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Is it normal that I have alot of self improvement inspiration to tell my friends but when I'm outside in their midst I just feel weak and tired wanting to go home.



I find myself that my energy is drained and I just say few words and if there's a topic to be discussed or argued and I see they don't want to listen at the first try I just give up and support them in what they're saying by making a silly sense out of it to boost their ego because that's how I am, if I'm tryna tell you something and you don't listen instead of arguing much I'll just let you continuing doing what you're doing. Thoughts?



For example, I just broke up with this girl that disrespected me badly and I'm moving on since I like dealing with my problems privately the only thing I told them is it pissed me tf off when she that because it really did and I'm pissed to grind and make money that no girl would ever do that crap to me.



Now I expect them to tell me to go and grind and become the best version of myself but instead they are telling me I bleeped up for not sleeping with her and I have this king mentality because that's what I call it "if it's a 50% chance to sleep with the girl them I wouldn't" it will ruin my masculine energy if I begged her to have sex or forced her to have sex because I knew that's what she wanted, she never gave me herself freely, always removing my hands when I want to finger her, shifting from kisses so I knew to sleep with her I'll need to beg or grovel which I would never do.



That's what her ex did, force her and also gave her weed to make her high before sleeping with her. I don't see a reason why sex should be counted as an achievement or maybe I just have a high IQ and I think things differently from them but I expect them to try to push me to grow not feel bad for not sleeping with her and to get a new girl. I don't even have my own place, I'm pissed because I didn't love the girl but she bleeped with my respect and I don't play with it.




Preferably they don't understand that women will always be there but time wouldn't and focusing on women would take my time. The country isn't a place for someone to keep joking with anymore. Once I come out of the house I'm already longing to go back in and continue grinding but these my guys just walking about all day and grinding at night, one will walk about all day, meet his girlfriend in the evening and then grind at night but for me i feel these are a waste of time.... he's not even bothered about the fact that he doesn't have the ability to get him consistent data in his phone at this age not to even talk of money daily

It is well, last last everybody go learn their lessons

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You sound like a sensible guy that don't let his diick control him, but exactly are you grinding? Eyan?

Now you have gotten the attention you were looking for by mentioning "Night grind" all over the post.
All these kids sha. You will learn later.

superCleanworks:
Now you have gotten the attention you were looking for by mentioning "Night grind" all over the post.
All these kids sha. You will learn later.

I'm a marketer and youtuber, grind doesn't have to be yahoo

DamianDd:
I'm a marketer and youtuber, grind doesn't have to be yahoo

i didn't say anything about yahoo or gMail.
if other people noted your repetitive mentioning of a shrouded term and also commented likewise, then you asked for it.

Friend groups are for losers


Only have one close friend and enemies that should be it

Purvan:
Friend groups are for losers


Only have one close friend and enemies that should be it

Very much reducing it as it seems, they aren't serious to the extent I like

If you aren't comfortable with them, walk away. You can't force people to act in a certain way. Be a lone ranger if it'll make you a better man.