Victoria Ogechi Chuks said Something is happening now and I am confused on how to proceed.

A guy contacted me last week, appparently he has an introduction or some marriage rite ceremony coming up. He bought a carton of catfish from me to be sent to his fiancée.

I am at the park now and i juust had this unusual urge to call the receiver first before sending which is not something I do, I will only inform you via text that's if the receiver is my direct customer.

So I called the girl, she picked up, I informed her that there's a package for her from her man, she asked what it was, I told her, next she hissed and started talking with a lady in the background.

The call was still ongoing, she said in Igbo " odi ka (the guy's name) dị iberibe, then in English, was that what we told him, bring cash let's buy ourselves ona ezuzugari, the other people in the background started talking siimultaneously all pointing to the fact the guy is stingy and he doesn't trust them enough to give them the cash.

Me I had to start shouting hello, hello, hello, the girl came back to the phone and said to me, " carry that rubbish and give back to whoever bought it"

Whoever?
Your man whom you're getting married to?

There's been a lot of things going through my mind since then to be honest.

The guy said I should not mind her and wait small that he will talk to her then I will send.

Omoh this one wants to use his two legs and enter one chance toorh e no concern me shaa.

Shes an igbo girl are you surprised by her attitude?

Some red lights shouldn't be ignored

Rayban25:
Shes an igbo girl are you surprised by her attitude?

Is this how u think?

U have a long way to go in this life.

Tribalist.

Nice2023:



Is this how u think?

U have a long way to go in this life.

Tribalist.

majority of igbo girls have bad attitude. if you are pained by my comment then sorry for you.

this is not politics. this is romance. read the room well before jumping into conclusions

Rayban25:
Shes an igbo girl are you surprised by her attitude?

Shut up !
Are your tribe any better?

YOUNGELDER1:



Shut up !
Are your tribe any better?

some of you are just daft. This is not politics section.

go through my post and find the answer youre looking for then.

I can never date or marry a Igbo girl...
They are very rude and disrespectful..

They don't respect their husband or even his family members..

One wonder why most feminists in Nigeria are Igbo women..

Igbo men are now getting wiser ,they now marry from other tribes..

Go to Anambra today,most rich women there are widows..They killed their husbands to inherit his properties ..

Shinjawestside:
I can never date or marry a Igbo girl...
They are very rude and disrespectful..

They don't respect their husband or even his family members..

One wonder why most feminists in Nigeria are Igbo women..

Igbo men are now getting wiser ,they now marry from other tribes..

Go to Anambra today,most rich women there are widows..They killed their husbands to inherit his properties ..

they are very entitled by nature. i dont know where they got that attitude from.

from what i know, in their culture its ususally the male that inherits all the wealth so maybe they feel that a guy coming into their life msut bring the whole world to them or spend lavishly on them

jmoore:
Victoria Ogechi Chuks said Something is happening now and I am confused on how to proceed.

A guy contacted me last week, appparently he has an introduction or some marriage rite ceremony coming up. He bought a carton of catfish from me to be sent to his fiancée.

I am at the park now and i juust had this unusual urge to call the receiver first before sending which is not something I do, I will only inform you via text that's if the receiver is my direct customer.

So I called the girl, she picked up, I informed her that there's a package for her from her man, she asked what it was, I told her, next she hissed and started talking with a lady in the background.

The call was still ongoing, she said in Igbo " odi ka (the guy's name) dị iberibe, then in English, was that what we told him, bring cash let's buy ourselves ona ezuzugari, the other people in the background started talking siimultaneously all pointing to the fact the guy is stingy and he doesn't trust them enough to give them the cash.

Me I had to start shouting hello, hello, hello, the girl came back to the phone and said to me, " carry that rubbish and give back to whoever bought it"

Whoever?
Your man whom you're getting married to?

There's been a lot of things going through my mind since then to be honest.

The guy said I should not mind her and wait small that he will talk to her then I will send.

Omoh this one wants to use his two legs and enter one chance toorh e no concern me shaa.

He should also buy the tomatoes and pepper and send. Let him not forget to send salt.

ImaIma1:


He should also buy the tomatoes and pepper and send. Let him not forget to send salt.

Meaning?

jmoore:


Meaning?

Meaning he should miss anything out from the food ingredients. Ogiri, palm oil, fufu...very important

The guy no do well, at this stage the husband to be sends money (which is called ego nchere uzo) to the wife to be, to buy and arrange things from her end, all he has to do is show up with his people on the day of the celebration.

But this one whey e don dey buy catfish for cooking of soup at his own traditional wedding make e also add cocoyam, achi, uziza and other condiments for the waybill!

Nna, e be like say na d man go dey go market when dey marry to make sure the wife no go cheat am.

Zupay:
The guy no do well, at this stage the husband to be sends money (which is called ego nchere uzo) to the wife to be, to buy and arrange things from her end, all he has to do is show up with his people on the day of the celebration.

But this one whey e don dey buy catfish for cooking of soup at his own traditional wedding make e also add cocoyam, achi, uziza and other condiments for the waybill!

Nna, e be like say na d man go dey go market when dey marry to make sure the wife no go cheat am.

Shouldn't forget Cameroon pepper and okpei

Loving eyes never see

Michael Bolton's words

Whether the carton of catfish was the right item to send or not, that one no consign me. My own is, her referring to her husband to be in such derogatory manner is a no no. To me she doesn't respect him at all. The guy seeing shege banza after the marriage is loading....

Zupay:
The guy no do well, at this stage the husband to be sends money (which is called ego nchere uzo) to the wife to be, to buy and arrange things from her end, all he has to do is show up with his people on the day of the celebration.

But this one whey e don dey buy catfish for cooking of soup at his own traditional wedding make e also add cocoyam, achi, uziza and other condiments for the waybill!

Nna, e be like say na d man go dey go market when dey marry to make sure the wife no go cheat am.

Is iberibe a sweet word?

Is it only catfish that will be eaten?

The man may have sent money for other things for the feast.