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sagitariusbaby:
honestly I couldn't wrap my head around it. I have given him a long distance, I have since forgiven him but never to let him come near me

We share zodiac signs.

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

Guy talk true

U no wan give dem d money

No dey whine us

Sixfeetbelle:
Yes nah. His crush (female) was making a meal for his friend (male) in his friends room.

Na the grammar confuse you abi what?

yes o. Na d grammar.

illicit:
Guy talk true

U no wan give dem d money

No dey whine us

Shey e possible ni?

P
If I no wan give them, I go don talk am sey make Dem contribute, cook and eat their thing, sey I no dey interested.

Alaye dey reason na.

My dad's best and only friend was painting my dad bad to my dad's jnr brother. Said so many horrible things against my dad. He will come to my dad, they will discuss and he will spice up the discussion to go feed my uncle till the day my uncle's wife called my sis to expose him. My dad cried like he lost someone, it was unbelievable for him.

It was a huge lesson for me

illicit:
Guy talk true

U no wan give dem d money

No dey whine us

no mind d stingy one ...I sabi Una type

AllDModsAreMaad:
Shey e possible ni?

P
If I no wan give them, I go don talk am sey make Dem contribute, cook and eat their thing, sey I no dey interested.

Alaye dey reason na.

Ur excuse too much
How u go dey forget that kain thing but u no forget to eat

And then u packed out hurriedly....

Sounds like a plan

AK481:
In UNN 200 level, the lecturer Engr dr c u nwoji fixed a test which is 30 marks for morning but some reason it was postponed to afternoon, I didn't know .so I went to the hostel (alvan) to sleep.

I noticed that the hostel was empty as engineering student was mostly there.i jumped up from my sleep, suspected that something was wrong, I called my friends but as it was ringing they were switching off the phones , na so I used speed run to hall,see as they were smiling with the test papers in their hands .they have just finished writing the test.

No blame anybody. Na you loose guard.

thesilentman:
My bosom buddy.I shew him my chat with a potential fvckmate and then he went behind me and hijack the gal from me-and im fine pass me.I no vex cos i believe no man own any woman like she's a pair of shoes.What pained me was that he needed to really 'spoil' me to the gal who is a pastor's daughter,that i smoke and drink and all that jazz...i didnt even accost him on the issue but till today my trust for him has diminished completely...las las im no see the color of the gal panties cos im na muslim.

You are evil

RulerIAm:
I dated this girl and my real G back then was telling her I'm not good enough for her. She's an angel and he should be the one dating her. She told me when we had one small argument about my friends I trusted and I mentioned that guy's name. She said that guy is never to be trusted and spilled the whole story. How the guy has begged her to come visit him. She wanted us to plan and catch him red-handed but I told her to forget it. I later confronted my guy sha and he denied it. We stopped talking for a while but now we back to been friends but babe and I are no more together.

one day he would stab you in the back.. forget the duration of friendship,cut such people out of your life. Nah their type dey poison their friends so as to covet his property

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to papologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

You too dey vex.
Be calming down
Person no fit play with you again?

Scam run oooo

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sagitariusbaby:
It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss and started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he stared working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help.

This is quite scary

illicit:
Ur excuse too much
How u go dey forget that kain thing but u no forget to eat

And then u packed out hurriedly....

You dull o, that is where the betrayal came in, as my guy e suppose get my back, if not for anything, for the risky risks and help I have given to him that 100x of the said amount can't get him.
Normally, shey I no fit go my guy house tell am sey I dey hungry, won't he give me?

FYI, we dey eat for each other house wella before I moved to his own place.

He knows I have the money and I will surely drop it, people wey I dey buy drink for steady with money wey pass that amount.
I was just coming back from school, fermished, hungry and stressed, what I needed was to eat before anything.

Another thing is, even if the other guy initiated it, he shouldn't have let it stand.

I packed out because I felt if person fit comot food for my front, such person can carry out harmful action towards me if opportunity show up.
Do you know what it means to sleep with people?
Can you sleep with people you don't trust?

I guess you be kid, if not you will know what it means to remove food in front of someone by someone you call a close friend.

Why am I even explaining to you, alaye comot for my mention.

Was in a relationship with Halimat 2020. My plan was to save up on time and move to the island, closer to opportunities. Things were rough, i was working on another breakthrough and had a lot of back end and underground research going on for me. I was so busy. Halimat started complaining i didn't have her time and how a much older friend of mine was disturbing her. The dude too was always asking for info about her from me, my own babe ooo. I put 1 + 1 together and figured something fishy was about to happen. This dude is close to me like, i mean so close, he's someone i respect. Started drifting away from Halimat gradually.
This dude unfortunately knows about my escapades, I was notoriously into multiple flings at the time too. Dude broke the bro code and went behind me, gradually convincing her i was a cheat and all. The so called dude is worse than me, he was in a frustrating relationship with a single mother at the time, the girl was was draining him and all. To vent his anger he decided to spoil my own. He showed her evidence of other girls i was into and fabricated a lie that i boasted about banging her overnight in their apartment on her father's bed ( Shi actually happened, How it leaked i don't know till date).
Saving money complete, landed a new job. Moved away from trenches and gossip to serenity in my new apartment. Omolomo dey catch out.
A year passed and i decided to visit my family in my former habitat. Got the shocker of my life. Dude wey i dey look up to don dey date Halimat, she don even get 7 months belle. See person wey i bn say i wan build with ooooo. Because he focused so much on nailing my ex, he lost a lot in the process too. He's now jobless, homeless and nothing to write home about. The child is almost 2 years now. And all this dude does is crash up and down in friend's house till they can't tolerate him anymore. He's a shadow of himself.
A female friend of me and Halimat confided in me recently that her friend dated the dude to get back to me for cheating on her. Me way i no even know say i still dey relationship with you.


Moral of the story. Don't Simp. Don't choose a hoe over a guy that can be useful to you no matter what.
Most important of all. Your career before any confused Bit*ch.

sagitariusbaby:
honestly I couldn't wrap my head around it. I have given him a long distance, I have since forgiven him but never to let him come near me

Exactly, you can still hang out ooo, but don't let any thing work related bring you together again.

eyinjuege:
You too dey vex.
Be calming down
Person no fit play with you again?

LoL, me no reason am as play back then o, because the thing really pain me.
For both of them to apologize show say no be play.

If I know I for branch somewhere eat first before going home na, but my mind be say why I go spend buying food when food dey house, so my mind just dey house, then the shit happens.

Na all trending topics una go dey circulate everywhere I don tire to dey read same thing everywhere.

DropsMic:
A person who bad mouthed you to your girlfriend is who you are still friends with… smh.

The interesting thing about idiots is that they often create their own difficulties.

I was greatly disappointed when I read that post. I have met others who made the same mistake of accommodating snakes that greatly backstabbed and betrayed them. Either he is an idiot or he now knows, unlike before, that he is just like his friend in character.

sagitariusbaby:
It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss, started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he started working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help.

Na waa o, some human beings are evil. Thank God that man no be God o. It is really annoying, to say the least

You seem right in your own eyes.

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

As an introvert i was my late dad's friend

presently i and my hubby na friends so i keep all my gist till he returns home.

i don't have strength for them say, You day Abi Dem talk say you say

But i have gotten cousin that with any opportunity, she always badmouth me to everyone and anyone because of my calmness which she doesn't have.

Tho my extrovert side is always on faceless forums.. lol i love looking for troubles online

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

chai life no easy brother, but u suppose don forget am na school things I don pass tey tey

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

Na you FK.

You get pride!

philo04:
I use to date this gal who told how a friend of mine was asking her out she told him it can’t work between them cos she loves me las las she gree for the guy behind my back o
Guy later told me how he knack my babe

chai guy I feel ur pains, the betrayal was wicked, seee girls are entirely bleeped up creatures I swear

Two friends of mine that I gave money when they were broke, 2017 when ponzi was still hot, I introduced them to MMM and Twinkas, they made alot of money, then those other small small ponzi schemes came out and I put money in two and lost heavily, I told my friend about my ordeal and he sympathized with me. I needed money badly so I put money in another one hoping to be paired so I will pay off my debt but I wasnt and I moved on.

Months later seems like both friends had issues and one of them ( a lady) confessed to me that she and the other guy were the owners of two platforms that I lost heavily. I was shocked, like how? How did they build it and how were they responsible for my loss .

She said the guy intentionally refused to pair me to receive when he saw my name.

I went broke and hungry that year And vowed never to have anything to do with both again.

The guy now is late (may his soul rest in peace) while the girl is a divorcee

Fakowajo Segun, thunder fit strike you anywhere you but make the thunder just hold for now. The dude was my best friend those days, I told him a lot of secrets about plan I had for my crush then, the useless guy went behind my back and exposed me to other people in the area, the mockery I faced was just too much. This happened more than ten years ago but I can't just forget about it.

Victor, a friend of mine then was asking my then girlfriend out despite knowing we were dating and he was relentless and so determined. I studied the situation surrounding the two of them from afar, I did my findings and got the truth without the two knowing. My girlfriend finally told me as I expected her to do earlier. I invited my friend to an entry, paid for his food and blasted the hell out of him with ease without raising my voice.

I housed a girl in my room in the school( poly) because she could not afford to pay her house rent.
My friends told me that each time i travelled home,She wears all my cloth in my absence ...
My boyfriend always come for visiting and this girl went ahead to say bad things about me to my boyfriend about how guys were always toasting me on campus,because she wanted to date him..My boyfriend told me how she was trying to have s.x with him every time..Atlast,i dealt with her in a way she will never forget.Infact,i thought her the lesson of her life. Thou i ended up marrying my said boyfriend.

ibinaboonline:
You seem right in your own eyes.

I don't care who is right or wrong, all I care about at that point was that he couldn't get my back when I have gotten his own countless time even to the point of being queried or exam malpractice form almost filled for me because I moved one of my answer booklet to a position where he could see and copy clearly, I left a babe that was into me and I could have banged for him because I got a babe and he got none.

Pains vary depending on how close the perpetrator is to the receiver. I won't feel anything if a random guy do that, but for a guy who at that time was my closest G.

That one don go, make una no dey disturb me abeg.

sagitariusbaby:
It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss, started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he started working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help.

yes your right, there is a mafia saying that says: don’t feed every weak dog u see on the streets, because once it gets energy it would bite you

Edusouls:
chai life no easy brother, but u suppose don forget am na school things I don pass tey tey

Bro, the post is about memories na, I don forget am teytey.

I am just sharing the memory like every other person here ni