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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by highchief1: 4:22pm On Aug 13, 2023
ufotty2001:

Why u dey give advice as if me and u dey querrel.. I did not intentionally stay unmarried..
lol bros the message may be harsh but na true.38 don Dey late u know say we Dey live long well well these days.The aim na to raise our kids finish before we get grey hair.I got married at 28 I really wished I got married earlier.I don’t know what’s delayed u but pls take on it head on if u can.Early start too good.God bless u my broda
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by denko(m): 4:40pm On Aug 13, 2023
most people that made money too early usually died before 50years some made its above 40 but lived till 70 years. life is not competition.
Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by authentic18: 4:50pm On Aug 13, 2023
figure it out
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Babastrong(m): 4:57pm On Aug 13, 2023
[quote author=SangoOlukosoOba post=124014167]Peace of mind.

[without MONEY? i doubt it.]
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by emmykk(m): 5:01pm On Aug 13, 2023
DeeBaDan:



Trust me. Ive been creating jobs since eight years and oga. Your 10 Million doesn't intimidate me


You created this thread with a motive to brag. Hence I'm asking you to come out fully to say what you think you've achieved that's alot.

I like your clap back to that He Goat.

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by maasoap(m): 5:05pm On Aug 13, 2023
Free2Fly:


No one is going to respect any stupid choice you ignorantly make that'll impact negatively on his life.

If your choices are going to destroy others in addition to yourself, then don't make it.
This is exactly why we say that you guys don't understand what democracy is.
You have this misconception that it is either your choice or no choice at all. And that's because you believed that your choice is the best even when you are minority in number. That's laughable.
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Sirchiboy: 5:06pm On Aug 13, 2023
UnfairLife7:
I think business. He served his master for 7 years and got settled afterwards
.
Really
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by EzugoAmerica: 5:24pm On Aug 13, 2023
I'm a 40 year old guy, and I must admit to you that I'm not worried about achievements, nor bothered about marriage, or disturb myself about the things that I can't give myself. Lemme be honest with you, ever since I realize that Nigeria is the reason why a 40 year old guy is still grappling with life, a 40 year old guy is still sharing an apartment with his parents, a 40 year old guy is still single and jobless at the same time. Omoh I quietly embrace my uniqueness, such as comfortably doing what I want to do even if other people don’t approve it. (2) I stopped comparing my happiness, success and fulfilment to the fake standard that other people set on social media. (3) I tried hard to give myself a maximum freedom, as'n learn about different things in life. Travel far and visit different places that helped me widen my horizons. Meet new people and make new contacts, and I enjoyed my life in Dubai, Sharjah & Abu Dhabi all in United Arab Emirates.
Lemme signoff with diz 👉Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it!!!
"You only have one life to live, so live it without worrying about achievements". Biko 🙏

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Francomorera(m): 5:28pm On Aug 13, 2023
To be alive bro

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by nnamdi640: 5:36pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nice2023:




Why a passport?
To Japa at anytime, with the way this country is going, nothing is sure.

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by sofiscatedmoron: 5:44pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nazgul:

A good wife and cute kids.

A good job or a thriving business or both.

A property either in the city or village or both.

An account balance of not less than 1m

Must have built a network of connections with the right people.

Must have a voice in your family.

Must have a passport.

Must have visited at least 3 countries outside Nigeria.
90% of Nigeria youths below 40 can't afford to build a house,v

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by ubola: 5:45pm On Aug 13, 2023
Sirchiboy:
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How did you manage to buy car?
I did land agency business that raked in N3m after settlement which I bought the car @ 2m (fairly used), then used the balance (200k into children fees, 100k for my flexing, 700k for tilling dad's house and renovation to a modern place)

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Sirchiboy: 6:45pm On Aug 13, 2023
ubola:
I did land agency business that raked in N3m after settlement which I bought the car @ 2m (fairly used), then used the balance (200k into children fees, 100k for my flexing, 700k for tilling dad's house and renovation to a modern place)
.
Are you a guy?
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Ceejay57: 6:57pm On Aug 13, 2023
tensazangetsu20:
To have bleeped at least 50 olosho with smelly pussy.
Is it not dis dude wey entered chile recently,wey I been dey look up to,dude you sound so wasted,I give up.

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Satanistx: 7:01pm On Aug 13, 2023
Free2Fly:


You're the fool here, envious cockroach.

He only requested you to say what you feel a man should have achieved at 40.

This is not about competition, and you shouldn't envious or intimidated.
your real papa cool
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Satanistx: 7:01pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nice2023:



Answering a man who is jobless and weak is a pure waste of energy.

My wife can feed u and pay u daily salary.

Keep watching Big brother while others succeed.

can she suck my dick till i cum too?
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by mercysamuelson(m): 7:11pm On Aug 13, 2023
Hassanmaye
Haha this is not your statement, you have been writing about tech and computer science what happened

Oh, I think he remember the saying, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy".

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by achimendy(m): 7:24pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?



Dont indirectly put unnecessary pressure on yourself, the most important thing is to have vision and persistently pursue it until you achieve your goals.

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by okoroemeka(m): 7:53pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nice2023:
I just clocked 40 year old and I feel as if I have not done well for myself. May be because I had always set a standard, hence my high taste and expectations.


Now goes the question,as a Nigerian,what achievement do one expects from a 40years old man irrespective of his education?
standards differ from ethnicity to ethnicity,what could be considered an achievement in Yorubaland may not be so in other places,but at that as an igboman you are expected to be married,have a motorcycle or car,a house in the village and in the township for the high-flyers.

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Nice2023(m): 7:57pm On Aug 13, 2023
okoroemeka:
standards differ from ethnicity to ethnicity,what could be considered an achievement in Yorubaland may not be so in other places,but at that as an igboman you are expected to be married,have a motorcycle or car,a house in the village and in the township for the high-flyers.



As an igbo my brother,I totally agree with 110%.
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Naijatask: 8:06pm On Aug 13, 2023
tensazangetsu20:
To have bleeped at least 50 olosho with smelly pussy.

Tensa, seems you're changing and I don't really like this new aspect of you sha.

Ps: from your fan, who's learning programming

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by LarryCork: 8:38pm On Aug 13, 2023
meobizy:
Everybody na trillionaire for Nairaland. Mscheew.

helo please are u intaressted in doin housegirl job payin a coool 20,000naira a months?my millionaire uncle is lookin for 3 womens coz this is your shance to make moiney.please do u want the house girl job
Goodlady say she intaressted & have been pay deposit of 5000naira. This is a big shame for u coz my uncle is a millionaire. U want?(no oofencse) smiley
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by gregng(m): 8:40pm On Aug 13, 2023
DeeBaDan:
Okay Mr. Oppressor. Kuku come out and brag openly.

What and what have you achieved at 40. Let's rephrase your hypocrisy abit

Dnt mind the guy... He is being unmotivational and intimidated abt life...

A silly question...

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by gregng(m): 8:44pm On Aug 13, 2023
highchief1:
lol bros the message may be harsh but na true.38 don Dey late u know say we Dey live long well well these days.The aim na to raise our kids finish before we get grey hair.I got married at 28 I really wished I got married earlier.I don’t know what’s delayed u but pls take on it head on if u can.Early start too good.God bless u my broda

Stupid writes up...
This write up sounds like kids mind... Because u got married at 28yrs doesnt mean everyone should...

Everyone has its own time and season... Moreover everyone must not get marry... Marriage isnt compulsory to all... Its a thing of choice..

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by gregng(m): 8:46pm On Aug 13, 2023
Years is just in number... The greatest achievement to life whether @ 30, 40 or 60yrs is PEACE OF MIND...


If you are at peace with ur mind... Thats is the greatet achievement to life...

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by bilo1(m): 8:54pm On Aug 13, 2023
Fairview1:


Thanks man. God bless you abundantly. We may not be able to work with us now, but we can always keep in contact via WhatsApp. The future is pregnant and who knows what it has for both of us. Kindly reach me through bobugeedav@gmail.com let's take it up from there.
Ok bro,thanks and i will keep in touch

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Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Connected1: 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2023
Nice2023:



Answering a man who is jobless and weak is a pure waste of energy.

My wife can feed u and pay u daily salary.

Keep watching Big brother while others succeed.

He was right after all.

You were here to brag.
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by Nazgul: 9:49pm On Aug 13, 2023
sofiscatedmoron:

90% of Nigeria youths below 40 can't afford to build a house
There is a short cut to owing a property if you're below 40. It's called inheritance. Many young Nigerians (myself inclusive) are beneficiaries of it.
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by larrypourl(m): 10:05pm On Aug 13, 2023
dapotemi:


A healthy, personal relationship with your maker... Every other thing is what Yoruba called "panti", that is refuse....The richest man ever lived, King Solomon says it's all vanity and does not define YOU!
If you have that relationship, then you will have rest of mind, you will worry less and watch God takes care of you and yours...
Don't let anyone tells you it's a big house, cute kids, beautiful wife, money in the bank, passport/visas , thriving biz or good job..Rather tell tell them to look at Noah, he has all of this and even more but what happen, he lost everything in the twinkle of an eye but MUCH MORE was restore to him because he has the most important one, a healthy relationship with his maker...You should rather focus on that and stop chasing refuse in d dump site.
On the flip side, you're now in the second half of your life, and that is if you're lucky o, time to reshape your vision and focus on d most important thing ..

You've stated nothing but the truth. Got my car under 30, got a befitting apartment still under 30, got married at 30, lost her in a car crash at 33 and everything becomes useless now. There's nothing to life anymore, life is truly unscripted. I'm just living life, let him use and do me as it pleases him because I'm tired already.
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by highchief1: 10:07pm On Aug 13, 2023
gregng:


Stupid writes up...
This write up sounds like kids mind... Because u got married at 28yrs doesnt mean everyone should...

Everyone has its own time and season... Moreover everyone must not get marry... Marriage isnt compulsory to all... It’s a thing of choice..
yes na.why r u taking it personal did I tell u to marry?d guy I commented on his reply said aside marriage that’s why I’m talking of marriage.na choice na.how is it a stupid write up?that u don’t believe in it doesn’t mean people don’t.I’m a family oriented person so for me it’s an achievement.Car when u buy today u no fit drive am 10yrs time,house when u build today nobody go gree live am 20yrs time.Pikin when u born today fit become president tomorow.u go say no be must to marry before u born.na stl choice I no fit born outside wedlock.no blame us the way them raise some of us get as e be.u fit be full street some of us na good boys
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by highchief1: 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2023
gregng:


Stupid writes up...
This write up sounds like kids mind... Because u got married at 28yrs doesnt mean everyone should...

Everyone has its own time and season... Moreover everyone must not get marry... Marriage isnt compulsory to all... Its a thing of choice..
Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by NLKing01: 10:22pm On Aug 13, 2023
It shows
Nazgul:

I'm less than 40.

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