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monex:
they are not gays. it is actually a polyamorous relationship. The men have other girls outside. They are both her baby daddies and they have other girlfriends. She is also allowed to sleep with other men besides these two men.

none of the three individuals are legally married. Bigamy laws arent a joke

but at least she is having two men thesame time

Kobojunkie:
So, she is technically not married to both men cause that would count as bigamy abeg!

I hear the first is really just a baby daddy too,

Puss360:
but at least she is having two men thesame time

she isnt the first or the only. There are many women who date two guys with full knowledge of both guys.

polyamorous relationships are more popular than you think

monex:
she isnt the first or the only. There are many women who date two guys with full knowledge of both guys.

polyamorous relationships are more popular than you think

then it shouldn't have caused a lot of ruckus from the NL guys...

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Una think say no be blogger just hijack random pictures from Instagram, and spin a story around it?


Disclaimer:- I'm not saying it is not true, but in the age of AI, you must to shine your eyes.

Puss360:
then it shouldn't have caused a lot of ruckus from the NL guys...

because most men just like women dont like to share.

However, we are recently seeing an increase in people interested in polyamourous relationships

Of course there is the hypocrisy of men that don't want to share their women biut want to be shared by other women.

sharone21:
Hi again,
First — about blacks in the USA. Sorry I seemed to assume that you knew USA history — but most Americans don’t know how American blacks began to degenerate. Thomas Sowell, an old black man who is a genius PhD in economics and still active, has described how after the horrors of slavery, most blacks aspired to fulfill the same American dream as other ethnicities. But even back then, I forgot exactly who - one of the famous black spokesmen - said that there will always be a group of blacks (or any minority, in fact) who makes a living out of black victimhood. Nowadays this is happening most among women. I don’t know if second wave feminism happened at same time in Nigeria, or happened at all, as it happened in USA. When I was in high school (late sixties) there were almost no female doctors or lawyers. I even remember in grade school feeling that kids whose mothers worked were from problem families (often true cause at that time only reason a mother would work was if the father was a drunk or a fool or couldn’t hold a job.) The high schools all had dress codes that said girls had to wear dresses or skirts of a certain length. Since my parents had treated me like a favorite son - with high expectations — and since I preferred boys toys to dolls, I became a feminist as soon as I heard about it. We girls all decided to wear pants to school on the same day and boom - we changed the dress code that same year. More and more women were encouraged to study law and medicine so that today there are more women lawyers and doctors than males (but the men still choose the toughest jobs and the women choose jobs that allow them to also spend more time with their kids.) So, basically,all the goals of sixties feminism were achieved within just several years. So I was amazed when I got back to USA and Madonna and other women were whining like spoiled babies about how unfair the world is to women!!!!
Sowell describes how during a certain decade after slavery, more black young men were married and working than white young men. Blacks were making great progress in the USA until racist Lyndon Johnson became president after Kennedy was assassinated. He is still known for passing the Civil Rights Act in 1964, which made racial discrimination illegal. I just looked this up a few months ago because I mistakenly thought that welfare was part of the Civil Rights Act. Welfare is the informal word for government assistance to poor families — but only poor women and children. Johnson knew that the family was what gave American blacks strength (and the communists knew that they had to abolish the family before communism could take over - they’ve already destroyed the family in USA, but the family is everything in Brazil so I know that no commie president who stole last election will change that. As is natural for such a huge nation , Brazilians don’t realize that the strength of family and church here and through most of Latin America is something that North America and Europe have already lost - especially in the cities. Anyway, Lyndon Johnson destroyed the black family by taking the men out of any black family that needed government help! That’s where all the baby daddy stuff come from. Men would visit their families and end up having several women because if they lived with one woman and their kids that disqualified them from receiving welfare benefits. Worse, the benefits increased with each new baby so some of the worst (and probably least intelligent) mothers kept popping out more babies just to get more governmemt money. My suspicion is that when Johnson pushed for the Civil Rights Act he already had plans to take the men out of poor black and white families. He was a smart and nasty man and I hate to hear him still given credit for the Civil Rights Act. It was a good law but Johnson used it for the bad reason of making it easier for him to destroy poor black families later because someone who had given blacks legal protection against discrimination was assumed to only want to help blacks in the USA, right? But it was the opposite and I wish the schools taught this so American kids would learn how black families and black culture became so negative. That it’s nothing natural to black people but a result of a few white racists.

*From a friend*

The techniques for destroying the Black American family by the pink supremacists was in the following steps:-

- entice the women and encourage them to be on welfare/ government assistance ( a noble act if it came from pure intentions)


- use social workers ( white) to brainwash the women , that if they found a man in the house, you lost government assistance


- the black women then decided to drive out the men away, so as not to lose government assistance

- some black men became shortsighted, and didn't know that a game was being played by the pink supremacists, so they started making babies with numerous women

- black women were brainwashed by media, that they were " strong and don't need a man"; a demonic brainwash, which made black American women to look up to white America as their new daddies


- black men were now systematically forced into lower paying jobs, while white / pink men were always being promoted. If you as a black man wanted to get loan to open a business, MAY GOD HELP YOU, as the banks would almost make you cross the red.sea like the hebrews, in terms of conditionalities for getting a loan.


- drug ( crack cocaine) was flooded into the black community by late 60s and early 70s


- crazy politicians like Joe Biden and Bill Clinton then helped pass into laws , criminalising even small amounts of crack cocaine ( WHILE BEING LENIENT ON REAL COCAINE ; USED BY THE WHITE UPPER CLASS AND ELITES).


-mass incarceration of black men
- destruction of black music , especially hip-hop tuned to gangster hip-hop, which was being promoted by the music executives. Classic black music like soul , reggae, jazz were systematically downgraded.



THE REST, AS THEY SAY, IS HISTORY.


N.B:- AS usual, I will tag the following worshippers of pink supremacy and brainwashers on nairaland:-

cc:- Olaadegbu , righteousness2, righteousness89, and some hidden others.


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caye:
The techniques for destroying the Black American family by the pink supremacists was in the following steps:-

- entice the women and encourage them to be on welfare/ government assistance ( a noble act if it came from pure intentions)


- use social workers ( white) to brainwash the women , that if they found a man in the house, you lost government assistance


- the black women then decided to drive out the men away, so as not to lose government assistance

- some black men became shortsighted, and didn't know that a game was being played by the pink supremacists, so they started making babies with numerous women

- black women were brainwashed by media, that they were " strong and don't need a man"; a demonic brainwash, which made black American women to look up to white America as their new daddies


- black men were now systematically forced into lower paying jobs, while white / pink men were always being promoted. If you as a black man wanted to get loan to open a business, MAY GOD HELP YOU, as the banks would almost make you cross the red.sea like the hebrews, in terms of conditionalities for getting a loan.


- drug ( crack cocaine) was flooded into the black community by late 60s and early 70s


- crazy politicians like Joe Biden and Bill Clinton then helped pass into laws , criminalising even small amounts of crack cocaine ( WHILE BEING LENIENT ON REAL COCAINE ; USED BY THE WHITE UPPER CLASS AND ELITES).


-mass incarceration of black men
- destruction of black music , especially hip-hop tuned to gangster hip-hop, which was being promoted by the music executives. Classic black music like soul , reggae, jazz were systematically downgraded.



THE REST, AS THEY SAY, IS HISTORY.


N.B:- AS usual, I will tag the following worshippers of pink supremacy and brainwashers on nairaland:-

cc:- Olaadegbu , righteousness2, righteousness89, and some hidden others.


-

About your 'NB' ( lol)..... A white sent this to me so not all whites or white Americans are bad or hate blacks.

The said woman in this story is just practicing 3some with her partners in a house. This has advantages and disadvantages ( lol)

Some advantages are: Save cost of rent or mortgage, Save cost of living, not easy seeing a woman to agree on this type of arrangement, so this one is enjoyment till death do them part, if one man goes off the earth life continues for the woman..... I guess this woman should be a sex maniac because even with one man a normal woman can be tired of sex not to talk of 2 horses.

Disadvantages: All the woman's holes are subject to wear and tear/ anal cancer...Some form of disapproval from certain people.... Dont know if she will be bearing both names of the men( lol).... With one man a woman can worry to death on infidelity how much more 2 handsome men especially on some days she can't service them.....

She try Sha.

Puss360:
Water fountain kor, geepeee tank ni ... Wahala

say geepee tank
I just hope you are not afraid of heights? ... cos what you will sit on is very high

Puss360:
are you God?

we are little gods. Be careful of your wish

Gjrich:
A Proud American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online.

“Sign of the end times” —Proud American woman with two husbands causes stir online
An American woman, Passion Jones has caused a ruckus online after she showed off her two husbands and the sons she has with each of them in a family portrait for Thanksgiving.

The woman is quite famous on social media and is on Instagram as passionjonesz12 where she is an influencer for many brands.

She is an advocate of Polyamory and her marriage to both husbands is a testament to this.

The 31-year-old woman got married at 20 to her first husband and only began her polyamorous relationship when she was 30 years old.

“Sign of the end times” —Proud American woman with two husbands causes stir online
The American woman and her two husbands.
She confessed in the Podcast they do together as a Polyamorous couple that she had no idea she would ever want to get married to two men but now she loves it.

Her first husband with whom she has two children together claims he was not forced to do it neither is he jealous as he enjoys the experience.

Her second and most recent husband whom she just had a baby is quite young and very comfortable with the marriage.

The husbands say they take turns in getting her pregnant, that way, they know who the father of the child is.

Whoa!

I can NEVER share my woman with another man like these three are doing... With me, a woman has to get gone first if she wants to leave because I can't wrap this kind of relationship concept round my head!

It just goes to show that the first husband had started losing interest and getting bored in the now 31-year-old lady before he accepted that kind of 3-some relationship... But then again, it's their choice.

Albertone:
I didn't see the (f) beside your moniker.

Only a few percentage of gay people will sleep with opposite sex just to safe face.
The world is going liberal, people are practicing homosexuality without fear.

I might even be gay but am I going to write it on my forehead? Only few people might know.
So why should I incovinience myself to sleep with people I ain't attracted to?

The world is changing, but not as quickly as you may think. Gay men in their 20s can easily move in together but a 47-year old gay MD of a multinational firm in this part of the world will not openly move in with a lover. I'm speaking strictly from my observation in my locality. If I lived in Johannesburg I'd probably witness a different outcome.

Gjrich:
A Proud American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online.

“Sign of the end times” —Proud American woman with two husbands causes stir online
An American woman, Passion Jones has caused a ruckus online after she showed off her two husbands and the sons she has with each of them in a family portrait for Thanksgiving.

The woman is quite famous on social media and is on Instagram as passionjonesz12 where she is an influencer for many brands.

She is an advocate of Polyamory and her marriage to both husbands is a testament to this.

The 31-year-old woman got married at 20 to her first husband and only began her polyamorous relationship when she was 30 years old.

“Sign of the end times” —Proud American woman with two husbands causes stir online
The American woman and her two husbands.
She confessed in the Podcast they do together as a Polyamorous couple that she had no idea she would ever want to get married to two men but now she loves it.

Her first husband with whom she has two children together claims he was not forced to do it neither is he jealous as he enjoys the experience.

Her second and most recent husband whom she just had a baby is quite young and very comfortable with the marriage.

The husbands say they take turns in getting her pregnant, that way, they know who the father of the child is.

their misinformation of the scenario, as in most western countries, you can legally marry one husband or wife

So legal basic she is married to one husband and second man is just a boyfriend

Farfalla:
The world is changing, but not as quickly as you may think. Gay men in their 20s can easily move in together but a 47-year old gay MD of a multinational firm in this part of the world will not openly move in with a lover. I'm speaking strictly from my observation in my locality. If I lived in Johannesburg I'd probably witness a different outcome.

You do have a point!

Citing J'burg as an example location, do you per chance live in SA?

Albertone:
You do have a point!

Citing J'burg as an example location, do you per chance live in SA?

No, I don't reside in SA.

they both are really very lucky to have Jone in common. She can marry another strong man. She should get another child from that third man.