https://twitter.com/Joshua_Ubeku/status/1725269297730048317?t=U0nlg-1pC98Otand2o_FQg&s=19

Mikel revealing what most African brothers are guilty of.. entitlement mentality..

Personally there is nothing I hate more than been entitled.. infact once I notice a little inch of entitlement in you, I'll resist to give you that thing which you re been entitled of so far as it's not me owing you..

I've never been entitled to anyone's thing....

Even my sister's and in-law wey dey abroad.. infact I dey even change am for all of them if Dem do or talk anyhow...

Once you get small money or your family see say you get small money.. na make Dem come dey entitled for you to help them, their kids and all..

Many will be expecting you to take care of the responsibilities of their kids ..

Crazy.. but not me doing these

Emaprince:
Shooting didn't blow 50 up. Dude was already a popular mixtaper on the streets. He was hungry, he was raw, his mistapes were doing great and making him money...though not as huge as the shady/aftermath link up.

He was even dropped and his album shelved by his label at that time due to the street problem he had. Lot of labels couldn't mess with him to avoid inheriting his beef. Em signed him after listening to one of his mistape..and EM wasn't aware of his beefs until he was signed.

i think we are saying the same thing

underground success is not the same as going multiplatinum

em also had a lot of success on the rap battle scene - but that is not the success that has you on the cover of XXL or selling luxury goods

Emaprince:
Shooting didn't blow 50 up. Dude was already a popular mixtaper on the streets. He was hungry, he was raw, his mistapes were doing great and making him money...though not as huge as the shady/aftermath link up.

He was even dropped and his album shelved by his label at that time due to the street problem he had. Lot of labels couldn't mess with him to avoid inheriting his beef. Em signed him after listening to one of his mistape..and EM wasn't aware of his beefs until he was signed.

Em was definitely aware of his beefs, and that was the reason for him moving to Shady/Aftermath on the West Coast, away from his enemies in New York

The shooting and the beef with Ja Rule is what blew 50 up, he wasn't hot on the street before that

P Diddy done enter am

Realmrsean:
https://twitter.com/Joshua_Ubeku/status/1725269297730048317?t=U0nlg-1pC98Otand2o_FQg&s=19

Mikel revealing what most African brothers are guilty of.. entitlement mentality..

Personally there is nothing I hate more than been entitled.. infact once I notice a little inch of entitlement in you, I'll resist to give you that thing which you re been entitled of so far as it's not me owing you..

I've never been entitled to anyone's thing....

Even my sister's and in-law wey dey abroad.. infact I dey even change am for all of them if Dem do or talk anyhow...

Once you get small money or your family see say you get small money.. na make Dem come dey entitled for you to help them, their kids and all..

Many will be expecting you to take care of the responsibilities of their kids ..

Crazy.. but not me doing these

E be like Mikel really suffer for him brothers and sisters hands. No wonder he almost look away when dem kidnap him popsie.

The one wey make me laugh pass na that borning of children anyhow and expecting Mikel to take care of the kids. Two requests I hate are expectation of help with house rent and expectation to drop money because you born pikin. That just means say you no be man cos men plan far out for these events.

Ibime:


Em was definitely aware of his beefs, and that was the reason for him moving to Shady/Aftermath on the West Coast, away from his enemies in New York

The shooting and the beef with Ja Rule is what blew 50 up, he wasn't hot on the street before that

Miles Montego was king of the streets as a high-level drug trafficker. When Miles meets Vanessa, he's drawn to her beauty and her spirituality. As their connection grows, both are tested to their last ounce of faith in God in each other.

the way they fked up ja rules career i dont even understand it

they should study it in business school

GloriousGbola:







the way they fked up ja rules career i dont even understand it

they should study it in business school

I don't think they fücked up Jas career that bad. It was the FBI investigation into Supreme team that messed up Ja Rule. Murder Inc was under lock and key. All Ja Rule needed to do was release one RnB chorus hit to continue his career but he didn't have the label to do so again.

Ibime:


I don't think they fücked up Jas career that bad. It was the FBI investigation into Supreme team that messed up Ja Rule. Murder Inc was under lock and key. All Ja Rule needed to do was release one RnB chorus hit to continue his career but he didn't have the label to do so again.

he could not get out of his contract?

If you understand how fast pigs breed, you'll get the message in the picture.

Ibime:
P Diddy done enter am

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/16/arts/music/sean-combs-diddy-cassie-rape-lawsuit.html


na real fking wa

meanwhile the other day i was talking about how cassie must have had some bombass pzzy to lock down puffy for 10 years

i find the story hard to believe sha. these things are a pattern and i dont recall hearing/reading anything about puffy and sexual violence or grooming

if bill clinton and monica had not been outed then - today she might also be accusing him of rape and abuse.

Ibime:


E be like Mikel really suffer for him brothers and sisters hands. No wonder he almost look away when dem kidnap him popsie.

The one wey make me laugh pass na that borning of children anyhow and expecting Mikel to take care of the kids. Two requests I hate are expectation of help with house rent and expectation to drop money because you born pikin. That just means say you no be man cos men plan far out for these events.

I no know whether na curse or juju.. and the fact be say, if you no give , you don turn bad person be that.. money wey no body give you keep for him/her oo..

@bolded, this quite separated me and my long term gee.. the guy shaa dey do well on em own oo, but when he born pikin, he was like expecting me to show him something as per person wey don born.. as I no show him, na em him come change am for me, come dey remember me the ones wey em don do for me.. when e be say, e get ones too wey me I don do for am and 90% of the ones wey he talks ay he do for me na based on business levels.. lol

I would have maybe given him something but as soon 🔜 as I noticed his desperatenes and entitlement.. I held up..

As we exchange words finish, I wipe him contact...

GloriousGbola:


he could not get out of his contract?

Someone would have to buy him out. And he had loyalty to his crew. Also he actually dropped the ball by going back to hardcore to dispel the 50 Cent accusation of him always singing. His core fan base was female, he should have stuck to that. The females won't care about his reputational damage from the beef with 50 Cent.

Look at Headie One and Tion Wayne in the UK. Headie has the gangsters vote in their beef, but Tion keeps releasing RnB hits for the ladies and is charting more. Despite Headie working with Drake and getting major looks, Tion is the one always on the charts with pop singles.

A001:
If you understand how fast pigs breed, you'll get the message in the picture.

Generally in societies where the woman is expected to stay at home, they born more. Same goes for India and Africa.

Ibime:


Someone would have to buy him out. And he had loyalty to his crew. Also he actually dropped the ball by going back to hardcore to dispel the 50 Cent accusation of him always singing. His core fan base was female, he should have stuck to that. The females won't care about his reputational damage from the beef with 50 Cent.

Look at Headie One and Tion Wayne in the UK. Headie has the gangsters vote in their beef, but Tion keeps releasing RnB hits for the ladies and is charting more. Despite Headie working with Drake and getting major looks, Tion is the one always on the charts with pop singles.

yep. LL Cool J made the mistake of forgetting his market in 14 shots to the dome a 95% hardcore rap album - his only album i ever bought

sad sha - i did enjoy a lot of the stuff ja put out. now man is stuck hustling fyre festival flops

Ibime:


Generally in societies where the woman is expected to stay at home, they born more. Same goes for India and Africa.

the irony is that cartoon is clearly made by hindu indians who as you are pointing out have mirrored issues among their poor and the same instutionalized violence against women and general disregard for women's rights

i watched the movie bandit queen [about phoolan devi] in secondary school. it started with a hindu proverb. women children and animals are worthy of being beaten. tells you all you need to know.

Ibime:


Generally in societies where the woman is expected to stay at home, they born more. Same goes for India and Africa.

Yes. But when Nigerian Muslims proudly call Islam the fastest-growing religion in the world, dem no go talk say na rapid growth by breeding like pigs Islam dey adopt to top the charts.

The Muslims dey claim the fastest-growing religion in the world purely based on others embracing the faith, which is simply false.

Fortunately, many people's eyes don dey clear now sha. The scales are starting to fall off. On Facebook, Isese adherents are busy exposing all the lies of Islam and Qur'an for all to see, and this is making the Isese community to grow daily.

Some Isese practitioners also do the same with Christianity and the Bible.

The ATR adherents in Igbo culture have also started doing the same thing.

These activities are critical to checkmating the growth of those two cancers of a religion, Christianity and Islam, in these parts of the world.

Realmrsean:
I no know whether na curse or juju.. and the fact be say, if you no give , you don turn bad person be that.. money wey no body give you keep for him/her oo..

@bolded, this quite separated me and my long term gee.. the guy shaa dey do well on em own oo, but when he born pikin, he was like expecting me to show him something as per person wey don born.. as I no show him, na em him come change am for me, come dey remember me the ones wey em don do for me.. when e be say, e get ones too wey me I don do for am and 90% of the ones wey he talks ay he do for me na based on business levels.. lol

I would have maybe given him something but as soon 🔜 as I noticed his desperatenes and entitlement.. I held up..

As we exchange words finish, I wipe him contact...

Na so I cut one of my main gees sef

His son had been born with a very serious health condition in 2016, same time as my daughter, which needed a very serious sum of money for surgery, I covered everything and ensured that the boy was nursed back to health including all follow up appointments. Although bro was always showing levels on social media, I took his need at face value rather than ask him to sell his car he keeps showing off for example (something I would have done for my child in the same situation)

A year later he shocked me when he asked for N500k for house rent in 2018, despite driving SUV, always wearing designer clothes on Instagram and all that. I think his house rent was N700k and he had N200k on him. That was our last conversation. For my mind I'm like you've had 12 months to prepare for this, furthermore you can downsize your house to the one your pocket can carry, secondly I don't wear designer clothes, but you are flossing everywhere and expecting me to pay your house rent, I no just answer the guy from that day to this day. That house rent stuff dey always vex me cos that is a core responsibility for any man, unless a major incident occurs, no man should be caught unawares by house rent.

This picture really cracked me, . Maybe the books are on Abstract Algebra, especially the Monster Group M in Group Theory.

Ibime:


Na so I cut one of my main gees sef

His son had been born with a very serious health condition in 2016, same time as my daughter, which needed a very serious sum of money for surgery, I covered everything and ensured that the boy was nursed back to health including all follow up appointments. Although bro was always showing levels on social media, I took his need at face value rather than ask him to sell his car he keeps showing off for example (something I would have done for my child in the same situation)

A year later he shocked me when he asked for N500k for house rent in 2018, despite driving SUV, always wearing designer clothes on Instagram and all that. I think his house rent was N700k and he had N200k on him. That was our last conversation. For my mind I'm like you've had 12 months to prepare for this, furthermore you can downsize your house to the one your pocket can carry, secondly I don't wear designer clothes, but you are flossing everywhere and expecting me to pay your house rent, I no just answer the guy from that day to this day. That house rent stuff dey always vex me cos that is a core responsibility for any man, unless a major incident occurs, no man should be caught unawares by house rent.

from this chat, no even be say na borrow he wan borrow oo, because if na borrow and you trust him, it'd be another thing

Man wan make you pay his house rent unto babe wy him be abi wetin

Na you dey knack am

My people used to say.. agbacha oso, aguo mile.. if run finish, we count miles covered..


Because you re an APC lab 🧫 rat 🐀.. you think 💬 you re the geng

Ibime:


Na so I cut one of my main gees sef

His son had been born with a very serious health condition in 2016, same time as my daughter, which needed a very serious sum of money for surgery, I covered everything and ensured that the boy was nursed back to health including all follow up appointments. Although bro was always showing levels on social media, I took his need at face value rather than ask him to sell his car he keeps showing off for example (something I would have done for my child in the same situation)

A year later he shocked me when he asked for N500k for house rent in 2018, despite driving SUV, always wearing designer clothes on Instagram and all that. I think his house rent was N700k and he had N200k on him. That was our last conversation. For my mind I'm like you've had 12 months to prepare for this, furthermore you can downsize your house to the one your pocket can carry, secondly I don't wear designer clothes, but you are flossing everywhere and expecting me to pay your house rent, I no just answer the guy from that day to this day. That house rent stuff dey always vex me cos that is a core responsibility for any man, unless a major incident occurs, no man should be caught unawares by house rent.

you even get time to explain

Either I read and ignore or I swipe the notification.. even delete the chat entirely without opening the message..

Realmrsean:
you even get time to explain

Either I read and ignore or I swipe the notification.. even delete the chat entirely without opening the message..

I be diplomat na. It cost nothing to not offend someone, besides na my church people, make I no come hear later say I done injure one of the brethren with curses.

Na so last year I hear from one of our other brethren (talking about the same guy), how God saved his son who was born with a serious health condition, so na the testimony him give be that. Praises to imaginary sky God, no be say Doctors saved his son, or me his friend help am foot the bill for surgery. When I hear that one, I just laugh face front.

Ibime:


I be diplomat na. It cost nothing to not offend someone, besides na my church people, make I no come hear later say I done injure one of the brethren with curses.

Na so last year I hear from one of our other brethren (talking about the same guy), how God saved his son who was born with a serious health condition, so na the testimony him give be that. Praises to imaginary sky God, no be say Doctors saved his son, or me his friend help am foot the bill for surgery. When I hear that one, I just laugh face front.

lol, you dey go church and you dey call God imaginary sky God

Make it make sense

Realmrsean:
lol, you dey go church and you dey call God imaginary sky God

Make it make sense

You done see am na. Na for church we grow up na. I still dey go church every Sunday . . . . to drop and pick up my kids . . . . but I no dey step foot inside

Ibime:
P Diddy done enter am

I was just about to post this too

All the times he don dey manage himself dey dodge e be like say dem wan really open his matter now

Ibime:


E be like Mikel really suffer for him brothers and sisters hands. No wonder he almost look away when dem kidnap him popsie.

The one wey make me laugh pass na that borning of children anyhow and expecting Mikel to take care of the kids. Two requests I hate are expectation of help with house rent and expectation to drop money because you born pikin. That just means say you no be man cos men plan far out for these events.

One of my guys in Naija e dey struggle o even till now sef. Around 10yrs ago he hit me up say how far when you go born, I say I no get money and he replied in Yoruba say "Go born, Na God dey take care of pikin" I said okay

2 months later he hit me up say his kid school fees rent and stuff

I be wan ask am say when you dey talk say Na God dey take care of pikin, shey na me be the God?

When I don come carry my matter come meet you?

The same guy met your younger bro and said You better go born make you no be like your brother.

raumdeuter:


One of my guys in Naija e dey struggle o even till now sef. Around 10yrs ago he hit me up say how far when you go born, I say I no get money and he replied in Yoruba say "Go born, Na God dey take care of pikin" I said okay

2 months later he hit me up say his kid school fees rent and stuff

I be wan ask am say when you dey talk say Na God dey take care of pikin, shey na me be the God?

When I don come carry my matter come meet you?

The same guy met your younger bro and said You better go born make you no be like your brother.

That same sh*tte irks me too!

I’ll be like “I wasn’t there when you were making love with your husband/wife”. If you know say you never ready born pikin, no let anyone pressure you to get married.

Ibime:


Na so I cut one of my main gees sef

His son had been born with a very serious health condition in 2016, same time as my daughter, which needed a very serious sum of money for surgery, I covered everything and ensured that the boy was nursed back to health including all follow up appointments. Although bro was always showing levels on social media, I took his need at face value rather than ask him to sell his car he keeps showing off for example (something I would have done for my child in the same situation)

A year later he shocked me when he asked for N500k for house rent in 2018, despite driving SUV, always wearing designer clothes on Instagram and all that. I think his house rent was N700k and he had N200k on him. That was our last conversation. For my mind I'm like you've had 12 months to prepare for this, furthermore you can downsize your house to the one your pocket can carry, secondly I don't wear designer clothes, but you are flossing everywhere and expecting me to pay your house rent, I no just answer the guy from that day to this day. That house rent stuff dey always vex me cos that is a core responsibility for any man, unless a major incident occurs, no man should be caught unawares by house rent.

I also experienced something similar , but not exactly the same.

I have a very close friend ( one of the very few I hold dearly ) . We were planning his wedding and in less than 2 months to the wedding day his mum died after slumping . The death took everyone by surprise and really shook him.

At a point we were contemplating shifting the wedding but eventually the family decided he should go ahead with it. In the wake to the wedding I had to dig deep into my savings to come through for him when he kept lamenting about a whole lot of things he’s yet to put in place due to the sudden death of his mum and how much he spent during the burial (which I also supported him financially for ). He even made me spend extra money by buying a new piece of suit to be his best man which I never planned before .

On the wedding eve I had to take it upon myself to foot bills for the hotel we will sleep overnight when I noticed he didn’t have any plan nor funds for it and was resigned to us sleeping in his parent’s house where a gazillion family members were sleeping over in preparation for the wedding . Within the first year of the wedding he was always complaining about his business not doing well and when I do have I raise him one or two change to sort minor issues .

Fast forward to the delivery of his first child , after announcing the arrival of the baby he told me how much he’s trying to raise to have his wife and child discharged from the private hospital . I gave him what I can knowing fully well he will still come up with some request in 8 days time which will be naming ceremony . True to character he requested for financial asssitance few days to the naming and I was suggesting that he should just do a low key one since the funds are not really there now.

On the morning of the naming I sent him what I can and later he confided in me that my cash was timely cos that was what he used to buy a bag of rice that morning immediately alert entered . I didn’t go for the naming cos it was a work day but my spouse who did , what she described was definitely not a budget naming ceremony and the pictures my guy uploaded later confirmed same .

Less than a month after naming my guy’s house rent was due and he needs to borrow money to add to his rent . He told me he had the house rent complete before the naming but he had to spend out of it for the naming since Yoruba have a saying that “ ti Igi ba wo lugi, toke e ni won man koko gbe “ i.e if a tree falls on another fallen tree, u will definitely have to lift the one on top to be able to reach the one underneath . So he had to first sort the naming before the rent payment .

I just shook my head at his scale of priorities and cautioned myself to never be foooolish by going all out for people who don’t know how to prioritize their needs . I took several steps backwards on his matter because I just don’t see myself continuing to sponsor his bad choice of order of priorities .

BlueRayDick:


I also experienced something similar , but not exactly the same.

I have a very close friend ( one of the very few I hold dearly ) . We were planning his wedding and in less than 2 months to the wedding day his mum died after slumping . The death took everyone by surprise and really shook him.

At a point we were contemplating shifting the wedding but eventually the family decided he should go ahead with it. In the wake to the wedding I had to dig deep into my savings to come through for him when he kept lamenting about a whole lot of things he’s yet to put in place due to the sudden death of his mum and how much he spent during the burial (which I also supported him financially for ). He even made me spend extra money by buying a new piece of suit to be his best man which I never planned before .

On the wedding eve I had to take it upon myself to foot bills for the hotel we will sleep overnight when I noticed he didn’t have any plan nor funds for it and was resigned to us sleeping in his parent’s house where a gazillion family members were sleeping over in preparation for the wedding . Within the first year of the wedding he was always complaining about his business not doing well and when I do have I raise him one or two change to sort minor issues .

Fast forward to the delivery of his first child , after announcing the arrival of the baby he told me how much he’s trying to raise to have his wife and child discharged from the private hospital . I gave him what I can knowing fully well he will still come up with some request in 8 days time which will be naming ceremony . True to character he requested for financial asssitance few days to the naming and I was suggesting that he should just do a low key one since the funds are not really there now.

On the morning of the naming I sent him what I can and later he confided in me that my cash was timely cos that was what he used to buy a bag of rice that morning immediately alert entered . I didn’t go for the naming cos it was a work day but my spouse who did , what she described was definitely not a budget naming ceremony and the pictures my guy uploaded later confirmed same .

Less than a month after naming my guy’s house rent was due and he needs to borrow money to add to his rent . He told me he had the house rent complete before the naming but he had to spend out of it for the naming since Yoruba have a saying that “ ti Igi ba wo lugi, toke e ni won man koko gbe “ i.e if a tree falls on another fallen tree, u will definitely have to lift the one on top to be able to reach the one underneath . So he had to first sort the naming before the rent payment .

I just shook my head at his scale of priorities and cautioned myself to never be foooolish by going all out for people who don’t know how to prioritize their needs . I took several steps backwards on his matter because I just don’t see myself continuing to sponsor his bad choice of order of priorities .

Eh?

Just did some reading. Seems Diddy did do all that s**t and a lot more.

Guinness world record just dey use Baci dey find impressions and chase clout