Yes I will, as long as the man is earning and gives my sister hapiness, I will gladly do it.
I am from an average family, my mom was very contended, she grew with him, started as poor teachers, diveled into farming and now living great. I do good for myself too. In a relationship, love is not only the factor, but love and respect has an higher percentage. I chose love above money.

UnfairLife7:
stop being hypocritical guy

Would you allow your sister settle down with a father of 2 as an average earner? You keep on harming on LOVE like you don't know love alone isn't a decider factor in marriage or even friendship.


It is even fair she go for a young guy with no kids even if he's an average earner. For a young girl to marry a man with 2 kids then the man must worth it.

Styluss:
Yes I will, as long as the man is earning and gives my sister hapiness, I will gladly do it.
I am from an average family, my mom was very contended, she grew with him, started as poor teachers, diveled into farming and now living great. I do good for myself too. In a relationship, love is not only the factor, but love and respect has an higher percentage. I chose love above money.

maybe you should link op with your sister then.

OP is old, Age is a better factor compared to money.
Everyone will go through my parents template. Marry young, marry someone whom you believe in, build together. Try your best and let fate decide.

UnfairLife7:
maybe you should link op with your sister then.

Styluss:
OP is old, Age is a better factor compared to money.
Everyone will go through my parents template. Marry young, marry someone whom you believe in, build together. Try your best and let fate decide.

says who biko? Is like you don't know what you're saying.

I do, I have first hand experience

Villa12:
says who biko? Is like you don't know what you're saying.

Styluss:
I do, I have first hand experience

Why saying everybody as if na everybody start from small. Instead of you to say yourself you dey carry everybody join

I meant my siblings, sorry if you misunderstood.
I am the first!

Villa12:
Why saying everybody as if na everybody start from small. Instead of you to say yourself you dey carry everybody join

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you my nairaland family. After i got seperated from my wife, its 8 months now and i decided to go into the dating scene again,i meet this girl almost two months now and she has been a very good and cool girl. We have been vibing well and the relationship has been sailing well not until 2 days ago that we had a minor misunderstanding and till now, we both have not been in communicating term. It happens that we were gisting and she brought a story about what happened in her office, she told me one of her colleague used the picture they both snap together as status on whatsapp and from their someone told his colleague that he has interest in her. She now mentioned a statement that got me worried, i asked her a question which i cant remember now and she said well she doesn't know yet if she is going to like the guy or not, i ask her what she meant by that statement cos that statement means alot, does it mean if she met the guy and she likes him she might eventually dates him or what. Since i met her, i have been noticing she has beeb in communication with some other guys which i dont have an issues with cos fine we just met and definitely she has met other dudes before not until recently that we start dating officially. That was the question i asked her and she couldn't give me any exact reply, she stood up after a while and left my place angrily which she does anytime we have our conflict. Ever since then she has not communicate with me and neither have i also cos i feel like i have been the one keeping the relationship alive and as it is now, i dont care if it sinks or not. I believe if she truely loves me and care about me , she will reach out to me knowing the fact that her statement was totally wrong, if she values and respect me, she wont say that knowing how i will feel. Now my question to you guys is that, did i overreacted by ignoring her too and not talking to her, wont i look like a simp to her and might henceforth take advantage of that been that she is the one that supposed to apologize for that statement and she still not doing so. Pls house just tell me if am wrong at this and how to make amends.

I think you should just let her be, since you have discovered that you are the one keeping the relationship

Secondly, she is at the point of in decision

So give her that break to decide what she wants

But if she says hello to you on chat, do respond to her chats

You may not be the only one that needs a relationship or attention from her

ecolime:
The girl is codedly letting you know you are not her type. She wants something better.


My own advise:

Single (never married) guys and ladies should marry themselves.

Divorced, widows & widowers should also marry themselves.

Poor should marry poor

Rich should marry rich


Everyone after his or her kind.

Simple

better o,me cannot marry broke woman o.

thanks so much for your inputs so far, it has help me to navigate what am passing through at the moments, i will still appreciate more inputs for wider knowledge

Afodot0022:
thanks so much for your inputs so far, it has help me to navigate what am passing through at the moments, i will still appreciate more inputs for wider knowledge

Hey, I apologize for being a bit harsh, but I want to be honest with you.
It's only been 8 months since your marriage ended, and it seems like you haven't learned from the experience.
Here are some key points:
Your wife, whom you are not officially divorced from, cheated on you not once, but twice.
She didn't have a job for 5 years, and as soon as she got a low-paying job, she didn't hesitate to leave for it, without considering the impact on your family.
Based on this, it seems like you got married at a young age, and she may have married you for financial security rather than love or respect. It's likely that you saw signs of her lack of respect towards you.
Now, you're facing a similar situation with the current woman you're involved with. Her comments are disrespectful, and it's important to recognize that she is showing her true colors. Even if she apologizes, the damage has already been done.
By the way, why are you in such a rush to enter another relationship? It has only been 8 months since your separation, and you're already dealing with the aftermath of your wife's infidelity and taking care of two daughters. That's a lot to handle!
If I were in your shoes, I would take some time off to process and reflect on my life. Ask myself some difficult questions instead of seeking love as if you were deprived of it in your childhood.
Consider the reasons why your wife left you and why she chose a low-paying job over her family.
Remember, you are a man! If you need to relieve sexual tension, take care of yourself privately. Focus on officially divorcing your wife and establishing a plan for custody of your kids. Then, look for a mature woman who has her own business or career, rather than someone under 30
Mistakes are meant to make us wiser and develop better judgment.
Lastly, remember that you can give your all to a woman, but she may still cheat with someone who can barely afford his rent. So, prioritize yourself and be with someone who will respect you atleast.

Thanks so much for this output, you have really made alots of sense and did pick some beneficial advice from you statement. as it is now, have made up my mind to quite the relationship and just stay alone and reflect on life, it seems getting love now is difficult. once again thx

mrjojo:




Hey, I apologize for being a bit harsh, but I want to be honest with you.
It's only been 8 months since your marriage ended, and it seems like you haven't learned from the experience.
Here are some key points:
Your wife, whom you are not officially divorced from, cheated on you not once, but twice.
She didn't have a job for 5 years, and as soon as she got a low-paying job, she didn't hesitate to leave for it, without considering the impact on your family.
Based on this, it seems like you got married at a young age, and she may have married you for financial security rather than love or respect. It's likely that you saw signs of her lack of respect towards you.
Now, you're facing a similar situation with the current woman you're involved with. Her comments are disrespectful, and it's important to recognize that she is showing her true colors. Even if she apologizes, the damage has already been done.
By the way, why are you in such a rush to enter another relationship? It has only been 8 months since your separation, and you're already dealing with the aftermath of your wife's infidelity and taking care of two daughters. That's a lot to handle!
If I were in your shoes, I would take some time off to process and reflect on my life. Ask myself some difficult questions instead of seeking love as if you were deprived of it in your childhood.
Consider the reasons why your wife left you and why she chose a low-paying job over her family.
Remember, you are a man! If you need to relieve sexual tension, take care of yourself privately. Focus on officially divorcing your wife and establishing a plan for custody of your kids. Then, look for a mature woman who has her own business or career, rather than someone under 30
Mistakes are meant to make us wiser and develop better judgment.
Lastly, remember that you can give your all to a woman, but she may still cheat with someone who can barely afford his rent. So, prioritize yourself and be with someone who will respect you atleast.

Hello Poco, Please how can one get the laptop power bank and how long does the battery last....

pocohantas:
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MeezPat:
Hello Poco, Please how can one get the laptop power bank and how long does the battery last....

Computer village. The highlighted doesn't have one answer. It should depend on your laptop and charging cycles.

With this handwriting on the wall, you are still asking if you should go ahead with this relationship


Sorry to ask but what was the reason for the first divorce?

Pls could u recommend a vendor or an outlet. I checked online and didn't really see much

pocohantas:


Computer village. The highlighted doesn't have one answer. It should depend on your laptop and charging cycles.