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FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

most of us have also come short but God saved us.u fit stl no get am.go and sin no more

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

You are the transmitted of the HIV, so why take the risk of infecting yourself and other? Irresponsible fool

FarSide:
Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

You have to be a man about it.

1. Assume you do have it

2. Go and do the test

3. Don't wait for the result. Give them your email and leave immediately.

4. Buy some beer and wait for the results.

You can't outrun your shadow.

etrange:
Yes, it could happen in one thrust, but statistically speaking, the possibility of you having HIV is extremely low. Nigeria has about 1 million women with HIV and about 100 million women in total. So the chance of you meeting one is like 1%. Again, some of the 1 million HIV positive women are on medication and have undetectable viral loads. This further reduces the number of women in the country that can readily give you HIV (since undetectable viral load implies that it impossible to transmit the disease to others). OK, let's now assume all odds were against you and you had sex with that one-in-a-hundred HIV positive person with a viral load that is not undetectable (i.e., they can transmit the disease), the odds of you contracting the disease from them is still very low. HIV is a difficult virus to catch. When a man has an unprotected sex with a HIV positive woman, the chance of him getting the disease from her in a session is about 0.05%.

So sir, you'll have to be one unlucky fellow to beat these odds. So I suggest you just go and get tested, and stop being a scardy cat, lol. Remember, whatever the result is, it is not the end of the world.

Where did you get your statistical data from? Kindly post it here.

The last time I checked, hiv was fast becoming a pandemic in the country and no thanks to the federal government careless views on this. I was at the FMOH in Abuja last August where the programme director was lamenting, that if not checked, hiv would soon become a pandemic in the country with the kind of results they were receiving from government hospitals, that the NGOs should intensify efforts in curtailing the spread.

Last year, a girl whom I used to groom told me she had some spotted swellings at some locations in her body. She never had a bf until she met this guy who returned from Philippines. They've been talking but eventually met face to face. They grew up together in same area before he travelled. In short, he promised to marry her, slept with her and went back. When I asked her if she ever did anything with anybody, she denied it. I now asked her to go for hiv yest cos what I saw was like lymph nodes coming out. She tested positive. That guy ignored her immediately after she asked him some questions. It spreads like wildfire now. The onus is on everyone to zip up and lead a responsible life. Go to the government hospitals and see for yourself. That statistical data you came up with would disappoint you. A lot of people who are hiv positive don't show symptoms cos they take their drugs. Their looks can be deceptive.

incandescentena:
12 girls 12 HIV positive status

Werey ooo

SmartyPants:
You have to be a man about it.

1. Assume you do have it

2. Go and do the test

3. Don't wait for the result. Give them your email and leave immediately.

4. Buy some beer and wait for the results.

You can't outrun your shadow.

Hahaha guy you funny

FarSide:
No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever

Normal talk

ChybuzzDD:
Where did you get this 50% rate of infection from

This is far far far from the truth

That quoted metric is figurative. I know it's not 100% certain you contract the virus everytime you copulate with a carrier.

12 girls here?

akpumping7720:
12 girls in four years? Naaaah. To some people you are S.U with such numbers

It may be more than 12. The guy is just saying the total number of girls he had unprotected sex with in 4 years. He may have bleeped more girls also on protective

You dey learn work. Although it's nothing to be proud about, some of have better records across continents. As an antinatalist, I think I'm being too reckless with such lifestyle, my pull out game is top notch but I need to have a vasectomy as soon as possible. I have more fears getting a girl pregnant than this, but they're both serious concerns for me

Its not by numbers although it increases the risk of contracting hiv there are people who get it just from their first sexual encounter and you shouldn't be scared of the test because the earlier you detect you are positive the better you can manage it before it becomes AIDS

Well bro, I understand that feeling but u're clean trust me. In the last 14 years I have had unprotected sex with approximately 220 women both here in Naija and abroad. My HIV status has remained negative and right now I'm planning to settle down with just one woman, She's the sweetest and loveliest lady I ever laid but my dilemma right now is I do not even remember the actual country where I met and bleeped her. Be strong bro and know your health status today.

If you're scared of going for test in a hospital you can buy hiv test kit and do it yourself its up to 10k naira.

FarSide:
No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever

If wishes were horse, it’s easier said than done,God will help you sha

12 in four years... C'mon wake up cos you are too slow.

It's a daily thing over here, different pussies

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it was important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless nights.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

Some labs will provide negative results, some will provide positive results, and you need the 3rd one to confirm both.
You might see negative on your first test, the 2nd might be positive.

Unprotected sex too sweet na e make STD and HIV no go fit stop

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

i swear to god you dont have hiv if u have it it would have shown already

Eriokanmi:
Where did you get your statistical data from? Kindly post it here.

The last time I checked, hiv was fast becoming a pandemic in the country and no thanks to the federal government careless views on this. I was at the FMOH in Abuja last August where the programme director was lamenting, that if not checked, hiv would soon become a pandemic in the country with the kind of results they were receiving from government hospitals, that the NGOs should intensify efforts in curtailing the spread.

Last year, a girl whom I used to groom told me she had some spotted swellings at some locations in her body. She never had a bf until she met this guy who returned from Philippines. They've been talking but eventually met face to face. They grew up together in same area before he travelled. In short, he promised to marry her, slept with her and went back. When I asked her if she ever did anything with anybody, she denied it. I now asked her to go for hiv yest cos what I saw was like lymph nodes coming out. She tested positive. That guy ignored her immediately after she asked him some questions. It spreads like wildfire now. The onus is on everyone to zip up and lead a responsible life. Go to the government hospitals and see for yourself. That statistical data you came up with would disappoint you. A lot of people who are hiv positive don't show symptoms cos they take their drugs. Their looks can be deceptive.

But is the appearance of lymph node an authomatic positive result of hiv? Just asking

FarSide:
Omo e no easy oo.
When I was galavanting and jumping from one girl to another, I never thought of all these.

I want to ask a question.

How do you guys actually engage in pre-marital and post marital sex, given the reality of our brief enjoyment on this planet. Don't you guys even think about death at all? And your meeting with God? This matter no dey fear una? How do you just engage in reckless things knowing that sooner or later you will be lying down alone in a very dark place called the grave and you will need to call on The Same GOD you didn't care about all these years.

Does hiv frighten you more than the grave and ultimately the he'll fire?

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

ok so u have aids..corrrrect?..WHY....are u gay sir?(nooofeincse)

Congratulations 🎉🎉

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


All this young Kings of this generation are too careless.

I am an adulterous man with numerous Concubines popularly known as Side Chicks.

But I can never f*ck them raw, no matter how convincing they look.

Even if am so stupid to sleep with this ladies raw, I should at least pity my innocent wife, who will get infected and suffer from my foolish mistake.


F*cking a raw Kpekus is the sweetness but still the deadliest be wise young Kings and Queens

hiv is not the main scare about fornication. It's hell fire

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

Hope she wasn't asking for hiv test after you ve slept with her severally

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Shift make I laugh small...


On a serious note how would be doing such without protection?

Just go for the test without her to know your state.

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

Stop killing yourself psychologically, you are HIV negative!

etrange:
Yes, it could happen in one thrust, but statistically speaking, the possibility of you having HIV is extremely low. Nigeria has about 1 million women with HIV and about 100 million women in total. So the chance of you meeting one is like 1%. Again, some of the 1 million HIV positive women are on medication and have undetectable viral loads. This further reduces the number of women in the country that can readily give you HIV (since undetectable viral load implies that it impossible to transmit the disease to others). OK, let's now assume all odds were against you and you had sex with that one-in-a-hundred HIV positive person with a viral load that is not undetectable (i.e., they can transmit the disease), the odds of you contracting the disease from them is still very low. HIV is a difficult virus to catch. When a man has an unprotected sex with a HIV positive woman, the chance of him getting the disease from her in a session is about 0.05%.

So sir, you'll have to be one unlucky fellow to beat these odds. So I suggest you just go and get tested, and stop being a scardy cat, lol. Remember, whatever the result is, it is not the end of the world.

You are wise.

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

That thing you are afraid of won’t happen.

Otilo

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

What of Heptatsis B

Is also a killer disease