₦airaland Forum

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Serendipity2023:
Why deceive the girl?

Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

mbaise1000:
Are you sure the girl was deceived? What will you call a girl who decides to marry someone she hasn't met before? Tell me sincerely what you think she is thinking in making that decision? BTW I am not saying it's good for anyone to deceive anyone but, this goes both ways, I believe that the greatest and most important consideration in making a marriage choice should be love, as you can see here neither the man abroad nor the girl at home cared about that, so my point is, why blame ONLY the man?

Serendipity2023:
Let the girl know the truth first

Natbrowny:
This table has no legs..

Walai Talai.. 😝

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

kpukpuyenke:
Bros you are wise

CJStarz:
Typical Mbaise logic😂
I like that

mbaise1000:
Haa, na so you you wan see the thing?

lonelydora:
Nna, I feel like tagging two babes that I know.

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

namedo:
Then what qualifies it for a table?

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Thereishel:
You're very ignorant because you're in Nigeria not abroad. Visiting once a year you think it's easy as if the distance is from Lagos to Ibadan. Beside you think it's easy to file paper for someone who is not motherly and fatherly born to you. Supposing he has a wife abroad and he brings another wife that is bigamy 20 years in prison

Thereishel:
You're very ignorant because you're in Nigeria not abroad. Visiting once a year you think it's easy as if the distance is from Lagos to Ibadan. Beside you think it's easy to file paper for someone who is not motherly and fatherly born to you. Supposing he has a wife abroad and he brings another wife that is bigamy 20 years in prison

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

mbaise1000:
A girl who will be here and agree to marry a man she hasn't met and doesn't know is not unaware of the consequences, they are greedy, they will not marry a man they see here who possibly loves them and will care and be there for them, they are simply selfish and should accept their fate. The man abroad possibly loves his abroad wife but not sure of his children coming back, so he wants an insurance and will have it, the local girl wants a material good life, and will most likely get it, everyone gets what they want, so why blame the family who helped their son get a local boy?

Serendipity2023:
Till date, a man will live abroad then deceive a young girl into marrying him.

Most times, the younger brother stands in his stead for the marital rites.

The abroad man promises to get her papers to join him abroad.

He would keep the girl in Nigeria, preferably with his mum, then stays several years abroad with one-per-year visits or at times, no visits at all.

He might get the girl pregnant in the process.

He equally has a wife abroad.

The abroad man in connivance with his family members especially the mum, knew he had no intentions of getting these papers.

They knew he had kids and wife abroad.

They end up wasting the girl's youth.

These are the evils that men and women do!

Whatisurproblem:
so she can go over there and takeover his properties and send him to street abi? Why don't you mention evil women are doing to men that take them Abroad? Or you are also a 419

mbaise1000:
Are you sure the girl was deceived? What will you call a girl who decides to marry someone she hasn't met before? Tell me sincerely what you think she is thinking in making that decision? BTW I am not saying it's good for anyone to deceive anyone but, this goes both ways, I believe that the greatest and most important consideration in making a marriage choice should be love, as you can see here neither the man abroad nor the girl at home cared about that, so my point is, why blame ONLY the man?

mbaise1000:
I don't understand the point you are trying to make please

Serendipity2023:
Why deceive the girl?

ibinaboonline:
Nna men. I bu nwoke ka I bu nwanyi? Oyel dey ur head.

ednut1:
This was common between 1980s to early 2000s. With the information on the internet , different legal routes to japa etc any lady what agrees to such is useless herself. So deserves no pity.