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In the year 2015, I acquired a university Diploma in computer science at one of the state university.

Fast forward to 2017, I got a job of 10k monthly and ever since then everyone in the family depends on my monthly salary to survive.

I was unable to save because before the monthly payment drops, expenses is already waiting.

I was unable to quit the job because that is where my family rely on and not until 2020 when the pandemic hit and it affects my work.

Ever since then I couldn't find a better job or even go back to school as I can't even get someone from my brother, sister, uncle or aunty to help me.
I keep on struggling to eat daily with depts on my neck.

Last month, I want to start a small buying and selling business but couldn't get anyone from my family to assist me with 10k. So I find my way out to Abuja and stay with a married friend of mine who lives in a single room apartment because my Landlord is also on my neck due to my expired rent although I have been served a quit Notice for the past 5 months.

Right now, my friend wants me to get my own apartment because his wife is not comfortable, and the worst part is i don't even have money to rent a room back home talk more of getting a room in Abuja where everything is expensive.

I can't find a job, most of the ones I see requires transport fare and my monthly payment can't even covers it.

Finally, i don't know what to do as I can't find a job, I don't have money to start a business, no place to even rest my head. I wanted to learn video editing but no money to buy laptop. My brothers and sisters are all claiming not to have any money to assist me.

I currently stay at Lugbe part of Abuja.

Everyone stuck a straw in you to suck on you when you were liquid. No, scrap that! You let everyone stick a straw in you to suck on you when you were liquid. Now you are dry they've left you to wither. They'll be back when you are liquid of course, but till then you're just dry useless to them.

When you get on a plane the air steward would tell you to put your own mask on first before helping others with theirs. Thankfully for you, you are experiencing learning.

Meanwhile, drop your pride and perhaps go live with your parents awhile till you can stand on your feet. And if you ever do get to stand on your feet again put your own mask on before you let others suck you dry.

budaatum:
Everyone stuck a straw in you to suck on you when you were liquid. No, scrap that! You let everyone stick a straw in you to suck on you when you were liquid. Now you are dry they've left you to wither. They'll be back when you are liquid of course, but till then you're just dry useless to them.

When you get on a plane the air steward would tell you to put your own mask on first before helping others with theirs. Thankfully for you, you are experiencing learning.

Meanwhile, drop your pride and perhaps go live with your parents awhile till you can stand on your feet. And if you ever do get to stand on your feet again put your own mask on before you let others suck you dry.

My parents are late

Uzomi007:
My parents are late

So who was sucking you dry of your 10k?

budaatum:
So who was sucking you dry of your 10k?

My brothers and sisters

Uzomi007:
My brothers and sisters

Bright side is you can't let them suck what you don't have, and you'd learn to be sucked less if you ever have again.