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Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Dcass(f): 12:28am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Honestly I feel like nothing will change anymore. Will anyone marry me again I lost my husband 2019 I on have 1 kid but still I managed to aquirre a skill thinking that I would be able to use tailoring to survive till God change my life but I couldn't afford a seeing machine and a shop, am not a kind of lady that depend on men too much but this time is tóo difficult for me and my kid. Some men come saying that they want to marry me but after discovering that I have a kid they will become unserious, all they want is sex sex sex. In search of hope I was advised to go into prostitution but I have fear of God I cannot stand the immorality. All I need is a sewing machine and a shop from there I can work and take care of myself. I want to work I want to use my skill to earn a honestly living. What can I do please? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by woginid967: 12:35am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass: I want to believe your story, its so sad but you're not in Lagos or Abuja, i can put in a good word for you and you'll work with a fashion house for six months trial, its not much money, just meager 110k but you'll need your own accomodation 7 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Dcass(f): 12:54am On Jul 17, 2023 |
woginid967:omg am in naka in Benue state how I wish I lived in those two places 2 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by slimjohn2k5: 12:56am On Jul 17, 2023 |
woginid967: Same tot here. U can look out for people that need tailors, work with them to gather your money then buy your own machine 7 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Dcass(f): 12:58am On Jul 17, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:am trying thanks it's not easy to save any reason amount because from my own eat here I feed from what I work 1 Like |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Ed12(m): 3:49am On Jul 17, 2023 |
The dating pool is harsh on single mother just like it is on weak men... I would have blame you for that but your single mother situation is natural, you are a simply a very young widow . And if you don't want to further damage yourself more, don't go into prostitution, because it will kill the little remaining shame that is left in you which is your strong hold point as a widow. The only difference between harlot and wife material is shame.. All women has vagina but not all have shame. Once you indulge in ashawo, then congratulations to you, you will have to kill the remaining shame that is left in you.. Now is the time to be so feminine, your femininity should speak for you.. The way you talk, dress, walk and do your thing should be homely and inviting. Honestly, you are in difficult situation and I pray you find a good man that Will deliberately commit to you.. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by duduade: 4:07am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Remain steadfast and strong and ignore those men please.... You definitely will find one who will do right by you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by HussenAdul: 4:24am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass:The offer of 110k is not bad for u. Don't u have relatives (family & friends) to assist u so that u can move to one of the locations mentioned above. |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by ontolegit(m): 5:31am On Jul 17, 2023 |
@slimjohn2k5, Greetings. I will appreciate this offer, i stay in surulere. slimjohn2k5: |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by GVTAsiwaju(m): 7:18am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass: What is your definition of "unserious"? From the way you sounded you needed someone to lift you away from poverty not necessarily whom to marry 4 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by madscientist88(m): 7:22am On Jul 17, 2023 |
how good are you in sewing?if you mind you can share pictures,how creative and innovative are you in bonding and combining materials? do you know that top fashion brands and institutions in Nigeria and the world are looking for superior level tailors to work with? i mean before you get your shop search for tailoring and design jobs on Google and see wonders,people are flown from ivory coast to Nigeria, people even brought in from Senegal to come and stitch clothings in lagos.most single men wont find you attractive enough to marry you except a widower who has as child like you ,as the saying goes "birds of the same feather ",stop waiting for men to give you money or come and marry you to cushion the effect of your suffering,you would end up disappointed,search Google there are lots of tailor jobs available. 4 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Bakrabas: 8:24am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass: One the easiest Jobs to come by in Nigeria today is teaching . If you're the one that typed this at least it shows that you're a learned person. I'll suggest you go for teaching for 10months so that you can raise the capital couple with the little that you might get from other people. Where's your location may be I can send you links? |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by dobnina(f): 9:12am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass:So what do you really want? A man to marry you and take care of your responsibilities A sewing machine Cos the heading and the content of your post don't align. 7 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Dcass(f): 9:14am On Jul 17, 2023 |
dobnina:I believe if you are truly a woman you shouldn't have problem with me or my posts. |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by dobnina(f): 9:20am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass:Lol You opened this account July 12 and your first post was to beg. People adviced you on the thread and since then, you have been creating different posts stylishly begging. I am 95% sure a guy is behind this monicker. If your story is actually true, then how were you surviving since 2019? 11 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by dobnina(f): 9:23am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass:Between July 12, 2023 and July 17, 2023 3 Likes
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Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Michelle55: 9:32am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Why is it that people with this kinda sob stories don't live close to where people can easily verify it? I'm not saying op is lying but every of her thread is related to prostitution and underlying single mom syndrome. I'm sure you have family members and closed friends that can help you, but the need to rush to social media to seek aid when we can easily get help all around us has taken over. You can sew from home, it isn't a must you have a shop and all equipment before starting. Start small and please, stop complaining. You're not the only one with a child, and that shouldn't be an excuse to join prostitution either. From all indication, you're not seeking a means to elevate yourself but rather a man to take you out of suffering. 9 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by dobnina(f): 9:33am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass:In one of you posts, you posted picture with your cleavage out, what do you want to achieve with that? How are we so sure that the picture with the cleavage and the picture in your profile are yours. 1 Like |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Foodqueen(f): 9:46am On Jul 17, 2023 |
This is a guy's handwork. Trying to use single mother and refuser to prostitute to scam people. He will soon use the other acct to encourage shimself. 5 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by gbadexy(m): 10:19am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Ed12:Harsh reality. |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Dcass(f): 10:44am On Jul 17, 2023 |
People will never verify before they complain that it is a lie |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by IVORY2009(m): 10:58am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Do you have proof? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Obainoman6: 11:05am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Lol, you are an evening newspapers, sorry its only good for cleaning yansh 1 Like |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by WeirdAlien: 11:54am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Huh? |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by udede(m): 12:05pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Go look for single father 1 Like |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by SHiNJA4RMDWEST: 3:03pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Why don't women beg their fellow women for help? Why always men? 3 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by GodWrites: 3:55pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dcass: Hunty what exactly do you want? A husband or a sewing machine? You probably have been chasing suitors away with your archaic mindset, not because you are a single mother. 1 Like |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by CarlosTheJackal: 4:15pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
dobnina:That's a catfish account. The idiot is a scammer. I've bursted him before, he also uses Taraba as location 2 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Bigseven(m): 4:25pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Being a single mum isn’t a sin, but your presentation of self is the problem. First of all, if you want to remarry then there are some steps you’d follow. But if you want to remain single mum and build your empire around your child then you need some tips as well. If want to remarry, clear off every relationship you are into now, review what lead to you being a single mum, If it’s dead of husband then it’s a different thing but if it’s life issues that separates you then after reviewing, adjust where necessary, pray sincerely to your God about your intention for His guidance then make your money(be working or have a business), dress well, your child should be your priority always and any man coming should be aware that he’s coming for you both except in case of divorce in which the child will certainly go to his dad, work on your social quotient. Maintain positive vibes always on social media because your interaction and intuition will attract your level. Be vigilant to know whether a guy is coming for sex or for keep which is why you’d suspend indiscriminate sex for now. Then remain focus and don’t look desperate to remarry and GOD will come through for you. If you need more, DM me pls 2 Likes |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
SHiNJA4RMDWEST: Where did the Op specifically say she is begging only men for help? And you went to school 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Obainoman6: Dokpemu learn to read, she is a widow. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help No One Want To Marry Me But They Want Sex Because I Am A Single Mother by SHiNJA4RMDWEST: 4:38pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: They want sex sex sex.. Guess u were blind to see that? 2 Likes |
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