₦airaland Forum

nihilistjnr:
The anonymous internet allows people to project a little bit.

For example, A peter obi superfan on Nairaland might be spouting anti-obi rhetoric on Facebook.

Don't be surprised to learn that people might be making arguments on here that they don't really believe in.

cc donjazet2

GloriousGbola:
Or do you think our parents and grand parents who sent thier sons and daughters to school in equal numbers were exposed to all your feminist theories?

Was funmilayo ransome Kuti exposed to your manifestos?

But I am glad that you say now that the things feminists are saying, that some of our foreparents did, were actionable feminism (if you like don't call it by the word) in some respect, and not "wokeness" or Westernization.

I clearly mentioned this to Blue Ray Dick yesterday.

Unlimited22:
In Igbo land, especially after the war, families who couldn't afford to send multiple children to the school all chose the females while the boys were asked to go and hustle. The 'Igba boy' entrepreneurial system existed before then but that move made it a lot more popular.

In any health field, you will meet a lot more females than males, capable, smart ladies moving mountains in various fields.

The playing field isn't level for everyone, if not I and Davido or Jowizaza would've started from the exact same point.
A system where everyone is given all they need to succeed and not held back for whatever reason is the ideal. Equality of opportunity. Equity.


When you now begin to insist upon equality of outcome, you begin to create serious problems.

shhh that is what they call benevolent patriarchy these days. when we were in uni, an uncle sent a thinkpad to my sis. he said he would not send me one as i should be able to hustle for it. benevolent patriachy everywhere

GloriousGbola:
You must always keep in mind who you are talking to. I mean the man called me a misogynist and undemocratic

To be fair to him, he has clarified

Ebukacute:
Most of them modern day feminists usually ends like that. Na here we go dey nah when dem go use another moniker dey find husband

like that Magnoliaa chick wey we no send wey get like up to 3 Monkers to exhibit her dubious intentions

1 magnolia for chykin her fellow babes

2 euonai for pushing feminism narratives

3 starlight for other dubious reasons

raumdeuter:
While growing up, I didn't know of any family friend who didn't allow their daughters to go to school but sent their son. Maybe in the generation of our parents sha

Most of my classes from primary school to secondary was half boy and girl
Until SS classes when girls started leaving science class for arts class because they didnt like calculations to university when girls generally avoid Engineering like they do everywhere in the world even in the western countries

Equal outcome that is what liberal parties and Democratic party is about. The advantage Unlimited22 has by being a medical doctor forgetting the rigors he went through to get there.

Rather than not sending the girl, everybody go dey house.

If everybody no go, the girls are first priority.

Donjazet2:
Nope, not our kind of "liberal" that basically entails entertaining people of different faith unlike other Muslims who share more extreme views and attitudes towards people of different faith.

No I'm saying, Muslims who are liberal in their worldviews, pro-abortion, supports gay rights and most importantly believes in women rights and equality of genders. These are the hallmarks of liberalism.

A departure from the former traditional way of life.

I get now. I understood liberal differently

Unlimited22:
Rather than not sending the girl, everybody go dey house.

If everybody no go, the girls are first priority.

The very poor, you will see the boys drop out to learn a trade and the girls also drop out to learn a trade or become traders too

seankafor:
like that Magn oliaa chick wey we no send wey get like up to 3 Monkers to exhibit her dubious intentions

1 magnolia for chykin her fellow babes

2 euonai for pushing feminism narratives

3 starlight for other dubious reasons

From a pseudo- thought leader, who want others to be mature and be like him in hoarding their attention.

Blud, you people are arguing with someone who legit opened a thread and titled it 'Why men shouldn't be on the internet'

The internet, which she is on, which was invented by.........men.

Unlimited22:
Rather than not sending the girl, everybody go dey house.

If everybody no go, the girls are first priority.

If I show this to not be true now, they will say I only do Western-packaged Harvard theories.

Nobody is saying (your) individual experiences doesn't matter, but are you using that to prove a generality or what?

Unlimited22:
Blud, you people are arguing with someone who legit opened a thread and titled it 'Why men shouldn't be on the internet'

The internet, which she is on, which was invented by.........men.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


And you were the one talking about intelligence?

Abeg, kukuma post the link to the thread make everybody see/read.

raumdeuter:
The very poor, you will see the boys drop out to learn a trade and the girls also drop out to learn a trade or become traders too

In Scandinavian countries which are generally accepted to be the leaders in feminism, some programs were started to ensure female quotas in 'traditional male' jobs.
The outcome, of course, wasn't what was expected.

There are still places where women are second hand citizens. They couldn't drive in Saudi Arabia until recently. I don't agree with the extremes of the Afghan regime as an example.
Na all these kind things we suppose dey focus on, not all these yeye arguments that keep recycling on here.

The thing is funny.

seankafor:
cc donjazet2

Are you minding the pedophilia supporter??

Are you taking that one serious?

Eunoiaa:
From a pseudo- thought leader, who want others to be mature and be like him in hoarding their attention.

how does it feel to be a lesbian?

Eunoiaa:
I don die. 😭😭😭


500 what?!

I nor even see Ghana at all.

They probably don ja scale stats

Unlimited22:
In Scandinavian countries which are generally accepted to be the leaders in feminism, some programs were started to ensure female quotas in 'traditional male' jobs.
The outcome, of course, wasn't what was expected.

There are still places where women are second hand citizens. They couldn't drive in Saudi Arabia until recently. I don't agree with the extremes of the Afghan regime as an example.
Na all these kind things we suppose dey focus on, not all these yeye arguments that keep recycling on here.

The thing is funny.

You have been pulling narratives out of the ass and running with it.

Isn't it equality of opportunities we've been talking about since??
Since yesterday, you guys have been dunking on feminists as though feminism is a bad thing and today you're voicing out support for the exact same things feminists have been talking about.

Unlimited22:
In Scandinavian countries which are generally accepted to be the leaders in feminism, some programs were started to ensure female quotas in 'traditional male' jobs.
The outcome, of course, wasn't what was expected.

There are still places where women are second hand citizens. They couldn't drive in Saudi Arabia until recently. I don't agree with the extremes of the Afghan regime as an example.
Na all these kind things we suppose dey focus on, not all these yeye arguments that keep recycling on here.

The thing is funny.

its like my comments on chimamanda in a differnt discussion. her idea of feminism seems to be using her power to get first female chieftaincy titles in her ancestral village - while unlooking the plight of widows and at risk girl children in the same community.

but hey its so much easier to just relax in your neo liberal neo feminist cocoon paint everyone who does not subscribe to your ethos black. so much internet win!

Amigoss:
They probably don ja scale stats

The currency is in dollar so African countries are already at an disadvantage In such a ranking.

Donjazet2:
Are you minding the pedophilia supporter??

Are you taking that one serious?

Please don't be offended....what are the hallmarks of misogyny?

Please type like you want to educate, not to argue.
I will respond like im willing to learn, not to argue.

Itsrm:
I get now. I understood liberal differently

Where I grew up Moslems and Christian are no different

Some of my friends when they don't bear Islamic first names we generally assumed they were Christians cos we all behaved the same way

Until it's time for WAEC and you have to use 3 names then you will see an Islamic name sneak in between the normal Yoruba names we all grew up together drank beer together, go revival grounds together mostly to toast babes, sneak out of school together
Actually post Ramadan beer parlors will tell you their sales will double or triple because of the millions of liberal minded moslems who took a 30days detox break

You can imagine my shock when I started seeing WAEC list and Ahmed coming in between the names of friends Bola Tinubu, or Raji coming up between Tunde Fashola, Gafar between the name of Femi Adebayo etc

There were always liberal minded moslems and Christians who were the majority and all joined to laugh at the conservative Deeper life and Tebliq

We nor get

Donjazet2:
Are you minding the pedophilia supporter??

Are you taking that one serious?

the mender has spoken.

seankafor:
like that Magnoliaa chick wey we no send wey get like up to 3 Monkers to exhibit her dubious intentions

1 magnolia for chykin her fellow babes

2 euonai for pushing feminism narratives

3 starlight for other dubious reasons

Donjazet2:
You have been pulling narratives out of the ass and running with it.

Isn't it equality of opportunities we've been talking about since??
Since yesterday, you guys have been dunking on feminists as though feminism is a bad thing and today you're voicing out support for the exact same things feminists have been talking about.

Bro, you've shown antecedents of getting off on wars of words all the time.

Please just answer the question....what are the hallmarks of misogyny?

Amigoss:
They probably don ja scale stats

I don't understand.

You mean they didn't make the list lol?

Eunoiaa:
Seankafor: feminists are loyal to their men offline. They collect pricks on a steady and pound fufu. They are submissive in a happy marriage.

Ebukacute: feminists always end up lonely and sex-starved and seeking for husbands at the end of their lives.


There is no weapon of greater destruction than the imagination. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

It has sent a deal of people to the great beyond.

We know y'all offline. You will soon drop that phone and face reality.
E go be one chinyere wey dey her bf house dey wash jeans dey disturb us for here

GloriousGbola:
shhh that is what they call benevolent patriarchy these days. when we were in uni, an uncle sent a thinkpad to my sis. he said he would not send me one as i should be able to hustle for it. benevolent patriachy everywhere

You guys do understand that these examples you're actually listing is the very same things feminists are fighting against.

How are you guys not seeing this?

Feminists are saying that people shouldn't be discriminated against by virtue of sex.

I don't know how true this story of sending only girls to school and leaving the boys is. What I do know is that boys themselves preferred to trade than go to school. As in, it was their CHOICE.

But we're saying the same thing. It's very wrong for your uncle to have decided to give your sister the tab while not giving you because you're a male. It's Also very wrong to send a girl to school while not sending the boy to school.

2 wrongs don't make a right.
And the fact that indeed these things did happen doesn't still rule out the fact that women are systematically disadvantaged in our society.
I mean, we live in a country where more than half (100 million) people believe that a woman should never shake a man who isn't her husband. That's still our society.

We live in a society where a woman needs approval from family members for her choice of husband.