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Good day,

The day after valentine, I was cleaning up our room and saw a strange package. It was folded neatly. I opened it and saw it was a valentine’s day card, teddy bear and a pack of s3xy lingerie. I was wondering how this got to our room. I had to wait till my wife got out of the shower to ask her who had those things.

When she got out, I asked her. My wife just laughed and said, they did exchange of gifts in their office on valentine’s day. And one of her colleagues that she follows home sometimes from the island was the one that picked her for gift exchange …and so, he was the one that bought her those items.

First of all, I did not buy my wife valentine gifts cos I don’t believe only one day should be valentine, I try to appreciate my wife when I can, not on February 14th. So for her to receive a gift from another man really baffled me. I asked her if she chose anyone in her office to gift and she said yes. I asked her what she bought for the person, she said she bought a book. So, all these happened in my wife’s office and she did not tell me.


I told her that a man that picked her as office val and got her card, teddy and lingerie is out of line and so she must return it. My wife said its just an office thing and that I should not think too much about it. To me, I cannot accept that…why will a man buy my wife undies? What is the meaning of that. My wife said its because I am feeling guilty for not buying her gift that I am getting worked up on the gift another man got her.

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My wife is laughing about this but I am serious. I told her to take this back to her colleague and tell him she cannot accept it. She said if she takes it back, the man might feel somehow….and she does not want to make him start looking at her suspiciously cos he helps give her a ride from work sometimes. I asked what will the man’s wife think and she said, the man bought the items from his wife who has a boutique.


Hian….that kind of thing really got me wondering…which kind of wife will get underwear for her husband to gift another woman….all in the name of innocent office valentine? Well, I think the man is lying about how he got the items or him and his wife are up to no good. I then told my wife that not only will she return the gift, she must stop joining the man in his car home. My wife is still laughing thinking I am not serious but I am dead serious.

My wife is saying I should trust her that the man means no harm, if not…she would not have brought the gift home but my wife does not know that us men are like hunters….now he is gifting her such things…he may just be starting to seduce her and my wife is calling it innocent. Even now, I am afraid that this man is giving my wife rides…even though she is not the only one he gives rides but I am feeling pressured now to get my wife a car cos I am worried about this man.

Abi my people….how una see this matter? Am I over reacting? Am I old school or is this not a serious red flag? Please you people should chuk mouth into this matter.

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What kind of play is that?

No man born of a woman would try

Se o fe ku ni?

Wife or girlfriend?

Na ment?

Wife

Gloriagee:
Wife or girlfriend?

This kind of joke is too expensive to my liking.

You're joking

No way. Unacceptable.

Yes with no intentions.

Prolificlife:
Good day,

The day after valentine, I was cleaning up our room and saw a strange package. It was folded neatly. I opened it and saw it was a valentine’s day card, teddy bear and a pack of s3xy lingerie. I was wondering how this got to our room. I had to wait till my wife got out of the shower to ask her who had those things.

When she got out, I asked her. My wife just laughed and said, they did exchange of gifts in their office on valentine’s day. And one of her colleagues that she follows home sometimes from the island was the one that picked her for gift exchange …and so, he was the one that bought her those items.

First of all, I did not buy my wife valentine gifts cos I don’t believe only one day should be valentine, I try to appreciate my wife when I can, not on February 14th. So for her to receive a gift from another man really baffled me. I asked her if she chose anyone in her office to gift and she said yes. I asked her what she bought for the person, she said she bought a book. So, all these happened in my wife’s office and she did not tell me.


I told her that a man that picked her as office val and got her card, teddy and lingerie is out of line and so she must return it. My wife said its just an office thing and that I should not think too much about it. To me, I cannot accept that…why will a man buy my wife undies? What is the meaning of that. My wife said its because I am feeling guilty for not buying her gift that I am getting worked up on the gift another man got her.

ALSO READ: True Story: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Didn’t Propose On Valentine’s Day

My wife is laughing about this but I am serious. I told her to take this back to her colleague and tell him she cannot accept it. She said if she takes it back, the man might feel somehow….and she does not want to make him start looking at her suspiciously cos he helps give her a ride from work sometimes. I asked what will the man’s wife think and she said, the man bought the items from his wife who has a boutique.


Hian….that kind of thing really got me wondering…which kind of wife will get underwear for her husband to gift another woman….all in the name of innocent office valentine? Well, I think the man is lying about how he got the items or him and his wife are up to no good. I then told my wife that not only will she return the gift, she must stop joining the man in his car home. My wife is still laughing thinking I am not serious but I am dead serious.

My wife is saying I should trust her that the man means no harm, if not…she would not have brought the gift home but my wife does not know that us men are like hunters….now he is gifting her such things…he may just be starting to seduce her and my wife is calling it innocent. Even now, I am afraid that this man is giving my wife rides…even though she is not the only one he gives rides but I am feeling pressured now to get my wife a car cos I am worried about this man.

Abi my people….how una see this matter? Am I over reacting? Am I old school or is this not a serious red flag? Please you people should chuk mouth into this matter.

Anonymous

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you couldn’t appreciate your dear wife on vals day someone else did and you are wailing, you are not serious.

Why undies? Some people lack tact.



Offices do exchange of gift during valentine. I remember one we did few years back, the guy that chose my name bought plenty pampers for me as I was heavily pregnant then.

Yes off course.

All form of Material Gifts are welcome. So far he Is not trying to do anything funny to my Wife. Or else he will be drop dead.

No be me say make some Men come as Mumu for this life.

I don't see anything wrong in office exchange of gifts during val, what I frown at here is the kind of gift he bought for your wife ...

That gift is SUPER INAPPROPRIATE especially coming from a man to another man's wife! ...

And the fact that your wife is taking this lightly and not paying attention to how this makes you feel even after you've communicated your mind is even more repulsive ...


Thinking out loud ...
Since you've communicated your mind to her and she's still taking it lightly, fret not...

Just come back home one day with a fresh scent on you and when she ask, just tell her that a female colleague of yours got you some packs of deodorant which you keep in the office ...

Sha make sure the fragrance is feminine and that you don't allow your wife to use it, it's specially for you ...

If she tries to get jealous, remind of her of this moment ...

Anunakeeh:
Yes off course. All form of Material Gifts are welcome. So far he Is not trying to do anything funny to my Wife. Or else he will be drop dead. No be me say make some Men come as Mumu for this life.

If he is trying to do funny with your wife, at the end of the day, no be your wife go decide whether she go accept the funny wey im wan do or not?

Can a woman cause a man not to cheat if he wants to? Can a man cause a woman not to cheat if she wants to?

What kind of disrespect and rough play is that?

Thanks to ChatGPT for providing this write-up.