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CHoccolaTE:
Wow, I like you too ma, thanks

You may not want to hear some.



Most men are already bearing the consequences of their deed.

CHoccolaTE:
That's a risky move, if it's a female child he could end up molesting her. I have heard so many true life stories of men raping their daughters after the mother left them in his care.
Some men even drop their kids off in orphanage homes or leave them in the care of evil step mothers.
Men taking care of children hardly ever put as much effort and attention as the mothers.

Yet these same men keep stigmatising single mothers that choose to be responsible for their kids, while the single fathers roam free to continue their diicking tendencies.

mariahAngel:
Maybe we should go back to the old days when mothers used to tell their daughters if you allow a boy to touch you, you will get pregnant.

Tell that to ur fellow daughters from eve

Streetdoctor:
Tell that to ur fellow daughters from eve

Son of Adam, did I mention you in the first place? 🤷🏽
Kuku from there and tell your fellow sons of Adam to be more responsible for the consequence (s) of their actions.
It's not okay to be reckless and irresponsible.
Men are mostly to blame for what the world is becoming. 🙄

There are a lot of deadbeat dads, and also men who ejaculate into women and act surprised when the woman gets pregnant.


The worst kind of a person in the world, is a man leaving his own child. This is not a man, it's a fucking pussy. They should go Bleep themselves and die in a fire, immature motherfuckers.

CHoccolaTE:
Not true
Those men tell all manner of lies, some promise the single mothers marriage then abscond after sleeping with her and getting her pregnant,

there are cases where the men insist that the woman has to get pregnant before marriage so that he can be sure of her fertility then after she takes in, he leaves her or abandons her.

There are men that take off condom without the woman's knowledge, halfway into sex because "they are not enjoying it",

There are cases of rape or forced sex, sex under intoxication, under duress etc.

You really think a woman would be so irresponsible as to bring another life to this world knowing how stigmatized single mothers are?

Shifting blames as usual! Why can't you ladies accept responsibility for your actions for once Even in cases where the lady deliberately wanted to trap a guy with pregnancy but got outsmarted you'll still blame the guy!

CHoccolaTE:
She knew she was going to abort from day one. She was just torturing you for reasons known to her.
I still believe the blame lies more on males than females.

Except the lady was raped, the blame for single motherhood lies squarely on the lady because she's the gatekeeper of sex. If she decides to lock up, sex will not happen talkless of pregnancy.

CHoccolaTE:
That's a risky move, if it's a female child he could end up molesting her. I have heard so many true life stories of men raping their daughters after the mother left them in his care.
Some men even drop their kids off in orphanage homes or leave them in the care of evil step mothers.
Men taking care of children hardly ever put as much effort and attention as the mothers.

Wow..so sorry for how Ur dad treated u

Jman06:
Shifting blames as usual! Why can't you ladies accept responsibility for your actions for once Even in cases where the lady deliberately wanted to trap a guy with pregnancy but got outsmarted you'll still blame the guy!

no lady trap a guy with pregnancy. Did the guy truly had sex with her? Did he ejaculate? What else are you expecting after ejaculation if not pregnancy? Was the guy raped? How did a lady trap a guy with pregnancy please

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:
Wow..so sorry for how Ur dad treated u

Stop being emotional ontop of my post, I spoke the truth. ✌️

Villa12:
no lady trap a guy with pregnancy. Did the guy truly had sex with her? Did he ejaculate? What else are you expecting after ejaculation if not pregnancy? Was the guy raped? How did a lady trap a guy with pregnancy please

Some ladies claim they're on contraceptives and encourage their guys to have sex with them without condoms. Then once they get pregnant they capitalize on it to get the guy marry them. However, not all guys allow themselves to be played in that manner so they refuse to marry such ladies.

Jman06:
Some ladies claim they're on contraceptives and encourage their guys to have sex with them without condoms. Then once they get pregnant they capitalize on it to get the guy marry them. However, not all guys allow themselves to be played in that manner so they refuse to marry such ladies.

you may be right but you and i know that an average Nigerian man prefer having sex without condom right? What do you expect afterward. If you as a guy cannot abstain from sex or at most use condom, i mean good quality condom then you should be responsible for any outcome after sex

Lol, you think in the law court they want to hear she wanna cage me with the pregnancy, she wanna hook me with the pregnancy bla bla bla. Provided you had sex with her, you're responsible

Even if a guy uses condom with a lady and the lady accused him of impregnating her. He would be hold responsible truly for her pregnancy because condom isn't hundred percent safe. Until DNA proof otherwise. He's responsible for her pregnancy

Jman06:
Except the lady was raped, the blame for single motherhood lies squarely on the lady because she's the gatekeeper of sex. If she decides to lock up, sex will not happen talkless of pregnancy.

You are right to some extent, though some guys will sweet talk her till she succumbs - with shikini money to flex by the side. Some even went as far as having introduction ceremony and started misbehaving after childbirth. In fact, in Akure here, once a lady fails jamb more than once, expect pregnancy from her soonest. It’s like a pandemic.

Epositive:
You are right to some extent, though some guys will sweet talk her till she succumbs - with shikini money to flex by the side. Some even went as far as having introduction ceremony and started misbehaving after childbirth. In fact, in Akure here, once a lady fails jamb more than once, expect pregnancy from her soonest. It’s like a pandemic.

Lance008:
Why are there a lot single mother in a country still battle poverty
To my understanding I beleive most young people beleive they have failed that's why they need someone to start life afresh

What statistics gave you this information about the changing trend? Changing significantly from when?

Is it the NPC? Or what other source

CHoccolaTE:
Not true
Those men tell all manner of lies, some promise the single mothers marriage then abscond after sleeping with her and getting her pregnant,

there are cases where the men insist that the woman has to get pregnant before marriage so that he can be sure of her fertility then after she takes in, he leaves her or abandons her.

There are men that take off condom without the woman's knowledge, halfway into sex because "they are not enjoying it",

There are cases of rape or forced sex, sex under intoxication, under duress etc.

You really think a woman would be so irresponsible as to bring another life to this world knowing how stigmatized single mothers are?

Please how can a man remove condom halfway through sex, and the woman won’t know?
Na jazz

Darlingme:
Many of our men today are lazy and in responsible. They deliberately abandon child's responsibilities to the women.
I wish they's a strong law that can compare everyone to take responsibility of child's upbringing so long as you can birth them in Nigeria.

Do you know how wishing alone can make things happen

Such as simply wishing to pass your exams?

CHoccolaTE:
She knew she was going to abort from day one. She was just torturing you for reasons known to her.
I still believe the blame lies more on males than females.

Apart from rape, the responsibility for pregnancy rests mostly, if not exclusively with the mother.

It’s her body, not so

Villa12:
you may be right but you and i know that an average Nigerian man prefer having sex without condom right? What do you expect afterward. If you as a guy cannot abstain from sex or at most use condom, i mean good quality condom then you should be responsible for any outcome after sex

Lol, you think in the law court they want to hear she wanna cage me with the pregnancy, she wanna hook me with the pregnancy bla bla bla. Provided you had sex with her, you're responsible

Even if a guy uses condom with a lady and the lady accused him of impregnating her. He would be hold responsible truly for her pregnancy because condom isn't hundred percent safe. Until DNA proof otherwise. He's responsible for her pregnancy

Lies.

Nigeria women, immediately they meet a new man they are always the one pushing to do STD tests, so that they can start riding that thing without condom. I have never met other nationals women that loves raw sex more than Nigerian woman. Most of them will not get wet when condom is involved or they’ll easily lose interest.



Some will tell you to pour it inside because it’s healthy for them.

There are some that will tell you to continue emptying it inside, when they get pregnant, they’ll abort it after some months, the gain here is the robust look it gives them because early stages of pregnancy makes a woman glow.

Some women actually experiment with pregnancy. In most cases, the consequences far more outweighs the desired result, which then results to single motherism.

Kobojunkie:
Serves you right for trusting her claims.

Hmm, your post says a lot.

In respect to the thread. If I was fool for trusting her claims, does this mean so many irresponsible men were actually fooled too?

Kobojunkie my dear, please give me a direct response. Don’t give me a response that will glitch my brain this hot afternoon.

Stawner16:
The same reason why there are so many young baby daddies, I guess?

Smart Alec is who you are.
Thanks

Carcholce:
😭
“Women supporting women”

Parapo-ism aka feminism solidarity.

Belafonte:
1. Sexüal immorality
2. Lazy, irresponsible men
3. Promiscuous people
4. Gender dysphoria
5. Feministic behaviours
6. General breakdown in societal values
7. Lack of accountability

Why did you miss out the most important thing- economic stress

Carcholce:
Lies.

Nigeria women, immediately they meet a new man they are always the one pushing to do STD tests, so that they can start riding that thing without condom. I have never met other nationals women that loves raw sex more than Nigerian woman. Most of them will not get wet when condom is involved or they’ll easily lose interest.



Some will tell you to pour it inside because it’s healthy for them.

There are some that will tell you to continue emptying it inside, when they get pregnant, they’ll abort it after some months, the gain here is the robust look it gives them because early stages of pregnancy makes a woman glow.

Some women actually experiment with pregnancy. In most cases, the consequences far more outweighs the desired result, which then results to single motherism.

Story

Provided you had sex with her without condom, you're responsible for her pregnancy. Provided there was no evidence that she forcefully raped you. You're liable to take responsibility of her and the pregnancy and baby after birth


Stop hyperventilating over your emotions. Emotions doesn't win in law court

Villa12:
Story

Provided you had sex with her without condom, you're responsible for her pregnancy. Provided there was no evidence that she forcefully raped you . You're liable to take responsibility of her and the pregnancy and baby after birth


Stop hyperventilating over your emotions. Emotions doesn't win in law court

😩

“Women supporting women”

Carcholce:
😩

“Women supporting women”

I am a confirm full fledged guy. I am liberal and unbiased. I don't support evil nor bad things. I am neither a feminist but humanity.

Change your mentality guy. Don't think every guy out there reason like you. I am from a family where i was taught to show love and respect to women.

Villa12:
I am a confirm full fledged guy. I am liberal and unbiased. I don't support evil nor bad things. I am neither a feminist but humanity.

Change your mentality guy. Don't think every guy out there reason like you. I am from a family where i was taught to show love and respect to women.

But where’s the lie in my response? Abi you think it is every man with a dlck that is a man? Some are women, behave, support, and join the feminist community. You are one of them

Anyways, back to the topic. You guys are getting me wrong. Before I continue I have to tell you that your family did a poor job while grooming you. They ought to have taught you how to show love and respect to humans and even animals. Equally. If you were taught to be nicer to only women, it means your judgments are biased and sentimental. I was not taught to show love and respect to women. I was taught to show it to all. Irrespective of gender.


Back to the topic again. My first response was only saying, both men and women should take the blame equally. Isn’t that a fair judgment? If I were a court judge and you stand before me with a woman you impregnated, I will tell you two that you are irresponsible. Shifting the blame on one party is a biased judgement. I don’t want to know how the dlck landed inside the pvssy.


Another question I have for you is, why would a woman that is not irresponsible become a baby mama? Where’s the morals? Let’s blame men too. Where’s the home training? Like you that grew up in a home that was selective in showing love and respect. Perhaps majority of these single mothers are also product of these flawed upbringing. They were taught to be nicer to only women, then use men for gains, at the end they get trapped with pregnancy.

See the way you are making me type so much when I am supposed to be washing plate before my mother gets back from the market.

Jman06:
■ Some ladies claim they're on contraceptives and encourage their guys to have sex with them without condoms. Then once they get pregnant they capitalize on it to get the guy marry them.
■ However, not all guys allow themselves to be played in that manner so they refuse to marry such ladies.

That one na cop-out abeg!

2. Even doctors go tell you contraceptives do not provide 100% guarantee of pregnancy prevention so why would the ones y were trapped jump to such conclusion all of their own?

Carcholce:
But where’s the lie in my response? Abi you think it is every man with a dlck that is a man? Some are women, behave, support, and join the feminist community. You are one of them

Anyways, back to the topic. You guys are getting me wrong. Before I continue I have to tell you that your family did a poor job while grooming you. They ought to have taught you how to show love and respect to humans and even animals. Equally. If you were taught to be nicer to only women, it means your judgments are biased and sentimental. I was not taught to show love and respect to women. I was taught to show it to all. Irrespective of gender.


Back to the topic again. My first response was only saying, both men and women should take the blame equally. Isn’t that a fair judgment? If I were a court judge and you stand before me with a woman you impregnated, I will tell you two that you are irresponsible. Shifting the blame on one party is a biased judgement. I don’t want to know how the dlck landed inside the pvssy.


Another question I have for you is, why would a woman that is not irresponsible become a baby mama? Where’s the morals? Let’s blame men too. Where’s the home training? Like you that grew up in a home that was selective in showing love and respect. Perhaps majority of these single mothers are also product of these flawed upbringing. They were taught to be nicer to only women, then use men for gains, at the end they get trapped with pregnancy.

See the way you are making me type so much when I am supposed to be washing plate before my mother gets back from the market.

Both are responsible but Men will obviously take the financial responsibility in nurturing the child till adulthood. Only dumb Men would say a woman uses pregnancy to tie him down, uses pregnancy to hook him down, uses pregnancy so he can marry her

I guess those calibre of Men didn't suck their mother breast. They lack sufficient nutrients to know and understand what EJACULATION means

You had sex with her, YES or No?
Did she rape you, YES or No?
Were you forced, coerced or had sex with her under duress?

Why then are you preaching up and down claiming she wanna tie you down with pregnancy? Did you expect her to tie me who didn't had sex with her with the pregnancy?


Your long epistles is flawed long ago the moment you think any opinion contrary to yours is from a woman

As for single motherhood, i wouldn't want to engage you further on that. Your initial comments had nailed you completely already.

seguno2:
Apart from rape, the responsibility for pregnancy rests mostly, if not exclusively with the mother.

It’s her body, not so

The responsibility lies with both of them its just that women stick around more when the child is born but men run away like cowards.

CHoccolaTE:
The responsibility lies with both of them its just that women stick around more when the child is born but men run away like cowards.

I am talking about responsibility for having unprotected sex, which leads to pregnancy.

If the woman does not open her door, then how can the man enter her