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Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by Lukgaf(m): 8:16am On Jan 06, 2023
In Islam, envy (hasad) is considered a sin and is condemned in the Qur'an and hadith (sayings and actions of the Prophet Muhammad). It is described as a feeling of resentment towards someone who has something that one desires, and it can lead to harmful actions or thoughts towards the person who is the object of envy.

The Qur'an describes envy as a characteristic of those who do not believe in God, and it advises believers to avoid envy and to instead cultivate qualities such as generosity and gratitude:

"Envy eats up good deeds just as fire eats up fuel. But Allah removes the effect of envy by His grace. Allah is the All-Knowing, the All-Wise." (Qur'an, 4:113)

"O you who have believed, do not let your wealth and your children divert you from the remembrance of Allah. And whoever does that - then those are the losers." (Qur'an, 63:9)

In hadith, the Prophet Muhammad said, "Do not envy one another; do not inflate prices on one another; do not hate one another; do not turn away from one another; and do not undercut one another, but rather be servants of Allah and brothers." (Sahih Bukhari)

In summary, Islam teaches that envy is a destructive emotion that can lead to harm and division among people. It advises believers to avoid envy and to instead cultivate qualities such as generosity and gratitude.

Here are a few suggestions for how to deal with envy in a healthy way:

Recognize and acknowledge your feelings of envy: It is important to be honest with yourself about your feelings of envy. Acknowledge that you are feeling envious and try to understand the root causes of these feelings.

Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things that you have and are thankful for can help to reduce feelings of envy. Try keeping a gratitude journal or spending a few minutes each day thinking about the things that you are grateful for.

Cultivate contentment: Instead of always striving for more and feeling envious of those who have more than you, try to cultivate a sense of contentment with what you have. Remember that true happiness and fulfillment come from within, not from external possessions or achievements.

Practice compassion: Instead of feeling envious of others, try to look at their situation with compassion. Remember that everyone has struggles and challenges, and try to show understanding and kindness towards those who have what you desire.

Focus on your own goals and accomplishments: Instead of comparing yourself to others and feeling envious, focus on your own goals and accomplishments. Remember that you are on your own unique path, and strive to be the best version of yourself rather than trying to be like someone else.

Seek support: If you are struggling with feelings of envy that are causing you distress, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. They can provide a listening ear and help you work through your feelings in a healthy way.

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by ANTlISLAM: 10:33am On Jan 06, 2023
So therefore you people should stop envying the Children of God

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by ayinde2020: 11:01am On Jan 06, 2023
Mansha Allah

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by superintendents(m): 11:14am On Jan 06, 2023
masha allah...jazakallahu hairan..

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by Sirseedorf(m): 11:14am On Jan 06, 2023
Alhamdulilah for my life and family, no job but am still standing and healthy, optimistically I know it will get better than my previous challenge.

Thanks Op for the informative writeup.

Jumah Mubarak

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by motayoayinde: 11:17am On Jan 06, 2023
ANTlISLAM:
So therefore you people should stop envying the Children of God

ENVY BROUGHT YOU HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by kamalbob(m): 11:21am On Jan 06, 2023
ANTlISLAM:
So therefore you people should stop envying the Children of God

Lol your profile name clearly shows how dumb and unconnected you are. A blind pig dabbling in a lost path. I don't think you are a Christian either because if you know the concept of Christianity you won't waste your time fighting what you will never defeat! Because they (Christians) have tried before and they are trying now and we believe they will keep draining their energy and resources on this (To defeat Islam) but lol we are still growing on daily basis... One last advice, you better focus on your life because this will definitely led you to depression, anxiety, anger, frustration etc and you can absolutely do nothing about it.

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by ANTlISLAM: 11:30am On Jan 06, 2023
motayoayinde:


ENVY BROUGHT YOU HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE.


So you're pained that I am here abi? But your fellow slaves are disturbing the Children of God in their own room shey it is HATRED that led them there in the first place

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by chillychill(f): 11:57am On Jan 06, 2023
I tot jealousy is sin no b envy na ..
Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by motayoayinde: 1:41pm On Jan 06, 2023
Sirseedorf:
Alhamdulilah for my life and family, no job but am still standing and healthy, optimistically I know it will get better than my previous challenge.

Thanks Op for the informative writeup.

Jumah Mubarak

ALLAH IS WITH YOU BRO.
Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by motayoayinde: 1:47pm On Jan 06, 2023
chillychill:
I tot jealousy is sin no b envy na ..

BOTH WORDS MEAN ALMOST THE SAME THING. THEY CAN BE USED INTERCHANGEABLY.

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by tunde1200(m): 2:22pm On Jan 06, 2023
Thank God for today and tomorrow.
Bless me with knowledge more
Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by InneRpro: 2:24pm On Jan 06, 2023

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by chillychill(f): 2:29pm On Jan 06, 2023
motayoayinde:


BOTH WORDS MEAN ALMOST THE SAME THING. THEY CAN BE USED INTERCHANGEABLY.

Torh jazakumllahu khayran

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Re: Do You Envy People: See How To Deal With It? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:14am On Jan 07, 2023
[quote author=Lukgaf post=119760478]In Islam, envy (hasad) is considered a sin and is condemned in the Qur'an and hadith (sayings and actions of the Prophet Muhammad). It is described as a feeling of resentment towards someone who has something that one desires, and it can lead to harmful actions or thoughts towards the person who is the object of envy.

The Qur'an describes envy as a characteristic of those who do not believe in God, and it advises believers to avoid envy and to instead cultivate qualities such as generosity and gratitude:

"Envy eats up good deeds just as fire eats up fuel. But Allah removes the effect of envy by His grace. Allah is the All-Knowing, the All-Wise." (Qur'an, 4:113)

"O you who have believed, do not let your wealth and your children divert you from the remembrance of Allah. And whoever does that - then those are the losers." (Qur'an, 63:9)

In hadith, the Prophet Muhammad said, "Do not envy one another; do not inflate prices on one another; do not hate one another; do not turn away from one another; and do not undercut one another, but rather be servants of Allah and brothers." (Sahih Bukhari)

In summary, Islam teaches that envy is a destructive emotion that can lead to harm and division among people. It advises believers to avoid envy and to instead cultivate qualities such as generosity and gratitude.

Here are a few suggestions for how to deal with envy in a healthy way:

Recognize and acknowledge your feelings of envy: It is important to be honest with yourself about your feelings of envy. Acknowledge that you are feeling envious and try to understand the root causes of these feelings.

Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things that you have and are thankful for can help to reduce feelings of envy. Try keeping a gratitude journal or spending a few minutes each day thinking about the things that you are grateful for.

Cultivate contentment: Instead of always striving for more and feeling envious of those who have more than you, try to cultivate a sense of contentment with what you have. Remember that true happiness and fulfillment come from within, not from external possessions or achievements.

Practice compassion: Instead of feeling envious of others, try to look at their situation with compassion. Remember that everyone has struggles and challenges, and try to show understanding and kindness towards those who have what you desire.

Focus on your own goals and accomplishments: Instead of comparing yourself to others and feeling envious, focus on your own goals and accomplishments. Remember that you are on your own unique path, and strive to be the best version of yourself rather than trying to be like someone else.

Seek support: If you are struggling with feelings of envy that are causing you distress, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. They can provide a listening ear and help you work through your feelings in a healthy way.[/quote,
Thank you sir

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