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money121:
How can husband be AA and wife is AS, and baby is SS? Paternity fraud looming...

Husband is AA, wife is AS. 3 months after they had their first child, they found out their daughter was SS.

At first, it appeared like a joke, a very bad one. Medically, that isn't or shouldn't be possible. They conducted the genotype test in four medical labs, and the result came out the same.

Husband and wife decided to have their genotype test again. Results were the same.

Then it became clear what was happening. Husband ain't the father of the baby. He secretly had a DNA test and it was confirmed he didn't father the baby.

Amidst the confusion, he asked his wife if he fathered the baby. Wife wouldn't confess. She insisted he fathered the baby. It's just obvious that whoever fathered the baby is AS which resulted in the baby's SS.

They went for a paternity test and it was glaring husband ain't the baby's dad. Wife still insisting she didn't get impregnated externally. She went ahead to do another DNA. Result was the same.

Wife became a shadow of herself. Husband got crazy. Their home became a "once upon a time."

Wife kept researching how possible it was that her husband didn't father her baby and the baby's genotype is SS.

Then she told a friend of the whole matter. Her friend just felt she's using female's antics. "Take responsibility," she was told. She kept swearing and swearing. Her friend told me of the whole drama.

I kept thinking about how this would be possible. Medically, it was impossible for AA to birth SS. Coupled with the DNA results, it was glaring. But wife claiming innocence and swearing on her life was a whole different thing.

I thought of what could have been. Then I arrived at a conclusion: if wife is innocent, then she's not the mother of the child. I immediately called my friend that I've found a possible solution. MNA (maternity test) to the rescue.

They went for an MNA, and test revealed she's not the mother of the baby. Babies were changed at birth. Long story cut short, they involved the police and investigations were carried out.

Multiple tests done "here and there." They got their own baby back - AS. They returned the supposed baby. Hospital was sued for the negligence and trauma.

Wife was so displeased her husband didn't trust her. They settled and made up. They just had their second baby - a boy. Husband stayed with wife in labor room and monitored everything. Once bitten, twice shy.

At times, so called paternity fraud is change of babies at the hospital.

SOLUTION TO THE ABOVE PROBLEMS:

1. Advise your male children, to stay with their wives in the Labour wards, as their wives are delivering.

2. Advise your female children, to insist on their husbands staying in and remaining in the Labour ward, during child births.

The world of today, are full of people with evil intentions.

Together we can make the world a better place

Copied.

Both maternity and paternity test will be recognized from this day henceforth. You have really done well.

Makunahatata:
go do am fr better hospital..not those quack hospitals u have dia in the East

Did he tell you it was done in the east?

EmekaBlue:
sharaap

Who tell u say I dey east?! And again I'm sure u r west....if no be Lagos the no man's land...d rest are super quack

Some people are just animals in human skin. See as him just rush talk say na for east you do am. Very dumbbb asss motherfuckkker.

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

This is not the time to blame but time to take care of ourselves
You see my brother that stage they are ss is very difficult to manage
1 they should avoid cold water and drinks like soda they should not even bath with cold water.
2 they should treat maleria and infections even before they fall sick their eyes become more yellowish when they have maleria or infection but while treating maleria they should drink alot of water because most of the maleria drugs dehydrated them without them knowing.
3 they should take their medications like vitamin c&b and folic acid always some of them don't take their medications until they fall sick
4 Ugu leave this is the best
Just take a bunch and wash well ( I wash with soap like detergent and rise with water many times) most of them and even the fruits you eat contain alot of germs. After washing blend add some malt drink.
Drink twice a week and you will be as healthy as other children the doctors will not see you again.

Chee59:
You talk of manageable and sickle cell in the same sentence? You mean the same sickle cell crisis that can start suddenly and in 10/20 minutes, the pain is almost lethal? Or the fact that half the time you doctors are doing trial and error?

I understand. First of all, the meds prevent the pain from ever occuring. All my patients on meds are thriving and none has had a crisis in the past two years.

Infact, they do so well that you would never believe that they have sickle cell in the first place.

I am sorry that you are going through a lot and I sincerely hope that you get the treatment that you deserve

Loan honestly

Acidosis:
Your parents are very wicked.

Hey dude easyyyy..

Parents of that time had little or no knowledge about this.

It was more of Emotions over logic.

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

You and the second born are supposed to be the only children of your parents but your parents won do pass God.

Now they've brought innocent humans to suffer on earth

Munzy14:
Hey dude easyyyy..

Parents of that time had little or no knowledge about this.

It was more of Emotions over logic.

You'll be surprised to know that they know but want to just really be careless and wicked.

He said his siblings are teenagers meaning they were born between 2005 and 2010. And a parent giving birth in that period doesn't have idea of genotype?
And I don't think his parents are illiterate. Once you finish secondary school you should at least have heard about genotype

When you tell people that are AS to avoid other AS/SS......... They would add spirituality and God factor to it.......

Every unwise decision, got it's severe financial consequence...... Why two adults, decide to put their children through this pain..... Is truly baffling......

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

tell them to eat more onions and moringa seeds.

@ DrAda
Pls wat meds are u talking about
Whats the content and active ingredient in these meds
Are they regular marjet drugs or soecially formulated in a particukar place

qquote author=DrAda post=127254075]

I understand. First of all, the meds prevent the pain from ever occuring. All my patients on meds are thriving and none have had a crisis in the past two years.

Infact, they do so well that you would never believe that they have sickle cell in the first place.

I am sorry that you are going through a lot and I sincerely hope that you get the treatment that you deserve[/quote]

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

Chai!
Mehn I can feel your pain...The burden is going to be veryyyyyyyy long and heavier.

Went to a pharmaceutical shop a certain day to pick some OTC stuffs, ran into an SS guy crying in pains...Seeking for assistance to complete an Injection dosage..I didnt hesitate to render.

Ss people are suffering..After that day, my mindset of supporting two AS lovers to go ahead left.
Even, I begin to appreciate AA....And had to respect my parents more for a super AA union from both.

God is your strength..Try see if there are non Governmental organisations one can get attached to for this..Having one SS is huge, not to talk 3.😕

remzytimer:
You can only try your best buy only my God can turn SS to AA let your faith be strong in God. Tell them to attend Shiloh 2023n the God of Shiloh is special in impossibilities. Just come with faith

How many you know personally?

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LalastiklaIa:
You'll be surprised to know that they know but want to just really be careless and wicked.

He said his siblings are teenagers meaning they were born between 2005 and 2010. And a parent giving birth in that period doesn't have idea of genotype?
And I don't think his parents are illiterate. Once you finish secondary school you should at least have heard about genotype

To be honest, av seen well educated people who are ignorant of this.

A popular paediatrics in my childhood neighbiurhood was AS and married AS..

They had 2 SS..He had the resources to spin sha..

DrAda:
Again. Sickle cell is a very manageable disease as long as you are on your meds.

And their crisis + periodical blood transfusions..... In the Nigeria of today, when parents cannot afford it.......

Why put children through this torture........

vintageviniba:
If you are AS, don't marry Your fellow AS
If you are SS don't marry AS
If you are SS don't marry SS
If you are AA, you can marry anyone
If you are AS Or SS, before you fall in love yakata.. Ask the person's genotype. Na wetin dey pain person dey matter for person life. Fine it is good to fall in love. But in AS And SS case, omo open ya eyes o. Cos if Yoi born SS huh even love go fade!!

Even if you fall in love as "AS" couples please respect your selves and fall out of love, dont selfishly add to the troubles in the world already.

Makunahatata:
not surprised ..most of u don run away from that backward enclave ..I repeat,go to a better hospital,this one your genotype dey change..you might be SS ,who knows 😏

Try check ur own again maybe them go discover a new one wey dey below SS... something like ZZ who knows

That is so irresponsible of your parents. When they saw the third was SS why didn't they stop? Unless they are not literate sha and didn't understand the implications.

Anyway, there are native ways that the sickness is handled and you wouldn't have to spend as much.
Also, they can do crowdfunding on social media. Everyone understands the struggles of an SS person and may assist.
Then check for foundations as well. I know one dude on Facebook that helps solicit for blood donation and gives it out free of charge. I can't remember his name but you can do your research and I am sure there are others.

[Lquote author=Acidosis post=127247399]
Lol mugu
Your parents are very wicked.[/quote]

Switruth:
Omo you no get sense at all. You’ll definitely have a child with complications and you’ll understand

You won't even be able to have a child.

Yemike:
How many people are aware of genotype back then?

Back when? Go back and read the op clearly. Having three SS teenagers is stupidity. There is nothing like back in the days. An 18 year old teenager is a 2005 baby.


Like I said, many of you are needlessly emotional. That's why the idea of insulting wicked parents gets you more angry than the pains of three abandoned SS children.

Acidosis:
Back when? Go back and read the op clearly. Having three SS teenagers is stupidity. There is nothing like back in the days. An 18 year old teenager is a 2002 baby.

2005 to be precise

LalastiklaIa:
2005 to be precise

Just imagine. They did not stop at 1, they had the second and the third SS child, all in the 2000s.

Yemike:
I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis.
Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS.
I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already.
Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around.
My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.

I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.

How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?

I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.

You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks.

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enemyofprogress:
they are more than wicked. Now they are no where to be found to take care of the wahala that they caused

Absolutely

LillyandDaisy:
What are you thinking, I have 3 SC Brothers as my junior Brothers and we are doing all well..:

Whatever to he secret of their well being

tosyne2much:
Don't call them names bro

The ignorance of genotype incompatibility was top notch in the 50s, 60s, 70s and even in the 80s

Our parents didn't have access to the kind of information we do in our own era

Ignorance of genotype incompatibility was top notch in the 50s, but certainly not in the 2000s. The 3 SS children, according to the op, are in the University. There is a lot of reason to stop at one or two children, but they proceeded to have a third, fourth, and fifth, all in the 2000s.

fastseo:
Ask your mom n dad if they did genotype test before marrying. And they should be in their 60s.

In the 70s, 80s and even early 90s most of us don't know what genotype is. Where is the lab to run this test as you can find today. If exist will be expensive.

Even now.. Go to remote villages, they still don't know what genotype is.. We are lucky to have this level of education n leave in city

Again, OP has revealed that his siblings are all Gen Zs. It's now up to you to continue to make excuses for ignorance, poverty, birthing 5 children in the midst of poverty, or abandoning 3 SS children to fate.

remzytimer:
You can only try your best buy only my God can turn SS to AA let your faith be strong in God. Tell them to attend Shiloh 2023n the God of Shiloh is special in impossibilities. Just come with faith

Stop playing. Turning SS to AA. Seems like you've taken agbo