₦airaland Forum

harmony940:
It's very disheartening to hear this.
I don't know if you are married or not,but please you will need a therapist to help you psychologically,it's true that some men are beast in terms of rape,but believe you me not all men are rapist, there are thousands of men who still have dignity.

Peace!

Jewesgratitud3:
Thanks dear.

I'm already 42 though not yet married but do you think I still need a therapist? That would be like exposing myself out there.
Thanks.

ZaRuleOfLaw:
Relax you don't need any therapy. Just that you have now understood how majority of men behave. It takes great discipline to resist a girl with your looks (from the picx I saw earlier). I don't support rape though my friend married his wife after the act (she was proving too difficult during courtship & he had to act fast) They have 5 kids now & she adores him.

By the way, you didn't tell us how that your strange picture experience ended. You just said that you've gone to church for prayers

LagosSuperStar:
The chase for nairaland fame will push you to write funny posts. I hope you desist the urge soon

Jewesgratitud3:
1. I was just under his stomach struggling, kicking and screaming that he should let me go that my mom is going to beat me. Immediately he stood up and I ran out of the house.

2. One day he told me that there's an opening that I should come let's discuss how I'll go about it. I went there and as soon as I entered his house he shut the door, threw the key in a far corner of his room and pushed me on the bed. Gosh! I felt like my life was over. I started screaming, I pushed and pushed and kicked until he got tired and stood up. I told him to open the door before I do something stupid he now opened and I left.

UjuJoan2:
I think every young girl living in Nigeria has been raped or nearly raped at least once’s . . .

When I was in the university, we would go to a secondary school nearby to study all night, we called it TBD.

One night my roommate and I went there to study, and decided sometime around 1am that we were both tired and needed to go home to sleep. While walking back, we came across one Vigilante security. When he called us we were not alarmed at all, afterall he was a security man who was there to protect us, not harm us.

So we went (away from the main road close to his shed) to answer his call. He brought out a gun, I don’t know the brand, but it was quite long and rusty, and pointed it at us and asked us to come inside his shed. We went in shaking with fear, not knowing what to expect. Then he asked my roommate to take off her clothes and lie down on the table, he wanted to ‘take her’. My roommate said NO and he pointed to gun and threatened to shoot, she insisted and said no, he turned to me and I said NO too, but by then I was already crying and shaking.


He threatened us again with the guy but we stood our ground. My roommate was much bolder than me, she was confident and was praying out loud. Me I was just crying. I actually thought I was going to die that night.

She had been raped before, infact her first sexual encounter was rape when she was a child by a close family friend. So she was willing to die than go through it again. Honestly me I was almost giving in sef 🤭🤭🤭

Anyway, eventually he said since we were being stubborn he would go get more men to deal with us and asked us to wait there and left. And crazy as we were, we were actually waiting for him to come back 😲😲😲

While we were waiting we saw a group of students coming back from the school passing by, we ran to them and told them what was going on. They said “and you guys are here waiting? Omo run for your life ooh?) we took to our heels. . All of us, including the new group of students.

We couldn’t run back to our hostel because we were scared they would run after us and shoot, so we ran with one of the guys who luckily lived very close by. We spent the rest of the morning there and went back home when it was very bright. I never saw that guy again, but in a way he saved our life that night. May God bless him!

Life in Nigeria is hard!!

CAPTIVATOR:
This thing Traumatize women, some men need to grow up . Some of this women never enjoy sex again like a human being after the act, they get triggered easily . In short this thing messes with a girl child psychology to the extent some hate men or feel like they are worthless that they just sleep around for validation. The recent pandemic of nudity on the internet can be traced to some form of abuse as a child.


You're right. And yes More awareness need to be created to warn the unwary innocent girls to be careful out there with boys/ Men
I hope more education and awareness is created out there about this.

illicit:
Eeyah sorry ehn

But pls tell us about d once dat succeeded in penetrating

🥵

TimiRume:
Meaning?

Jewesgratitud3:
Thanks dear.

I'm already 42 though not yet married but do you think I still need a therapist? That would be like exposing myself out there.
Thanks.

illicit:
Eeyah sorry ehn

But pls tell us about d once dat succeeded in penetrating

🥵