OlujobaSamuel:

Where did you read that someone else took care of the child?
You might have to go back to the background of the story the op is making reference to.
The woman left her cohabiting husband house with about 4children, got married to another man that works under the man as a pastor of a branch of the church, he changed the children names to the new husband's name, and she is putting up culture as a defence

MORAL OF THE STORY IS IGBO VALUE MARRIAGE.

WE NO DEY BORN BASTARD.

U WWANT KIDS, GO AND MARRY.

IF U GIVE PERSON PIKIN BELLE, NA THEM GET BELLE AND PIKIN.


IF U GIVE YOUR WIFE BELLE, NA YOU GET BELLE AND PIKIN.


IGBO CULTURE ROCKS.



IS ALL ABOUT RESPONSIBLE. WHO IS RESPONSIBLE?

Femmyfamous4u:


The constitution of the country supersedes every customs and traditions. It's not every time you okay victim.

Ever heard of customary court?


You realise many high courts do not have jurisdiction to some traditional issues?

Ọyi adịghị eketa nwa



Boyfriend doesn't have a child but a husband does

If you can't we are ready to take the child as ours nwadiala

If you want child, pay bride price marry first!


Respect your wife and child


No wonder af0nja get plenty bastards

hammerFC:



MORAL OF THE STORY IS IGBO VALUE MARRIAGE.

WE NO DEY BORN BASTARD.

U WWANT KIDS, GO AND MARRY.

That is what is good for your culture according to your elders(ancestors), some culture do not see it in the same manner.
In Yoruba culture, the family (man) will make him responsible for the child well being, by extension, the mother of the child, meaning if you don't have the capacity, don't try to impregnate a lady.
Either ways, it's to prevent a similar occurrence, albeit, in different form

paramakina202:


So said someone from a culture that practice Abubaku where the kings are buried with his servants and new King eats the heart of the dead king as a ritual before he is enthroned.What an animalistic culture.

abubaku ko abubakar ni

All these olori pelebe omo ale will never have sense with your village mentality