Hello peeps!
My younger brother is the laziest being I've ever seen in my entire life. He's not a kid though, he'll soon be 25 but he's dead lazy.
Since he finished secondary school six years ago, he has absolutely nothing doing at the moment.

There's no funds to send him to higher institution especially when he cannot even contribute anything financially to the course.

He collects money from my mom at every chance he gets because me and my elder brother have stopped giving him money.

For the past six years, we have tried to get him learn a skills, businesses and trades but he always run back home or bluntly refuse the offer
He went to serve one man that sells mattress, the man is an authorized dealer for two companies, this man promised to settle him well like he has settled many guys from our place, but my brother came back saying there's no gain in the business. Mind u the man and all the guys he settled are all doing well.

Another apprentice deal was with one billionaire from my village. The man is based in Lagos, an importer and exporter. The man too have settled many people from our village too and all his boys are doing well. But my brother came back saying that the manager sends him and other two guys (latest intakes) to the warehouse while the manager and the rest stays in the outlet shops where there are ACs. Without even telling his master he ran back home from Lagos.

We sent he to learn plastic business, it would take 6 months or less we promised to gave him some funds for startup but oga said no.

He's been to countless other apprenticeships but he always came back home moving from one "brother's" house to another. Sleeping and snoring from morning to night. And he can finish food meant for ten people all alone.

I'm planning on driving him out of my house cos I've tried my best for him.

Sit him down.

Ask him about what really interests him.

That crucial conversation will be a pointer to what is needed to be done for or concerning him.

What trade are you doing. Maybe you should teach him how to fetch a fish.

Take him for deliverance

If @ 25 he has no clear direction in life, then there's a problem and it will be difficult to get him to do anything again.

At this stage You'll need to use force, I mean military force to shape his life so he doesn't end up like one boy in my area who refused to go to school. He dropped out and started lazying about following bad boys. The mother tried all she could to get him back to school to no avail.

They registered him for apprenticeship, he left the place without completing it. He wasted 5 whole years without anything. They put him back in school and he had to skip like three classes because he was now older, he left again. After another three years, they enrolled him for senior waec, by then he was already too old and all his mates had graduated from the university. after the waec , the next thing he started following boys and smoking. School e no go again. Work e no learn. He was just going about smoking from one joint to another looking dirty.

The mother suffered stroke after watching all her efforts go down the drain. She retired to the village for treatment and now he's homeless and wanders about the whole street and joints looking tattered.

Your brother needs iron hand otherwise he'll waste away.

decatalyst:
Sit him down.

Ask him about what really interests him.

That crucial conversation will be a pointer to what is needed to be done for or concerning him.

We have sat him down a thousand times bro. Almost everything he's attempted was either suggest by him, the rest was an option he picked too

MatrixReloaded:
What trade are you doing. Maybe you should teach him how to fetch a fish.

I've tried that too but he ran away. He just abruptly stopped coming to site citing chronic sickness

DrDoc:
Take him for deliverance

I don't believe in that

Your mum is his enabler.
Such degenerate as a bloodline is the worst thing to happen to any reasonable family.


Like I opined before....your mum is his enabler.And there's nada you guys can do about it....it's too late,he's a lost cause,kindly Donate him to charity.

Maybe its his destiny to become useless. Is he not seeing his mates ? Let your mom stop giving him money. Maybe that will reset his brain

Go and check his DNA and know if he is ur biological brother.

Stop giving him food and money


Cook and don't cook his own simple

Ignore him and stop giving your mom money so she won't give him

Hunger will teach him what he refused to learn.he is lazy because your mom is an enabler.i trust some mom's, they'll have used insults to finish him, by himself he will start thinking.so he's lazy because your mom enables him and the spoon feeding is what is making him not to be able to think

1 at a point he was interested in some things along the way in his life
2 he is confused on what to really do
3 If you think he is very very lazy there are works and businesses that look appealing to lazy People ,and they are mostly online and they promise good profitability. some of the online business or skill needs little or nothing to start

Use this as a guide to find out a solution .thank you

OFFKEY

Offkey:
1 at a point he was interested in some things along the way in his life
2 he is confused on what to really do
3 If you think he is very very lazy there are works and businesses that look appealing to lazy People ,and they are mostly online and they promise good profitability. some of the online business or skill needs little or nothing to start

Use this as a guide to find out a solution .thank you

OFFKEY

Works he can never even try.

Offkey:
1 at a point he was interested in some things along the way in his life
2 he is confused on what to really do
3 If you think he is very very lazy there are works and businesses that look appealing to lazy People ,and they are mostly online and they promise good profitability. some of the online business or skill needs little or nothing to start

Use this as a guide to find out a solution .thank you

OFFKEY

Even if you put am for HK he go still run comot.

Jayden001:
Hello peeps!
My younger brother is the laziest being I've ever seen in my entire life. He's not a kid though, he'll soon be 25 but he's dead lazy.
Since he finished secondary school six years ago, he has absolutely nothing doing at the moment.

There's no funds to send him to higher institution especially when he cannot even contribute anything financially to the course.

He collects money from my mom at every chance he gets because me and my elder brother have stopped giving him money.

For the past six years, we have tried to get him learn a skills, businesses and trades but he always run back home or bluntly refuse the offer
He went to serve one man that sells mattress, the man is an authorized dealer for two companies, this man promised to settle him well like he has settled many guys from our place, but my brother came back saying there's no gain in the business. Mind u the man and all the guys he settled are all doing well.

Another apprentice deal was with one billionaire from my village. The man is based in Lagos, an importer and exporter. The man too have settled many people from our village too and all his boys are doing well. But my brother came back saying that the manager sends him and other two guys (latest intakes) to the warehouse while the manager and the rest stays in the outlet shops where there are ACs. Without even telling his master he ran back home from Lagos.

We sent he to learn plastic business, it would take 6 months or less we promised to gave him some funds for startup but oga said no.

He's been to countless other apprenticeships but he always came back home moving from one "brother's" house to another. Sleeping and snoring from morning to night. And he can finish food meant for ten people all alone.

I'm planning on driving him out of my house cos I've tried my best for him.

Just prepare to be feeding him and paying for his house rent for the next 30 to 40 years.

Many families have 1 or 2 of these type of children.
No matter what you do, they don't man up.
If you don't give them money, they starve and still refuse to work and the society blames you for letting your brother to be hungry or homeless.

I have one like your brother. I have placed him on minimal monthly stipend for over a decade now.

Earthstorms:


Just prepare to be feeding him and paying for his house rent for the next 30 to 40 years.

Many families have 1 or 2 of these type of children.
No matter what you do, they don't man up.
If you don't give them money, they starve and still refuse to work and the society blames you for letting your brother to be hungry or homeless.

I have one like your brother. I have placed him on minimal monthly stipend for over a decade now.

Me I'm not ready for any monthly stipend oo. This January I'm driving him out of my house never to return again. I've done my best for him. I'm planning on starting a family, it's time to face my own family

Jayden001:

Me I'm not ready for any monthly stipend oo. This January I'm driving him out of my house never to return again. I've done my best for him. I'm planning on starting a family, it's time to face my own family

Don't worry, you will come around and realize that you can't easily run away from a lazy close family member.

As long as you have some money, he will be there to fleece you.

Your brother has signed up for poverty for life,, he can never amount to anything again in life. Your family have really tried for him, but he has refused to be helped. Just ignore him and stop wasting money on him, with time he will realise his mistakes and work on it by himself.
They no dey tell person

It's funny how people here thinks because a man has nothing at 25 he has failed in life


It's quite funny

Jayden001:
Hello peeps!
My younger brother is the laziest being I've ever seen in my entire life. He's not a kid though, he'll soon be 25 but he's dead lazy.
Since he finished secondary school six years ago, he has absolutely nothing doing at the moment.

There's no funds to send him to higher institution especially when he cannot even contribute anything financially to the course.

He collects money from my mom at every chance he gets because me and my elder brother have stopped giving him money.

For the past six years, we have tried to get him learn a skills, businesses and trades but he always run back home or bluntly refuse the offer
He went to serve one man that sells mattress, the man is an authorized dealer for two companies, this man promised to settle him well like he has settled many guys from our place, but my brother came back saying there's no gain in the business. Mind u the man and all the guys he settled are all doing well.

Another apprentice deal was with one billionaire from my village. The man is based in Lagos, an importer and exporter. The man too have settled many people from our village too and all his boys are doing well. But my brother came back saying that the manager sends him and other two guys (latest intakes) to the warehouse while the manager and the rest stays in the outlet shops where there are ACs. Without even telling his master he ran back home from Lagos.

We sent he to learn plastic business, it would take 6 months or less we promised to gave him some funds for startup but oga said no.

He's been to countless other apprenticeships but he always came back home moving from one "brother's" house to another. Sleeping and snoring from morning to night. And he can finish food meant for ten people all alone.

I'm planning on driving him out of my house cos I've tried my best for him.

Many people dey find responsible senior bros, wey go be of good help to them but some wey get just dey abuse these privileged

Jayden001:
Hello peeps!
My younger brother is the laziest being I've ever seen in my entire life. He's not a kid though, he'll soon be 25 but he's dead lazy.
Since he finished secondary school six years ago, he has absolutely nothing doing at the moment.

There's no funds to send him to higher institution especially when he cannot even contribute anything financially to the course.

He collects money from my mom at every chance he gets because me and my elder brother have stopped giving him money.

For the past six years, we have tried to get him learn a skills, businesses and trades but he always run back home or bluntly refuse the offer
He went to serve one man that sells mattress, the man is an authorized dealer for two companies, this man promised to settle him well like he has settled many guys from our place, but my brother came back saying there's no gain in the business. Mind u the man and all the guys he settled are all doing well.

Another apprentice deal was with one billionaire from my village. The man is based in Lagos, an importer and exporter. The man too have settled many people from our village too and all his boys are doing well. But my brother came back saying that the manager sends him and other two guys (latest intakes) to the warehouse while the manager and the rest stays in the outlet shops where there are ACs. Without even telling his master he ran back home from Lagos.

We sent he to learn plastic business, it would take 6 months or less we promised to gave him some funds for startup but oga said no.

He's been to countless other apprenticeships but he always came back home moving from one "brother's" house to another. Sleeping and snoring from morning to night. And he can finish food meant for ten people all alone.

I'm planning on driving him out of my house cos I've tried my best for him.

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Just be strong bro.
Everything will be fine

DrDoc:
Take him for deliverance

What are they delivering him from? Spirit of laziness?