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Hey everyone,

I hope you're all doing well. I wanted to reach out and share a personal experience I've been having lately, and I'm hoping to get some advice or insights from the community.

I'm a 24-year-old guy, and for the past few years, I've been experiencing a significant decline in my interest in sexual intercourse. It's been a bit confusing and frustrating for me because I used to have a healthy sexual desire/urge, but now it's almost as if I lose interest each time I engage in it like I will go on break for 1 year or more without feeling the need to have sexual intercourse.

I think am asexual or what else could be the problem ?

At 24 years?
Do you have a doctor or psychologist here on Nairaland?
You need them now!

Hope you are not taking all those things because this one that you said you use to be very active abi wetin you talk?

You are simply growing into a man. You cant call yourself a man if you can't control your sexual urge. A real man should be able to go 2 years and above with sex. Yes I said so.

It will give you advantage in any relationship as your partner can't bait you with sex. Welcome to the club.

Felimax:
At 24 years?
Do you have a doctor or psychologist here on Nairaland?
You need them now!

Hope you are not taking all those things because this one that you said you use to be very active abi wetin you talk?

No, I don't take anything. I use to have a good sexual urge but it keeps declining each time I have sex

Rejoice bro, if only some people can possess this same thing you are groaning about, they might have become or still remains great individuals....

Since 2019 i never knack so it's not a big deal.

SyrusdeHansome:
Since 2019 i never knack so it's not a big deal.

Do you masturbate?

SUPERPACK:
You are simply growing into a man. You cant call yourself a man if you can't control your sexual urge. A real man should be able to go 2 years and above with sex. Yes I said so.

It will give you advantage in any relationship as your partner can't bait you with sex. Welcome to the club.

Lol don't confuse self control and diminishing sexual desire.

He could have a problem down there and you’re here calling it self control.

Theres nothing wrong with you, you are 24 years, concentrate your libido on building yourself and your future. Many married men are even keeping away from their wives because of what they are passing through in terms of not meeting up their aspirations in life, having control over your sexual desires is very healthy.
Exercise more, keep fit and healthy and when the time comes you will have a healthy sex life with a partner you should carefully select to build a future together

SUPERPACK:
You are simply growing into a man. You cant call yourself a man if you can't control your sexual urge. A real man should be able to go 2 years and above with sex. Yes I said so.

It will give you advantage in any relationship as your partner can't bait you with sex. Welcome to the club.

I don't think his condition has anything to do with maturity,at 24 and lossing interest already in sex that is critical,I suggest you go and see a doctor,it may have something to do with the hormones

Carcholce:
Do you masturbate?

Never

Try to see if looking at a naked guys dick arouses you and increases sexual desires a bit

Nomatter what you do in life...never allow anything to make you it's slave

Blessing in disguise! Guy, this will save u alot of money and time. That thing called "sexual urge" has really caused and it's still causing a lot of irreparable damage to many men out there. Thank your stars bro.

There is a problem somewhere. Because at 24, your sex drive suppose to be topnotch. Except you are emotionally or mentally stressed up. But if that is not the case, then you will need to up your fitness and diet game. You need to pump iron to boost your t-level.
Also do intermittent sprint exercise, eat clean diet fruits and vegetables,lean meats,beans,clean carbs and water.
Your sex drive should bounce back.

Instead of you to be happy and be thanking your stars that your body wants to practise abstinence and avoid fornication, you're are here thinking it's a problem.

It not like i don't like sex, it just that i'm not ready to go through any stress because of straffing,and i no dey carry olosho.....9 months now without sex

SyrusdeHansome:
Never

Good. Please keep it up

As long as it isn't your bank account that is diminishing, you have nothing to worry about

Trust me you are ok.

Carcholce:
Good. Please keep it up

Thanks.

Walehelt:
It not like i don't like sex, it just that i'm not ready to go through any stress because of straffing,and i no dey carry olosho.....9 months now without sex

this is more serious than I even thought,9 months without a pvssy?that is critical,the question will be do you masturbate?if you completely lose the effort to satisfy a woman at 24,then by 40 you will be totally impotent,is that what makes a man?,to flee from p vssy,I wonder the joy in making money without a woman to spend it with you,then what is the essence and drive to make that money,

okoroemeka:
this is more serious than I even thought,9 months without a pvssy?that is critical,the question will be do you masturbate?if you completely lose the effort to satisfy a woman at 24,then by 40 you will be totally impotent,is that what makes a man?,to flee from p vssy,I wonder the joy in making money without a woman to spend it with you,then what is the essence and drive to make that money,

i don't masturbate and will never do.. it is normal to crave for sex but are you ready to compromise your self respect and peace of mind because of kitten?
i'm not 24,way above that.,but i believe there more kitten lining up ahead i just need to brace myself and know how to play the GAME right...

SUPERPACK:
You are simply growing into a man. You cant call yourself a man if you can't control your sexual urge. A real man should be able to go 2 years and above with sex. Yes I said so.

It will give you advantage in any relationship as your partner can't bait you with sex. Welcome to the club.

Self control isn't what he has. He has a big problem at 24. Even me that's almost twice his age I still dey get hard wood every morning and I want to knack all the time. Not acting on impulse is self control know that

Opposite of me currently...

Any girl like this as I dey follow dem talk, na their moan dey ring for my head...

May God help me.

Omo