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I want to find out if recommendations can help me get a good lady to settle down in marriage this year.

I am in search of a young girl i can marry and as much as i am searching i also want to involve some credible people in church or elsewhere to help me find a good girl that i can settle down with.

I dont know if this is a good idea but i have heard that some people got very good women for marriage through recommendations. I just want to try.

I really just want a woman who is prudent, who loves God, prayerful and attractive.

Mode4:
I want to find out if recommendations can help me get a good lady to settle down in marriage this year.

I am in search of a young girl i can marry and as much as i am searching i also want to involve some credible people in church or elsewhere to help me find a good girl that i can settle down with.

I dont know if this is a good idea but i have heard that some people got very good women for marriage through recommendations. I just want to try.

I really just want a woman who is prudent, who loves God, prayerful and attractive. Please chat me up if you are interested. 08065130886.

Recommendations is good but just know she will pretend before marriage and her true colours will appear after marriage.

Hmm

Have you checked all your ex, there's no one worth marrying ? Getting into marriage of recommendation may not give you a wife of choice .

Mode4:
Hmm

You better look for a woman yourself? What's the problem?

You can't talk to women?

There are women in your place of work, your church, your gym all around you.

You need to make the decision yourself and stop relying on people's recommendations. That's how people get into terrible marriages.

You placed an emphasis on young women, lol. Be careful what you wish for. Young girls these days want to experience the world before settling down. You should rather look for a responsible lady that has maturity for marriage. A lady that possesses the traits you want in a wife. That's the more reason you need to do the search yourself.

Mrkumareze:
Have you checked all your ex, there's no one worth marrying ? Getting into marriage of recommendation may not give you a wife of choice .

But i learned that before now, our forebears married mostly through recommendations and it worked well. I really dont know if that was a defining factor or something else.

Kajaard:
You better look for a woman yourself? What's the problem?

You can't talk to women?

There are women on your place of work, your church, your gym all around you.

You need to make the decision yourself and stop relying on people's recommendations. That's how people get into terrible marriages.

I didnt say i cant talk to a woman. I said i am searching too.

Mode4:
I didnt say i cant talk to a woman. I said i am searching too.

You missed out some part of what I wrote. See below. Happy searching

Mode4:
But i learned that before now, our forebears married mostly through recommendations and it worked well. I really dont know if that was a defining factor or something else.

See u see retired olosho . Our forefathers trained their children in culture and heritage . Today, you can't define anyone 50% by tribe.

Kajaard:
You missed out some part of what I wrote. See below. Happy searching

That i am interested in a woman that is young doesn't mean i need a teenager. Ofcourse i need a mature woman.

Mode4:
That i am interested in a woman that is young doesn't mean i need a teenager. Ofcourse i need a mature woman.

i have a friend who is looking for a husband.. Are you of yoruba descent?

Cutehector:
i have a friend who is looking for a husband.. Are you of yoruba descent?

. No

Mode4:
. No

ok what is your tribe

Cutehector:
ok what is your tribe

Ibibio.

Mode4:
Ibibio.

how much you get?

EbenezerTriumph:
how much you get?

Silly question. Very common in nairaland.

Mode4:
Silly question. Very common in nairaland.

ado useme

EbenezerTriumph:
ado useme

I dont belong to your class. Go to the bush where you belong.