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emekajacobogbon:
Since my blood betrayed me, I said no to closeness to any being except my wife and kids. Any other friendship must be for my own advantage

hahahaha ur so funny man, so u think ur wife and kids can never betray you? Life pass everything

Nwaotu10:
Na you FK.

You get pride!

Fk off, I don't care!

AK481:
In UNN 200 level, the lecturer Engr dr c u nwoji fixed a test which is 30 marks for morning but some reason it was postponed to afternoon, I didn't know .so I went to the hostel (alvan) to sleep.

I noticed that the hostel was empty as engineering student was mostly there.i jumped up from my sleep, suspected that something was wrong, I called my friends but as it was ringing they were switching off the phones , na so I used speed run to hall,see as they were smiling with the test papers in their hands .they have just finished writing the test.

Great Agbebite.
Nwoji dey teach Strength of Materials

Can't recall Nwoji printing test paper. Na Mech people( Thermo) dey print test paper. Nwoji dey write his questions for board

Well, I changed church and my friend now distant himself from me because we are no more members of the same church

Lanshile:
I introduced 2 friends of mine to a businéss I was engaged in
I was earning real big,we were suppose to start the business together but they were scared of investing in a business the success wasn't guaranteed
The business became successful and due to the huge success I achieved in it they begged me to help them out. I was young then and I had so much trust in them that I never thought they would betray me
I generated 146,000 for them to start,I showed them how to do everything without hiding anything cos they helped me in the past
Long story short they went behind my back to meet all my customers, sold the goods to them at a much more lower rate,they fought with the person whom I take as a guide in the business,they even cut me off in all the dealings
It was really painful but I acted calm without complaining, I did not even complain
My business crashed but I recovered and came back stronger
2023 one of them is really begging me to teach him how I'm making money presently but experience is the best teacher besides my fiancee won't even allow me to pity them cos she was with me when they destroyed my business then....

what is that old business you did that year...let me know, if you don't want to disclose it here, I will send my WhatsApp number to you..

Mine was very worst

AllDModsAreMaad:
You dull o, that is where the betrayal came in, as my guy e suppose get my back, if not for anything, for the risky risks and help I have given to him that 100x of the said amount can't get him.
Normally, shey I no fit go my guy house tell am sey I dey hungry, won't he give me?

FYI, we dey eat for each other house wella before I moved to his own place.

He knows I have the money and I will surely drop it, people wey I dey buy drink for steady with money wey pass that amount.
I was just coming back from school, fermished, hungry and stressed, what I needed was to eat before anything.

Another thing is, even if the other guy initiated it, he shouldn't have let it stand.

I packed out because I felt if person fit comot food for my front, such person can carry out harmful action towards me if opportunity show up.
Do you know what it means to sleep with people?
Can you sleep with people you don't trust?

I guess you be kid, if not you will know what it means to remove food in front of someone by someone you call a close friend.

Why am I even explaining to you, alaye comot for my mention.

U no wan drop that money

Person way accommodate u suddenly wan poison u

If d guy wasn't good to u, will u bring another guy come him house?
U be ingrate

Small play wey dem play with u, u vex pack out

I know ur type

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

You self no try, if I day stay with person, I'm more sensitive to how they perceive or feel, the first thing na to drop money, already you don late to drop. I understand say tiredness day, but community living mean say you go put agreement first before your needs.

AllDModsAreMaad:
I don't care who is right or wrong, all I care about at that point was that he couldn't get my back when I have gotten his own countless time even to the point of being queried or exam malpractice form almost filled for me because I moved one of my answer booklet to a position where he could see and copy clearly, I left a babe that was into me and I could have banged for him because I got a babe and he got none.

Pains vary depending on how close the perpetrator is to the receiver. I won't feel anything if a random guy do that, but for a guy who at that time was my closest G.

That one don go, make una no dey disturb me abeg.

Oga na food money dem say make u contribute

U come begin remember nonsense

People dey dis world Sha

What if u are God

Lanshile:
I introduced 2 friends of mine to a businéss I was engaged in
I was earning real big,we were suppose to start the business together but they were scared of investing in a business the success wasn't guaranteed
The business became successful and due to the huge success I achieved in it they begged me to help them out. I was young then and I had so much trust in them that I never thought they would betray me
I generated 146,000 for them to start,I showed them how to do everything without hiding anything cos they helped me in the past
Long story short they went behind my back to meet all my customers, sold the goods to them at a much more lower rate,they fought with the person whom I take as a guide in the business,they even cut me off in all the dealings
It was really painful but I acted calm without complaining, I did not even complain
My business crashed but I recovered and came back stronger
2023 one of them is really begging me to teach him how I'm making money presently but experience is the best teacher besides my fiancee won't even allow me to pity them cos she was with me when they destroyed my business then...

A case of once bitten twice shy. Anyway, I am open to learning a thing or two from you, business-wise. If you don't mind.

sagitariusbaby:
It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss, started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he started working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help.

I'm not poor shaming ooo, but most people in life deserve where they are at. Never help a man God is not helping or a man without conscience. If you were discerning enough you for see this thing before e happen. You too get good heart. I'm not saying I'm bad, but since Dem don bite me plenty, I day really lock up.

Mogajunior:
A case of once bitten twice shy. Anyway, I am open to learning a thing or two from you, business-wise. If you don't mind.

It is not a business u guys can do
It is a really difficult business then and it isn't profitable again cos of competition

Some guys here still have siblings or parent to fall back on but my story is such a shameful one.. I only have my kids now in the whole wide world as family. Story: I have an elder bro after him is a sister and me as the third born plus others. It's a family of 7. 3 guys n 4 sisters.
Senior bro traveled and God be with him, he succeeded and wanted to elect stories building, so he decided that since senior sis is married that I should be the one to handle project. Everything was cool and working fine and the family bond was growing stronger.
I was very close to senior bros family and the zimbabwe wife now ex.

Senior bro left london to settle in canada and at a time nothing is heard of him, his known lines weren't pulling through, and that was when his now ex wife went to visit senior bro in canada. I called and she picked, I asked to know about senior bros but madam told me they had a serious fight while she was on her way back to the airport as she was returning back to UK and she called the cops and that he was arrested and under detention. Hmm

The worse happend as madam vex and exposed everything she knew about her husband my senior bro d matter was complicated and police needed to dug deeper so they transferred bro case and wifey can't tell where bros was held. To cut d long story short I contacted bros friends on phone and with their help contact was re-established.

I immediately called elder sis and handed her bros #no. Worst mistake?? When bros was transferred to another centre I lost contact but he already gave senior sis the new number. Each time I demand for the new line elder sis will rebuff it.

She want only herself to be the point of contact to bros but I insist she return gesture, which fell on deaf ears.. little did I know that hanty was a low key enemy within bad mouthing me before senior bros to the extent that I got wound of his release and his decision to return to naija from the outsiders.

Ever since then I lost my relationship with the entire family as they now see me as a jujuman and a ritualist who is fighting to destroy the family. The worst is my mom. Elder sister is blocking others siblingsfrom coming. I'm fvkin tired of wanting to explain so I move..

I skipped too many things.
To be continued..

RulerIAm:
I dated this girl and my real G back then was telling her I'm not good enough for her. She's an angel and he should be the one dating her. She told me when we had one small argument about my friends I trusted and I mentioned that guy's name. She said that guy is never to be trusted and spilled the whole story. How the guy has begged her to come visit him. She wanted us to plan and catch him red-handed but I told her to forget it. I later confronted my guy sha and he denied it. We stopped talking for a while but now we back to been friends but babe and I are no more together.

E be like say you like suffer.

Lanshile:
It is not a business u guys can do
It is a really difficult business then and it isn't profitable again cos of competition

Oh i do understand.

AllDModsAreMaad:
It was a guy I helped through my university days. Like I was always carrying this guy academically to the point one lecturer caught me one-day and advised me to be careful of the way I teach/assist my friends inside the exam hall. Immediately after our final paper, my house rent got expired and I don't want to renew it because I will soon leave school, so I told my guy I will like to stay with him for sometime pending when I'm done with my project. He agreed and I moved in, there was this other guy that approached me and asked me if he can join us, I related the question to the first guy, he agreed and the guy joined us.

One faithful day, we agreed to contribute money to buy foodstuffs*school life things na,* I told him I will bring mine when I enter the campus because that is where the banks and their ATM points are. Being the unelected leader of my project group I was not chanced to go to the ATM when I entered the campus because I was putting finishing touches to my project work which I am to submit that same day.
So, the guy approached me for the money while I was busy discussing with my project mates inside one lecture theater, I told him I haven't gone to the ATM point, maybe I should give him the card to help me out on that, he said no need that I should bring it when I get home.

I got home in the evening after a stressful day, normally I was hungry and didn't remember to give him the money immediately I got home but I have the money on me but hunger no let me reason am. The guy gave me my own serve(portion) of the lunch, as I was about to take the first mold of the garri, na so the other guy I introduced said "shey xyz i.e don drop him own money, before I could say anything, he responded with "na true," na so the other guy ask him to remove the food from my front, omoh I wan mad.
At that point, I was like guys wetin be all these na, shebi we had an agreement and I just dey enter and you all know whatsup in school.
Already, I have lost my appetite, I brought the cash I withdrew from the ATM point and showed it to them, and told him he know there is no way I won't give them my own money but hunger made me not to remember to do that when I entered the room.

I left the room angrily, took a bike to one eatery around the campus gate, bought enough food with tantalizing Mendes mendes (me wet don make money from my project, I got good figure from my dad and I also did the project for one of my project mates who is a big boy i.e businessman).
Got home, open the food and ate everything in their presence, made call to another of my guy, moved my things out of his place that evening.

He later came with one of our mutual friends to apologize, but I have keeled the friendship.

The guy chatted me up recently, although I have forgiven him, the friendship no be like again.

This stuff na normal guys palava na.

Bro u dey over think ooo

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Lanshile:
I introduced 2 friends of mine to a businéss I was engaged in
I was earning real big,we were suppose to start the business together but they were scared of investing in a business the success wasn't guaranteed
The business became successful and due to the huge success I achieved in it they begged me to help them out. I was young then and I had so much trust in them that I never thought they would betray me
I generated 146,000 for them to start,I showed them how to do everything without hiding anything cos they helped me in the past
Long story short they went behind my back to meet all my customers, sold the goods to them at a much more lower rate,they fought with the person whom I take as a guide in the business,they even cut me off in all the dealings
It was really painful but I acted calm without complaining, I did not even complain
My business crashed but I recovered and came back stronger
2023 one of them is really begging me to teach him how I'm making money presently but experience is the best teacher besides my fiancee won't even allow me to pity them cos she was with me when they destroyed my business then....

Nawa oo.

[quote author=sagitariusbaby post=123216328]It was in 2012 a close friend of mine lost his job, life became so hard for him that he started feeling dejected, frustrated and even suicidal. I would go over to his place after work, stock his house with food and even pocket money. I gave him my house key so he could step out from his compound at times to avoid goofy neighbours. I personally sustained this guy for over nine months.
Towards the end of 2012, there was an opening at my work place and I quickly met my boss on his behalf. He got the job even without passing the interview ahead of others as I have the ears of my boss.
This dude started working in my office second week of January 2013, I was so happy and felt fulfilled. Fast forward to six months later, this dude got jealous of my close relationship with my boss, started destroying that relationship by gossiping me to my boss. All the inner deals I did that no one knew about even before he started working with us, he went and tabled them before my boss just to gain his favour. I felt bad and a deep sense of regret. Even my boss was surprised he could do that to his close friend but my boss believed him to the extent that the level of trust he had for me started waning.

I resigned early 2015 when I couldn't take no more of his treachery and betrayal. I got a loan, added to my savings and established my campany few months after I left the firm. God opened doors for me beyond my expectation. Today he is full of regret but lacks courage to come meet me for help. I will never forget what that guy did to me, above all, I learnt a great life's lesson. People, be careful who you help. [/quote






Not everyone that is down need help.

Fisiryorh:
The day a Bossom friend shot at me at close range because of woman wey dey trip for me...

If my skin been no tight, I no for dey see this topic to type this Tory so...

Gun shots? Jesus!!!

Saladdin:
Someone whom I considered a friend and decided to help (he was shamelessly living with his parent at the time), risk my job and reputation for in order help him survive turned around to 'bite me'. Before inviting him, I used to help him with cash and little businesses here and there.

After inviting him, whatever I had I shared, divulged personal info to him, and even got him jobs twice. He slept, ate, enjoyed and lived in my house all for free. Never knew he intensely envied me—I was just joining the corporate world and trying to find my feet. It got to a point in the second job that I was asked to fire him twice (underperformance and stealing) as he worked under me then, but I skirted around it and pleaded on his behalf. I got into trouble due to this, because it turned out that he was living well beyond his means using company's money to eat extravagantly and spend on women.

Only for the motherfucker to receive some money from his uncle after intense begging. I never knew I was housing a deadly Mamba in my house. He traveled and started flexing all over and started acting arrogantly, buying stuffs and becoming secretive. I ensured he never came back to my house, and asked him to meet me at a neutral place to take his belongings. The next thing he did was to start gossiping, backbiting, lying and trying to tarnish my reputation. Those whom he involved came to tell me. After, he proceed to call me, bragging that he has lots of money, which money?? I laughed and hung the call.

The next he did was to get married without any visible source of income (he has been sacked) and living off the funds he was given, none of his few friends attended the wedding including his father (God forbid I attend such and further risk my reputation associating with him). There and then I knew envy and inferiority complex was at play and he is seriously toying with poverty.

Here I am laughing at him from a distance because I know retribution will definitely visit him, and when it comes, he'll come crawling in pains on a hot asphalt road.

Nowadays, I hardly blame wealthy folks who refused to help certain people—friends or not. Some even proceed to block lots of people on social media and co, don't blame them! These rich people have been burnt over and over and decide never to let just anyone into their private space again. If these folks would no longer do that, who are we, ordinary people to do such and get burnt?

In addition, when you see some people suffering, please don't interfere, the same way you'll not interfere and help put out a bushfire ignited by kidnappers that eventually engulfs their hideout, don't interfere in the affairs of these people too. Many have committed abominable atrocities and you may incur unnecessary suffering yourself by interfering.

And yes, God is the most merciful, but he is perfectly Just, no nonsense and also the indomitable avenger who would seek vengeance for you in such decapitating ways anyone can imagine. Those kind of people will get their punishment in full measure here and beyond.

Wow wow.

RulerIAm:
I dated this girl and my real G back then was telling her I'm not good enough for her. She's an angel and he should be the one dating her. She told me when we had one small argument about my friends I trusted and I mentioned that guy's name. She said that guy is never to be trusted and spilled the whole story. How the guy has begged her to come visit him. She wanted us to plan and catch him red-handed but I told her to forget it. I later confronted my guy sha and he denied it. We stopped talking for a while but now we back to been friends but babe and I are no more together.

You no go run from that guy?

Lilchilz:
Omo bro. This babe banged 5 of my guys. I introduced her to just one of my guy and before I knew it she actually banged 5 of my guys and I was informed about this just a year after we broke up.

Her pussssy is so wide anytime we wanna banged back den i always support my D.ick with one of my finger to penetrate and I’m 5.9 inches long .

It’s so crazy because i can’t believe my ex babe can go an extra mile banging my guys and what really pained me is that they all banged her giving her number to one and other .she doesn’t know that all these guys are my close pal.

She loves dicck so much and you can’t even believe she’s that type of girl mere looking at her

Some girls love banging friends and brothers.

DropsMic:
No one has ever betrayed me, but back in 2002, when I was in JS1, there was an incident where I betrayed a close uncle who lived near me. His girlfriend suspected him of cheating, but she didn't have any proof. So she came to me and asked if any other girl besides her do visit the uncle. I told her no, and she made a strange promise to show me her breasts if I told her the truth. Omo, if you see how i take sing eh. I told her everything she needed to know. Even told her the names of all the aunties that do visit the uncle. Las las i no see breast, the uncle also stopped sending me on errands so i lost the small small change he do give me.

Lilchilz:
Omo bro. This babe banged 5 of my guys. I introduced her to just one of my guy and before I knew it she actually banged 5 of my guys and I was informed about this just a year after we broke up.

Her pussssy is so wide anytime we wanna banged back den i always support my D.ick with one of my finger to penetrate and I’m 5.9 inches long .

It’s so crazy because i can’t believe my ex babe can go an extra mile banging my guys and what really pained me is that they all banged her giving her number to one and other .she doesn’t know that all these guys are my close pal.

She loves dicck so much and you can’t even believe she’s that type of girl mere looking at her

U still get her number?

DropsMic:
A person who bad mouthed you to your girlfriend is who you are still friends with… smh.

The interesting thing about idiots is that they often create their own difficulties.

As in ehh. E shock me.

Fisiryorh:
The day a Bossom friend shot at me at close range because of woman wey dey trip for me...

If my skin been no tight, I no for dey see this topic to type this Tory so...

Osheey. Man whey get doings.
Wetin u do the guy back?

Alaye na pesin wey never see something still dey talk about friend.

Me na my fellow alaye after huzzling we can party together, but I dey talk am louder I no get friend!!!!

nony43:
You no go run from that guy?

lol

Yusufisraelj:
E be like say you like suffer.

lol

DropsMic:
A person who bad mouthed you to your girlfriend is who you are still friends with… smh.

The interesting thing about idiots is that they often create their own difficulties.

lol . Ur mouth bad.

Edusouls:
chai guy I feel ur pains, the betrayal was wicked, seee girls are entirely bleeped up creatures I swear

you are right my brother I gave her anything she ask for!! Well we move