₦airaland Forum

raumdeuter:
All these females wey dey post here should let us see their full lenght pictures

There are lots of eligible young rich Bachelors here who can cook.

They've spent the better part of the past 12 months cooking Obi, Tinubu and Atiku some cook Jorginho Hazard Maguire Arteta Kepa Harvetz

Let's see pictures jare. Men are visual, we are way better than romance section guys too

Those women na concentrated feminists. Naija men no wan feminist.

hopefulLandlord:
Honestly I always assume every woman knows how to cook. infact all women I've dated know how to cook. what can be different however is that they might not know how to prepare my favourite meals usually due to tribal and/or nurture differences so cooking question for me is assumed answered already

The problem with all this cooking talk is that the women have somehow convinced themselves that they are the only ones running the house. I am sure the petrol in the generator, and the cars, the gas in the cylinder, the water if there is no borehole all just materialise out of nowhere.

I am not talking about money here - I am talking about effort to track and procure. Does the woman buy and keep track of everything that runs the house? Groceries, toiletries, house cleaning products? Who is tasked with servicing the generator? Who goes out at 1am to put it on? Who has to figure out why the car is not starting? Who fixes what's broken in the house? Who ensures all the doors are locked at night? Does the trash take itself out?

The other irony about all this cooking noise is the same women who say its not a woman's job will become fiercely territorial about 'my kitchen'

In the end to be a man - choose not to understand, but to accept. Also this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JfR_edlEfM

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Everything online is always opposite with the real world.
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na those west dey give those girls liver to talk rubbish on the internet..

If after they keep blabbing rubbish, let them meet their respective boyfriend's or husband and walk the talk..

Stupid..

They want to replicate western wokeness to naija..

Shaa I trust my peeps down here.. fúck around and find out..

Are you people following the drama in Adamawa?

Binani don read acceptance speech while INEC is saying the announced result is null and void

I said it the other day that a time will come when a governor will refuse to leave office. Looking like that will be Finitiri

Magnoliaa:
A woman must know how to cook, but comes a first date and you ask what a woman brings to the table and she responds exactly that, it's all crickets and judgment. 🤡



If a lady legitly tells you "I can cook" as one of the qualities she's bringing to a relationship, you people will accept it without question? 😂

Tomorrow, you will say they are dumb and cannot intelligently contribute to a business plan and yada yada yada.


Like, goddammit, is cooking a thing of value, for a woman, or not?!

Let's face the fact. African men are threatened by an independent woman who doesn't conform to traditional gender roles and stigma.

GloriousGbola:
i think we can both agree that Tinubu has never gone on any observer / conflict resolution / statesman / big brother nigeria thing

that is simply not him and has never been.

you are grasping at straws.

Guinea is a french speaking nation, with ties to france. if this was ghana or some other former commonwealth country, it might make more sense.

https://twitter.com/AO23NG/status/653511279097856000?s=19

Maybe we should ask what the man's always doing in Guinea then.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Everything online is always opposite with the real world.
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Especially on Twitter and Nairaland.


Anyway see wetin Mr. Yakubu INEC don turn Nigeria to.

Them say them no announce any result, but winner dey give victory speech for NTA

Theflint1:
https://twitter.com/AO23NG/status/653511279097856000?s=19

Maybe we should ask what the man's always doing in Guinea then.

I am sure inspecta hundeyin is on the case

Itsrm:
Very very

Most importantly, I won't be a stumbling block to the career progression and aspiration of my wife. That's where I'm coming from.

Ahhhhh my brotherrrr

You that said "Must" just now now🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

Kholiwe:
Let's face the fact. African men are threatened by an independent woman who doesn't conform to traditional gender roles and stigma.

Omo If person wey wan marry you go accept you if you no sabi cook and y'all are happy, good and fine

No come dey tell other people how to live their lives abeg.

It doesn't affect you in any way. Let them be.


Say na threatened. LMAO

liveLongNprospa:
Ahhhhh my brotherrrr

You that said "Must" just now now🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

I also said it was an angle I had not considered. You see what you want to see

GloriousGbola:
The problem with all this cooking talk is that the women have somehow convinced themselves that they are the only ones running the house. I am sure the petrol in the generator, and the cars, the gas in the cylinder, the water if there is no borehole all just materialise out of nowhere.

I am not talking about money here - I am talking about effort to track and procure. Does the woman buy and keep track of everything that runs the house? Groceries, toiletries, house cleaning products? Who is tasked with servicing the generator? Who goes out at 1am to put it on? Who has to figure out why the car is not starting? Who fixes what's broken in the house? Who ensures all the doors are locked at night?

The other irony about all this cooking noise is the same women who say its not a woman's job will become fiercely territorial about 'my kitchen'

In the end to be a man - choose not to understand, but to accept. Also this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JfR_edlEfM

Feminism is just about what appears convenient to women.

Men are hardly appreciated.

Look at what Obaino is going through in Australia...tomorrow if he becomes very rich and marry a naija woman into a comfortable home, she will tell him that she can't cook?

Itsrm:
Are you people following the drama in Adamawa?

Binani don read acceptance speech while INEC is saying the announced result is null and void

I said it the other day that a time will come when a governor will refuse to leave office. Looking like that will be Finitiri

APC will not finish this country

😂😂😂

She has quickly accepted victory.

Even though INEC dissociated themselves from the collation.

APC are something else.

Win at ALL COST!pic.twitter.com/UJTYAt8N1n

— Morris Monye (@Morris_Monye) April 16, 2023

Itsrm:
Very very

Most importantly, I won't be a stumbling block to the career progression and aspiration of my wife. That's where I'm coming from.

Even my father, who believes in traditional roles to the core (guyman no sabi anything wey pass to boil rice and yam) told me this.

He doesn't know how to cook but as I was following him to generator house and to change car oil, na so I dey follow mumsi enter kitchen.

He said until you get to that point, there are things you must do for yourself and this applies to everyone.

Na only for Nairaland we go dey praise woman wey no sabi cook

Unlimited22:
Especially on Twitter and Nairaland.


Anyway see wetin Mr. Yakubu INEC don turn Nigeria to.

Them say them no announce any result, but winner dey give victory speech for NTA

[color=royalblue]This country is a big mess.

This election na the most expensive nonsense wey any government don fund.[/color]

Itsrm:
I also said it was an angle I had not considered. You see what you want to see

I know.. But allow me drag you okay😂😂

[quote author=liveLongNprospa post=122550929]APC will not finish this country

😂😂😂

She has quickly accepted victory.

Even though INEC dissociated themselves from the collation.

APC are something else.

Win at ALL COST!pic.twitter.com/UJTYAt8N1n

— Morris Monye (@Morris_Monye) April 16, 2023

level rigging. Wike dey learn work where these ones dey

Unlimited22:
Even my father, who believes in traditional roles to the core (guyman no sabi anything wey pass to boil rice and yam) told me this.

He doesn't know how to cook but as I was following him to generator house and to change car oil, na so I dey follow mumsi enter kitchen.

He said until you get to that point, there are things you must do for yourself and this applies to everyone.

Na only for Nairaland we go dey praise woman wey no sabi cook

[color=royalblue]Like...

Even if no man will ever taste your food, cook for yourself.

Na only here you go see women praising women for not knowing how to cook...instead of encouraging her to know
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Itsrm:
Next level rigging. Wike dey learn work where these ones dey

Ehsssss ehsssssssssssssss wike rigging had apc people shouting

Emaprince:
Feminism is just about what appears convenient to women.

Men are hardly appreciated.

Look at what Obaino is going through in Australia...tomorrow if he becomes very rich and marry a naija woman into a comfortable home, she will tell him that she can't cook?

if obaino decides after going through all these struggles alone, decides to come to the village and marry one girl from the trenches, and carries her abroad.. if she divorces obaino and takes charge of his home, I personally will contributing flogging obaino..

If he can not find a girl from a good home there.. he better enter into a pre nup marriage or contractual marriage or even adopt the baby mama method..

God forbids a man who a woman will be destroyed, that person deserves to be spat on his grave 🪦

Feminist people don invade this thread

bia carry unah wahala go that nonsense thread.

Unlimited22:
Omo If person wey wan marry you go accept you if you no sabi cook and y'all are happy, good and fine

No come dey tell other people how to live their lives abeg.

It doesn't affect you in any way. Let them be.


Say na threatened. LMAO

How does sexism and stigmatisation of gender roles not affect everyone? It affects your gender as well but society pressure won't allow them speak up because they need to keep the facade of masculinity up.

African men have prejudices against independent women because they are suffering from inferiority complex and a low self esteem. This is bred from male-dominated cultural norms that have been teaching them that a woman is of a "weaker sex". We see it in marriages were the woman earns higher, we see it when a woman is successful outside marriage, we see it when a woman is thriving after a divorce etc

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Like...

Even if no man will ever taste your food, cook for yourself.

Na only here you go see women praising women for not knowing how to cook...instead of encouraging her to know
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Im just not going to Debate such matters anymore because it's basic common sense.


My sister Is a better cook than I am, but we can both cook.

If we dey house i won't be expecting hee to go and start generator or change oil inside motor, or to climb tank and put chlorine.
If the bulb for her room blow I no go expect am to loosen lampholder. But she can do some of these things.

In the same way, even if I follow am ho market or I help, she go enter kitchen.

I even go with her because we're far apart and rarely are at home together...

Na only here wey we go dey clap for woman wey no sabi cook.

[color=royalblue]INEC never announce results, person don give victory and acceptance speech

Is this not punishable by law?[/color]

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Like...

Even if no man will ever taste your food, cook for yourself.

Na only here you go see women praising women for not knowing how to cook...instead of encouraging her to know
[/color]

Now that you put it like that - imagine me as a man saying I don't keep track of the bills that need to be paid. Its not my role.

Unlimited22:
Even my father, who believes in traditional roles to the core (guyman no sabi anything wey pass to boil rice and yam) told me this.

He doesn't know how to cook but as I was following him to generator house and to change car oil, na so I dey follow mumsi enter kitchen.

He said until you get to that point, there are things you must do for yourself and this applies to everyone.

Na only for Nairaland we go dey praise woman wey no sabi cook

This was how we were raised too and it brings me to something else. I wonder what kind of children these our new generation woke ladies will raise when they become mothers. Perhaps, it's just online sha. They may hold a different opinion offline.

Kholiwe:
How does sexism and stigmatisation of gender roles not affect everyone? It affects your gender as well but society pressure won't allow them speak up because they need to keep the facade of masculinity up.

African men have prejudices against independent women because they are suffering from inferiority complex and a low self esteem. This is bred from male-dominated cultural norms that have been teaching them that a woman is of a "weaker sex". We see it in marriages were the woman earns higher, we see it when a woman is successful outside marriage, we see it when a woman is thriving after a divorce etc

My well respected elder sister in Christ, please do what works for you.

But you will not expect me to applaud a woman who cannot cook and isn't willing to learn.

T for gracias.


Na only you sabi how you relate cooking to self esteem and inferiority complex

Unlimited22:
Im just not going to Debate such matters anymore because it's basic common sense.


My sister Is a better cook than I am, but we can both cook.

If we dey house i won't be expecting hee to go and start generator or change oil inside motor, or to climb tank and put chlorine.
If the bulb for her room blow I no go expect am to loosen lampholder. But she can do some of these things.

In the same way, even if I follow am ho market or I help, she go enter kitchen.

I even go with her because we're far apart and rarely are at home together...

Na only here wey we go dey clap for woman wey no sabi cook.

[color=royalblue]After wetin i read here, I really thank God for my life.

I thank God for your own too.

I really thought it was common sense[/color]

GloriousGbola:
Now that you put it like that - imagine me as a man saying I don't keep track of the bills that need to be paid. Its not my role.

[color=royalblue]I just tire[/color]

Incognito9:
Feminist people don invade this thread

bia carry unah wahala go that nonsense thread.

hungry girls claiming feminist..

Girls still living off from the little billings from their boyfriend's and parents..

Stupid and ingredients

Unlimited22:
My well respected elder sister in Christ, please do what works for you.

But you will not expect me to applaud a woman who cannot cook and isn't willing to learn.

T for gracias.


Na only you sabi how you relate cooking to self esteem and inferiority complex

The only reason you think a lady must know how to cook is because you were brought up in an African misogynistic culture. A lady not conforming to that setting is seen as unacceptable to you which makes my argument for me. It's a shame you cant see it.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]After wetin i read here, I really thank God for my life.

I thank God for your own too.

I really thought it was common sense[/color]

Omo my former HOD when I was a student is a Professor of Optometry.

She no dey too get time for domestic work. Her husband is a successful Medical doctor too with his own practice in Owerri.

These people dey travel international. As in, they're not small fish by Naija standards.

Bro, this woman dey tell us how she looks forward to being the one to make her husband's and family's meals by herself whenever she can despite being able to afford help.
I have seen lots of cases like these from very successful women.

I am a doctor and I see great women I'm different fields every day of my life, but I will be threatened by people who are starting their careers and cannot cook.