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By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

Because of pikin when you dey find, you go allow another man sleep with your wife


Adoption is more better and prefer over surrogacy, if intercourse will be involved

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

if both participant are aware AND agree to the party, it can NEVER BE CONSIDER CHEATING

BTW remember, many highly respected men of the bible had concubines, mistresses baby mamas etc, and were never viewed/punished as sinner--- men like Abraham, king David, king Solomon etc

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

You have already answer your question.
Yes it is.

Consent is required and was gotten by all parties involved

It's not adultery

Legally not

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

Do you know what surrogacy means?

MrBrownJay1:
if both participant are aware AND agree to the party, it can NEVER BE CONSIDER CHEATING

BTW remember, many highly respected men of the bible had concubines, mistresses baby mamas etc, and were never viewed/punished as sinner--- men like Abraham, king David, king Solomon etc

this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

Maynmann:
Do you know what surrogacy means?

same same , a third party is involved

snthesis:
same same , a third party is involved

There is no consensual sex with anyone.

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

If another sperm, egg or womb is required to get a couple pregnant, they do not need to commit adultery before getting it.

snthesis:
this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

You mean only women commit adultery?

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

Let's consider it from scripture, shall we?

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’
28 But I tell you that if a man looks at a woman and wants to sin sexually with her, he has already committed that sin with her in his mind.
29 If your right eye makes you sin, take it out and throw it away. It is better to lose one part of your body than to have your whole body thrown into hell.
30 If your right-hand makes you sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell. - Matthew 5 vs 27-30

Since the man and woman in question would have to lust after each other in order to have anything going— sex usually begins in the mind—, I think it's better to opt for adoption in this case.

bukatyne:
You mean only women commit adultery?

exactly, only women get stoned when caught in the act of adultery

Maynmann:
There is no consensual sex with anyone.

there was a release of sexual fluids, so its sex

bukatyne:
If another sperm, egg or womb is required to get a couple pregnant, they do not need to commit adultery before getting it.

egg, sperm are products of sex, so in essence surrogacy, artificial insemination can be classed under adultery if a third party is involved, however if its consenting is it still adultery?

snthesis:
exactly, only women get stoned when caught in the act of adultery

Where did you get this from?

snthesis:
egg, sperm are products of sex, so in essence surrogacy, artificial insemination can be classed under adultery if a third party is involved, however if its consenting is it still adultery?

Semen (containing sperm) is ejaculated during sex; sperm can also be extracted from the Penis in the lab (without sex)

Egg is not a product of sex; it is in the ovaries of women and one of the materials required to form a baby. If an egg is not fertilised, it is shed as blood that month called menstruation.

Adultery is a married person (man/woman) having sex with another person who is not their spouse.

Surrogacy (depending on what is rented) is renting someone to be a part of the reproduction process without sex. Someone could donate sperm, eggs or womb.

Artificial Insemination is the act of fertilising an egg by a sperm outside the womb I.e. in a laboratory. It could be donor eggs/sperm or that of the couple.

I have painstakingly explained these concepts to you to stop this thought process of yours.

snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

The word consenting couple(husband and wife) has answered the question. So, it's not a sin.

snthesis:
this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

in the eyes of this couple it aint adultery, in the eyes of religion, it probably is.

Maynmann:
Do you know what surrogacy means?

Clearly he doesn't know what it means

snthesis:
there was a release of sexual fluids, so its sex

When you have wetdreams, is it sex?