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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by iamoyindamola(m): 1:00pm On Nov 25, 2023
Healthy weird but we don't relate that much

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Evolutionism: 1:01pm On Nov 25, 2023
Most Negroes are Cursed entities.
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Sirchiboy: 1:02pm On Nov 25, 2023
It is so unfortunate.
I think it is a generational curse.
Both my parents siblings don't talk or help themselves and likewise my present condition.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by EBEk101(m): 1:02pm On Nov 25, 2023
Enemyofpeace:
It is as toxic as toxic itself and I’m enjoying every second of it. Fok them all and fok you that is reading this bullshiiiiiiiiiiiit.


Lol 😂 wetin we the comment readers come do u nah
WTF man

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Blackdisciple(m): 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023
PedoBear:



Grow up and get a gf or go and marry



grin grin grin

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Enemyofpeace: 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023
Ceasarceasar:


Family still family... Even with the gf or whatever
rubbish
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by happney65: 1:07pm On Nov 25, 2023
If you're not born up in love,yours will be toxic.

Always having nonesense competition against themselves. But if you grew up in love, Nobody has any problem with the other person.

It will be all love and vibes

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by ogascomax: 1:11pm On Nov 25, 2023
Perfect and we are six.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by achimendy(m): 1:11pm On Nov 25, 2023
LagosG:
Mine is actually healthy cos we dey always do checks and balances and also do interventions for the most ridiculous issues lol. We're so close we've all watched the same tv series and there must be more than 100 different ones not counting movies regardless of whether we're together or not. Not like we don't have our bad moments o but they never last past a couple of days

There's just three of us. I'm the first. I may have bad habits but with the way they look up to me, I just can't afford any bad blood, you feel me?



Am cool with my siblings sha, everybody with his or her own character. But is just one of my sis me and brothers are not close to because of her dirty.


She knows, so she doesn't near us cos she might collect beating.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by YoungAncient1: 1:13pm On Nov 25, 2023
No parents, na only my 3 siblings I get. We no dey play with each other matter at all

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by vivalavida(m): 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2023
Extremely healthy. We don't joke with each other. Always come through for each other.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Padipadi: 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2023
PedoBear:
I'm the only child , no siblings


It has been sweet having no siblings


Na only you waka come.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Dyfynezz12(m): 1:15pm On Nov 25, 2023
Cute jnr bro
Sweet
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by achimendy(m): 1:18pm On Nov 25, 2023
LagosG:
Mine is actually healthy cos we dey always do checks and balances and also do interventions for the most ridiculous issues lol. We're so close we've all watched the same tv series and there must be more than 100 different ones not counting movies regardless of whether we're together or not. Not like we don't have our bad moments o but they never last past a couple of days

There's just three of us. I'm the first. I may have bad habits but with the way they look up to me, I just can't afford any bad blood, you feel me?




Am cool with my siblings o, everybody with his or her own character. Just one of my sis with her dirty character, and she doesn't come close to me and my brothers cos she might collect beating .

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by MadamExcellency: 1:18pm On Nov 25, 2023
I am their Princess, their helper and their reason to keep the patriarch together. Very lovely. Nothing beats family and God.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by StraightGaay: 1:21pm On Nov 25, 2023
PedoBear:
I'm the only child , no siblings


It has been sweet having no siblings


lets be a siblings na

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by PedoBear: 1:22pm On Nov 25, 2023
StraightGaay:
lets be a siblings na



Are you a girl ??
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by BigDawsNet: 1:25pm On Nov 25, 2023
Super Healthy, we got each other side anytime any day

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by StraightGaay: 1:25pm On Nov 25, 2023
GYBABA:
My own family is dysfunctional infact it has been since my father died. My mother is an easy going person, very nice, not strict, disciplinary & has a habit of giving us a lot of freedom. This is in a way created a void among us. All 5 of us, we separated early. My mum is still the only one that has a good healthy relationship with all of us but amony us the siblings, the relationship too toxic. Can't remember the last time we all gathered together the same place. Even at that, we pretend to be good for like the first 2 days then boom, kasala go burst starting from conflict of two till everyone yabs themselves & then we scatter again not to meet for a long time. My grandpa's burial in 2020 caused us all to meet. Since then, we haven't met & I don't think anything is going to bring us all together again except maybe my mum's burial & I sure say big fight go still happen then. Until then, may death no kill my sweet beautiful yellow mama for me. I too love that woman die.
You didn't mention your death, are you immune to death.
I don't wish you death, but it might be what will bring you all together after a long time.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by StraightGaay: 1:26pm On Nov 25, 2023
PedoBear:




Are you a girl ??
Do you need a sister?

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Ekpekus(m): 1:29pm On Nov 25, 2023
Very healthy...
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by blackgold2018(m): 1:32pm On Nov 25, 2023
GYBABA:
My own family is dysfunctional infact it has been since my father died. My mother is an easy going person, very nice, not strict, disciplinary & has a habit of giving us a lot of freedom. This is in a way created a void among us. All 5 of us, we separated early. My mum is still the only one that has a good healthy relationship with all of us but amony us the siblings, the relationship too toxic. Can't remember the last time we all gathered together the same place. Even at that, we pretend to be good for like the first 2 days then boom, kasala go burst starting from conflict of two till everyone yabs themselves & then we scatter again not to meet for a long time. My grandpa's burial in 2020 caused us all to meet. Since then, we haven't met & I don't think anything is going to bring us all together again except maybe my mum's burial & I sure say big fight go still happen then. Until then, may death no kill my sweet beautiful yellow mama for me. I too love that woman die.
it all depends on upbringing. Were you guys brought up with love? The death of your father supposed to bring in guys together and achieve a goal.

Plus another factor is the most senior amongst the siblings. The first born failed on his responsibilities.

I’m talking from experience but my own case is that we lost both parents. We made it among ourselves to stand as strong. Thereby surprising our late dads enemies.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Eriokanmi: 1:38pm On Nov 25, 2023
EBEk101:
Healthy, but them wan use billing kill me, it’s time for me to start thinking about settling down next year, I will have to sound that into their ear this December
Any body wey worry me nah to block am
WTF man
I almost blocked their numbers last weekend.
Block their numbers and see that source of your blessing block too. No be curse.

Many bread winners don't seem to realise that God has placed them in that position so they too can be of help to people around them, including their siblings . The moment they stop, either due to their wife's or husband's or friend's bad advice, the blessing stops too.

Till date, i still send money to my older siblings and God's help and blessing never stop.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by bhouze(m): 1:42pm On Nov 25, 2023
LagosG:
Mine is actually healthy cos we dey always do checks and balances and also do interventions for the most ridiculous issues lol. We're so close we've all watched the same tv series and there must be more than 100 different ones not counting movies regardless of whether we're together or not. Not like we don't have our bad moments o but they never last past a couple of days

There's just three of us. I'm the first. I may have bad habits but with the way they look up to me, I just can't afford any bad blood, you feel me?

Toxic. Wish my Older brother is understanding as you. We are three. Older brother 1st, My sister 2nd and I'm 3rd. Since we lost both parents, he doesn't care and wants to be a control freak. Baba wan know everything about me - my investments, income and even whom to marry while I don't know Jack about his own life as he doesn't confide in me but he wants me to confide in him. His allegiance is to my maternal uncles and aunts as them hold small change. We no longer have a relationship ever since I got married. God blessed me with twins and till date he has never known what they look like except maybe if he saw them on social media. His grievance is that I didn't name either one of them his name. Person way no represent want make I name my child him name. I think we have cut ties and we are no longer brothers. I only got my Sister.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by collins2057(m): 1:43pm On Nov 25, 2023
In between toxic and healthy
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Chronosvineberg(m): 1:46pm On Nov 25, 2023
Healxic
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by PedoBear: 1:49pm On Nov 25, 2023
StraightGaay:
Do you need a sister?


Yeah


Are you ??
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by samuelpeters(m): 1:53pm On Nov 25, 2023
Mine is healthy.
We talk every now and then. We are cool.

I still missed when we were younger and together.
Now everybody de different states but we still talk.

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by EBEk101(m): 1:54pm On Nov 25, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Block their numbers and see that source of your blessing block too. No be curse.

Many bread winners don't seem to realise that God has placed them in that position so they too can be of help to people around them, including thehr siblings . The moment they stop, either due to their wife's or husband's or friend's bad advice, the blessing stops too.

Till date, i still send money to my older siblings and God's help and blessing never stop.

It’s not easy man
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Ever8090: 1:55pm On Nov 25, 2023
GYBABA:
My own family is dysfunctional infact it has been since my father died. My mother is an easy going person, very nice, not strict, disciplinary & has a habit of giving us a lot of freedom. This is in a way created a void among us. All 5 of us, we separated early. My mum is still the only one that has a good healthy relationship with all of us but amony us the siblings, the relationship too toxic. Can't remember the last time we all gathered together the same place. Even at that, we pretend to be good for like the first 2 days then boom, kasala go burst starting from conflict of two till everyone yabs themselves & then we scatter again not to meet for a long time. My grandpa's burial in 2020 caused us all to meet. Since then, we haven't met & I don't think anything is going to bring us all together again except maybe my mum's burial & I sure say big fight go still happen then. Until then, may death no kill my sweet beautiful yellow mama for me. I too love that woman die.
eyaa...you guys are missing a lot...

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Sirchiboy: 1:56pm On Nov 25, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Block their numbers and see that source of your blessing block too. No be curse.

Many bread winners don't seem to realise that God has placed them in that position so they too can be of help to people around them, including thehr siblings . The moment they stop, either due to their wife's or husband's or friend's bad advice, the blessing stops too.

Till date, i still send money to my older siblings and God's help and blessing never stop.
..
God bless you sir.
Anything for your boy

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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by Ever8090: 1:58pm On Nov 25, 2023
Healthy, na money we never get but God has started coming through for us, it is step by step...

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