Hobbiton:
it is well!

Amen

chatinent:
Nothing can depress me.

You tell me I look like this or that and expecting me to be sad...and you see me smiling. You try trolling, I see jokes. You try insult, I read its literature. You try mockery, I see low esteem. You try oppress, I see inferiority complex and seeking validation. You try jealousy or envy, I avoid you.

🙂

I'm auto-happy.

Long life is the goal.

You get the point Wella. It's not about what is thrown at you. It's about the way you see it. Some see abuse. Others see constructive criticism to be better.

No fvck to give.

I see anyone who bodyshames people as one who isn't sound intellectually, is bereft of knowledge and reeks of idiocy, even if you're a professor. You can have a distaste of a person's look, that's normal, some people are less attractive than others, but let it remain in the mindzone. Once you purge it out your mouth you're not any better than the person you're bodyshaming.

emmanuel596:
Work on your body and the things you eat.... you'll only feel body shamed when you actually knows there's something wrong with your body.

Ps
Unless you have a medical condition that won't allow you work out you have reason to be recklessly fat and obesed

Body shaming isn’t about being fat.

Boniwhite:
imagine say u and your girlfriend go church, usher come carry u go children section cos of your looks

I go swear fr d usher

StrongAlphMale:


I don't know why but this shit is funny 🤣

Why you go dey even shave your beards when u know say u no get body? Comrade it'll even make u More smaller. Learn to keep hair (having full hair on your head) and also hit the gym or lift heavy objects to add some muscles.

If u no want muscles, then eat lots of calories to gain fat

My bro I swear I be foodie, but I no dy see where the food dy enter.

Well mine was by my very own father he use to say I have big nose and big head all the time and my siblings will laugh and he used to say it repeatedly ooh, but then I was so stubborn and arrogant I used to intimidate my direct elder brother so my father always say those things each I have arguments or fight with my older brother, I think my father was just trying to help reduce my ego or what ever. But since i became an adult nobody have ever said that to me even jokingly but though I have big nose shaa but I be fine guy regardless. Each time I look in the mirror I use to touch my nose till today and I always remember my father.

marlow1962:

My bro I swear I be foodie, but I no dy see where the food dy enter.

Reduce the number of times you masturbate or better still avoid masturbating, so as to see the outcome of the food you're consuming. Also try hitting the gym

As a child/teenager, I was bodyshamed for being tall and skinny. I felt underdeveloped because in spite of my height, I still looked smaller (age wise) compared to my mates (I was that skinny). It was such a struggle😪. At a point, I was called “baby” by some group of girls because I had no pimples. Thinking about how hard I prayed for pimples makes me laugh now. Wahalurrr

Glory to Jesus! I am still slim and tall. I have a perfect body. I have a normal BMI. I am healthy. I still look younger than most of my mates but I am no longer ashamed. Infact, I count it as one of my blessings. By the way, God gave me the acne I asked for and I’m still dealing with the spots😪.

I think the worst thing about being bodyshamed as a slim person are the assumptions people have and the unsolicited words of advice and consolation. They assume you’re not feeding well. They tell you not to be bothered because you’ll add weight when you birth your first child😪. They advise you to eat 100 square meals per day but gbogbo eleyi ko neccestri 🤷🏼‍♀️

marlow1962:

I go swear fr d usher

don't worry bout your looks much, snoop Dogg badgalriri Eve wizkid them are slim and still using it to their advantage.
buh if worry much then try to be wearing baggy and oversized clothes it will take people's attention from your body and focus on the clothes and it will complement your size .

Leoleo1:
I'm so happy to read this. Some crazy words have recently popped up robbing us of our joy, love and kindness.

"Sense of entitlement " is another that has been severely overused or wrongly used recently. There existed so much joy in sharing and kindness until these big "grammars" came up

The 'sense of entitlement' phrase sickens me above all. You see parents using it on their children; brothers using it on brothers; sisters on sisters. Even those you have been very good to in times past would dare use it on you because you want a little favour.

To ask for assistance from those whom you know and are supposed to have your back isn't as smooth as it used to. Anyways, I just sit back and observe these days. I know that at the roundtable of life, everyone will have his shot.

Person wey body shame me wey no fit give solution na phool.

Imaging calling someone fat and you can't snap your fingers as magician wey you be make things change.

A thread for people to ingrain a victim mentality. Sorry, I don’t play such.

henndukwe18:
They used to say I have a flat ass and ironed chest

Dammmmn.. I just remembered how they use to call one girl flatty during my secondary School days.

Boniwhite:
don't worry bout your looks much, snoop Dogg badgalriri Eve wizkid them are slim and still using it to their advantage.
buh if worry much then try to be wearing baggy and oversized clothes it will take people's attention from your body and focus on the clothes and it will complement your size .

I love baggy

StrongAlphMale:


Reduce the number of times you masturbate or better still avoid masturbating, so as to see the outcome of the food you're consuming. Also try hitting the gym

I do not masturbate, I pay for services. But for now I stick with one, fwb kinda stuff, I think that’s the best for now.

ucee64:
please what is Apari

bald headed

The funny thing is that, whatever we call ourselves (body shaming) we are speaking directly to GOD

chatinent:
Nothing can depress me.

You tell me I look like this or that and expecting me to be sad...and you see me smiling. You try trolling, I see jokes. You try insult, I read its literature. You try mockery, I see low esteem. You try oppress, I see inferiority complex and seeking validation. You try jealousy or envy, I avoid you.

🙂

I'm auto-happy.

Long life is the goal.

This is a powerful statement. I love it.

olamidedivotee:
Several times.

Some people used to tell me my head is very small. But I turned deaf ear to them.

I didn't create myself, only my creator knows the best.



In case anyone needs a quality content writer, kindly check my signature for contact detail.

Can I see your head?🧐

henndukwe18:
They used to say I have a flat ass and ironed chest

Truvelisback:
I'm salt of words.

No na sugar of words

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Dammmmn.. I just remembered how they use to call one girl flatty during my secondary School days.

chai

marlow1962:

My bro I swear I be foodie, but I no dy see where the food dy enter.

see my second for here o

Mine is making me feel 😞😞😞 bad,I have this very flexible body, people always think I'm not strong or I'm lazy,they always call me awarawa tomato.....buh I'm physically fit,I lift weights that my friends can't lift,I do push ups too... it's giving me low self esteem... anytime I confront them it'll become worse, they'd talk about me everyday..

Stevo22:
I was outspoken and full of life when growing up not until people started body shaming me. It destroyed my self esteem and demoralized me.Till now, I have never recovered from the effect of it.

Same here....it affected my self esteem....buh re u that fat or slim?