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izzou:
[color=royalblue]You are just jumping everywhere, trying to use your case to justify everything.

I know how to cook, and my wife must know how to.

Even if i can afford eating out for 365 days, i would not do it.

When my kids grow, we will teach them how to cook.

Na my life be this. No drag am with me, abeg [/color]

Lmao my case keh.
Lmao I disagree and still accept your own..
I just dey interested in your stance ni..
Everybody is stuck in their ways already 😂

Ibime:
Everything na matter of time, same reason the likes of Mark Zuckerberg wear grey shirt everyday because he no get time to dey style himself

but he can employ a personal stylist if he wants. why isn't he?

hopefulLandlord:
are you trolling? or is the praise Magnoliaa shower on you making you say this?

Huh?
Am I trolling keh?
Is cooking easy?

liveLongNprospa:
This angle.. Even though we've had single men who have been successful sha.. But go on😁

You still haven't answered my question o

BlaqFaze:
the moment she contemplates divorce, she's NOT my wife...she becomes a stranger...an EX-wife

Of course that's what people will think when she starts fantasizing about the proceeds from divorce, like divorce is a business

Exactly.

During the course of the relationship, you expect her to SACRIFICE everything on the altar of being an housewife, because it is the greatest honor of being a woman, while you're free to go make money and to develop yourself and your career, but if she files for divorce because of emotional neglect or you file for divorce for reasons best known to you, all of that woman's "contributions" is suddenly washed down the drain.


It suddenly becomes, "what did she contribute to his success? What has she ever brought to his table? She deserves nothing if the marriage ends."

You just want 'untaxed' and unpaid access to labour, kick her out and bring another woman in who MUST also know how to cook. Rinse and repeat.

Lol..cooking competition.

A man that can't provide is worst than an infidel..I'm sure women will agree to this.

A woman that can't cook should hide her face in shame.. its shameful really.


All these African women buying into western feminism and going about it the wrong way.

Magnoliaa:
A woman must know how to cook, but comes a first date and you ask what a woman brings to the table and she responds exactly that, it's all crickets and judgment. 🤡



If a lady legitly tells you "I can cook" as one of the qualities she's bringing to a relationship, you people will accept it without question? 😂

Tomorrow, you will say they are dumb and cannot intelligently contribute to a business plan and yada yada yada.


Like, goddammit, is cooking a thing of value, for a woman, or not?!

Honestly I always assume every woman knows how to cook. infact all women I've dated know how to cook. what can be different however is that they might not know how to prepare my favourite meals usually due to tribal and/or nurture differences so cooking question for me is assumed answered already

hopefulLandlord:
but he can employ a personal stylist if he wants. why isn't he?

Na him free choice, he learned it from Steve Jobs who always wore black turtleneck because he no get time

But you can bet he pays people to carry out other manly roles like gardening and DIY

BlaqFaze:
women are meant to be pampered

"Wokeness" and "equality" is what is leading to misogyny

The African tradition and culture are sexist and misogynistic to the very core.

liveLongNprospa:
Huh?
Am I trolling keh?
Is cooking easy?

Nor mind them.

Make dem dey zuzu dey go. 😄


I mean, if it's so easyyy and enjoyable, why are they not doing it in their numbers?

liveLongNprospa:
Huh?
Am I trolling keh?
Is cooking easy?

answer depends on circumstances at the time and what type(s) of meals one wants to prepare but making eba for 3 people is "easy"

Magnoliaa:
Will a married man be just as successful if he had to be cleaning poops and bathing and doing school runs as early as 4 a.m., and thinking of what to cook thrice a day, seven days a week?

Okay we sticking to just married men now.. Okay okay.

Answer is no.
But what we have cases of single fathers who navigated this hurdle and still did great😁

hopefulLandlord:
are you trolling? or is the praise Magnoliaa shower on you making you say this?

Prosper is quickly compromising his manhood.

hopefulLandlord:
shoot me then

Gerrout.

BlaqFaze:
Then what...tell me so that I'll learn

Lmao I can't.. You'll learn the one you want to as you grow older 🤲

GloriousGbola:
most of this gender role talk especially where nigerian women are concerned is BS

a Nigerian woman may manage a man who cannot provide, but she will definitely not be happy with him.
and it will slowly and surely chip away at whatever love or feelings there were in the marriage if the issue is not resolved

even more so when women in general and third world women in particular are hypergamous
the whole point of hypergamy is a man who can provide above and beyond your needs

there are enough threads on this platform featuring women cursing out unsuccessful men.

Not just Nigerian women, Majority of women all over the world prioritize ability to provide as one of the top factors in choosing a spouse

A broke man is like a broke hand according to Chris Rocks grandma


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FT4Z4Blss0U

hopefulLandlord:
answer depends on circumstances at the time and what type(s) of meals one wants to prepare but making eba for 3 people is "easy"

Omo to make eba for 3 people hard abeg... Hand dey pain me if I dey turn that amount of garri😭

Emaprince:


Prosper is quickly compromising his manhood.

You dey craze😂😂😂

liveLongNprospa:
Okay we sticking to just married men now.. Okay okay.

Answer is no.
But what we have cases of single fathers who navigated this hurdle and still did great😁

Then every man should become a single father or remain single for life if they think they can do so well with a wife/marriage, mfjpm.

Magnoliaa:
Exactly.

During the course of the relationship, you expect her to SACRIFICE everything on the altar of being an housewife, because it is the greatest honor of being a woman, while you're free to go make money and to develop yourself and your career, but if she files for divorce because of emotional neglect or you file for divorce for reasons best known to you, all of that woman's "contributions" is suddenly washed down the drain.


It suddenly becomes, "what did she contribute to his success? What has she ever brought to his table? She deserves nothing if the marriage ends."

You just want 'untaxed' and unpaid access to labour, kick her out and bring another woman in who MUST also know how to cook. Rinse and repeat.

A housewife who can't cook...does that even make sense

Please explain to me the meaning of emotional neglect

Did you miss the part where the man caters for the family including the wife and kids...is that not sacrifice

If you want to be a career woman that's fine...your husband should know your value and respect your decision

Itsrm:
This is another angle I had not considered. If she makes so much money that cooking significantly impacts on her ability to make the money then getting a chef is unavoidable.

Ahhhh😂😂😂😂

So money is important like this

Fvcking 2023,we still dey drag who go cook

Let's discuss our Football and politics in peace vawulence abeg

BlaqFaze:
A housewife who can't cook...does that even make sense

Please explain to me the meaning of emotional neglect

O n bi mi o, ta le mi o bi? 🥱

Magnoliaa:
Gerrout.

Nah, I chose to stay

liveLongNprospa:
Lmao I can't.. You'll learn the one you want to as you grow older 🤲

ok give me an example...you can use someone's life as a case study

Amigoss:
Fvcking 2023,we still dey drag who go cook

Let's discuss our Football and politics in peace vawulence abeg

let's discuss the Uk thief

All these females wey dey post here should let us see their full lenght pictures

There are lots of eligible young rich Bachelors here who can cook.

They've spent the better part of the past 12 months cooking Obi, Tinubu and Atiku some cook Jorginho Hazard Maguire Arteta Kepa Harvetz

Let's see pictures jare. Men are visual, we are way better than romance section guys too

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izzou:
[color=royalblue]I did not say you belong in the Kitchen

I said a woman SHOULD KNOW HOW TO COOK.

Instead of applauding ladies that can't cook, encourage them to learn.

If not for anything, because it is the healthy way to make your meals[/color]

You people have time and energy.

liveLongNprospa:
Ahhhh😂😂😂😂

So money is important like this

Very very

Most importantly, I won't be a stumbling block to the career progression and aspiration of my wife. That's where I'm coming from.

raumdeuter:
All these females wey dey post here should let us see their full lenght pictures

There are lots of eligible young rich Bachelors here who can cook.

They've spent the better part of the past 12 months cooking Obi, Tinubu and Atiku some cook Jorginho Hazard Maguire Arteta Kepa Harvetz

Let's see pictures jare. Men are visual, we are way better than romance section guys too

I wonder why men here dey entertain those girls running their mouth here..

Na like this em dey start oo.. girls always think they can run their mouth on a man and get away with it..

Thanks to my mama Africa and naija.. make Dem try am in their respective homes, make I know who build the house 🏠 or who plays the piper..


Rubbish...

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Everything online is always opposite with the real world.
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Abi oo