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My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Iamjobless: 9:45pm On Jan 09

Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Oloki: 10:00pm On Jan 09

She should relocate her family to CMS .. shikena

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Hopez456(m): 10:16pm On Jan 09

Iamjobless:
Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

@lalasticlala

One of her family members or relatives (mum or aunt) to stay with them. Her hubby's family too can help.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Iamjobless: 10:22pm On Jan 09

Hopez456:
One of her family members or relatives (mum or aunt) to stay with them. Her hubby's family too can help.

Thank you for the response.
Currently all the husband's and wife's siblings are working in different states and all efforts to convince either of the two grandmothers to help out has failed.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by BlackyOne: 11:42pm On Jan 09

She should relocate to close to CMS but her salary may not be able to pay the rent hence her stay at ikorodu with cheaper houses.

If she has to report to work every day then her salary alone should be nothing less that 150k per month. anything less than that is just a waste of her life.

My advise would be for her to start a business of her own and resign from that job if she can't relocate closer to CMS

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Pauladex(m): 2:58am On Jan 10

if she resign, in few years she would wish she never did. Even those children will insult her for doing that. By the time her colleagues get to the pick of their carrier she won't be able to stand with them. Businesses are crumbling in this economy. Let her hold on, see the new minimum wage. Put Children in school where they stay till 4.oclok. By 4 everyone comes home. No federal workers pass 4 in office on normal level. To get federal job now is once in life time opportunity except she is sure of a fantastic business idea and money dey to carry on with it which I doubt. Her husband will encourage her to resign but if anything happens to the man, her suffering go thick like old jeans.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Yankee101: 4:48am On Jan 10

She should take her accumulated annual vacation and think about it for a way forward

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by hakeemhakeem(m): 5:12am On Jan 10

This is the major problem some people put themselves to in the name of I want to live in my personal house, forgotten the stresses that comes with it.Let her have a discussion with her husband they can get a mini flat or room and parlor within these areas like surulere,apapa road,ajegunle, Amukoko,oyingbo these places to island are within one hour on the road also they can get cheaper schools.by weekend go to ikd if they owned the house

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by eteebanky1: 5:49am On Jan 10

Federal government sparatatal?

She should not even try it cos better Days are coming

If she resign, the kind of insults she'll hear from her husband whenever he is about to pay home bills, children school fees ehn

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Oyindamolah: 7:15am On Jan 10

How is she even coping coming home late? Of the husband owns a business in CMS she can always sleep in the business location pending when they get an accommodation but at this stage, it's not good for the wife to be far from the husband

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Oyindamolah: 8:25am On Jan 10

eteebanky1:
Federal government sparatatal?

She should not even try it cos better Days are coming

If she resign, the kind of insults she'll hear from her husband whenever he is about to pay home bills, children school fees ehn

Are you talking from experience?

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by eteebanky1: 8:26am On Jan 10

Oyindamolah:
Are you talking from experience?

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by captaininiobong(m): 9:10am On Jan 10

Iamjobless:
Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

@lalasticlala

Relocate to cms that's all. Don't resign when you don't have a better job.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by dominique(f): 10:09am On Jan 10

Since both husband and wife have their means of livelihood centred around CMS area, they should consider getting an apartment around Obalende, Yaba/Oyingbo or even Iyana Oworo axis. They can rent out their house in Ikorodu or keep it locked and be visiting from time to time. This is the worst of times to be unemployed in this country.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by id4sho(m): 10:31am On Jan 10

Promotion is coming oOoOO

Women and emotions, they will use one seconds to build or destroy

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by id4sho(m): 10:33am On Jan 10

dominique:
Since both husband and wife have their means of livelihood centred around CMS area, they should consider getting an apartment around Obalende, Yaba/Oyingbo or even Iyana Oworo axis. They can rent out their house in Ikorodu or keep it locked and be visiting from time to time. This is the worst of times to be unemployed in this country.

This is the worst of times to be unemployed in this country.

He that has ears should listen

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Oyindamolah: 1:00pm On Jan 10

eteebanky1:

The way I insult my girlfriend knows no bound

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Nicepoker(m): 1:46pm On Jan 10

Which minimum pay will be reviewed. Its like you don't understand Nigeria.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by LikeAking: 1:53pm On Jan 10

Iamjobless:
Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

@lalasticlala

Try and convince are very well..

She should hold on to her job, every thing will be fine.

She can get transfer to another ministry closer to her..

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Jewessgratitud3: 1:58pm On Jan 10

Let her not be quick in taking that decision of hers as that would be the biggest mistake of the year and it will be too late to go back by the time she realizes it.

Yes we know the need to be actively involved in her childrens life at this stage can not be overlooked however there's also a need for her to be gainfully employed so as to be able to manage her home and meet up with the financial demands of those children. She just needs to strike a balance between managing her home and career rather than letting one suffer for the other.

Let her get an apartment somewhere close to her place of work ( preferably mainland) and move. If that doesn't work, let her continue with the job and look for ways to make up for the days she's not with them. At least she doesn't work on Saturdays,so such days can be used for catching up on the things they missed out on as a family.

On no account should anyone quit their job in this hard times. With prayers our children can still turn out great.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:10pm On Jan 10

Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Those are very cogent reasons to resign from a job.
Just that she should get another job or the process of getting one before leaving.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Amotekun777: 2:10pm On Jan 10

Why do most pple come on here and be seeking advices on someone else's behalf? 🤬

My friend this, that, my aunt this, that... blah, blah, blah.🤬

What's it gonna cost y'all to just admit, you're the actual party involved, and STOP hiding under a guise.

Your useless aunt can lose her job for all we care. 🤬

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Blackfire(m): 2:10pm On Jan 10

You abi your aunty's?

Anyways...
If she quit her job because of the children, in years to c0me she will hate the children...so quitting the job....No

On how to take care of the kids... she MUST look for relatives that can assist in taking care of the kids , no matter how evveryb9dy hates you, someone must like you...this is survival antics not emotional......Find helplers relatives to assist....A MUST.

As for the husband of your auntie this is the time fuuuccckkkkk your aunties brain out....

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:11pm On Jan 10

........I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon

Na u wan review am

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Risingblue008(m): 2:11pm On Jan 10

Let her quit na

Millions are searching for that job
Them ni go even miss her cos the next to be employed will be paid less than what she was receiving b4 quitting

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by biggz82: 2:14pm On Jan 10

Both husband and wife work and do business around cms, why not move to cms which is their business/work area.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Wallade(m): 2:14pm On Jan 10

Iamjobless:
Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

What is her husband's position on the matter. Let us know if her husband is open to relocate the family to CMS area.

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by moscobabs(m): 2:15pm On Jan 10

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by englishmart(m): 2:16pm On Jan 10

If transportation takes 50% of your salary, you're just working for working sake.

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Femich18(m): 2:16pm On Jan 10

You just don't resign like that.
After resigning what will you fall back on?
I think she should relocate to somewhere closer to her place of work.
If we are to estimate the cost of transportation it will even get her a decent house close.

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Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by Vifx: 2:16pm On Jan 10

E be things

Re: My Aunty Wants To Quit Her Job by DMerciful(m): 2:17pm On Jan 10

At Op,

What is in it for you?

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