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How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 10:51am On Jan 11, 2023
Share your experiences... How's it being married? Fun or hell? smiley
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by neonly: 10:57am On Jan 11, 2023
15years just sapareted last year fear woman and marriage and have peace of mind

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by wunmi590(m): 11:29am On Jan 11, 2023


You want give us award?
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Bethanybethel(f): 11:42am On Jan 11, 2023
Been married for 3.5 years my marriage is a happy one , due to both of us being caring , tolerant of each other's foibles.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:15pm On Jan 11, 2023
neonly:
15years just sapareted last year fear woman and marriage and have peace of mind
wow! Tell us what happened. You don't take responsibility for what happened?
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:15pm On Jan 11, 2023
wunmi590:


You want give us award?
I enjoy talking to married men. They are more mature. smiley
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:16pm On Jan 11, 2023
Bethanybethel:
Been married for 3.5 years my marriage is a happy one , due to both of us being caring , tolerant of each other's foibles.
That's so sweet! Many more years together. Do you have children?

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by wunmi590(m): 2:17pm On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
I enjoy talking to married men. They are more mature. smiley

Are you a married man or woman too? wink
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by neonly: 2:18pm On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
wow! Tell us what happened. You don't take responsibility for what happened?


Go tru my post
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:22pm On Jan 11, 2023
wunmi590:


Are you a married man or woman too? wink
In a relationship. I pray one day he and I get married and have 5 kids. Tell me your experience. smiley
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:22pm On Jan 11, 2023
neonly:



Go tru my post
Let me do so.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:26pm On Jan 11, 2023
neonly:



Go tru my post
Sir, you made no mention of what happened. But I understand it was s toxic relationship. I'm sorry. Not all women are like that, you might still find your soulmate. smiley
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by wunmi590(m): 2:30pm On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
In a relationship. I pray one day he and I get married and have 5 kids. Tell me your experience. smiley

Amen to your prayers...

BTW: 5kids in this present Nigeria? shocked


I'm happily married also.... 3years now and I'm enjoying my marriage with God divine mercy...

If given the opportunity to chose my wife again, I will chose her without blinking eyes....

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Socratiz: 2:31pm On Jan 11, 2023
It is a fact that the way you kay your bed is how you lie on it.

Your marriage can work if you're ready to put the efforts.

I've been married for 35 years, (thrifty five) and still counting.

These days, young people think marriage is not supposed to last but that not true.

The family is the bedrock of the society

If each person in a marriage decides that their union would not break, then it will not.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:49pm On Jan 11, 2023
wunmi590:


Amen to your prayers...

BTW: 5kids in this present Nigeria? shocked


I'm happily married also.... 3years now and I'm enjoying my marriage with God divine mercy...

If given the opportunity to chose my wife again, I will chose her without blinking eyes....

Amen!

Hopefully, I'll japa before we get married. He's not a Nigerian.

I absolutely love this! I wish you all the best, may your home be happy and fruitful.

Married life isn't easy but you make it work. That's commendable
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Banilla: 2:51pm On Jan 11, 2023
Socratiz:
It is a fact that the way you kay your bed is how you lie on it.

Your marriage can work if you're ready to put the efforts.

I've been married for 35 years, (thrifty five) and still counting.

These days, young people think marriage is not supposed to last but that not true.

The family is the bedrock of the society

If each person in a marriage decides that their union would not break, then it will not.
shocked

In my culture, we kneel down to greet our elders. I want you to know I am doing so.

Thirty five years? Add three years and that's twice my age!

May God continue to bless you and you wife. These days, marriages don't last. No one is willing to put in the hard work.

May God almighty bless you.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Bethanybethel(f): 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
That's so sweet! Many more years together. Do you have children?

Amen thank you, we have 2 children
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by neonly: 5:53pm On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
Sir, you made no mention of what happened. But I understand it was s toxic relationship. I'm sorry. Not all women are like that, you might still find your soulmate. smiley



I have but d hurt it still very fresh
and hard to forget
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Nazgul: 8:25pm On Jan 11, 2023
I'm here to learn...
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by onumadu: 9:12pm On Jan 11, 2023
neonly:
15years just sapareted last year fear woman and marriage and have peace of mind

Before I would have dismissed this outright, but my brother wetin come happen na?
Any interest in sharing your story?
Others may learn a lesson or two from your experience.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by GboyegaD(m): 12:35am On Jan 12, 2023
I am and it has been good so far. It has its challenges particularly, the fact that you both have different upbringing. Willing to learn each other's ways and calling attention to important aspects is very key. Most importantly, communicate your fears/worries/concerns etc.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by neonly: 10:36am On Jan 12, 2023
onumadu:


Before I would have dismissed this outright, but my brother wetin come happen na?
Any interest in sharing your story?
Others may learn a lesson or two from your experience.
She just decided to be an enemy within our home and it was really disturbing my sanity and children welfare
Peace has returned to my home now with my children
Love is so abodant that I regret not taking d decision of seperation years ago
Check my tread you will have an idea
Peace

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by gannod(m): 9:20pm On Jan 12, 2023
Eleven years, till death do us apart at old age.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by emmanuelbrown26: 10:57pm On Jan 12, 2023
I think d earlier we change d subject matter d better for us. Marriage is just a retirement plan for women.
D subject matter would hv being "How long hv u being in retirement plan with a woman"
If u ask an average and sincere man out their, he will still tell u same story but in a different way.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by culf: 4:04am On Jan 13, 2023
Fun
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by onumadu: 8:20am On Jan 13, 2023
emmanuelbrown26:
I think d earlier we change d subject matter d better for us. Marriage is just a retirement plan for women.
D subject matter would hv being "How long hv u being in retirement plan with a woman"
If u ask an average and sincere man out their, he will still tell u same story but in a different way.

cheesy cheesy
But bros generalization can be dangerous o.
Some men also use their wives for retirement too. In fact in our clime, the wife ( a good wife that is) takes care and nurtures her husband in his old age. That is why some men die fairly quickly after their wife's death.
It is neither here nor there.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by onumadu: 8:25am On Jan 13, 2023
neonly:

She just decided to be an enemy within our home and it was really disturbing my sanity and children welfare
Peace has returned to my home now with my children
Love is so abodant that I regret not taking d decision of seperation years ago
Check my tread you will have an idea
Peace

Okay bro.
Being through your thread and now understand what you mean.
Your life and sanity is what matters.
It takes a lot of courage to end a bad marriage.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Octobertwentysix(f): 4:17pm On Jan 13, 2023
Been married for eleven plus now it's been sweet and sometimes sour, but mostly sweet, marriage is all about compromise, there's no perfect marriage out there just as there's no perfect person.

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Octobertwentysix(f): 4:17pm On Jan 13, 2023
Been married for eleven plus now it's been sweet and sometimes sour, but mostly sweet marriage is all about compromise, there's no perfect marriage out there just as there's no perfect person.
Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Flakky26(f): 4:28pm On Jan 13, 2023
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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Flakky26(f): 4:30pm On Jan 13, 2023
14 years married . Its been fun ,though not perfect. we have been better together staying married.
Banilla:
Share your experiences... How's it being married? Fun or hell? smiley

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Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by kuse2(m): 8:02pm On Jan 13, 2023
We've done 11 years 3 months.. Happy sometimes (60%), boring sometimes (30%), troublesome at times (10%).

In all, God bless my wife for being so supportive even when I lose tracks..

Marraige responsibility no be for weak hearted sha



Banilla:
Share your experiences... How's it being married? Fun or hell? smiley

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