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victme1:
Hmmmm have you ever experienced Hunger before, have you ever slept with nothing to eat and with no hope of what to eat? Do you have kids yourself or siblings.
Do you know the extent you will go to fend for them

You asking that will the cheating be reversed?
My response is does the punanny have Meter?

Someone is helping with your responsibility being a failed husband and you are not appreciative. The should eve be fanning the Sugardady when he is fucking is wife in appreciation.
Because you get prik for under you too the call yourself Man, yeye man. Tufiaka!
The man is a useless husband and father.he is also a coward.
Such men should be tagged Terrorist!

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

frozen70:
If I should follow this comment, then the man must have met her in a brothel amd if that the case

Get a pig and bath a pig
If the pig sees a dirty carnal he will go inside that cannal because that was where you saw the pig living a happy life before you took it home

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

frozen70:
You have quickly condemned her for going extra miles to feed a foolish man's children while he is still alive

Why not crucify him for starving his family yet rock his world to the detriment of his family

What makes you different from him

Originalsly:
Where in the thread does it say they have transactional sex? We too love to jump to conclusion and build on it as though it is a fact. Can't we work with the information provided? She has a sugar daddy... we don't know if he's 99 years old ... but know he's having sex with her. We don't know if he's abroad ... a foreigner... an online sugar daddy ... but we know he's having sex with her. We don't know if it's a celebrity or just a charitable person providing for her ... but we know she's involved in transactional sex. We need to stop jumping to conclusions.

Ishilove:
Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

7upnigeria:
Maybe, maybe not. But the sure thing is she was probably raised to depend on a man for EVERYTHING, IRRESPONSIBLE UPBRINGING. Imagine the children not being able to feed because their Dad is not providing. Even if its POS business or selling indomie and egg as a mother, your children should feed. Shes not doing any work except to open her legs for sex and have children. Which woman does that in this century, moreso the husband is irresponsible.

Bennycollins:
I fear your type. Na them be this o, guys beware.
No one supports the man's misconduct here. The question is, is that the only means the wife has to survive??
What if she had a caring man but maybe he happened to die, become handicapped or probably lost his job?

frozen70:
You have quickly condemned her for going extra miles to feed a foolish man's children while he is still alive

Why not crucify him for starving his family yet rock his world to the detriment of his family

What makes you different from him

frozen70:
In as much as I dont support what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

frozen70:
I love amd respect men especially those who have shown thst they are responsible

They will always earn my respect

My problem with the man was thst he doesn't provide amd still make them starve for days

I never supported her having a sugar daddy amd I Sam's so in my earlier post

Now that she is stranded under man's roof

What do you want her to do in the interim whereas the man is busy rocking his world outside

That money he is spending out, is it not enough to feed his starving family

Some sensible men spend jolly time with women outside but yet the make sure the home is stocked with food

Food is one essential thing in life, no one can survive with empty stomach

I am working and I don't have any reason to have a sugar daddy to will support me to feed my children

In her own case she is jot doing anything, what do you expect

And now the man is depressed

What is making him to be depressed if not what he brought upon himself

frozen70:
She hasn't been identified as a prostitute

The story didn't say she is into prostitution

The story said she has a sugar daddy not sugar daddies

The question is what made her get a sugar daddy when she has a man she birthed children for

frozen70:
If I understood what your point is, it's centered on those women who cheat and gives reasons that their husband is too busy and doesn't have their time

Let me classify something here

This post that is dragging on, the woman is cheating to feed her children in her husband house because the man has not been providing, is it supposed to be so from the man, even if the woman works or not

In your own comment, you said that those women you mentioned Said that their husband have no time for them

Their case is different those ones are sex starved

The woman issue here is hungry with her kids

So they are doing the same cheating with different reasons

If a man makes love satisfactory to his wife, what will she need another man for ?

If a man provides food at home for his children, why should a woman have a sugar daddy to feed the man's children

Ok if a woman doesn’t respect her husband and doesn't cook for him at home, yet the man provides food at home amd he decides to have a girlfriend that will be giving him what he is lacking at home

Will you blame such man

I will not blame such man

Let's always do the right thing to avoid nonsense

Marriage is not a game of gambling

frozen70:
Are we talking about a dead man that has since been buried

Or we are talking about an able man who has lost his bearing by neglecting his family but having fun outside with other women

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

alobright17:
Madam if the said man the lady is cheating on happens to be your husband will you accept her wholeheartedly after she said she's doing so to feed her children!?

Hope you'll hail your husband and call him a hero and say go on and even help others in the same situation?

If your answer to this question is otherwise then there's no justification to what she's doing.

Everyone has reasons for doing bad things.

darealez:
Luckily she seem to have found a resolve. Good for her then. The foolish man should get lost, and probably just get a divorce. That way, she can live well and proceed with her life.

Maynmann:
Are they not her children too? Is she not also feeding her children?
Why is that the next option to do is to cheat on your husband?
Is just like an armed robber saying he stole because he was hungry and he wasn’t paid at his workplace.

Crucifying the guy and her cheating is not correlated.

Will it reverse the hunger
If the man start providing will that reverse the cheating?

Ishilove:
Is there any reason to justify a man cheating in marriage?

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar


What is wrong is wrong

Dating a sugar daddy is absolutely wrong
What happened to huzzling yourself to feed the children then later look for the family of the man and report especially the person way he husband dey fear pass


All I see here are two wayward people coming together as husband and wife right from onset

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

frozen70:
Shame on you because you want her children to starve while she is thinking of how to get work as if the work search is assured ans automatic

Shame on you for not being ashamed that a stupid man like you is starving his wife and 3 children and still expect her to be faithful while he is busy sleeping with women outside when he could have brought that money home to feed his family

Shame on you that men like you forced women to go out to feed their children

What makes you think this is the first time she is going out or probably the children are his biological children

How will he even know if the children are his biological children when he is busy fucking out

Why is he getting depressed that his wife has a sugar daddy that is feeding his children while he is alive, does he want the children to starve to death

If he had met his wife in a brothel, why is he angry over what she is doing to feed his children

Dainy1:
This dude was missbehaving and not providing for his family, accordingly to the wife, some days, they goes hungry why the guy spend time outside not minding what's happening at home to the kids. So, instead of sourcing a means to survive, the woman decided to have a sugar daddy who is now providing for her and her kids.
The man is heartbroken and threatening to kill the sugar daddy.

Is there any reason to justify a woman cheating in marriage?
Is the sugar daddy the main target here?
What will you advise in this situation?

Draslo:
This says a lot about you

lawani:
Don't you know any black African that contributed to civilization even if by half an inch?. You seem to be afflicted with reverse racism. A sort of self loathe and a feeling of not being good enough or what have you yourself done to address your own conclusion?. If all black African men were self loathers like you, imagine what the fate of all their nations would be?.

frozen70:
When the man kept her idle at home how do you want her to cope

Most men doesn't want their wife to work because they don't want her to get too expose

What if it happens that the man is no more just suddenly

How do you expect such woman to handle the family

Assuming that woman is working, she can take care of herself and her children in situations like this

But you have to condemn the man who neglected his family

To the extent that the children were starving
No woman can stand the starvation of her child