₦airaland Forum

Magnoliaa:
Urhhmmm, marital rape, FGM and child marriage are also norms around the world, so does that confer a veneer of rightness on them?
Since every part of the world is doing it, yunno.
It is automatically a divine right.
As if patriarchy doesn't cut across cultures, from eras to eras.

Segedinho:

What's this

BlaqFaze:
I said it's essential for a woman to know how to do domestic chores and most importantly cook as a housewife

You guys said it's misogyny because we are "limiting women" that they're life is not in the kitchen

Then you said you don't have a problem with a stay at home dad...why?

Where did equality go?

Going by your analogy, aren't you limiting men?

I thought you're pushing for equality

Kholiwe:
How does sexism and stigmatisation of gender roles not affect everyone? It affects your gender as well but society pressure won't allow them speak up because they need to keep the facade of masculinity up.

African men have prejudices against independent women because they are suffering from inferiority complex and a low self esteem. This is bred from male-dominated cultural norms that have been teaching them that a woman is of a "weaker sex". We see it in marriages were the woman earns higher, we see it when a woman is successful outside marriage, we see it when a woman is thriving after a divorce etc

GloriousGbola:
The Irony of your argument is that women across the world, brought up in different cultures from hyper conservative to Uber liberal have been and still are being taught to cook.

The target market of designer cooking utensils and accessories are not men, they are women. The stars of the cooking threads in this platform are women and no one is bothered with it.

A woman who can cook is as important to a marriage as a man who can knack properly. Yes you can do without either, but a lifetime of this will be pretty grim.

Magnoliaa:
You people call yourselves names in this thread over politics.


Infact, there is no lengths y'all have not gone to in childish draggings and doxxing, but Glorious Gbola wants us to believe that the men on this thread are great and respectable family men who can never be wrong because yada yada yada.



If there are some of you supporting a geriatric Tinubu here, why should I take as a truth your judgments of women's matters and cultures, lmao?

Unlimited22:
Lol

Is it only when the topic is sexual assault that you people remember ratios and percentages?

What's the number of male nurses compared to female nurses?

Miners, deep sea divers, plumbers, sewer workers, truck drivers, Marines, combat roles, firefighters, electricians, construction workers nko?

Prisoners, suicides nko?

Why is the draft in the USA male only?

Why are physical Standards different in many militaries around the world?

Abi we only remember gender roles when we're talking about comfortable cushy stuff?

Again, if you are okay with not cooking and your husband or whoever is too, y'all be fine. No come dey tell others wetin them go do.

raumdeuter:
If you hate men that much then get yourself a cat. You won't need to cook for it, it can hunt mice on its own

GloriousGbola:
The problem with all this cooking talk is that the women have somehow convinced themselves that they are the only ones running the house. I am sure the petrol in the generator, and the cars, the gas in the cylinder, the water if there is no borehole all just materialise out of nowhere.

I am not talking about money here - I am talking about effort to track and procure. Does the woman buy and keep track of everything that runs the house? Groceries, toiletries, house cleaning products? Who is tasked with servicing the generator? Who goes out at 1am to put it on? Who has to figure out why the car is not starting? Who fixes what's broken in the house? Who ensures all the doors are locked at night? Does the trash take itself out?

The other irony about all this cooking noise is the same women who say its not a woman's job will become fiercely territorial about 'my kitchen'

In the end to be a man - choose not to understand, but to accept. Also this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JfR_edlEfM

GloriousGbola:
For me, femininism in Nigeria is largely emancipation without the accompanying responsibility.

This used to be a subject of debates back them on this platform. My salary is for me while my husbands salary is for the family. And the women would argue this vehemently.

Kholiwe:
They are male and female bodybuilders. You have no point here.

Unlimited22:
Even in the kind Scandinavian countries wey them dey praise as the bastion of equality.

The wahala with these people is that they're trying to force equality of outcome. And it is not possible.

Equality of opportunity is.

We are not the same. We have the same rights, but we are not the same.

raumdeuter:
How did this so called patriarchy become a thing across all corners of the globe from cultures who never had contact with each other?

Maybe it's because physically men are stronger, they lead armies establish and defend from external aggression and protect the community

Just like in any gathering the strongest, that takes most responsibility automatically become the leader even if you are living in a colony of women only whichever of them is stronger and willing to take up leadership to defend the community will be the leader

Even among siblings

GloriousGbola:
Look around you carefully. Raumdeuter already said it, so I will reiterate. This is not the romance thread with sexually frustrated boys shouting red pill. This is a thread where most of us are responsible adult males raising families to the best of our abilities. Our arguments and fights and vawulence here are about politics and stealing of photographs.


Save your aggro for the romance threads and the redpillers. You are clearly transferring misplaced aggression

GloriousGbola:
If you continue like this, one will be forced to assume 4th wave femininism is anthtecical to maths/statistics.

Do we have equal numbers of male and female bodybuilders? Is there an even distribution? If not why? Is it because of discrimination?

Segedinho:

Persephone1:
See what you have caused 😂😂😂😂😂

Kholiwe:
Did you miss my post were I said we are eliminating stigmatized gender roles.

folake4u:
If na Twitter now, I for dey trend oh. Kai. 😂😂😂

izzou:
[color=royalblue]

Omoh, i don laugh tire.[/color]

Persephone1:
Lol... So let me get this straight.

Nigerian men monetize Nigerian women's efforts and roles, women are beginning to see and act from men's perspective now there are issues. All of you will be alright!

When you are quick to ask a woman what she brings to the table, what she added to your success, what her contributions are in the home all because they aren't monetary and quantifiable then it's only a matter of time before such woman stop trying, take off her "insignificant" deeds , becomes completely "useless"and contribute what you only understand/acknowledge MONEY by earning.
Drink water you will be alright!

As for cooking, a man who understands and acknowledge the non monetary effort of a woman deserves lots of mouth watering dishes. But a "what do you bring to the table" kind of man deserves "plates filled with cash".
All of us will be alright

BlaqFaze:
so expecting a woman to know to cook it's stigmatisation

When you begin your journey in "eliminating stigmatsed gender role"...

...you should start from pregnancy...why should a woman get pregnant

Then anything a man can do a woman can do better...

Why we have pussies, we can have dicks and fvck better than men

raumdeuter:
Women and men are equal but different

For equality let female boxers get merged with men in the same ring

Unlimited22:
Omo arsenal wan bottle league p

Kholiwe:
Why are expecting the woman to cook in a relationship and not the man? Let's start from there.

folake4u:
If na Twitter now, I for dey trend oh. Kai. 😂😂😂

Lol...you won't only trend, you for don dey contemplate deactivating.

Your posts directed me here, I'm like wait no be folake's post cause this . And where did she say she can't cook self. Lol

I know a lot of things triggers men on Nl but I didn't know food is one of it. Lol

raumdeuter:
Where is this church service

Magnoliaa:
It is very very interesting that you're holding these opinions o.


And we're seeing it come to light like this.

Ehn??

Iwo na?


I swear, I could have sworn that you're the Women's Rights Hand-Man or The Lone Masco-Feminine Voice on NL or a Simp-Knight in Dazzling Armor or some shit like that.


Did you suddenly capitulate, or these perspectives of yours have always been hidden?


You know, like Blue Ray Dick and others here, you could have sat this conversation out instead of trying to pander to your guys here and to be seen like a hard man.

Now, I am not saying you don't have a right to voice your opinions, I am simply saying they are grossly in contrast to the opinions I know you to hold, lmao.

This idea of purity and you’re never compromised and you’re always politically ‘woke’ and all that stuff,” Mr. Obama said. “You should get over that quickly.”

“The world is messy; there are ambiguities,” he continued. “People who do really good stuff have flaws. People who you are fighting may love their kids, and share certain things with you.”

Magnoliaa:
Abeg. I am tired of this argument.

Done and dusted with it over a long while ago.

Again, bring up one million points and shit, nothing will ever counter this- Because something is borne out of nature or is a given all over the world doesn't make it right.

We can go back and forth all day for all eternity, but that will remain incontrovertible.

Segedinho:
Baba.i post as seen o

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Woe is that man that puts his hope in Arsenal another man.[/color]