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Clement1111:
😂😂😂

But I voted for WM and Ilebaye nau

She is the one who wants you to lose one fave by saying Biggie should evict three real hms

Thank you better person 🤗🤗

Don't mind her. She will crumble

Manfromlasvegas:
As I said before, and it actually bears repeating, I see his point but my problem is he doesn't see their point. Gender issues, like racism, is one of the most important and sensitive issues in the progressive world you can not compare it with eating rice. Anyone who is going to speak on these issues (racism, gender, religion etc) especially on tv, is expected to speak from a place of inclusivity, empathy, and open-mindedness. You cannot speak on this type of issue in the same manner as you would speak on other type of issues like rice for instance.
The reason is discussions centred on this type of issues have an extreme capacity to become overly-charged, contentious and offensive to a whole lot of people unlike discussions centred around other type of issues like rice.

Imagine a white man who runs his own business comes on tv and says he doesn't like black people because they are too lazy and for that reason he doesn't employ them. It is of course his business, and his reasons might be valid based on his own experience, but the sort of backlash he would receive and financial injury he would suffer would teach him an important lesson in public tact and unguarded utterances. If the same man were to come on tv and say he doesn't like rice because it turns his tummy and so doesn't eat it, even though it is technically the same in core substance and spirit as his first statement ---- expressing personal dislike for something else----- I am sure he would suffer very little personal injury in this second scenario for the simple reason that discussions centred around rice are not as divisive as discussions centred around race.



The point being there are some topics you don't speak about anyhow, whether indeed you are technically right or wrong to avoid causing more harm than good. If you would venture into these topics, you must do so with moderation and wisdom otherwise you keep shut. I may not like Yoruba people because I think they are dirty and disloyal, this might be very very true in my own experience, but I would be the most foolish man to say it on tv or in any public forum. Wisdom will teach you to be measured in your utterances, to be inclusive, empathetic and broadminded. To be diplomatic and understanding of other people's opinion especially at the point you feel most correct and right. To speak with the certainty and frankness of one who has a little knowledge even though you may know a whole lot.


I like whitemoney, I think he is a pretty smart guy but if he is truly smart he will keep his opinion on women and gender to himself.

What a crying shame. I honestly enjoyed reading your beautiful objective rejoinder until you gave the yoruba example using a first-person perspective. Even if unintended, using 'I' and referencing a 'tribe' for illustration made your example sound nonfictional thereby contradicting the main point of keeping emotionally sensitive topics off public platforms.
Still a beautiful masterpiece nonetheless. Thanks!!

Kim: I don't think I Will be here next week

Cross: don't worry, you are stronger than both Baye and Doyin

Kim:what if I leave

Cross: just tell me what to do and i will do it

Kim:after I leave on Sunday
You should catch a triple strike so we can he together outside

Cross:i will

YoungDaNaval:
Kim: I don't think I Will be here next week

Cross: don't worry, you are stronger than both Baye and Doyin

Kim:what if I leave

Cross: just tell me what to do and i will do it

Kim:after I leave on Sunday
You should catch a triple strike so we can he together outside

Cross:i will

a player being played

fitzmayowa:
Deks talking about IIebaye's improvement in recent weeks.....

It’s now obvious that Doyin was the one putting negative energy and evil projections on her while isolating her from the others so that she’ll remain her puppet and her game plan!
Venita was the first person to expose her and that’s why Doyin will never forgive her until she dies…lmao!
See how Baye is winning and glowing ever since she moved away from that skinny and toxic bitch!

fitzmayowa:
Soma is getting tired of Angel according to Venita....

Soma is just irritating at this point!
Wasn’t he informed about Angel being bipolar and mentally unstable?
If he cannot continue with her nonsense,he should step back and go solo!
Afterall,he now has a fanbase of his own!

PegasusSolid:
Mercy's head is somewhere else. She really thought by this time she would be settled with her husband and kids. Seeing Frodd move on and Venita focus on Deks, and seeing Ike not giving a hoot about her might have heightened this sense of being alone.

Winning 120m is not exactly her priority even though she acts like it, which is why she is probably considering being serious with Whitemoney outside the house. Time no dey again.

Kwa kwa kwa
And she thinks Whitemoney would marry a girl like her?
Lmao!
I thought she said she had a serious relationship outside abi fiancé whom Frodd knows?
Abi na sugar daddy?
Kwa kwa kwa kwa

PegasusSolid:
Mercy's head is somewhere else. She really thought by this time she would be settled with her husband and kids. Seeing Frodd move on and Venita focus on Deks, and seeing Ike not giving a hoot about her might have heightened this sense of being alone.

Winning 120m is not exactly her priority even though she acts like it, which is why she is probably considering being serious with Whitemoney outside the house. Time no dey again.

I really don't see Mercy settling for Whitemoney. It's a possibility, but I just can't buy it. Deep now, Ike wants her back, but that's not the kind of person she needs right now. She can't settle for him. Frodd is the only one I think she could have settled with, but since he's moved on to another woman and starting a family already, Mercy must have moved on too. Also, I think Mercy is in a relationship outside the house.

As for Venita, I really don't see her and Adekunle working outside. This is just a BB house ship as usual

Pillar12:
I like pere and i want him to do well but I'm still looking at what exactly he is good at.


Cross And Neo are both yet to win HOH but they mostly qualify for the final round in the HOH game. same can't be said about Pere, HOH zero, qualify for next round Zero, oya win sponsor tasks No.

Baba na big Short one for any team

Lol,

Pere bn winning every demn Thursday arena task in which coin was at stake,aside the one he was made the quiz master in which he still won some coins,LMAO,


The way some of una dey always suffer from amnesia wen it comes to other peoples fave on this street is quite alarming.

Una boytoy wey dey on losing spree for like 4 weeks,we no hear pim or d nonsense taskunle phrase from una camp,lol,buh as usual as una dey always move mad,he luckily won some task and we ain't gonna rest again,lol

Una go still come here come defend rubbish later by the time he resumed back to the losing spree,LMAO

Good morning my ppl
Baye tribe n Arisers
Last day of voting.....Abeg let try n push more votes for our Genz baddie🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

VOTE ILEBAYE!!!!

DGOODLYF:
Good morning my ppl
Baye tribe n Arisers
Last day of voting.....Abeg let try n push more votes for our Genz baddie🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

VOTE ILEBAYE!!!!

Yes o!!!
I’m on begging spree for Baye!
Let’s go!!!

If Doyin thinks she can instigate Cece against Baye again,she’ll be disappointed as always!
Can’t she reconcile with her without dragging Baye and making dumb excuses for not picking her as BFF
As Baye Dey shine now,she no like am but God pass her!

Baye's people add more fire , you people are beginning to lose focus

Olodo24:
I really don't see Mercy settling for Whitemoney. It's a possibility, but I just can't buy it. Deep now, Ike wants her back, but that's not the kind of person she needs right now. She can't settle for him. Frodd is the only one I think she could have settled with, but since he's moved on to another woman and starting a family already, Mercy must have moved on too. Also, I think Mercy is in a relationship outside the house.

As for Venita, I really see her and Adekunle working outside. This is just a BB house ship as usual

I see a future in the relationship too For Venita to choose A man over Mercy her friend for years then that Man must be worth it☺️even though mercy also did her dirty in their season make we talk truth!

Alex is teaching them how to dance 🤣🤣

Kimoprah in this red wig😘
I'm loving it
I also like mercy's white and black work out outfit

Soma didn't even pity them the kind of serious exercises he gave them 🤣
As if they are not all beginner level

COOL10:
LMFAO, you're blowing this thing out of proportion because you're intentionally trying to find faults in his statement. Each man to his own; that's his personal choice. He never advised anyone to imitate him. This show is rated 18 and it is presumed that anyone watching this show has the capacity to use their brains and make their own decisions.


It's just like saying because you don't eat rice, then restaurants will stop selling rice and then people will stop buying rice altogether. That makes no sense. There'll always be people who prefer 9-5 women but trying to castigate Whitemoney for having a different ideology from yours is extremely evil of you.


According to your ideology, if he had said that he preferred 9-5 women, don't you think that also puts female entrepreneurs in jeopardy? Don't you see that? Who's going to marry those ones? Should they die single? Or must every woman do a 9-5 in order to get married?


If every woman does a 9-5, then how are you going to buy your provisions? How are you going to buy your designer wears? How are you going to buy your medicines? How are you going to buy your pastries? Everything no be online. Think!!! 😏


And please stop the lies. He never said he wants a woman that'll stay in the kitchen and rear him children. He clearly said that he's going to open BUSINESSES for his wife that'll earn her millions of naira. He even said that he doesn't care if she earns higher than him, so long she doesn't lose respect for him and begins to insult him when he's broke.


As for those okrika feminists, they can keep on dragging him. As dem dey drag am, we go dey drag dem. No be today e start. I get their medicine. Dem no reach 😆

God bless you.

Views are different, we can't always be correct or think our views or perspective is the perfect one. That's why we are humans .

QueenSindel:
I see a future in the relationship too For Venita to choose A man over Mercy her friend for years then that Man must be worth it☺️even though mercy also did her dirty in their season make we talk truth!

I have edited my comment. I don't see Venita and Adekunle working outside. I just don't see it. Maybe if she was younger and with only one kid, it would have been different

Olodo24:
I really don't see Mercy settling for Whitemoney. It's a possibility, but I just can't buy it. Deep now, Ike wants her back, but that's not the kind of person she needs right now. She can't settle for him. Frodd is the only one I think she could have settled with, but since he's moved on to another woman and starting a family already, Mercy must have moved on too. Also, I think Mercy is in a relationship outside the house.

As for Venita, I really don't see her and Adekunle working outside. This is just a BB house ship as usual

You are wise and different from your moniker

Manfromlasvegas:
As I said before, and it actually bears repeating, I see his point but my problem is he doesn't see their point. Gender issues, like racism, is one of the most important and sensitive issues in the progressive world you can not compare it with eating rice. Anyone who is going to speak on these issues (racism, gender, religion etc) especially on tv, is expected to speak from a place of inclusivity, empathy, and open-mindedness. You cannot speak on this type of issue in the same manner as you would speak on other type of issues like rice for instance.
The reason is discussions centred on this type of issues have an extreme capacity to become overly-charged, contentious and offensive to a whole lot of people unlike discussions centred around other type of issues like rice.

Imagine a white man who runs his own business comes on tv and says he doesn't like black people because they are too lazy and for that reason he doesn't employ them. It is of course his business, and his reasons might be valid based on his own experience, but the sort of backlash he would receive and financial injury he would suffer would teach him an important lesson in public tact and unguarded utterances. If the same man were to come on tv and say he doesn't like rice because it turns his tummy and so doesn't eat it, even though it is technically the same in core substance and spirit as his first statement ---- expressing personal dislike for something else----- I am sure he would suffer very little personal injury in this second scenario for the simple reason that discussions centred around rice are not as divisive as discussions centred around race.



The point being there are some topics you don't speak about anyhow, whether indeed you are technically right or wrong to avoid causing more harm than good. If you would venture into these topics, you must do so with moderation and wisdom otherwise you keep shut. I may not like Yoruba people because I think they are dirty and disloyal, this might be very very true in my own experience, but I would be the most foolish man to say it on tv or in any public forum. Wisdom will teach you to be measured in your utterances, to be inclusive, empathetic and broadminded. To be diplomatic and understanding of other people's opinion especially at the point you feel most correct and right. To speak with the certainty and frankness of one who has a little knowledge even though you may know a whole lot.


I like whitemoney, I think he is a pretty smart guy but if he is truly smart he will keep his opinion on women and gender to himself.

So you are saying a tribe of over 40million people are dirty and disloyal. I think it's time for you to look inward and heal from your past traumas my dear. Life is not always about what you think or do. As you have bitter experience about others so as well others have about you: You can see no human is perfect..

COOL10:
The thing is you can never really please people. If Whitemoney sits quietly, they'll complain. If Whitemoney speaks, they'll still complain, so it's really of no use. They're going to insult him anyway, so why not speak freely on his ideas? His silence isn't going to make the okrika feminists like him all of a sudden. They'll always say bad things about him no matter what, so why should he even care?
Anyone who picks offense with what he said, never liked him in the first place.


This is a reality show and it's about showcasing one's truth. If you keep worrying about what the viewers think, then you're not only being fake to the viewers but you're also being fake to yourself. He's a proper Igbo man and he's real to the core.


Women talk about their standards all the time. "A man must be this, A man must be that. He must have this, He must have that". Have you criticised any of them?


How many times have you criticised Mercy, Angel and Co for the demeaning comments they've made about men so far? I remember Mercy telling Pere that his dick was like a toothpick. Did you speak against that? Earlier on in the season, Angel called Ike and Soma all sorts of names. Where were you then?


The head and tail of this whole thing is that no one criticizes women for having standards, therefore no one has a right to complain when men voice out their own standards. In fact, they have absolutely no right to tell men what our standards should be. That's hypocrisy and I won't take that.

That is why you don't give a damn about what people think about you because human beings are neither perfect nor omniscient.

Olodo24:
I have edited my comment. I don't see Venita and Adekunle working outside. I just don't see it. Maybe if she was younger and with only one kid, it would have been different

I see it...Adekunle is kind hearted and as long as she continues to respect him he may just grant her wish not minding if she had kids.

So whitemoney is a chief!
The community that made him so must be very irresponsible

Olodo24:
I really don't see Mercy settling for Whitemoney. It's a possibility, but I just can't buy it. Deep now, Ike wants her back, but that's not the kind of person she needs right now. She can't settle for him. Frodd is the only one I think she could have settled with, but since he's moved on to another woman and starting a family already, Mercy must have moved on too. Also, I think Mercy is in a relationship outside the house.

As for Venita, I really don't see her and Adekunle working outside. This is just a BB house ship as usual

I noticed from her diary session yesterday that she's not happy and a lot is going on in her mind and in her quiet space she battling with something. You can tell from her face there is something wrong with her. Apart from frood leaving, she's actually reflecting and feels nobody really cares about whatever she has achieved in the house.

I pray and hope she conquers all her battles.

And I want Mercy humbled keep voting Venita!

UncannyGenius:
Na inferiority complex dey kill am. The Europeans at times find African accents sexy. I don't fancy Europe because it can never be compared to Africa in terms of Vast wealth of natural resources, nice climate, zero natural disasters such as Earthquakes, hurricanes, typhoons etc (which are divine punishments meted out on the Europeans on their atrocities to Africa). Africa is indeed GOD's land (Anything that is of GOD is the Best).

Your natural resources what are you doing with it. In fact they left Europe to come to your lands to discover it, they explore it and pay you peanuts, they gave us religion and took humans as slaves.
Okay you fought for freedom and they gave it to you in the 60s yet those natural resources you can't still explore to manufacture goods, they have gone ahead to look for some alternatives for some of these natural resources.
If not because of them you won't be communicating with the device in your hands.
Those men are gods that needs to be worshipped by Africans. Your president and other African leaders run to Europe till tomorrow to seek for financial aids.
If 10% of the natural disaster happens in Africa I believe half of Africans would have been wiped off. Covid came they were the ones who brought in the vaccines.
Condemn anyone you feel is using fake accents (which I think it's not necessary) but comparing both contents in whatever form Euro in 1000 years would be better

Venita can be so annoying. Omashola has really calmed down... he for give it to her

I still wish Kidd teamed up with Ade instead of pere ...Looking at how Ade easily clipped pepperdem wings which Kidd always wanted and pere couldn't achieve even with all his socalled military precision!

Tatiana4u:
It’s now obvious that Doyin was the one putting negative energy and evil projections on her while isolating her from the others so that she’ll remain her puppet and her game plan!
Venita was the first person to expose her and that’s why Doyin will never forgive her until she dies…lmao!
See how Baye is winning and glowing ever since she moved away from that skinny and toxic bitch!

I really don't understand why fellow women call their gender bitch.
I have seen even housemates call themselves bitch.. ...

.

Let him over Cacu. At least he is not plotting against people, let alone people he calls friends.

Geezeem:
Can't you see he has started loosing weight again?.... na over cacu