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Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 6:46pm On Jun 06, 2019
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma, he is a Successful young man, a Muslim but Unhappily Married! The gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot! His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.

Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls, once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man! Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.

Every damn thing was good, we always balled together, i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero, legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!
He always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger!

The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad, a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner. This lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy! First, wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy! Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her. Imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.

In a nutshell, he wanted her badly and as we all know, as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage! Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.

She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!

They never kissed; touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married. Yes! He got married Blindy and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.

First, this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit! Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!

Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed (dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed (we love it like da) he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).

My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself. He is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.

The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by sherylbakky: 6:57pm On Jun 06, 2019
Sebi ur friend can cook? Ehhhn he sud b doing d cooking nah, so far u warned him to notice her b4 marriage n he refused.

Or better still, they sud get a maid or a cook that will be coming around sometimes. He sud forget anything like learning how to cook for her at this stage, it's late except she shows interest.

As for the bed things, he sud show her what he wants in bed, he's a man nah.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Aonkuuse(m): 7:00pm On Jun 06, 2019
That is his problem but karma is a ugly bitch

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by TANID(m): 7:00pm On Jun 06, 2019
That Man Would Blind Again If He Fail God Test

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Kingsleydr(m): 7:05pm On Jun 06, 2019
Let me park hia first ..brb
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Rita30: 7:16pm On Jun 06, 2019
Get house helps

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Harrymig1(m): 7:19pm On Jun 06, 2019
This matter is strong

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by donbachi(m): 7:41pm On Jun 06, 2019
But love itself is blind

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by StrikeBack(m): 8:02pm On Jun 06, 2019
Kingsleydr:
Let me park hia first ..brb
POLICE



No parking here

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by luvyaself95(m): 8:32pm On Jun 06, 2019
when you marry only beauty.. not beauty,brain and behavior...

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 9:37pm On Jun 06, 2019
sherylbakky:
Sebi ur friend can cook? Ehhhn he sud b doing d cooking nah, so far u warned him to notice her b4 marriage n he refused.

Or better still, they sud get a maid or a cook that will be coming around sometimes. He sud forget anything like learning how to cook for her at this stage, it's late except she shows interest.

As for the bed things, he sud show her what he wants in bed, he's a man nah.
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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by spongeisback: 9:40pm On Jun 06, 2019
OP is Ibrahim's side chick. Leave the young couple to work on their marriage, whatever he's telling you ask him to go tell his wife.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 9:44pm On Jun 06, 2019
sherylbakky:
Sebi ur friend can cook? Ehhhn he sud b doing d cooking nah, so far u warned him to notice her b4 marriage n he refused.

Or better still, they sud get a maid or a cook that will be coming around sometimes. He sud forget anything like learning how to cook for her at this stage, it's late except she shows interest.

As for the bed things, he sud show her what he wants in bed, he's a man nah.
they intend getting one but dats after dey must have had a baby..

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 9:45pm On Jun 06, 2019
Aonkuuse:
That is his problem but karma is a ugly bitch
i dun see any karma or reason fr d karma wrath

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 9:48pm On Jun 06, 2019
luvyaself95:
when you marry only beauty..
not beauty,brain and behavior...
its a lesson for odaz

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Deepfeel(m): 9:57pm On Jun 06, 2019
His a Muslim is not a crime for him to marry a second wife, he should get a second wife undecided

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by iyke926(m): 10:05pm On Jun 06, 2019
Rita30:
Get house helps
So you saying, the housemaids will also satisfy the dude's needs in bedroom? undecided

Getting a second wife would have been better and not househelp or maid.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by OgaVoltron: 10:07pm On Jun 06, 2019
Hilarious, Some men never learn. Make him marry another na if he can bear the stress. She fit sit up sef. Women need competition else most start misbehaving.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Benbisco(f): 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma,he is a Successful young man,a Muslim but Unhappily Married!the gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot!His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls,once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man!Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.Every damn thing was good,we always balled together,i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero,legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!he always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger! The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad,a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner.this lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy!First,wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy!Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her.imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.In a nutshell,he wanted her badly and as we all know,as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage!Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!They never kissed;touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married.yes!He got married Blindy,and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.First,this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit!Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to. Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her. At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself.he is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx

OP, I feel for your friend and wish him well but I have a bone to pick with you on this matter.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At this point, I reserve my comment.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Amanda4life: 10:22pm On Jun 06, 2019
Im sure your friend must have disappointed some good girls.

Pls help me tell him that i said he should be doing the cooking for now. Because in abroad men cook.

For the sex thin let him buy babydoll.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 10:45pm On Jun 06, 2019
spongeisback:
OP is Ibrahim's side chick. Leave the young couple to work on their marriage, whatever he's telling you ask him to go tell his wife.
young Lad am asking for solution not dissolution

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 10:46pm On Jun 06, 2019
OgaVoltron:
Hilarious, Some men never learn. Make him marry another na if he can bear the stress. She fit sit up sef. Women need competition else most start misbehaving.
good suggestion but I doubt Ibrahim wants a 2nd atm. Tanx anyway

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 10:51pm On Jun 06, 2019
Benbisco:


OP, I feel for your friend and wish him well but I have a bone to pick with you on this matter.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her. smiley smileylolxxx. M just trying to maintain eloquence ma! No porn intended.

At this point, I reserve my comment.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Dreamz77(m): 10:53pm On Jun 06, 2019
Btw ion think I said anything bad ni! Besides m igbo myself
Benbisco:


OP, I feel for your friend and wish him well but I have a bone to pick with you on this matter.

Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her.

At this point, I reserve my comment.
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by omale88(m): 4:59am On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma,he is a Successful young man,a Muslim but Unhappily Married!the gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate to secure a Federal govt job which as we all know in naija is like hitting a jackpot!His family are quite rich and he happens to be the last born so he had so much benefits and little or no responsibilities.Dude was living large and as such was able to Conquer quite a number of ladies and you know our Naija girls,once you are a "money spender" you Automatically become their dream Man!Love of their life and all those rubbish etc.Every damn thing was good,we always balled together,i made him stop takin codeine and all this crazy syrub which I noticed most some part of Hausa's Cherish more than their O level(dats mostly their max anyway)well I introduced him to taking proper Alchohol like Hero,legend and my ever favorite "Budweiser "!he always payed the bills coz financially he was bigger! The main problem began wen he traveled to Philippines to meet with his dad,a Consultant in Manilla, their he met Zainab who was a med practitioner.this lady drove my guy crazy! Like literally crazy!First,wen she got back to Nigeria he became more obsessed ,their was no conversation we could make without he mentioning or Linkin it to her. He was becoming bitchy!Even wen we all go out together she always had dis disdainful grimace on her face like the people around there are beneath her.imagine ordinary Philippines naim she school (no disrespect for) dats not my headache atoll.In a nutshell,he wanted her badly and as we all know,as a Muslim its a serious taboo to lose ur virginity before marriage!Ibrahim wanted dis lady soo badly and I don't know mayb it was her beauty cause to be honest she was glaringly radiant in beauty and very erudite in speech. or maybe twas his percievd pedigree of her, I couldn't tell what the oomph was all about.She liked him too dou but he never took the time to understand that marriage is different from the normal menalin quest!They never kissed;touched nor romanced before he proposed which I agitated against but my friend went on with his plan and they got married.yes!He got married Blindy,and ever since Dia marriage has been more like its a hell in a cell match.First,this lady knows nothing about cooking,she can't even cook shit!Ibrahim always have to come eat at my place after work cause according to him she only prepares indomie and Egg!Secondly she is not a playmate unlike before she doesn't gist while watching tv or have naughty talks aside work and normal stuff like dey use to. Lastly she doesn't flow in bed(dead wood) and my friend through me has tasted some igbo girls and we know igbo ladies are beasts in bed(we love it like da)he complains of her being too modest in bed and this is funny cause I believe he solely got married cause that was the only way he could have her. At the moment, they not on talking terms cause he doesn't touch her anymore nor even eat her food (indomie).My friend was blind to get married with a wrong perception but I really feel for him dou he causd the drama himself.he is considering cheating on his wife at the moment just to relax his urge but I don't support cassanovering wen one is already legally married.The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx
After all this talk? Seems like you got it all figured out what more advice do you need bestman?,�

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by luvyaself95(m): 7:39am On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
its a lesson for odaz
Confirm..
Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ikechukz(m): 7:49am On Jun 07, 2019
Who else came in here to read a completely different story undecided undecided

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Newguyhere: 7:51am On Jun 07, 2019
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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Kobicove(m): 7:56am On Jun 07, 2019
Dreamz77:
A friend of mine happens to be in a serious dilemma,he is a Successful young man,a Muslim but Unhappily Married!the gist -.

Some few years back my Buddy (Ibrahim)was fortunate ...The wife already believes me to be the shenanigan confusing her hubby not knowing m trying to save her marriage .pls dam, Any reasonable advice would be much appreciated guys cause I really don't know how to help out here. Tanx

This marriage is already 'Dead on Arrival' undecided

If at this stage they're already keeping malice then it's only a matter of time before domestic violence rears its head.

Please tell your friend to divorce the lady and move on before kids start coming...

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by ThePreachersSon: 10:32am On Jun 07, 2019
If he can cook he should do the cooking, or one of them should do a catering course.

They can seek professional help, or try exploring new things in bed.

He should start the conversations, if it ends as fast as it starts,then there's a problem. He needs to find out the things she likes. And listen when she talks.

If he's cheating on her, he'd better stop.

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Re: Man Wants Divorce After Getting Married "Blind" But Now Sees. by Olorunnim: 6:13pm On Jun 07, 2019
Kingsleydr:
Let me park hia first ..brb
You would get parking tickets before you get back.

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