₦airaland Forum

obinna58:
It’s useless retaining your fathers name as a female, uncles go collect everything except say you no marry and still na war

You should know by now that Igbo culture doesn't affect all females.

Jovialjune1:
You should know by now that Igbo culture doesn't affect all females.

All females you said, of course and it’s same for every tribe, a female lawyer equals every challenge thrown by the relative looters, africa is not yet that developed

Wahala for who no get male child.

UnfairLife7:
Those heir apparent are illusion. I have seen a family with all boys and they are all useless. No education, no skills, walking elmlessly with short knicker and phone on the streets. I have seen family with 2 successful beautiful girls. One is happily married and relocated to US. The other is doing pretty fine for herself. I will rather have those girls as children than have a full grown useless men as children. Go to correctional centres and see how your so called heir apparent are languishing there. What have you achieve bearing your father's or grandfathers name? What door has your father's name open for you? Or you think it's just to have a male child? Having both gender is good and beautiful no doubt. But if one doesn't have it so be it. No gender is superior than the other. Not having a child or not having a particular gender doesn't make you less a man.

What would you say about poor men? Because they are poor that makes them less men?

Walahi you get strenght
Just leave am

Would you be okay as a fully grown man to have your daughter bathing you

I bathe my grandfather at his old age up until he passed... Never forgotten his words of gratitude everytime. You're still young and not thinking much about it. What do you think caregivers for the elderly do?