₦airaland Forum

Realmrsean:
I think say yahoo na the easiest way of making money, so why people come dey fail for fraud wey dey easy kwanu

BlueRayDick:
Can u imagine ? See how she turned the inheritance into multimillion ventures .

The thing is if u don’t know how to manage money, u just don’t . It doesn’t matter whether u are male or female .

Donjazet2:
Seems like the Yoruba culture has evolved much faster than the igbo culture. Wow

airmark:
At the end of the day, nobody has the absolute ownership of anything in this world. When that time reaches, we surrender all. 😔

A40:
This whole husband family trying to take over Dead husband's properties thing also if we're being honest stems from in Igbo culture how the man is supposed to shoulder every single financial burden of the family. It's all fine and dandy when the man is alive but once he dies everyone is out for blood.

Obviously it's a good thing that people are waking up and deploying wills and what not but mehn I find that aspect of una culture quite problematic. That's also why when you want to mention #1 simps it's Igbo men. Na Igbo man dey pay girlfriend school fees pass. Just that this whole Husband family wahala is the negative side to the patriarchy benefits women enjoy

Realmrsean:
bro, igbo men are many things but simping is none of them

I dey tell you say my tradition no dey send woman, you dey talk of simp..

Paying girl school fees is probably nothing that many people has done for girl or for the coochie gender irrespective

Cromagnon:
what subsidy?
You think they are not looting it?
Either way e no go reach us but we lose more with it with scarcity suffering

Ibime:
In Yoruba land, ask the elders when community land in the village was being shared, maybe in the 1970s or so, whether any woman received a piece? That's where this mentality stems from. When my village shared land in the early 80s, my father had to go and claim land in his name, though he had no intention of building in the village. Then his mother built on the land and lives there till this day.

Realmrsean:
are you afraid of death ☠️💀

Emaprince:
Dem get A1 for that one. Na them girls dissapoint pass after spending money training these girls in school.

Once an igbo man marries...all his wife's family financial problems becomes his. School fees of inlaws becomes their responsibilty.

A40:
Lol I think you're getting it wrong. It's possible to simp and still practice misogynistic traditions. They're not mutually exclusive

For instance I heard there's nothing like paternity fraud in Igbo culture. Any child your wife has whether na you put am there or not is yours by default. Abeg tell me the Simpin wey pass that one.

Why I say na Igbo men simp pass it's because even with their girls there is an entitlement to your pocket that is follow come. All the girls I've met in this life it's only Igbo girls that bill you with authority.

If we count stories of 10 men that pay school fees I'm almost certain 8 na Igbo men

A40:
Lol I think you're getting it wrong. It's possible to simp and still practice misogynistic traditions. They're not mutually exclusive

For instance I heard there's nothing like paternity fraud in Igbo culture. Any child your wife has whether na you put am there or not is yours by default. Abeg tell me the Simpin wey pass that one.

Why I say na Igbo men simp pass it's because even with their girls there is an entitlement to your pocket that is follow come. All the girls I've met in this life it's only Igbo girls that bill you with authority.

If we count stories of 10 men that pay school fees I'm almost certain 8 na Igbo men

airmark:
Nope, It just flashed through my head again that my mum left several acres of land and didn't take anything along. That's how it will continue to be.

Enjoy your life properly, while it lasts.

Roland17:
If i hear!!!!

I am not sure where you heard this gist but baba this one na correct "Lamba". Paternity fraud has led to divorce across the world and the Igbos are not excluded.

BlueRayDick:
It has always been like that for long time. Yorubas usually share properties/inheritance using two main systems ; 1 . Idi-Igi system and 2. ori-ojori system.

The IDI-IGI SYSTEM is one in which the inheritance is shared according to the number of wives the man has . Obviously it’s used in polygamous settings where the man has multiple wives . Each of the wives will get their own proportion which they will keep in trust for their children’s upbringing .

The ORI-OJORI SYSTEM can be used in both polygamous and monogamous settings . Each of the children gets their own proportion of the inheritance . If the man has 3wives with wife A having 3 children, wife B having 2 children and wife C having 5 children…. The 8 children will have their equal share of the inheritance without any regard to other factors.

airmark:
Nope, It just flashed through my head again that my mum left several acres of land and didn't take anything along. That's how it will continue to be.

Enjoy your life properly, while it lasts.

Donjazet2:
The famous rat. Bite and blow breeze.

Buhari has failed in every single aspect of governance but leave it to hoesis to insult our intelligence and whitewash the bloodied linen of buhari.

Keep showing folks here how insensitive and foolishly wicked you are.

BlueRayDick:
It has always been like that for long time. Yorubas usually share properties/inheritance using two main systems ; 1 . Idi-Igi system and 2. ori-ojori system.

The IDI-IGI SYSTEM is one in which the inheritance is shared according to the number of wives the man has . Obviously it’s used in polygamous settings where the man has multiple wives . Each of the wives will get their own proportion which they will keep in trust for their children’s upbringing .

The ORI-OJORI SYSTEM can be used in both polygamous and monogamous settings . Each of the children gets their own proportion of the inheritance . If the man has 3wives with wife A having 3 children, wife B having 2 children and wife C having 5 children…. The 8 children will have their equal share of the inheritance without any regard to other factors.

Like Raumdeuter posted up there , Yorubas don’t really do much gender wahala . Na age and respect gangan be Yoruba headache 🤕

Realmrsean:
Igbo men spend extravagantly, that's why.. not necessarily simping

Ibime:
Una dey try sha. Although I associate disenfranchisement of the female child with Igbo people, I had to remember my great uncle who was our King and had 12 daughters and 4 boys and all his properties went to the 4 boys with no questions asked by any of the women. Then I remembered how both my grandmaternal and grandmaternal villages have been sharing land since the 80s and not one woman is included inside the sharing and it's not strange or odd to anyone.

I know the Igbo one well but we too are guilty, but not as far as throwing a widow out of her late husbands house like you hear of with the Igbo

larride:
I think the only thing women can’t inherit in Yoruba land is Kingship except for being a placeholder.

Emaprince:
But he is wrong

This oasis is foolish sha

OasisX:
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GloriousGbola:
Bite and blow sounds like donjs signature move if you know whatimsayin'

PDPGuy:
The Presidential Election Petition Tribunal will be sitting from May 10-13….

A40:
Omo that concept has always blown my mind. [b]You will see Emeka apprentice sending his girlfriend to nursing school or university and I'm like huh? If you never born like 2 for me I no fit train you go anywhere mo sorry ga[/b]n.

But for them it's the norm. I've seen Igbo girls wey dey school abroad na Igbo man from Nigeria dey pay school fees. Lool I cut cap for una men oh. Odogwu spender

See na that aggression the husband family dey take storm house when their brother die because them believe say the wife 10kobo no dey for any property