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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Mrtaye: 6:51pm On Jan 30, 2023
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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Mrtaye: 6:53pm On Jan 30, 2023
OGwales:


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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Incrediblekutty(m): 6:58pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:
That was many years ago after my SSCE. I did a delivery job for a woman back then..
This woman harassed me like mad until my friends adviced me not to dull myself...

Long story short, It turned from harassment to a knacking spree... I knacked her like crazy πŸ˜‹.

In other news, FEAR WOMEN



Fear women Kee you dia!!! After you don Bleep finish ABI?? She force your gbola inside her kpekus?? Thief grin
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by CityBoy17: 7:01pm On Jan 30, 2023
Incrediblekutty:




Fear women Kee you dia!!! After you don Bleep finish ABI?? She force your gbola inside her kpekus?? Thief grin

Na married woman with kids.. Na why I say make you fear women na πŸ˜‚

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 7:09pm On Jan 30, 2023
Nope,but I've been sexually harassed by someone below me....more than once!!!
It's always through whatsapp messages,I just pretend like I don't see the messages

Modify: Oh,1 did through telegram,she addressed me using "my love"....it was on her birthday,I wished her a happy birthday and she said thanks my love...I then replied her with,"you're welcome ma"(I'm way older than her ooo)....I told my girlfriend when this particular one started flirting with me...she would enter my office and start asking personal question I wasn't comfortable sharing with anobody at work and she will always want to stay and be "talking" nonsense for hours...anytime,I'm working with her(when it's her shift),I always pray for customer to come so that both of us won't have rest....after months of working there,she started addressing me as sir or she called me by my title

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 7:11pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:
That was many years ago after my SSCE. I did a delivery job for a woman back then..
This woman harassed me like mad until my friends adviced me not to dull myself...

Long story short, It turned from harassment to a knacking spree... I knacked her like crazy πŸ˜‹.

In other news, FEAR WOMEN

Save yourself the stress of having to watch your back always....don't marry!!!
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by ifinger: 7:19pm On Jan 30, 2023
If them toast say no ok no b by force no go de collect urgent 2k and think u no go pay for am with ur pkekus those things comes with dik

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Konjiboii: 7:59pm On Jan 30, 2023
I was a business development manager at a fintech company and there was this entry level babe that just came in and was trying her best to get my attention soo bad, due to the company policy about sexual harassment I avoided her advances and made sure she got the message loud and clear, when I eventually left the company I controlled her over and finally gave her the prick she has been longing for, we fvcked a couple of more times before I lost interest.

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Deepthoughts: 8:27pm On Jan 30, 2023
justyhere:
Have you ever been sexually harassed by your boss as a male or female?
How did it happen and how did you deal with it?

Please Share
define sexual harassment
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by CityBoy17: 8:32pm On Jan 30, 2023
drimzsmoke:


Save yourself the stress of having to watch your back always....don't marry!!!

Who wan marry before?
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 8:54pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:


Who wan marry before?

Lolz....for now,you think!!!
Go and write today's date somewhere,you will marry and the cycle of the event you started will be completed.Nature has a way of restoring balance to everything....this life BALANCE,na shortsighted lazy Nigerian youths full am!!!
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by CityBoy17: 9:06pm On Jan 30, 2023
drimzsmoke:


Lolz....for now,you think!!!
Go and write today's date somewhere,you will marry and the cycle of the event you started will be completed.Nature has a way of restoring balance to everything....this life BALANCE,na shortsighted lazy Nigerian youths full am!!!

And how does my experience happen to upset you? I have never been a fan of being tied down to a woman...
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by juman(m): 9:10pm On Jan 30, 2023
Long time ago I worked at a place, the boss had to reach the punny of most of the female staff including married ones.
We concluded maybe he was using it for juju.

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 9:35pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:


And how does my experience happen to upset you? I have never been a fan of being tied down to a woman...

You recounted it without showing remorse and then ended it with,"fear woman",that's what I found nauseating

Lolz,you don't plan life....it happens!!!
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by CityBoy17: 9:49pm On Jan 30, 2023
drimzsmoke:


You recounted it without showing remorse and then ended it with,"fear woman",that's what I found nauseating

Lolz,you don't plan life....it happens!!!


The reason I said fear women was the fact that the woman being married with Kids still made advances to a young teenage boy back then despite the heaven and earth her husband gives her.. I was unlucky to have bad friends who pushed me into doing such with her..

About the marriage ish, What if I told you that I have never been in a relationship. All of the sexcapades Ive had were with "just friends". No commitment, no argument. Just Peace of Mind. And thats would be the same orientation till I grow old. I'on wanna get married
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 10:15pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:



The reason I said fear women was the fact that the woman being married with Kids still made advances to a young teenage boy back then despite the heaven and earth her husband gives her.. I was unlucky to have bad friends who pushed me into doing such with her..

About the marriage ish, What if I told you that I have never been in a relationship. All of the sexcapades Ive had were with "just friends". No commitment, no argument. Just Peace of Mind. And thats would be the same orientation till I grow old. I'on wanna get married

The woman you had sex with was most likely in her early 30s or late 20s....and trust me,her husband wasn't giving her everything like you thought

Lolz,when I was younger,way back from secondary school, I always tell my friends I'd never marry and I never had a girlfriend,back in university days,when I wanted sex,I pay for the service of a sex worker,I just never liked the idea of being tied down for whatever reason and i hated the idea of lying to someone just to get in their pants either,I can't give what I don't have, I've always wanted my mum to be my number 1 woman.After my sister gave birth to her daughter,the girl entered my eyes and since then I've always wanted a daughter of my own...now to raise a daughter,I'll need to provide for a suitable environment filled with love where she can grow up,but to do that,I need to marry.I hate marriage/relationship because I don't know how to tolerate and forgive people(I've dated more than 5 ladies since 2014 till date and I didn't spend up to 5 months with any of them;If I should start posting a girl on my status tomorrow,my cousin,brother and sister will start saying,"I give you 6months" grin)....now I can chose not to have my own daughter,but then,years from now when I get older,I'm definitely going to want to have my grandkids coming over to my place for the holiday to spoil them silly...I don't want to be alone when I get old,what happens if I fall sick or live too old and start having dementia

(Modify:If you ever show any sign of mental illness,you psychiatrist will advise you that you must get married,people do well with mental illness when they are married and employed)

I'm sorry if I sounded harsh earlier sha,I was also having a bad day here,no vex
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by CityBoy17: 10:18pm On Jan 30, 2023
drimzsmoke:


The woman you had sex is was most likely in her early 30s or late 20s....and trust me,her husband wasn't giving her everything like you thought

Lolz,when I was younger,way back from secondary school, I always tell my friends I'd never marry and I'll never had a girlfriend,back in university days,when I wanted sex,I pay for the service of a sex worker,I just never liked the idea of being tied down for whatever reason and i hated the idea of lying to someone just to get in their pants either,I can't give what I don't have, I've always wanted my mum to be my number 1 woman.After my sister gave birth to her daughter,the girl entered my eyes and since then I've always wanted a daughter of my own...now to raise a daughter,I'll need to provide for a suitable environment filled with love where she can grow up,but to do that,I need to marry.I hate marriage/relationship because I don't know how to tolerate and forgive people(I've dated more than 5 ladies since 2014 till date and I didn't spend up to 5 months with any of them;If I should start posting a girl on my status tomorrow,my cousin,brother and sister will start saying,"I give you 6months" grin)....now I can chose not to have my own daughter,but then,years from now when I get older,I'm definitely going to want to have my grandkids coming over to my place for the holiday to spoil them silly

I'm sorry if I sounded harsh earlier sha,I was also having a bad day here,no vex

No qualms bro..
I wish us good women though..
One love ❀
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by drimzsmoke(m): 10:23pm On Jan 30, 2023
CityBoy17:


No qualms bro..
I wish us good women though..
One love ❀

Thanks,and you too....do enjoy the rest of your night!!!!
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 10:57pm On Jan 30, 2023
Depends on who is harassing who grin


salbis:
Say No to sexual harassment.

Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by clydecarson(m): 11:50pm On Jan 30, 2023
VillagePipu:


Vote for Obi make UGM wipe out your family, starting with your mama


Ogun kill anyone who vote for Tinubu starting with your whole family
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by phemmyfour: 11:55pm On Jan 30, 2023
justyhere:
Have you ever been sexually harassed by your boss as a male or female?
How did it happen and how did you deal with it?

Please Share
I be the boss wey dey harass them
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by muzzafar(m): 12:00am On Jan 31, 2023
aycorporat:

Stroke and paralysis to anyone using bullying tactics to coerce people

amen oh
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by space9880: 8:10am On Jan 31, 2023
If my female boss harass me I go just give her belle no time.
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by kafeii123: 8:20am On Jan 31, 2023
drimzsmoke:


The woman you had sex with was most likely in her early 30s or late 20s....and trust me,her husband wasn't giving her everything like you thought

Lolz,when I was younger,way back from secondary school, I always tell my friends I'd never marry and I never had a girlfriend,back in university days,when I wanted sex,I pay for the service of a sex worker,I just never liked the idea of being tied down for whatever reason and i hated the idea of lying to someone just to get in their pants either,I can't give what I don't have, I've always wanted my mum to be my number 1 woman.After my sister gave birth to her daughter,the girl entered my eyes and since then I've always wanted a daughter of my own...now to raise a daughter,I'll need to provide for a suitable environment filled with love where she can grow up,but to do that,I need to marry.I hate marriage/relationship because I don't know how to tolerate and forgive people(I've dated more than 5 ladies since 2014 till date and I didn't spend up to 5 months with any of them;If I should start posting a girl on my status tomorrow,my cousin,brother and sister will start saying,"I give you 6months" grin)....now I can chose not to have my own daughter,but then,years from now when I get older,I'm definitely going to want to have my grandkids coming over to my place for the holiday to spoil them silly...I don't want to be alone when I get old,what happens if I fall sick or live too old and start having dementia

(Modify:If you ever show any sign of mental illness,you psychiatrist will advise you that you must get married,people do well with mental illness when they are married and employed)

I'm sorry if I sounded harsh earlier sha,I was also having a bad day here,no vex


Sorry...I understand your drift ... I'll advise to just give having a stable relationship a try..... That actually means you putting up with shit that would normally have made you walk out tho....but it's really worth it

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Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by kafeii123: 8:24am On Jan 31, 2023
GreatVocalist:
My fiancee was raped by her client's son (a married man with kids) late last year. Now she's pregnant, and the man's family has been doing everything possible to stop her from pressing charges. It has been hell for her, her family and myself. Because of the pain and trauma, she's terminated the pregnancy, which seems to be the only evidence against the beast of a man. If there's anyone here who has suggestions on how to go about this successfully, please I'm open.


None of the things I'll advise you is legal and nonviolent...so take heart
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by juman(m): 2:28pm On Jan 31, 2023
One highly promiscuous boss, told a pregnant employee that either she was ready for him to sample her like others or she should be ready to leave the company.

The woman said no.
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by sacajawea: 2:24am On Feb 01, 2023
Houseofglam7:
Waiting for that β€˜lady’ who has a disgusting obsession for her boss to come share her unending tales.
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Huh??
So confused right now
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by OrigeenalSeven: 6:21pm On Feb 01, 2023
My female boss almost succeeded in raping the daylight out of me until this useless cleaner akpan just bump into us. The thing pain me fah
Uptil this very moment I never see female boss way go sexually harass me
Abeg incase if una see any beautiful female boss way dey look for worker way she go dey harass sexually i dey available
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by OrigeenalSeven: 6:23pm On Feb 01, 2023
omoplaycool:

Trust me, I don't think anyine will sincerely wish to be "molested "

Lol
Are you "anyone"
Speak for ursef alone comrade
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by omoplaycool(m): 4:31am On Feb 02, 2023
Offpoint1:

I wish for molestation and harrasment by a beautiful female Boss grin

[/b] Molest..(verb)
to touch or attack someone in a sexual way against their wishes..

It seems to me a paradox to have the word [b]
wish and [b][/b]Molest in the same sentence....
The fact that you wish it doesn't make it "molestation "
Re: Ever Been Sexually Harassed By Your Boss? How Did You Deal With It? by Lovelydaisies: 11:11am On Feb 06, 2023
Well, yes. He was my first boss after uni. I took the job while awaiting service. He tried to get me, even though he had just gotten married at the time. Worse was his friends too. They wanted to have a share. I wondered what they saw in me because I was just a decent church girl looking to make a decent living, not sophisticated like the runs girls or anything. At the time, I didn't know it was 'sexual harassment'. I thought he was just making advances.

It doesn't mean I wasn't attractive. I was beautiful, young, fresh, educated and with a nice figure though. I turned heads and I guess that's why theirs turned too. grin grin

It wasn't easy but we are where we are. He still owes me half month salary till date. angry

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