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Crystalom35:
I'm facing your comment on the topic. It shows that you have a problem

And you don't Okay I see

How is seeing my husband as the boss my problem?

Crystalom35:
still the same thing.

One is just a modern day glorified position. Whether working at work or as full time house wife.

It's all the same thing. Your problem is seeing your husband as the boss.

TemplarLandry:
Only archaic men with lowest of the lowest self-esteem imprison their wives under the guise of housewifehood.

Women are not dullards or nonentities. They have parts to play in every functional society. A real woman has to make some money for herself too.

Being a housewife means you're only useful to your husby as a copulation machine and a babies-producing device. Zero contribution to a functional society. That's bad bad.

has nothing to do with low self esteem, most men just want their wives to concentrate on the home till the kids reach some certain age

Adachizzy:
No
Not even for the man or marriage but for myself and my esteem. Nothing beats being able to afford your need yourself without waiting for stipends from your husband.
Whenever you have issues, your stipends may most likely hang.
Even in his absence, you can steer the home financially before he returns. It's a flex abeg.

Even when he is no more

TemplarLandry:
Only archaic men with lowest of the lowest self-esteem imprison their wives under the guise of housewifehood.

Women are not dullards or nonentities. They have parts to play in every functional society. A real woman has to make some money for herself too.

Being a housewife means you're only useful to your husby as a copulation machine and a babies-producing device. Zero contribution to a functional society. That's bad bad.

very nonsense talk. The best contribution a woman can offer to her nation is well-trained children free from vices like drugs, prostitution and crime.

Merry100:
Some men ask their wives to become full-time housewives after marriage. However, if you are not interested in being a full-time housewife, it is important to emphasize this to your partner before marriage. This is one of the factors that create problems in a marriage.

who is a fulltime housewife?

I already told my wife the deal.... She isn't doing it just for me or herself, but the kids are d aim. What if, God forbid, I die today? What will happen to our kids if they have not gotten to a certain age and stage in life. I am talking from experience, coz if my mom was a house wife, I know d story could have been different. She and the kids need some firm of security.

Purvan:
The day my wife choose to become a house wife than career woman is the day she stops becoming my wife and moves back to her father's house

Imagine nothing beats marrying a career woman especially if she works in healthcare or tech

After she had a stressed day from work , she came backs home to you and you prepare a meal for her while she takes a bath then you can give deep sensual massages that'll have her begging you to bleep her

see wetin person d think abeg

God forbid

Na dem Cheat Pass...

My first sugar mummy was a full time housewife though I no bleep am sha

Lemme educate you, being a full time housewife in this 21st century is a pure red flag...

Just buy her android phone and small data omoh your marriage don go ooo otiló...

Nothing beats a hustling how wife that can afford some basic things,cater to the kids needs without depending on her husband...it beats see finish and gives you an edge.

Being a full time housewife is a curse, except she is working from home.

TemplarLandry:
Only archaic men with lowest of the lowest self-esteem imprison their wives under the guise of housewifehood.

Women are not dullards or nonentities. They have parts to play in every functional society. A real woman has to make some money for herself too.

Being a housewife means you're only useful to your husby as a copulation machine and a babies-producing device. Zero contribution to a functional society. That's bad bad.

It was a simple yes or no question.

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Lol women for me this house wife mentality is old African mentality our fore father's have transferred to those who like to suffer .

Full time housewife provides some benefits as it ensures all round look out and education of the children especially if it involves home schooling. Its a wrong notion to think that full time housewives are for dullards. Intelligent, brilliant and smart woman too can be full time housewives who contribute alot to upholding the values and principles of the family as there is a round the clock monitoring of all the activities and movements of the children.

If my wife leave me.
Go as I have been asking her to leave.

I won't marry any woman again
This problem is too much

zed7:
Leave experience for the experienced. I've been in so many work spaces in different spheres and believe me, most successful achieving woman usually rides on the back or d of men to get that successful status.

Yea, a handful of women have fought genuinely to get to the top, but only a handful. We know what we know. And by the way, not to judge, you may want to research how your Alakija became very successful. Enough said.

Right on point.

Full time housewife dey sweet die
You van eat anything you want
Just buy fuel for Generator
Put telemundo or seasonal film
Husband come you give am food and kpekus. Or if the husband dey work the neighborhor feel the oil d place till d husband return from work.

Housewife is good but I no pray to get am

GodWrites:
Being a housewife is a full-time job. That's why most career women can't do without a maid. If you are not the ambitious type, there's no harm in being a housewife. But if you are ambitious and run a business, or perhaps want to climb the corporate ladder like Okonjo Iweala, get a maid, and a chef too. All these should be discussed with your husband-to-be before you say "i do" to avoid conflict. If possible, put it in writing so your husband wouldn't pretend he never had such a discussion with you.

the most wonderful thing a woman with a wonderful virture can do

VICKYLIVE:
Lol women for me this house wife mentality is old African mentality our fore father's have transferred to those who like to suffer .

Or the career-oriented wife is a modern age mentality the media have transferred to the society to destroy families.

TemplarLandry:
Only archaic men with lowest of the lowest self-esteem imprison their wives under the guise of housewifehood.

Women are not dullards or nonentities. They have parts to play in every functional society. A real woman has to make some money for herself too.

Being a housewife means you're only useful to your husby as a copulation machine and a babies-producing device. Zero contribution to a functional society. That's bad bad.

Yes, you're right but the train has left this your mentality already.
The majority of housewives today are into comedy skits, cake & baking, general online vendors etc. In actuality, they are the ones giving themselves large social media paychecks while continuing to teach their kids home manners after school.

Adachizzy:
No
Not even for the man or marriage but for myself and my esteem. Nothing beats being able to afford your need yourself without waiting for stipends from your husband.
Whenever you have issues, your stipends may most likely hang.
Even in his absence, you can steer the home financially before he returns. It's a flex abeg.

Na clothes?

Puss360:
Yes... If I marry a white man...
But here in Africa, Never....
Either I work pass the man or we do the same working hours....
Coz one day, the man can become aggressive and say I'm lazy, so I need to be prepared for dat day in my marriage....

That will be when I marry sha...🙈🙈

NEXT CASE PLEASE!!!!!

Where u wan see husband marry ? After yahoo boys don use u! Abeg shift

Freshtruth:
Full time housewife dey sweet die
You van eat anything you want
Just buy fuel for Generator
Put telemundo or seasonal film
Husband come you give am food and kpekus. Or if the husband dey work the neighborhor feel the oil d place till d husband return from work.

Housewife is good but I no pray to get am

If this is your ideology of a housewife, it is very questioning.

I cannot can *can* do it

TemplarLandry:
Don't indoctrinate anyone here.
No man wants to marry a liability.
Women should go to school or learn some skills.
Real men look forward to marrying industrious women. Not an “alabordo”(a woman who's being fed only for coitus).

You are just unnecessarily loud and ignorant.

GodWrites:
Being a housewife is a full-time job. That's why most career women can't do without a maid. If you are not the ambitious type, there's no harm in being a housewife. But if you are ambitious and run a business, or perhaps want to climb the corporate ladder like Okonjo Iweala, get a maid, and a chef too. All these should be discussed with your husband-to-be before you say "i do" to avoid conflict. If possible, put it in writing so your husband wouldn't pretend he never had such a discussion with you.

Yes, get a maid and chef ... but who'll be responsible for their salary??

If you like emphasize from heaven to hell, two grown adults (especially those that didn't grow up together like siblings) WILL always have issues, marriage for example

Weedhustler:
Where u wan see husband marry ? After yahoo boys don use u! Abeg shift

Lol.. your name alone don describe you....
But don't worry, my own will not pass me by...

iykofias:
has nothing to do with low self esteem, most men just want their wives to concentrate on the home till the kids reach some certain age

Leave the mumu man.