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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Kay25(m): 1:56pm On Oct 11, 2023
Wetin d yoruba man find go marry those children of fraud na him bring calamity to himself ..jaree

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Angelfrost(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2023
milann:
how was the list? Was it in hundreds of thousands when added up

Mine was moderate (Her father was a learned man who didn't bend to such nonsense).

My close friend's case was not so lucky... He spent over 1.5 Million. I kid you not.
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by shortgun(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2023
Oga Yoruba judge what you don't know is above you
....we love our culture.
Imagine an igbo judge said this about Yoruba culture, education indeed doesn't stop some people from being senseless.

In Igbo culture if you don't pay the bride price of a girl any child she births belong to have father and her community...this is done to ensure that the child has rights, a place in the community and not treated as an outcast. Custody is immediately given to the man whenever he shows interest.

The wisdom of our forefathers is beyond whatever nonsense you will learn from the white man's books

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Forumobserver12(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2023
EyeCumInPiss:
But there was no marriage in the first place, without Bride Price or Court Marriage.

The kids will find their level when they're of age.

The Judge is a big joke for entertaining such frivolous case from the Yeye man...

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Ozommadu: 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Very fraudulent.


Taa

If you no get money for even ordinary marriage Introduction, find rope tigh your tiny dick.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Unperturbedpota: 1:59pm On Oct 11, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
O pari.

That Obayan is utterly irresponsible if for 23 years he didn't pay his wife's bride price when he went to marry an Igbo woman. What was he thinking or is he so naive and ignorant? He should have paid the bride price and I hope other men will learn because there are still many out there especially among the non-Yoruba .

For those who are yet to do inter tribal marriages, Learn now o and flee from such entanglements if your mind can't carry the cultural demands you see as strange, babaric and evil.

Before love carries you away, know the culture of the person you want to entangle your life with to avoid this kind of public disgrace to the Obayan family.

However, no culture should give omo oba fun osun. It could even lead to the death of the impostor father. Some men sef, you accept 4 children of another man and you are still talking. Smh. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Kai! You talk too much!

Who asked you for all these your opinions?!! cant you read something like a ,man and move on? must you start telling us your views everytime? are you a woman?!!!!

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Ozommadu: 1:59pm On Oct 11, 2023
shortgun:
Oga Yoruba judge what you don't know is above you
....we love our culture.
Imagine an igbo judge said this about Yoruba culture, education indeed doesn't stop some people from being senseless.

In Igbo culture if you don't pay the bride price of a girl any child she births belong to have father and her community...this is done to ensure that the child has rights, a place in the community and not treated as an outcast. Custody is immediately given to the man whenever he shows interest.

The wisdom of our forefathers is beyond whatever nonsense you will learn from the white man's books

Don't mind them...you no get money for even ordinary Introduction no be igbo nkwu oo.

But you dey fvck person daughter for many years, as what? Baby producer for you??

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by tishbite42: 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2023
okoroemeka:
you are answering yourself,every tribe has its own custom and for a learned judge to call wicked and barbaric a custom that places high value on women and rejects baby mama,let all that have ears and eyes listen if you think you can be a father by just getting a woman pregnant in igboland you are wrong,those children are not yours,to everybody the two of you are just doing boyfriend and girlfriend,the first step to fatherhood is taking responsibility,if you cannot pay the brideprice of a woman you loved how can you be a father,if the judge is from Yoruba and they do anyhow that place it is there concern but In igboland we places high value on women and children,i
Don't mind the wack judge and his tribesmen supporting him
He gave such awawa judgement because the man is a Yoruba man like him

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Shyboyk(m): 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2023
Islie:


https://thenationonlineng.net/igbo-custom-on-bride-price-wicked-evil-ungodly-says-ondo-court/


Omo I argued this with someone o he told me about their Igbo tradition and I was stunned 😧 like this is nonsense ..this can only be accepted if two Igbo people were involved because I cannot train children finish and because u want to divorce u now start telling me that in your tradition this one happen to that one …

But the man should have tried Omo 23 years no be child’s play and again this people bride price is always very high like say them dae sell their pikin in Igbo land this are always wild …how person buy land and when the former owner of the land u bought is dead they would demand that you contributed to his funeral …Igbo amaka
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by FireUpNow(m): 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2023
That's why I like the white people marriage. You and your wife can just go to the registry and marry end of story. Coll CT your certificate and go.
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by albert2512: 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2023
Jennyclay:
The prophetess must have gone through hell for the past 23 years in the hands of her husband reason she has to end that deadly marriage reason she even had to take her kids along.

Nigerian men will beat their wife to coma. undecided
Nigerian men will rape their wife and they would gladly tell you there’s nothing like rape in marriage. Very sick and disgusting men sad.

Nigerian men won’t even provide and take good care of their wife and children. undecided

Take a look at the case of that gospel singer, Osinachi. Assuming she left that monster of a husband, she would have been alive till now.

Even person wey dem offend no state am for court say she go hell but Na u wey dey nairaland dey know say she go hell.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Ozommadu: 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2023
Zonefree:

Women undecided

This one no be women matter źonefree

In my place, the children belongs to the girls father and family sef.

What do they take our girls for? Baby producers? That they can't even do ordinary introduction but you wan claim children

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by albert2512: 2:03pm On Oct 11, 2023
EyeCumInPiss:
But there was no marriage in the first place, without Bride Price or Court Marriage.

The kids will find their level when they're of age.

I think number of children can translate or legitimise a relationship.
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:04pm On Oct 11, 2023
That is the traditions and customs of a people.
And as long as it is not harmful to anybody, the Judge has not right to call it names.

Magistrate Segun should tell his people to stick to yoruba women or do the right thing when marrying igbo women./

Na everything dis people dey use show bigotry, even court case too.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mcreloaded(m): 2:05pm On Oct 11, 2023
Jennyclay:
The prophetess must have gone through hell for the past 23 years in the hands of her husband reason she has to end that deadly marriage reason she even had to take her kids along.

Nigerian men will beat their wife to coma. undecided
Nigerian men will rape their wife and they would gladly tell you there’s nothing like rape in marriage. Very sick and disgusting men sad.

Nigerian men won’t even provide and take good care of their wife and children. undecided

Take a look at the case of that gospel singer, Osinachi. Assuming she left that monster of a husband, she would have been alive till now.

Igbo culture on marriage is evil and stop saying rubbish.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:05pm On Oct 11, 2023
That is the traditions and customs of a people.
And as long as it is not harmful to anybody, the Judge has not right to call it names.

Magistrate Segun should tell his people to stick to yoruba women or do the right thing when marrying igbo women./

Na everything dis people dey use show bigotry, even court case too.
That Judgement has no Jurisdiction beyond Ondo.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by hatchy(f): 2:07pm On Oct 11, 2023
Zonefree:

Women undecided
She married her spiritual godson.....the effect of big, strong, reliable ddick.

It is written in the good book. Fear North, Fear women

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Ttipsy(f): 2:07pm On Oct 11, 2023
Mcreloaded:


Igbo culture on marriage is evil and stop saying rubbish.
igbo culture is one of the best

If the man can not pay bride price , is it the children he will be able to take care of ??
Igbo family system is the best .
The children remains with the wife and her parents till the husband pays the bride price period

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by udume(m): 2:09pm On Oct 11, 2023
That is the custom in Igbo land, any Igno girl that gives birth to a child for you, is better you go and pay the bride price if you wants to take custody of the child or you lose the child when she remarries. No apology

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:09pm On Oct 11, 2023
Mcreloaded:


Igbo culture on marriage is evil and stop saying rubbish.
How is it evil?

Taking a woman as a wife without paying her brideprice for years, and expecting the fruits of that relationship to be yours?

Is that not fraud?
Na una dey first marry? Why not stick to your culture?

Even in america, the custody of the children will go to the women when both couples are seperated.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Armaggedon: 2:09pm On Oct 11, 2023
FireUpNow:
That's why I like the white people marriage. You and your wife can just go to the registry and marry end of story. Coll CT your certificate and go.
and end the marriage after two months

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:13pm On Oct 11, 2023
According to him: “In the same breathe, I find the Igbo custom exuded by the respondent and her witnesses that the children of the union can bear Mr Abua Obi as their surname, atavistic, barbaric, evil, ungodly, irrational, unsensational, crass, gross, crude, unwary, provocative, ungodly, discriminatory and insensible.

See what a Judge wrote. For a culture that predates his forefathers, and has helped in the protection of women for generations.

Na igbo women wey dey marry una no get sense.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Biodun556(m): 2:13pm On Oct 11, 2023
blogbuilder:
That's Igbo custom and it must be respected ..
You can't be staying with someone's child without doing the right thing and you expect them to just be giving birth like pig.
The worst thing is that they are prophet and prophetess

It must be respected in Igbo land. It has no jurisdiction in the south west

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mcreloaded(m): 2:13pm On Oct 11, 2023
CSTRR:

How is it evil?

Taking a woman as a wife without paying her brideprice for years, and expecting the fruits of that relationship to be yours?

Is that not fraud?
Na una dey first marry? Why not stick to your culture?

Even in america, the custody of the children will go to the women when both couples are seperated.

Advi e your evil igbo women to stick to their tribe and not give birth to a man that has not paid her bride price

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mcreloaded(m): 2:15pm On Oct 11, 2023
Ttipsy:
igbo culture is one of the best

If the man can not pay bride price , is it the children he will be able to take care of ??
Igbo family system is the best .
The children remains with the wife and her parents till the husband pays the bride price period

It's the best for you igbos and so tour evil women should stick to their kind.
The judge who is more learned has spoken.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Diligence: 2:16pm On Oct 11, 2023
This must be fake news. Ondo Court?

Otherwise, Abeggi, Shouldn't charity begin from home? The numerous rituals in South West!

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Gangster1ms: 2:17pm On Oct 11, 2023
Marry yorubas if you can't afford igbos
Simple!

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by michlins(m): 2:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
The judge is crazy and stupid in every sense of it

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Omoluabi16(m): 2:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
I do not understand the idea of paying millions upon millions in the name of bride price. A whole lot of Igbo (and other) cultures I find quite strange.. but that's about it. Courtesy demands you must respect the beliefs of other. This judge seriously erred by describing the age long Igbo customs with those adjectives. A learned fellow for that matter.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
Mcreloaded:


Advi e your evil igbo women to stick to their tribe and not give birth to a man that has not paid her bride price
So Yoruba men were just sitting on their own, and Igbo women came and fell on their wayward dicckkks.?

Were you not the ones that pursued them because Dem use yellow ladies swear for una.?

Anyway, I am from Delta state.
Their men should be the ones chastising them to use their tongue to count their teeth and stop opening legs for fools.

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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by xtervaganza(m): 2:22pm On Oct 11, 2023
Shey animals de get better traditions ni?
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mitsurugi(m): 2:22pm On Oct 11, 2023
GrammarNazi1:

Lol.

Like he slept with the woman and impregnated her?

If this did not happen, how then could he be recognised as the father of the children?


He paid her bride price something Prophet could not do and now the children are deemed his.

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