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Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op):
Wishing everyone a happy new year.
Re: Happy New Year by SharingIsLife(m): 3:13am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
Though It's been a long time ago I have gone to church or really prayed but I can still call myself a Christian because I'm baptized.

If truly God loves me, why will he allow me keep repeating the same mistake over and over again.

If God is truly omnipotent why won't He come to my aid when he knows I'm too weak to overcome this particular weakness in my life.

I'm seriously tired, if there's any psychiatrist that's willing to assist me pro bono I will be so grateful because I think I'm mentally ill.

This is me looking for help.
So, what's the matter. I'm not a psychiatrist but I think I could be helpful to you. DM me if you are not comfortable discussing further on the issue here.
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 3:22am On Jan 08, 2024
I have DM you
Re: Happy New Year by Kobojunkie:
DiamondJude:
■ Though It's been a long time ago I have gone to church or really prayed but I can still call myself a Christian because I'm baptized. If truly God loves me, why will he allow me keep repeating the same mistake over and over again.
■ If God is truly omnipotent why won't He come to my aid when he knows I'm too weak to overcome this particular weakness in my life.
■I'm seriously tired, if there's any psychiatrist that's willing to assist me pro bono I will be so grateful because I think I'm mentally ill. This is me looking for help.
1. How did you come to conclude that God has a hand in your repeating the same mistakes over and over again? undecided

2. Who gave you the idea that God comes to the aid of the foolish folks out there such as yourself? Yes, foolishness is to blame for why a capable human — higher than an animal — would refuse to learn from his mistakes and instead proceed to repeat them over and over again. undecided

3. Last I checked, Psychiatry isn't about the treatment of foolishness/lack of wisdom, and the mentally ill are a different crowd from the mentally foolish. lipsrsealed
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 4:43am On Jan 08, 2024
Schoolshooter:
I didn't wish you death , you're the one that's eager to be free of your problems and I offered you a solution to be free of it



There are a lot of ways to make money

Drop few details about you and I'll show you how you can make money
So you have concluded my problem is about making money?
Re: Happy New Year by Schoolshooter: 4:45am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
So you have concluded my problem is about making money?
You obviously don't have money that's why you're so bent on offing yourself
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 4:50am On Jan 08, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. How did you conclude that God has a hand in your repeating the same mistakes over and over again? undecided

2. Who gave you the idea that God comes to the aid of the foolish folks out there such as yourself? Yes, foolishness is to blame for why a capable human — higher than an animal — would refuse to learn from his mistakes and instead proceed to repeat them over and over again. undecided

3. Last I checked, Psychiatry isn't about the treatment of foolishness/lack of wisdom, and the mentally ill are a different crowd from the mentally foolish. lipsrsealed
So where can a mentally foolish man gets help?

So you think even the so called foolish people are happy being foolish?

If someone is seeking for help, if you can't assist the person don't make it more difficult for him.

So you think it's wrong to question God or you haven't read where God said someone will perish and the same God repented and changed his mind.

My problem is self made I know I'm just and even if I'm foolish I can still try to look for solution.

You might not like how I put it but this is my own way of trying to come out of my foolishness.
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 4:53am On Jan 08, 2024
Schoolshooter:
You obviously don't have money that's why you're so bent on offing yourself
Okay. Thanks, I'm not against you showing me ways to make money but I am not here to beg for alms.
Re: Happy New Year by Schoolshooter: 4:54am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
Okay. Thanks, I'm not against you showing me ways to make money but I am not here to beg for alms.
Nice


What do you do for a living so I recommend what you can do
Re: Happy New Year by Kobojunkie: 4:59am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
■ So where can a mentally foolish man gets help? So you think even the so called foolish people are happy being foolish? If someone is seeking for help, if you can't assist the person don't make it more difficult for him. So you think it's wrong to question God or you haven't read where God said someone will perish and the same God repented and changed his mind.
■ My problem is self made I know I'm just and even if I'm foolish I can still try to look for solution. You might not like how I put it but this is my way of trying to come out of my foolishness.
1. I don't know whether they are happy or not. What I know is the remedy for foolishness is wisdom. There are several ways to acquire wisdom. Self-discipline and self-control, for instance, is a good way to keep oneself from repeating past mistakes. undecided

2. The solution has been available to you from childhood. It is the same way a child develops self-discipline and self-control skills that a grown-up learns the same. The issue becomes whether a person wishes to develop these skills or not. lipsrsealed
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 5:08am On Jan 08, 2024
Schoolshooter:
Nice


What do you do for a living so I recommend what you can do
I do alot, I do CCTV, DSTV, Access control, fire alarm, Local area network, anything extra low voltage.
Re: Happy New Year by Schoolshooter: 5:11am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
I do alot, I do CCTV, DSTV, Access control, fire alarm, Local area network, anything extra low voltage.
Can you access public CCTV and electronic bill boards ??
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 5:12am On Jan 08, 2024
Kobojunkie:
1. I don't know whether they are happy or not. What I know is the remedy for foolishness is wisdom. There are several ways to acquire wisdom. Self-discipline and self-control, for instance, is a good way to keep oneself from repeating past mistakes. undecided

2. The solution has been available to you from childhood. It is the same way a child develops self-discipline and self-control skills that a grown-up learns the same. The issue becomes whether a person wishes to develop these skills or not. lipsrsealed
I understand, my problem is I lack self control, I know, I will not stop until I learn how to be disciplined.

Just that rehab isn't common here in Nigeria and the few available are expensive I would have loved to for rehab.

So can be so addicted to something that you need an external help.

That's the point I have gotten to.
Re: Happy New Year by Westerhoffe(m): 5:12am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
So where can a mentally foolish man gets help?

So you think even the so called foolish people are happy being foolish?

If someone is seeking for help, if you can't assist the person don't make it more difficult for him.

So you think it's wrong to question God or you haven't read where God said someone will perish and the same God repented and changed his mind.

My problem is self made I know I'm just and even if I'm foolish I can still try to look for solution.

You might not like how I put it but this is my own way of trying to come out of my foolishness.
You think it's right to question GOD for your mistakes? undecided

I won't want to engage you on these words of yours…you could have just tried to seek help and not think you can question GOD.

Who do you even think GOD is? undecided
Re: Happy New Year by Kobojunkie: 5:15am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
■ I understand, my problem is I lack self control, I know, I will not stop until I learn how to be disciplined. Just that rehab isn't common here in Nigeria and the few available are expensive I would have loved to for rehab. So can be so addicted to something that you need an external help. That's the point I have gotten to.
Here's the thing. Not everyone with a problem is an addict. Addiction has to be diagnosed. Have you been professionally diagnosed as an addict? Or do you simply assume that because you have a problem, you must be an addict? undecided
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 5:16am On Jan 08, 2024
Westerhoffe:
You think it's right to question GOD for your mistakes? undecided

I won't want to engage you on these words of yours…you could have just tried to seek help and not think you can question GOD.

Who do you even think GOD is? undecided
I'm not blaming God for my short coming, just wish He created me different.

Many will easily blame the devil but I know I'm responsible for my bad actions.

I just want God to intervene.
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 5:17am On Jan 08, 2024
Schoolshooter:
Can you access public CCTV and electronic bill boards ??
No I'm not a hacker. Just a regular IT guy.
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 5:22am On Jan 08, 2024
Kobojunkie:
Here's the thing. Not everyone with a problem is an addict. Addiction has to be diagnosed. Have you been professionally diagnosed as an addict? Or do you simply assume that because you have a problem, you must be an addict? undecided
I'm not into drugs or those stuffs, just that there's this particular mistake I keep repeating that's really tying me down.

That's why I'm of the opinion getting psychological assistance might be helpful.
Re: Happy New Year by Westerhoffe(m): 5:27am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
I'm not blaming God for my short coming, just wish He created me different.

Many will easily blame the devil but I know I'm responsible for my bad actions.

I just want God to intervene.
If you want GOD to intervene, what you do is PRAY,
and not to question GOD.

Have you not read what He said here:

2 Corinthians 12 (KJV)
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⁸ For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me.
⁹ And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Re: Happy New Year by TreasureJunky: 5:29am On Jan 08, 2024
You didn't state your problem, yet you're blaming God and looking for solutions.
You can't get solution to your problem if you hide it.
The solution to your problem may be a snap of the finger to some people
Re: Happy New Year by Kobojunkie: 5:52am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
■ I'm not into drugs or those stuffs, just that there's this particular mistake I keep repeating that's really tying me down. That's why I'm of the opinion getting psychological assistance might be helpful.
Well, it won't hurt to make an appointment with a mental health professional to get you informed on whether you are a psychiatric case or not. lipsrsealed
Re: Happy New Year by anslemarinze52(m): 5:56am On Jan 08, 2024
DiamondJude:
Though It's been a long time ago I have gone to church or really prayed but I can still call myself a Christian because I'm baptized.

If truly God loves me, why will he allow me keep repeating the same mistake over and over again.

If God is truly omnipotent why won't He come to my aid when he knows I'm too weak to overcome this particular weakness in my life.

Ask for a therapist, that's why they are there. Stop putting your so called faith in any useless God cause he doesn't and will never exist. Na because of bad economy, though things de make us look for God.
When you reach a place where things and humanity standard of living is great, you'll never see reasons to pray or call on God.

I'm seriously tired, if there's any psychiatrist that's willing to assist me pro bono I will be so grateful because I think I'm mentally ill.

This is me looking for help.
Re: Happy New Year by Rexymania(m): 7:12am On Jan 08, 2024
God duh tire for your matter tongue
Re: Happy New Year by Iamanoited: 7:26am On Jan 08, 2024
Please don't succumb to uninitiated madness. Prayer is the key.
Re: Happy New Year by MumEmdy(f): 8:57am On Jan 08, 2024
It's well with you Sir, if you believe seeing a psychiatrist will help you solve your challenges please do not hesitate to seek one before it degenerate to depression.

Sometimes it what you believe that will work for you, Peace!!!
Re: Happy New Year by DiamondJude(op): 9:48am On Jan 08, 2024
MumEmdy:
It's well with you Sir, if you believe seeing a psychiatrist will help you solve your challenges please do not hesitate to seek one before it degenerate to depression.

Sometimes it what you believe that will work for you, Peace!!!
Thanks
Re: Happy New Year by Kobojunkie: 1:53pm On Jan 08, 2024
Iamanoited:
Please don't succumb to uninitiated madness. Prayer is the key.
The belief that prayer is the key is one of the meanings of uninitiated madness though. undecided
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