Father that wrote a will and the children are still not following the letters of the Will. The Father made the first daughter and last son the executors, but she is stuck in US due to immigration and the 2 out of 3 brothers, one in UK and one in Lagos have taken over the properties including the youngest executor...so Will does not always do it. I told my Dad...record a voice note so we can always play what you want exactly and if possible assign your properties while you are alive or call a meeting to that effect after a certain age...it can be dangerous though cos the children with less can harm the living parents sha. May God help us all

luwiizy:
Your father made a mistake by not writing out a will....

I don't know why men above 50 or 60 thinks this way...
Humans cannot be trusted blood or not....
It's just the fact of Life.

Me na first SON for My p.man, him Don late long time ago...my conciense no go let me sleep if I try this kind thing.

cassie0000:
We tried to make things right
When the elders called him he ignored them
and started using them to play mouse and rat

If you are in Lagos State
Report him to any human right centers closer to you....
Dem go server am notice to appear, if he no apoear, dem go pick am up.....

Our elder brother is the one who cares about father's wealth and decided to inherit everything solely for himself damning disintegration and loving his nuclear family not I, my siblings or my mom
So stop trying to smear us , just to justify your ideology that does not upload the things that you stated you are
You say you are someone who sees family first over every other thing,
but does my brother's actions that you justified in all your writeup uphold this things you speak of


We do care about our family unity,
It is my elder brother that doesn't care of such and is selfish and want all our father’s wealth to himself
Is actions only show he has been planning this before our father died

So, learn to call a spade a spade
And stop supporting things that are not right morally
em

Nsonaso:
Sorry miss the picture wasn't for you, is for the people quoting me.

I am not selfish, I am just someone who sees family first over every other thing. And anything that will cause disintegration in the family I will allow you to have it.


And like I said early you people doesn't care about your family unity, you only care about the money.

And your late father never wished for his family to disintegrate because of the wealth he left behind, so if you really want to respect your father's wish like you said, call your family today, tell them the money doesn't worth your family unity.

Or you can take the advice of the people telling you to poison your brother and in 5 years time after you kill him, you will realize that it's worthless.

Then here's the plan, get someone who's already working for him, promise him his share only if he can help sabotage your brother's businesses and make it seem like he's incompetent and can't manage the businesses by himself.

Your brother would be stressed out and while this is happening, be there for him and pretend like you care, give him a shoulder to cry on and soften him a bit... Make him need your help and also make sure that you guys are well qualified to work there.

Once he lets you guys in, try turning his employees against him and promising them far better working experiences in their workplace.. get them to vote against him as their boss and then give your brother a lower position within the businesses.

Case closed...

cassie0000:
We have asked him to, he refused

cassie0000:
Good Day everyone
Please
My father died over 10 years ago
We are six children from my father
Since our dad died our elder brother has been the only beneficiary of our father's estate
He is far older than the other five children

Since my father died our eldest brother has been the only major benefactor from our father’s estate
He has built himself different businesses including a hotel bought lands and landed properties and gifted different people goods, property and huge amount of money
But the remaining five of us nothing

Momsi took him to court
since 2015 when momsi has been in court nothing has changed
This is just a summary of everything that has been happening
And sincerely dunno what to do
It's not fair that only our senior brother is benefiting from what our father left behind
And the only benefit we have gotten is our fees been paid as dad died when we were much younger
And I sincerely do not know what to do

I had similar case, but i was told what to do, which i did and am ready to tell anyone with such problems. Pls it doesn't include killing anyone. It's annoying 09034568201, I confidently left my number here.

cassie0000:
Good Day everyone
Please
My father died over 10 years ago
We are six children from my father
Since our dad died our elder brother has been the only beneficiary of our father's estate
He is far older than the other five children

Since my father died our eldest brother has been the only major benefactor from our father’s estate
He has built himself different businesses including a hotel bought lands and landed properties and gifted different people goods, property and huge amount of money
But the remaining five of us nothing

Momsi took him to court
since 2015 when momsi has been in court nothing has changed
This is just a summary of everything that has been happening
And sincerely dunno what to do
It's not fair that only our senior brother is benefiting from what our father left behind
And the only benefit we have gotten is our fees been paid as dad died when we were much younger
And I sincerely do not know what to do

Stop looking at the properties and build your life, you'll be so grateful in the end of you could do this.

He was the one ganging up against us with some other extended family members
who wants to
benefit from what dad left behind
My mum initially cried to these family members but with time their true nature revealed itself
She felt helpless
We are not the one disintegrating our family
It's our elder brother who wants to inherit what daddy left behind all by himself
Do not justify what is morally wrong under the guise of preaching against disintegration
But if you feel it's right for him to be the sole beneficiary of our dad’s estate then we the other shouldn't it is ok
I.e when you cook a full pot of food meant for more than one person, it's ok and morally right for only one person to consume that full pot of food
No p welldone
If you are same situation you can do same
Thanks

Nsonaso:
No miss, I know is not fair but is not the reason all of you should gang up and fight him and cause your family to disintegrate.

Your story I've seen the same story so many times.
But your family unity should come first.

Tell yourself what if the wealth is not there, people survive and make their own.

It's our elder brother that was clearly putting eyes in our Father's property
Not me
Before dad died he was struggling , but always wanted the flashy life , leaving above his means
Immediately daddy died he wants to swallow everything daddy left behind
I am building my life already for someone my age with no support I am trying unlike my brother when he was my age

It is my elder brother who is far older than me that choose
To steal from his family
By doing things not right so as to inherit everything daddy left behind that is looking for properties to build his life then put up a fake facade of being hard working
Not knowing the dirty things he has done behind

DrDunamis:
Stop looking at the properties and build your life, you'll be so grateful in the end of you could do this.

cassie0000:
Our elder brother is the one who cares about father's wealth and decided to inherit everything solely for himself damning disintegration and loving his nuclear family not I, my siblings or my mom
So stop trying to smear us , just to justify your ideology that does not upload the things that you stated you are
You say you are someone who sees family first over every other thing,
but does my brother's actions that you justified in all your writeup uphold this things you speak of


We do care about our family unity,
It is my elder brother that doesn't care of such and is selfish and want all our father’s wealth to himself
Is actions only show he has been planning this before our father died

So, learn to call a spade a spade
And stop supporting things that are not right morally
em

The bolded, Yes and you fighting him for the same wealth means you only care about the wealth too and not your family unity, and no difference between you and him.

All of you are the same thing is a fact all of your eyes are on the wealth.

And let me tell you something about your brother, he is the stubborn type and the more you go into legal battle with him, with the little money you have that you are supposed to use and pursue your career he will be using your father's money to bribe judge to be adjourning the case, he can even go as far as bribing your own lawyer.

At the end you waste your money, your time and you will be the one drained and stressed out and he will be feeding fat with your late father's wealth and be laughing off his ass.

The advice I gave you is the best advice but you don't want to take. I've witnessed your story so many times and it ends up the same.

I never want to say this before.

The reason why your brother held on to the wealth, is because all of you, your eyes are just on the wealth, nobody want to do anything, everybody wants the late father's property to be shared. And with that type of mindset is only to squander it.

He held on to it so all of you can find your purpose, become useful to yourselves without the inherited family wealth, so then all of you will understand that it is hard to make money, and when it's finally shared you will know how to manage it properly and make best use of it.

And also don't be surprised that is your father that gave him that instruction before he died.

So Miss I will still suggest you go and make peace with your elder brother, forget about your father wealth.

Stop this raging in your heart, anybody tell you to do your brother this or that is not a good friend.

A good friend will want you to be at peace with your friend at all cost.

habsydiamond:
why don't u pick all I said as a sensible individual... instead of u looking fit who to bash why not give her your own advice.. yeye individual. What u refuse to understand is that there are lots of people like him out there who won't do anything for the family to to talk of paying school fee. Am not in support of him incase u don't know.

You don't know the difference between I'm and am. Leave Nairaland and go get proper education.

You are the one who is raging in his heart
And like I said earlier in regards your former replies
If you are in a similar situation do the same to your siblings and mom

Also, other people gave their own opinion
But you are just so focused on killing
Did you see me like anything related to violence

I know your type
It's clear you are doing similar

So write your opinion and keep it moving
You can't force your opinion on others no body forced theirs on you

And like I said above if you are in a similar situation
Attack your sibling and your mom and swallow everything your father has that's if you are not doing it already

Nsonaso:
The bolded, Yes and you fighting him for the same wealth means you only care about the wealth too and not your family unity, and no difference between you and him.

All of you are the same thing is a fact all of your eyes are on the wealth.

And let me tell you something about your brother, he is the stubborn type and the more you go into legal battle with him, with the little money you have that you are supposed to use and pursue your career he will be using your father's money to bribe judge to be adjourning the case, he can even go as far as bribing your own lawyer.

At the end you waste your money, your time and you will be the one drained and stressed out and he will be feeding fat with your late father's wealth and be laughing off his ass.

The advice I gave you is the best advice but you don't want to take. I've witnessed your story so many times and it ends up the same.

I never want to say this before.

The reason why your brother held on to the wealth, is because all of you, your eyes are just on the wealth, nobody want to do anything, everybody wants the late father's property to be shared. And with that type of mindset is only to squander it.

He held on to it so all of you can find your purpose, become useful to yourselves without the inherited family wealth, so then all of you will understand that it is hard to make money, and when it's finally shared you will know how to manage it properly and make best use of it.

And also don't be surprised that is your father that gave him that instruction before he died.

So Miss I will still suggest you go and make peace with your elder brother, forget about your father wealth.

Stop this raging in your heart, anybody tell you to do your brother this or that is not a good friend.

A good friend will want you to be at peace with your friend at all cost.

He held on to our father’s property because he is selfish
Before dad died
he was always leaving above his means
The day daddy died he was already driving daddy’s car
And in a few months went to forge documents of properties
So how is he acting in our best interest
Like you claim?

Besides I guess you were beside our father when he died and gave him instruction to stress his siblings and mom,

Guy you are entitled to your own opinion stop trying to force it down our necks
Besides you can go ahead and advice your friends to do same to their siblings And mom
Cause is beginning to be clear you are doing similar
If you like kill your siblings and your mother then swallow everything your father has it is your bussiness
You can keep been morally decay good for you

Nsonaso:
The bolded, Yes and you fighting him for the same wealth means you only care about the wealth too and not your family unity, and no difference between you and him.

All of you are the same thing is a fact all of your eyes are on the wealth.

And let me tell you something about your brother, he is the stubborn type and the more you go into legal battle with him, with the little money you have that you are supposed to use and pursue your career he will be using your father's money to bribe judge to be adjourning the case, he can even go as far as bribing your own lawyer.

At the end you waste your money, your time and you will be the one drained and stressed out and he will be feeding fat with your late father's wealth and be laughing off his ass.

The advice I gave you is the best advice but you don't want to take. I've witnessed your story so many times and it ends up the same.

I never want to say this before.

The reason why your brother held on to the wealth, is because all of you, your eyes are just on the wealth, nobody want to do anything, everybody wants the late father's property to be shared. And with that type of mindset is only to squander it.

He held on to it so all of you can find your purpose, become useful to yourselves without the inherited family wealth, so then all of you will understand that it is hard to make money, and when it's finally shared you will know how to manage it properly and make best use of it.

And also don't be surprised that is your father that gave him that instruction before he died.

So Miss I will still suggest you go and make peace with your elder brother, forget about your father wealth.

Stop this raging in your heart, anybody tell you to do your brother this or that is not a good friend.

A good friend will want you to be at peace with your friend at all cost.

Wickedfacts:
You don't know the difference between I'm and am. Leave Nairaland and go get proper education.

master teacher... the one that knows it all