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So, a lady shared her experience with me at work and I want more insight.
A man lied and defrauded his struggling wife of some certain amount of money in a business transcaction, only for the lady to get to know the truth, the real amount the item was bought and the account which she made payments to, was an arrange POS guy's account and not the company's account as he claimed.

After confronting her husband, he got angry at her for making unnecessary investigation behind his back accordingly to him.



Married people in the house, have you ever experienced a situation where your partner, lied and defrauded you and you get to know later? What did you do?
What can you advise in such situations?
Do you think a husband or wife who behave like this, truly love?
Can you divorce your partner for this reason?
Pls matured mind.

It happens everyday in our homes nah, women are good at doing it... This particular one shock you because only useless men do it so it's very rare. Women deflate prices of things every damn time

Dainy1:
■ After confronting her husband, he got angry at her for making unnecessary investigation behind his back accordingly to him.
■ Married people in the house, have you ever experienced a situation where your partner, lied and defrauded you and you get to know later? What did you do? What can you advise in such situations?
Do you think a husband or wife who behave like this, truly love? Can you divorce your partner for this reason? Pls matured mind.

1. That is akin to having a fraudster and bully, all wrapped in one, as a business partner. Na so you she go dey clench teeth throughout the rest of that marriage.

2. We are all different and have different tolerance levels. So, rather than seek opinion of others, my suggestion for anyone dealing with such is to look inwards to decide how much he/she is worth, and as such deserves out in a relationship.

Aonkuuse:
It happens everyday in our homes nah, women are good at doing it... This particular one shock you because only useless men do it so it's very rare. Women deflate prices of things every damn time

Yes. But if your partner have to bring in other people, connive with them to scam you of big money. Is not okay to me. Like. The man went too far

Kobojunkie:
1. That is akin to having a fraudster and bully, all wrapped in one, as a business partner. Na so you she go dey clench teeth throughout the rest of that marriage.

2. We are all different and have different tolerance levels. So, rather than seek opinion of others, my suggestion for anyone dealing with such is to look inwards to decide how much he/she is worth, and as such deserves out in a relationship.

Is not an act of someone that loves at all.

Hmmm 🤔 I'll post my thoughts soon

Kobojunkie:
1. That is akin to having a fraudster and bully, all wrapped in one, as a business partner. Na so you she go dey clench teeth throughout the rest of that marriage.

2. We are all different and have different tolerance levels. So, rather than seek opinion of others, my suggestion for anyone dealing with such is to look inwards to decide how much he/she is worth, and as such deserves out in a relationship.

This is heavy o

Zigzagman:
Hmmm 🤔 I'll post my thoughts soon

Pls do

Dainy1:
So, a lady shared her experience with me at work and I want more insight.
A man lied and defrauded his struggling wife of some certain amount of money in a business transcaction, only for the lady to get to know the truth, the real amount the item was bought and the account which she made payments to, was an arrange POS guy's account and not the company's account as he claimed.

After confronting her husband, he got angry at her for making unnecessary investigation behind his back accordingly to him.



Married people in the house, have you ever experienced a situation where your partner, lied and defrauded you and you get to know later? What did you do?
What can you advise in such situations?
Do you think a husband or wife who behave like this, truly love?
Can you divorce your partner for this reason?
Pls matured mind.

Fraudsters are big liers

There is no need for divorce

She should stop trusting him simple

And she shouldn't get intimidates by his harassments

Dainy1:
So, a lady shared her experience with me at work and I want more insight.
A man lied and defrauded his struggling wife of some certain amount of money in a business transcaction, only for the lady to get to know the truth, the real amount the item was bought and the account which she made payments to, was an arrange POS guy's account and not the company's account as he claimed.

After confronting her husband, he got angry at her for making unnecessary investigation behind his back accordingly to him.



Married people in the house, have you ever experienced a situation where your partner, lied and defrauded you and you get to know later? What did you do?
What can you advise in such situations?
Do you think a husband or wife who behave like this, truly love?
Can you divorce your partner for this reason?
Pls matured mind.

Stop making noise...

Kobojunkie:
1. That is akin to having a fraudster and bully, all wrapped in one, as a business partner. Na so you she go dey clench teeth throughout the rest of that marriage.

2. We are all different and have different tolerance levels. So, rather than seek opinion of others, my suggestion for anyone dealing with such is to look inwards to decide how much he/she is worth, and as such deserves out in a relationship.

Stop making noise...

Stop making noise...I don't have a shop for making noise or noise making...we know how and what time it poises...

Emmanuel30a:
Stop making noise...don't have a shop for making noise or noise making...we know how and what time it poises...

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frozen70:
Fraudsters are big liers

There is no need for divorce

She should stop trusting him simple

And she shouldn't get intimidates by his harassments

Exactly.

Dainy1:
I don't understand

You would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever understands... After all, you know KNOW let alone understands JEHOVAH RAVA or JEHOVAH RAVAH/JEHOVAH NISI... Eyin omo eefa..., lucifer,olufa, atibeebeelo... Eyee sebi omo ijo mefa...

Dainy1:
Exactly.

On point

Maybe this is normal in an African marriage that's why many are not seeing it as a big deal.