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I am a single mum of 1 and I am 40 years old. I and my son father had issues of genotype “AS” while I was pregnant with our son. We were never married. Our son is 8 years now. We tried to see if we could stay together as a family for 9 months but it didn’t work.

Because I already see myself doing all the spending in the relationship and that’s not the problem with me but he keeps taking it for granted. He doesn’t want to support with any bills yet works and earns good. I had to move out of the house because I know I can do better without him.


He pushed the blame of the AS on me that I lied to him about my Genotype. Whereas all through my growing up from school and all, I have been AA. The last test I did before pregnancy was still AA. I just don’t know how I turned AS when I was pregnant. I want to believe the Hospitals I have been running my tests played me on that. But I thank God our son is AS too.. Now I wish to have more kids but I want to talk to my son’s father about us doing IVF.. I don’t know if he will agree to that though.

Because we are really not into each other like that. We were both introduced to each other by our friends way back then that saw us more like people who don’t want to settle down. As God will have it, we had a son. Because we are both the workaholic type. I love my sanity a whole lot and dodged any drama that has to come with relationship. No responsible man out there yet and the fear of menopause is wanting me to have more kids now before it’s too late.

My son’s dad is not yet married too.. we have been seperated for 7 years now. I’m not sure if I should go ahead and ask him if we should do IVF. We both have been Co-parenting for those years. And he has been doing his fatherly role to his son. Meaning he could spend on his son but not me. I have no problem with that. But we can’t be together as husband and wife because I know we don’t have any feelings for each other. We are better off Co - parenting than being in a marriage we both know won’t work. He’s still single too.

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IVF cost 300,000
With no assurance of working
Why not come to canananland for three months, obey the instructions and watch how God gives u triplets

SanctifiedSista:
IVF cost 300,000
With no assurance of working
Why not come to canananland for three months, obey the instructions and watch how God gives u triplets

Your idea of the cost of IVF is enough reason for any sensible person to ignore your post. You're annoyingly ignorant. I feel like giving you a heavy knock.

Forbrok:
I am a single mum of 1 and I am 40 years old. I and my son father had issues of genotype “AS” while I was pregnant with our son. We were never married. Our son is 8 years now. We tried to see if we could stay together as a family for 9 months but it didn’t work.

Because I already see myself doing all the spending in the relationship and that’s not the problem with me but he keeps taking it for granted. He doesn’t want to support with any bills yet works and earns good. I had to move out of the house because I know I can do better without him.


He pushed the blame of the AS on me that I lied to him about my Genotype. Whereas all through my growing up from school and all, I have been AA. The last test I did before pregnancy was still AA. I just don’t know how I turned AS when I was pregnant. I want to believe the Hospitals I have been running my tests played me on that. But I thank God our son is AS too.. Now I wish to have more kids but I want to talk to my son’s father about us doing IVF.. I don’t know if he will agree to that though.

Because we are really not into each other like that. We were both introduced to each other by our friends way back then that saw us more like people who don’t want to settle down. As God will have it, we had a son. Because we are both the workaholic type. I love my sanity a whole lot and dodged any drama that has to come with relationship. No responsible man out there yet and the fear of menopause is wanting me to have more kids now before it’s too late.

My son’s dad is not yet married too.. we have been seperated for 7 years now. I’m not sure if I should go ahead and ask him if we should do IVF. We both have been Co-parenting for those years. And he has been doing his fatherly role to his son. Meaning he could spend on his son but not me. I have no problem with that. But we can’t be together as husband and wife because I know we don’t have any feelings for each other. We are better off Co - parenting than being in a marriage we both know won’t work. He’s still single too.

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Even if he accepts the IVF bear in mind that you will sponsor it from start to finish

Are you ready for that cost and challenges

If yes then you can reignite the relationship even though there is no love, just for you to get pregnant the second time

Having done that, don't be surprise that both of you will still come together as couple at the end of the whole issues

He is getting older and may end up with you

You already have kids with him and if you don't get another spouse, you may end up with him

SanctifiedSista:
IVF cost 300,000
With no assurance of working
Why not come to canananland for three months, obey the instructions and watch how God gives u triplets

even a native doctor will not collect 300k for IVF.
get your facts right before using opera mini free 50mb to comment on nairaland.

Forbrok,
since she and the man are not married,
she can go ahead with the IVF if she can afford it.